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    <description>The Money Mindset Podcast is hosted by Ashley Patrick from Budgets Made Easy. This is the place for women where you will learn how to budget, save money, and pay off debt fast in the midlife and empty nest season of life so you can afford to travel and actually retire. 
You will find advice and tips on budgeting for beginners, relationships and money, budgeting by paycheck, goal planning, creating a vision for your life and all the inspiration you need to get you there. 
If you are searching for answers like these.....
How to budget and stick to it?
How to budget for beginners?
How to pay off debt fast?
How to start a budget when overwhelmed?
How to save money on groceries?
How to pay off student loans?
How to start investing?
How to pay for college?
Then this is the podcast for you!
New episodes every Monday and Thursday. 
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    <itunes:subtitle>Helping midlife women and empty nesters get their money stuff together so they can enjoy this season of life while looking toward retirement.</itunes:subtitle>
    <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
    <itunes:summary>The Money Mindset Podcast is hosted by Ashley Patrick from Budgets Made Easy. This is the place for women where you will learn how to budget, save money, and pay off debt fast in the midlife and empty nest season of life so you can afford to travel and actually retire. 
You will find advice and tips on budgeting for beginners, relationships and money, budgeting by paycheck, goal planning, creating a vision for your life and all the inspiration you need to get you there. 
If you are searching for answers like these.....
How to budget and stick to it?
How to budget for beginners?
How to pay off debt fast?
How to start a budget when overwhelmed?
How to save money on groceries?
How to pay off student loans?
How to start investing?
How to pay for college?
Then this is the podcast for you!
New episodes every Monday and Thursday. 
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  <title>#239 How to Get Through the Holidays Without Adding to Your Debt</title>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>239</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#239 How to Get Through the Holidays Without Adding to Your Debt</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Enjoy this season without breaking the budget!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>14:40</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Grab your FREE Holiday Planner here: https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/holiday-planner
Avoid the holiday debt hangover this year and actually enjoy the season without the guilt!
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  <itunes:keywords>save money on Christmas</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Grab your FREE Holiday Planner here: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/holiday-planner" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/holiday-planner</a></p>

<p>Avoid the holiday debt hangover this year and actually enjoy the season without the guilt!</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Grab your FREE Holiday Planner here: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/holiday-planner" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/holiday-planner</a></p>

<p>Avoid the holiday debt hangover this year and actually enjoy the season without the guilt!</p>]]>
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  <title>#238 Does Money Buy Happiness</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>238</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#238 Does Money Buy Happiness</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you heard "money can't buy happiness"? Well, it's true but it isn't. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:48</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Money gives you options, which can bring happiness.
Money is a tool, not something that will bring happiness on it's own. 
📌** But it's what money allows us to do that can make us happy.**
🙌 The win of the week spotlight is on Angela who is a Money Success Club member. She joined the free training series that I hosted last September.
Then joined Money Success Club right after.
She just posted in the club that she made her last consumer debt payment!!! The only debt she has left is her mortgage.
She paid off $33,600 in 12 months!!!
Can you imagine what you could be celebrating in 12 months from now?
Try out Money Success Club for just $1! 😲
https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer
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  <itunes:keywords>money can't buy happiness</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Money gives you options, which can bring happiness.</p>

<p>Money is a tool, not something that will bring happiness on it&#39;s own. </p>

<p>📌** But it&#39;s what money allows us to do that can make us happy.**</p>

<p>🙌 The win of the week spotlight is on Angela who is a Money Success Club member. She joined the free training series that I hosted last September.<br>
Then joined Money Success Club right after.<br>
She just posted in the club that she made her last consumer debt payment!!! The only debt she has left is her mortgage.<br>
She paid off $33,600 in 12 months!!!<br>
Can you imagine what you could be celebrating in 12 months from now?</p>

<p>Try out Money Success Club for just $1! 😲<br>
<a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Money gives you options, which can bring happiness.</p>

<p>Money is a tool, not something that will bring happiness on it&#39;s own. </p>

<p>📌** But it&#39;s what money allows us to do that can make us happy.**</p>

<p>🙌 The win of the week spotlight is on Angela who is a Money Success Club member. She joined the free training series that I hosted last September.<br>
Then joined Money Success Club right after.<br>
She just posted in the club that she made her last consumer debt payment!!! The only debt she has left is her mortgage.<br>
She paid off $33,600 in 12 months!!!<br>
Can you imagine what you could be celebrating in 12 months from now?</p>

<p>Try out Money Success Club for just $1! 😲<br>
<a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer</a></p>]]>
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  <title>#237 What Feminism Has to do With Money</title>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2025 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>237</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#237 What Feminism Has to do With Money</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>When we think of feminism, money isn’t always the first thing that comes to mind — but it should be. For generations, women weren’t allowed to open bank accounts, apply for mortgages, or even get a credit card without a man’s signature. Today, women still face pay gaps, retirement wealth gaps, and social pressure to put others first financially.
In this episode, we’ll explore how feminism and money are deeply connected, why building financial confidence is an act of empowerment, and the steps you can take to create freedom for yourself and the next generation of women.
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:25</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>When we think of feminism, money isn’t always the first thing that comes to mind — but it should be. For generations, women weren’t allowed to open bank accounts, apply for mortgages, or even get a credit card without a man’s signature. 
Today, women still face pay gaps, retirement wealth gaps, and social pressure to put others first financially.
In this episode, we’ll explore how feminism and money are deeply connected, why building financial confidence is an act of empowerment, and the steps you can take to create freedom for yourself and the next generation of women.
Join Q4 Planning Session here:
https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy 
</description>
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    <![CDATA[<p>When we think of feminism, money isn’t always the first thing that comes to mind — but it should be. For generations, women weren’t allowed to open bank accounts, apply for mortgages, or even get a credit card without a man’s signature. </p>

<p>Today, women still face pay gaps, retirement wealth gaps, and social pressure to put others first financially.</p>

<p>In this episode, we’ll explore how feminism and money are deeply connected, why building financial confidence is an act of empowerment, and the steps you can take to create freedom for yourself and the next generation of women.</p>

<p><strong>Join Q4 Planning Session here:</strong><br>
<a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>When we think of feminism, money isn’t always the first thing that comes to mind — but it should be. For generations, women weren’t allowed to open bank accounts, apply for mortgages, or even get a credit card without a man’s signature. </p>

<p>Today, women still face pay gaps, retirement wealth gaps, and social pressure to put others first financially.</p>

<p>In this episode, we’ll explore how feminism and money are deeply connected, why building financial confidence is an act of empowerment, and the steps you can take to create freedom for yourself and the next generation of women.</p>

<p><strong>Join Q4 Planning Session here:</strong><br>
<a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#235 5 Things to Remember When Paying Off Debt Feels Impossible</title>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 11:45:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/6a78d5b2-9840-4df5-80b7-fca829a1688b.mp3" length="18655928" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>235</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#235 5 Things to Remember When Paying Off Debt Feels Impossible</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Remember these 5 truths when paying off debt feels impossible.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>12:57</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Does paying off debt feel impossible?
Well, it's not.
You just need to remember that small wins add up and that you need a community of supportive women cheering you on.
Come join our amazing community of women just like that are on the journey–even with–life's ups and downs.
Try out Money Success Club for just $1!
Sign up here ➡️ https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer 
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    <![CDATA[<p>Does paying off debt feel impossible?</p>

<p>Well, it&#39;s not.</p>

<p>You just need to remember that small wins add up and that you need a community of supportive women cheering you on.</p>

<p>Come join our amazing community of women just like that are on the journey–even with–life&#39;s ups and downs.</p>

<p>Try out Money Success Club for just $1!<br>
Sign up here ➡️ <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Does paying off debt feel impossible?</p>

<p>Well, it&#39;s not.</p>

<p>You just need to remember that small wins add up and that you need a community of supportive women cheering you on.</p>

<p>Come join our amazing community of women just like that are on the journey–even with–life&#39;s ups and downs.</p>

<p>Try out Money Success Club for just $1!<br>
Sign up here ➡️ <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer</a></p>]]>
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  <title>#234 7 Little Wins That Mean You’re Doing Better With Money Than You Think</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/234</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/0ccbc9bb-a586-4b8b-98a4-b1f55540fd73.mp3" length="14487324" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>234</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#234 7 Little Wins That Mean You’re Doing Better With Money Than You Think</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>You are doing better than you think!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>10:03</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Sometimes we get so caught up in what’s not perfect with our finances — the debt we still have, the savings we wish were bigger, the retirement number that feels so far away — that we forget to notice the progress we are making.
Today I want to help you pause and celebrate the small victories, because every big financial success is made up of dozens of little wins.
I want to shift your focus from what’s not perfect in your finances to what is going right.
Because here’s the thing — so many women I talk to are doing better than they think. They’re making progress, but they don’t recognize it, so they feel stuck or discouraged.
So let’s change that.
 In this episode, I’m sharing 7 little wins that prove you’re moving in the right direction with your money — even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.
Come try out Money Success Club for just $1 - https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer-ty-offer 
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money mindset, financial wins</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we get so caught up in what’s not perfect with our finances — the debt we still have, the savings we wish were bigger, the retirement number that feels so far away — that we forget to notice the progress we are making.</p>

<p>Today I want to help you pause and celebrate the small victories, because every big financial success is made up of dozens of little wins.<br>
I want to shift your focus from what’s not perfect in your finances to what is going right.</p>

<p>Because here’s the thing — so many women I talk to are doing better than they think. They’re making progress, but they don’t recognize it, so they feel stuck or discouraged.<br>
So let’s change that.</p>

<p>In this episode, I’m sharing 7 little wins that prove you’re moving in the right direction with your money — even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.</p>

<p>Come try out Money Success Club for just $1 - <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer-ty-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer-ty-offer</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we get so caught up in what’s not perfect with our finances — the debt we still have, the savings we wish were bigger, the retirement number that feels so far away — that we forget to notice the progress we are making.</p>

<p>Today I want to help you pause and celebrate the small victories, because every big financial success is made up of dozens of little wins.<br>
I want to shift your focus from what’s not perfect in your finances to what is going right.</p>

<p>Because here’s the thing — so many women I talk to are doing better than they think. They’re making progress, but they don’t recognize it, so they feel stuck or discouraged.<br>
So let’s change that.</p>

<p>In this episode, I’m sharing 7 little wins that prove you’re moving in the right direction with your money — even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.</p>

<p>Come try out Money Success Club for just $1 - <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer-ty-offer" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-membership-1-trial-offer-ty-offer</a></p>]]>
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  <title>#231 Top 3 Midlife Money Myths That Are Holding You Back</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/231</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2025 06:30:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>231</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#231 Top 3 Midlife Money Myths That Are Holding You Back</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are money myths holding you back in midlife? Tune in as we debunk common misconceptions and help you rethink your financial approach in your 40s, 50s, and beyond.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>29:19</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Have you ever felt like it’s too late to fix your finances? Are old money habits from your past still influencing your decisions today?
This episode dives into the financial mindset shifts that are especially important in midlife. We’re unpacking how your upbringing, past choices, and long-held beliefs might be keeping you stuck, and what you can do to change that. 
Tune in for simple advice and real encouragement to help you take the next step with confidence.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“You've got to prioritize yourself, learn to say no, and just really set the boundaries and expectations so that you're not responsible for taking care of everybody in your life, and that is okay. There is nothing wrong with that.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Tired of feeling like your money disappears before you know where it went? It’s time to take back control! Join the FREE Spring Savings Challenge and start finding money you didn’t even realize you had. Go to https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025 to sign up today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Budgets Made Easy Blog: https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/top-3-midlife-money-myths-that-are-holding-you-back/ 
* FREE Spring Savings Challenge: https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025/
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
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  <itunes:keywords>midlife money myths</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever felt like it’s too late to fix your finances? Are old money habits from your past still influencing your decisions today?</p>

<p>This episode dives into the financial mindset shifts that are especially important in midlife. We’re unpacking how your upbringing, past choices, and long-held beliefs might be keeping you stuck, and what you can do to change that. </p>

<p>Tune in for simple advice and real encouragement to help you take the next step with confidence.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;ve got to prioritize yourself, learn to say no, and just really set the boundaries and expectations so that you&#39;re not responsible for taking care of everybody in your life, and that is okay. There is nothing wrong with that.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Tired of feeling like your money disappears before you know where it went? It’s time to take back control! Join the <strong><em>FREE Spring Savings Challenge</em></strong> and start finding money you didn’t even realize you had. Go to <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025</a> to sign up today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budgets Made Easy Blog: <a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/top-3-midlife-money-myths-that-are-holding-you-back/" rel="nofollow">https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/top-3-midlife-money-myths-that-are-holding-you-back/</a> </li>
<li>FREE Spring Savings Challenge: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever felt like it’s too late to fix your finances? Are old money habits from your past still influencing your decisions today?</p>

<p>This episode dives into the financial mindset shifts that are especially important in midlife. We’re unpacking how your upbringing, past choices, and long-held beliefs might be keeping you stuck, and what you can do to change that. </p>

<p>Tune in for simple advice and real encouragement to help you take the next step with confidence.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;ve got to prioritize yourself, learn to say no, and just really set the boundaries and expectations so that you&#39;re not responsible for taking care of everybody in your life, and that is okay. There is nothing wrong with that.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Tired of feeling like your money disappears before you know where it went? It’s time to take back control! Join the <strong><em>FREE Spring Savings Challenge</em></strong> and start finding money you didn’t even realize you had. Go to <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025</a> to sign up today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budgets Made Easy Blog: <a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/top-3-midlife-money-myths-that-are-holding-you-back/" rel="nofollow">https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/top-3-midlife-money-myths-that-are-holding-you-back/</a> </li>
<li>FREE Spring Savings Challenge: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/spring-savings-challenge-2025/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#229 Managing Your Money in your 40s</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/229</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2025 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/fae7ee4c-f5ff-4add-9da9-a41ecc2ae1c2.mp3" length="38990959" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>229</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#229 Managing Your Money in your 40s</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Managing your money in your 40s can make you feel like you are behind and you'll never catch up. 

But that's not true! 

💜 You’re not too late.

💜 You’re not too old.

💜 You’re just getting started.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>27:04</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Navigating your finances in your 40s and beyond often comes with unexpected challenges and shifts in priorities. This episode explores what it means to manage money during one of the highest earning seasons of life—while also managing the weight of responsibilities, from caring for kids to supporting aging parents. It’s a time of reflection, growth, and sometimes regret—but more importantly, it’s a chance to take control of your financial future.
From letting go of past mistakes to embracing your power to negotiate, build wealth, and diversify your income, this episode blends practical advice with empowering encouragement. Whether you’re planning for retirement, feeling stretched too thin, or simply wondering what’s next, it will help you shift your mindset and move forward with clarity.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“I want you to realize that you're just getting started. You are doing the best that you can and that you were never too old. It is never too late to get things going and take control of your finances and get things back on track. So even in this season, it is not too late.” 
- Ashley Patrick
If you need help paying off your debt, go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your Paying Off Debt Starter Kit. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt  
* Budget Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>managing your money in your 40s</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Navigating your finances in your 40s and beyond often comes with unexpected challenges and shifts in priorities. This episode explores what it means to manage money during one of the highest earning seasons of life—while also managing the weight of responsibilities, from caring for kids to supporting aging parents. It’s a time of reflection, growth, and sometimes regret—but more importantly, it’s a chance to take control of your financial future.</p>

<p>From letting go of past mistakes to embracing your power to negotiate, build wealth, and diversify your income, this episode blends practical advice with empowering encouragement. Whether you’re planning for retirement, feeling stretched too thin, or simply wondering what’s next, it will help you shift your mindset and move forward with clarity.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“I want you to realize that you&#39;re just getting started. You are doing the best that you can and that you were never too old. It is never too late to get things going and take control of your finances and get things back on track. So even in this season, it is not too late.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a> for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a><br></li>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Navigating your finances in your 40s and beyond often comes with unexpected challenges and shifts in priorities. This episode explores what it means to manage money during one of the highest earning seasons of life—while also managing the weight of responsibilities, from caring for kids to supporting aging parents. It’s a time of reflection, growth, and sometimes regret—but more importantly, it’s a chance to take control of your financial future.</p>

<p>From letting go of past mistakes to embracing your power to negotiate, build wealth, and diversify your income, this episode blends practical advice with empowering encouragement. Whether you’re planning for retirement, feeling stretched too thin, or simply wondering what’s next, it will help you shift your mindset and move forward with clarity.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“I want you to realize that you&#39;re just getting started. You are doing the best that you can and that you were never too old. It is never too late to get things going and take control of your finances and get things back on track. So even in this season, it is not too late.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a> for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a><br></li>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#228 Saving Money by Practicing Gratitude and Mindfulness</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/228</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/5d04475c-57ca-429b-ab62-0a0dde3e2dee.mp3" length="34585699" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>228</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#228 Saving Money by Practicing Gratitude and Mindfulness</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you ever found yourself buying things just to feel happier, only to realize the feeling doesn’t last? Tune in as we explore how gratitude can transform not only your mindset but also your finances.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>24:00</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Finding contentment with what you already have can be a powerful tool for financial success. 
In this episode, we dive into the connection between gratitude and money habits, exploring how emotional spending often stems from a lack of fulfillment. When we focus on appreciating what we have, we reduce impulse purchases, avoid lifestyle creep, and ultimately build a healthier financial mindset. 
We’ll also discuss practical steps to cultivate gratitude, from mindful spending habits to journaling, and how these small shifts can lead to big financial wins.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“Remember, what we do with our money when it comes to reaching our big goals really boils down to being mindful of our actions and intentions, making sure they line up, and ensuring that you are actually doing what you truly want to do.” 
- Ashley Patrick
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Budget Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>saving money by practicing gratitude</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Finding contentment with what you already have can be a powerful tool for financial success. </p>

<p>In this episode, we dive into the connection between gratitude and money habits, exploring how emotional spending often stems from a lack of fulfillment. When we focus on appreciating what we have, we reduce impulse purchases, avoid lifestyle creep, and ultimately build a healthier financial mindset. </p>

<p>We’ll also discuss practical steps to cultivate gratitude, from mindful spending habits to journaling, and how these small shifts can lead to big financial wins.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Remember, what we do with our money when it comes to reaching our big goals really boils down to being mindful of our actions and intentions, making sure they line up, and ensuring that you are actually doing what you truly want to do.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Finding contentment with what you already have can be a powerful tool for financial success. </p>

<p>In this episode, we dive into the connection between gratitude and money habits, exploring how emotional spending often stems from a lack of fulfillment. When we focus on appreciating what we have, we reduce impulse purchases, avoid lifestyle creep, and ultimately build a healthier financial mindset. </p>

<p>We’ll also discuss practical steps to cultivate gratitude, from mindful spending habits to journaling, and how these small shifts can lead to big financial wins.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Remember, what we do with our money when it comes to reaching our big goals really boils down to being mindful of our actions and intentions, making sure they line up, and ensuring that you are actually doing what you truly want to do.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
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  <title>#226 Building Financial Intimacy With Your Partner</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/226</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 19 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/a9425b86-cdb2-4915-9959-970edf99de89.mp3" length="55588953" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>226</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#226 Building Financial Intimacy With Your Partner</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you ever found it difficult to talk to your spouse about finances? How do you approach sensitive money conversations in a way that brings you closer as a team? Tune in to hear expert tips on fostering financial intimacy and building a healthy money conversation with your partner.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>38:35</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Do you find it tough to talk about money with your partner? In this episode, we explore the challenges of financial conversations in relationships, focusing on the importance of mutual understanding, confidence, and emotional awareness. 
We discuss how emotional factors, like the mental load of managing finances, can impact these talks and share ways to help both partners feel involved and informed. Our guest, Adam Kol of The Couples Financial Coach, brings valuable insights on how to navigate these conversations.
Tune in to discover how empowering both partners with financial knowledge can transform your relationship and finances.
Meet Adam!
Adam Kol is The Couples Financial Coach. He helps couples go from financial overwhelm or fighting to clarity, teamwork, and peace of mind.
Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist-I™, Certified Mediator, and Tax Attorney with a Duke Law degree and a Master's in Tax Law from NYU. He is a husband, dad, and musician, as well.
Adam's wisdom has been shared with The Wall Street Journal, the Baltimore Ravens, CNBC, NewsNation, and more.
“Your partner wants to connect with you about finances. It may seem like they don't, and you might convince yourself that they don't. They do. They may not realize that they're avoiding it or why, but they do because it has such a profound effect on the lives that we live. I mean, it really touches every aspect, from how we raise our families to what we do for jobs, to the kind of food we eat, to the kind of things we have, etc. So your partner does want to feel like they can connect with you. It's just that people don't feel confident in that a lot of times, partly because it is true that money is still a taboo. But keep in mind that this is something where you both will feel a lot better if you're on the same page.” 
- Adam Kol
Book Recommendation:
* Financial Intimacy for Couples: How to Achieve Clarity, Teamwork, and Peace of Mind With Your Money, by Adam Kol. Download his book on Amazon-&amp;gt; (Affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3AClDC1 
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Check out the previous episode with Adam - #3 Getting On The Same Page With Your Spouse About Money with Adam H. Kol, J.D. https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/3
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Adam:
* Website: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com
* Instagram: @CouplesFinancialCoach 
* Facebook: @CouplesFinancialCoach
* LinkedIn: Adam Kol, The Couples Financial Coach
* YouTube: The Couples Financial Coach
 Special Guest: Adam H. Kol, J.D. .
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>talking with spouse about money</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you find it tough to talk about money with your partner? In this episode, we explore the challenges of financial conversations in relationships, focusing on the importance of mutual understanding, confidence, and emotional awareness. </p>

<p>We discuss how emotional factors, like the mental load of managing finances, can impact these talks and share ways to help both partners feel involved and informed. Our guest, Adam Kol of The Couples Financial Coach, brings valuable insights on how to navigate these conversations.</p>

<p>Tune in to discover how empowering both partners with financial knowledge can transform your relationship and finances.</p>

<p><strong>Meet Adam!</strong></p>

<p>Adam Kol is The Couples Financial Coach. He helps couples go from financial overwhelm or fighting to clarity, teamwork, and peace of mind.</p>

<p>Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist-I™, Certified Mediator, and Tax Attorney with a Duke Law degree and a Master&#39;s in Tax Law from NYU. He is a husband, dad, and musician, as well.</p>

<p>Adam&#39;s wisdom has been shared with The Wall Street Journal, the Baltimore Ravens, CNBC, NewsNation, and more.</p>

<p><em>“Your partner wants to connect with you about finances. It may seem like they don&#39;t, and you might convince yourself that they don&#39;t. They do. They may not realize that they&#39;re avoiding it or why, but they do because it has such a profound effect on the lives that we live. I mean, it really touches every aspect, from how we raise our families to what we do for jobs, to the kind of food we eat, to the kind of things we have, etc. So your partner does want to feel like they can connect with you. It&#39;s just that people don&#39;t feel confident in that a lot of times, partly because it is true that money is still a taboo. But keep in mind that this is something where you both will feel a lot better if you&#39;re on the same page.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Adam Kol</strong></p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Financial Intimacy for Couples: How to Achieve Clarity, Teamwork, and Peace of Mind With Your Money, by Adam Kol. Download his book on Amazon-&gt; (Affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3AClDC1" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3AClDC1</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Check out the previous episode with Adam - #3 Getting On The Same Page With Your Spouse About Money with Adam H. Kol, J.D. <a href="https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/3" rel="nofollow">https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/3</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Adam:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com" rel="nofollow">https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com</a></li>
<li>Instagram: @CouplesFinancialCoach </li>
<li>Facebook: @CouplesFinancialCoach</li>
<li>LinkedIn: Adam Kol, The Couples Financial Coach</li>
<li>YouTube: The Couples Financial Coach</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam H. Kol, J.D. .</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you find it tough to talk about money with your partner? In this episode, we explore the challenges of financial conversations in relationships, focusing on the importance of mutual understanding, confidence, and emotional awareness. </p>

<p>We discuss how emotional factors, like the mental load of managing finances, can impact these talks and share ways to help both partners feel involved and informed. Our guest, Adam Kol of The Couples Financial Coach, brings valuable insights on how to navigate these conversations.</p>

<p>Tune in to discover how empowering both partners with financial knowledge can transform your relationship and finances.</p>

<p><strong>Meet Adam!</strong></p>

<p>Adam Kol is The Couples Financial Coach. He helps couples go from financial overwhelm or fighting to clarity, teamwork, and peace of mind.</p>

<p>Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist-I™, Certified Mediator, and Tax Attorney with a Duke Law degree and a Master&#39;s in Tax Law from NYU. He is a husband, dad, and musician, as well.</p>

<p>Adam&#39;s wisdom has been shared with The Wall Street Journal, the Baltimore Ravens, CNBC, NewsNation, and more.</p>

<p><em>“Your partner wants to connect with you about finances. It may seem like they don&#39;t, and you might convince yourself that they don&#39;t. They do. They may not realize that they&#39;re avoiding it or why, but they do because it has such a profound effect on the lives that we live. I mean, it really touches every aspect, from how we raise our families to what we do for jobs, to the kind of food we eat, to the kind of things we have, etc. So your partner does want to feel like they can connect with you. It&#39;s just that people don&#39;t feel confident in that a lot of times, partly because it is true that money is still a taboo. But keep in mind that this is something where you both will feel a lot better if you&#39;re on the same page.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Adam Kol</strong></p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Financial Intimacy for Couples: How to Achieve Clarity, Teamwork, and Peace of Mind With Your Money, by Adam Kol. Download his book on Amazon-&gt; (Affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3AClDC1" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3AClDC1</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Check out the previous episode with Adam - #3 Getting On The Same Page With Your Spouse About Money with Adam H. Kol, J.D. <a href="https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/3" rel="nofollow">https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/3</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Adam:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com" rel="nofollow">https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com</a></li>
<li>Instagram: @CouplesFinancialCoach </li>
<li>Facebook: @CouplesFinancialCoach</li>
<li>LinkedIn: Adam Kol, The Couples Financial Coach</li>
<li>YouTube: The Couples Financial Coach</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam H. Kol, J.D. .</p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#225 Simplify Your Holiday Season</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/225</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 16 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/2bd3dfc7-a8b1-4f60-a282-3b8f29ae3313.mp3" length="47262891" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>225</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#225 Simplify Your Holiday Season</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>The year has been crazy but your holiday season doesn't need to be the same.

Simplifying your holiday season just got easier! 

With these simple tips you can get organized and stress less about your finances, time, and priorities for the holidays.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>32:48</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you feeling overwhelmed by the holiday season? With the busy time of year approaching, juggling family, finances, and festivities can easily become stressful. In this episode, we explore practical ways to simplify your holidays, featuring our guest Jennifer, a certified life coach and seasoned homeschooling mom.
She shares insights on how to create a calm and stress-free holiday experience. With these simple tips, you can get organized and stress less about your finances, time, and priorities for the holidays.
Tune in to the podcast to discover how you can embrace a more peaceful and intentional holiday season!
Meet Jennifer! 
Jennifer Roskamp is a certified life coach, founder of The Intentional Mom, homeschooling mom of 9 &amp;amp; Gigi (grandma) of 2 who is passionate about helping women who work outside &amp;amp; inside of the home rediscover their purpose, passion, and in managing their homes, their families, their lives, and their own mindset. 
Using her 3 secret weapon formulas, Jennifer has helped many thousands of women gain clarity and confidence in what to do (&amp;amp; what to let go of) every day.
“We aren't compartmentalized. The things that we struggle with in one area are usually challenging in other areas as well. Like you say, if we can just start to move the needle forward in some of our habit formation, our ability to follow through, or our ability to live by the routine that we set up, we might be doing it from a budgeting standpoint, but all of a sudden, wow, I have an easier time getting up earlier in the morning too. Once I'm setting the good habits with my money, it makes me want to, and makes it easier for me to follow the good habits in other areas too.” 
- Jennifer Roskamp
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Come join us for the FREE Simplify Your Holiday Season Summit at https://apatrick--the-intentional-mom.thrivecart.com/syhsoct-all-access-pass-a-47/
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Jennifer:
* Website: www.theintentionalmom.com
* Podcast: The Intentional Midlife Mom Podcast
* Instagram: theintentionalmomblog
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>stress free holiday season 2024</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you feeling overwhelmed by the holiday season? With the busy time of year approaching, juggling family, finances, and festivities can easily become stressful. In this episode, we explore practical ways to simplify your holidays, featuring our guest Jennifer, a certified life coach and seasoned homeschooling mom.</p>

<p>She shares insights on how to create a calm and stress-free holiday experience. With these simple tips, you can get organized and stress less about your finances, time, and priorities for the holidays.</p>

<p>Tune in to the podcast to discover how you can embrace a more peaceful and intentional holiday season!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Jennifer!</strong> <br>
Jennifer Roskamp is a certified life coach, founder of The Intentional Mom, homeschooling mom of 9 &amp; Gigi (grandma) of 2 who is passionate about helping women who work outside &amp; inside of the home rediscover their purpose, passion, and in managing their homes, their families, their lives, and their own mindset. </p>

<p>Using her 3 secret weapon formulas, Jennifer has helped many thousands of women gain clarity and confidence in what to do (&amp; what to let go of) every day.</p>

<p><em>“We aren&#39;t compartmentalized. The things that we struggle with in one area are usually challenging in other areas as well. Like you say, if we can just start to move the needle forward in some of our habit formation, our ability to follow through, or our ability to live by the routine that we set up, we might be doing it from a budgeting standpoint, but all of a sudden, wow, I have an easier time getting up earlier in the morning too. Once I&#39;m setting the good habits with my money, it makes me want to, and makes it easier for me to follow the good habits in other areas too.”</em> <br>
<em><strong>- Jennifer Roskamp</strong></em></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Come join us for the FREE Simplify Your Holiday Season Summit at <a href="https://apatrick--the-intentional-mom.thrivecart.com/syhsoct-all-access-pass-a-47/" rel="nofollow">https://apatrick--the-intentional-mom.thrivecart.com/syhsoct-all-access-pass-a-47/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Jennifer:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.theintentionalmom.com" rel="nofollow">www.theintentionalmom.com</a></li>
<li>Podcast: The Intentional Midlife Mom Podcast</li>
<li>Instagram: theintentionalmomblog</li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you feeling overwhelmed by the holiday season? With the busy time of year approaching, juggling family, finances, and festivities can easily become stressful. In this episode, we explore practical ways to simplify your holidays, featuring our guest Jennifer, a certified life coach and seasoned homeschooling mom.</p>

<p>She shares insights on how to create a calm and stress-free holiday experience. With these simple tips, you can get organized and stress less about your finances, time, and priorities for the holidays.</p>

<p>Tune in to the podcast to discover how you can embrace a more peaceful and intentional holiday season!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Jennifer!</strong> <br>
Jennifer Roskamp is a certified life coach, founder of The Intentional Mom, homeschooling mom of 9 &amp; Gigi (grandma) of 2 who is passionate about helping women who work outside &amp; inside of the home rediscover their purpose, passion, and in managing their homes, their families, their lives, and their own mindset. </p>

<p>Using her 3 secret weapon formulas, Jennifer has helped many thousands of women gain clarity and confidence in what to do (&amp; what to let go of) every day.</p>

<p><em>“We aren&#39;t compartmentalized. The things that we struggle with in one area are usually challenging in other areas as well. Like you say, if we can just start to move the needle forward in some of our habit formation, our ability to follow through, or our ability to live by the routine that we set up, we might be doing it from a budgeting standpoint, but all of a sudden, wow, I have an easier time getting up earlier in the morning too. Once I&#39;m setting the good habits with my money, it makes me want to, and makes it easier for me to follow the good habits in other areas too.”</em> <br>
<em><strong>- Jennifer Roskamp</strong></em></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Come join us for the FREE Simplify Your Holiday Season Summit at <a href="https://apatrick--the-intentional-mom.thrivecart.com/syhsoct-all-access-pass-a-47/" rel="nofollow">https://apatrick--the-intentional-mom.thrivecart.com/syhsoct-all-access-pass-a-47/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Jennifer:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.theintentionalmom.com" rel="nofollow">www.theintentionalmom.com</a></li>
<li>Podcast: The Intentional Midlife Mom Podcast</li>
<li>Instagram: theintentionalmomblog</li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#224 - How to Fix Your Spending Issues</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/224</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2024 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/d7ea0950-3b05-4fbf-be31-5f859fa9884b.mp3" length="21584861" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>224</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#224 - How to Fix Your Spending Issues</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you constantly overspending? Follow these tips to get your spending under control! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>14:59</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Ever wonder what truly drives your spending habits? In this episode, we explore the underlying reasons for overspending and offer practical strategies to help you regain control of your finances.
Discover how small changes in your shopping behavior and awareness of your triggers can pave the way to a healthier relationship with money.
Tune in to learn how to stop overspending and move closer to your financial goals.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“It's really important to remove temptation. So, once you know what is causing you to overspend, remove that temptation—delete the apps, unfollow the people, unsubscribe. Understand that it's a habit, and habits can change, but it takes time and practice. You've got to be patient with yourself. Once you realize what the trigger is, you can set up roadblocks so that you aren't falling for those temptations as quickly or as often.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Do you ever wish you had more time, space, and accountability to tackle those tasks you know should be priorities—like budgeting, paying off debt, saving money, or meal planning? If those to-dos keep slipping off your list, you're not alone! Imagine being part of a supportive community of busy moms who are navigating the same financial goals and cheering each other on.
If this sounds like what you need, join the waitlist for the Money Success Club at https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Join the waitlist for the Money Success Club here-&amp;gt; https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to stop overspending, how to stick to a budget, can't stop spending</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder what truly drives your spending habits? In this episode, we explore the underlying reasons for overspending and offer practical strategies to help you regain control of your finances.</p>

<p>Discover how small changes in your shopping behavior and awareness of your triggers can pave the way to a healthier relationship with money.</p>

<p>Tune in to learn how to stop overspending and move closer to your financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s really important to remove temptation. So, once you know what is causing you to overspend, remove that temptation—delete the apps, unfollow the people, unsubscribe. Understand that it&#39;s a habit, and habits can change, but it takes time and practice. You&#39;ve got to be patient with yourself. Once you realize what the trigger is, you can set up roadblocks so that you aren&#39;t falling for those temptations as quickly or as often.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Do you ever wish you had more time, space, and accountability to tackle those tasks you know should be priorities—like budgeting, paying off debt, saving money, or meal planning? If those to-dos keep slipping off your list, you&#39;re not alone! Imagine being part of a supportive community of busy moms who are navigating the same financial goals and cheering each other on.</p>

<p>If this sounds like what you need, join the waitlist for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join the waitlist for the Money Success Club here-&gt; <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder what truly drives your spending habits? In this episode, we explore the underlying reasons for overspending and offer practical strategies to help you regain control of your finances.</p>

<p>Discover how small changes in your shopping behavior and awareness of your triggers can pave the way to a healthier relationship with money.</p>

<p>Tune in to learn how to stop overspending and move closer to your financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s really important to remove temptation. So, once you know what is causing you to overspend, remove that temptation—delete the apps, unfollow the people, unsubscribe. Understand that it&#39;s a habit, and habits can change, but it takes time and practice. You&#39;ve got to be patient with yourself. Once you realize what the trigger is, you can set up roadblocks so that you aren&#39;t falling for those temptations as quickly or as often.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Do you ever wish you had more time, space, and accountability to tackle those tasks you know should be priorities—like budgeting, paying off debt, saving money, or meal planning? If those to-dos keep slipping off your list, you&#39;re not alone! Imagine being part of a supportive community of busy moms who are navigating the same financial goals and cheering each other on.</p>

<p>If this sounds like what you need, join the waitlist for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join the waitlist for the Money Success Club here-&gt; <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc-waitlist/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#223 How to Develop Self-Discipline With Money</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/223</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 23 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/bcdb4894-7177-40bc-be30-4c3136e9a7e7.mp3" length="28355163" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>223</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#223 How to Develop Self-Discipline With Money</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you wish you were more disciplined with money?

Follow these tips to start becoming more consistent with money!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>19:41</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>In this episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, we dive into the essential skill of developing self-discipline with money. 
You'll learn how to break down your big financial goals into manageable steps, like paying off debt, and make a plan that suits your lifestyle. We’ll discuss why it’s important to not get discouraged by setbacks and how to implement habits that can help carry you through tough times.
Whether you're aiming to pay off debt or save for travel, this episode offers actionable advice to stay on track, build better money routines, and stay focused on your financial journey.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“To me, self-discipline is really consistency, and consistency is not about being perfect at it. It's not about getting it 100% right 100% of the time. It's actually about getting it mostly right most of the time.
Remember, it’s not about being perfect. Things are going to happen. Life is going to happen. Things will come up, and you will get out of your routine. But with consistency, you'll be able to get back on track easier and faster when things do come up.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Struggling to budget? My FREE "Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success" Bootcamp will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to develop self discipline with money, how to become self disciplined with money</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, we dive into the essential skill of developing self-discipline with money. </p>

<p>You&#39;ll learn how to break down your big financial goals into manageable steps, like paying off debt, and make a plan that suits your lifestyle. We’ll discuss why it’s important to not get discouraged by setbacks and how to implement habits that can help carry you through tough times.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re aiming to pay off debt or save for travel, this episode offers actionable advice to stay on track, build better money routines, and stay focused on your financial journey.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“To me, self-discipline is really consistency, and consistency is not about being perfect at it. It&#39;s not about getting it 100% right 100% of the time. It&#39;s actually about getting it mostly right most of the time.<br>
Remember, it’s not about being perfect. Things are going to happen. Life is going to happen. Things will come up, and you will get out of your routine. But with consistency, you&#39;ll be able to get back on track easier and faster when things do come up.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling to budget? My <strong><em>FREE &quot;Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success&quot; Bootcamp</em></strong> will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, we dive into the essential skill of developing self-discipline with money. </p>

<p>You&#39;ll learn how to break down your big financial goals into manageable steps, like paying off debt, and make a plan that suits your lifestyle. We’ll discuss why it’s important to not get discouraged by setbacks and how to implement habits that can help carry you through tough times.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re aiming to pay off debt or save for travel, this episode offers actionable advice to stay on track, build better money routines, and stay focused on your financial journey.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“To me, self-discipline is really consistency, and consistency is not about being perfect at it. It&#39;s not about getting it 100% right 100% of the time. It&#39;s actually about getting it mostly right most of the time.<br>
Remember, it’s not about being perfect. Things are going to happen. Life is going to happen. Things will come up, and you will get out of your routine. But with consistency, you&#39;ll be able to get back on track easier and faster when things do come up.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling to budget? My <strong><em>FREE &quot;Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success&quot; Bootcamp</em></strong> will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#222: 5 Money Mistakes I Wish I Had Avoided</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/222</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 17 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>222</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#222: 5 Money Mistakes I Wish I Had Avoided</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Ever felt like you’re caught in a cycle of bad money habits and just can't break free? Tune in to this episode as we explore practical tips for resetting your financial mindset.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:08</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Ever feel like your financial expectations don’t quite align with reality? Or maybe you’ve wondered if you’re setting the right goals for your financial journey?
In this episode, you’ll gain insights into realistic planning, managing credit cards, and how small shifts in your financial mindset can lead to significant progress in paying off debt.
Join us as we explore five key money mistakes that may be holding you back and learn how adjusting your expectations could be the key to success.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“You’ve got to know where your money is going, which means you’ve got to track it. You’ve got to look at it and know your numbers. You need to get over the fear, procrastination, and avoidance. You’ve got to make it happen if you want to pay off your debt. It’s not going to just happen on its own, right? You’ve got to be intentional. Being intentional helps you create a realistic money plan. It all goes together, right?” 
- Ashley Patrick
Struggling to budget? My FREE "Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success" Bootcamp will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Check out the full list here: https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/10-mistakes-to-avoid-while-paying-off-debt/
Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money mistakes I made, avoid these top money mistakes</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever feel like your financial expectations don’t quite align with reality? Or maybe you’ve wondered if you’re setting the right goals for your financial journey?</p>

<p>In this episode, you’ll gain insights into realistic planning, managing credit cards, and how small shifts in your financial mindset can lead to significant progress in paying off debt.</p>

<p>Join us as we explore five key money mistakes that may be holding you back and learn how adjusting your expectations could be the key to success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You’ve got to know where your money is going, which means you’ve got to track it. You’ve got to look at it and know your numbers. You need to get over the fear, procrastination, and avoidance. You’ve got to make it happen if you want to pay off your debt. It’s not going to just happen on its own, right? You’ve got to be intentional. Being intentional helps you create a realistic money plan. It all goes together, right?”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling to budget? My <strong><em>FREE &quot;Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success&quot; Bootcamp</em></strong> will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Check out the full list here: <a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/10-mistakes-to-avoid-while-paying-off-debt/" rel="nofollow">https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/10-mistakes-to-avoid-while-paying-off-debt/</a></p></li>
<li><p>Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever feel like your financial expectations don’t quite align with reality? Or maybe you’ve wondered if you’re setting the right goals for your financial journey?</p>

<p>In this episode, you’ll gain insights into realistic planning, managing credit cards, and how small shifts in your financial mindset can lead to significant progress in paying off debt.</p>

<p>Join us as we explore five key money mistakes that may be holding you back and learn how adjusting your expectations could be the key to success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You’ve got to know where your money is going, which means you’ve got to track it. You’ve got to look at it and know your numbers. You need to get over the fear, procrastination, and avoidance. You’ve got to make it happen if you want to pay off your debt. It’s not going to just happen on its own, right? You’ve got to be intentional. Being intentional helps you create a realistic money plan. It all goes together, right?”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling to budget? My <strong><em>FREE &quot;Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success&quot; Bootcamp</em></strong> will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Check out the full list here: <a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/10-mistakes-to-avoid-while-paying-off-debt/" rel="nofollow">https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/10-mistakes-to-avoid-while-paying-off-debt/</a></p></li>
<li><p>Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#221: How to Pay Off Debt AND Still Afford Necessities!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/221</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 16 Sep 2024 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/b9cbeab0-5cf8-4c4c-8be9-99adf6af80d8.mp3" length="25910607" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>221</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#221: How to Pay Off Debt AND Still Afford Necessities!</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you struggling to figure out how to pay off debt without cutting into your essential spending? Listen to this episode for tips on managing your finances and staying on track with debt payment!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>17:59</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Ever felt like paying off debt while affording everyday necessities is an impossible task?
In this episode, we explore strategies for balancing debt payment with essential expenses, even when money is tight. 
We'll dive into practical tips on defining true necessities, prioritizing your spending, and organizing your finances to make consistent progress toward your goals. 
Make sure to listen to the full episode for tips that can transform how you handle debt.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“You've got to prioritize it if you want to pay off debt. It has to be a priority. It can't be just the last thing because, guess what, there won't be anything left if you just send what's left at the end of the month. I promise you, things will come up, things will happen, and if you see that money sitting there in your account, and if you're not really, really committed and intentional with what you've got sitting there, it will go to something else.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Struggling to budget? My FREE "Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success Bootcamp" will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp starting September 22nd at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to pay off debt when you are broke</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever felt like paying off debt while affording everyday necessities is an impossible task?</p>

<p>In this episode, we explore strategies for balancing debt payment with essential expenses, even when money is tight. </p>

<p>We&#39;ll dive into practical tips on defining true necessities, prioritizing your spending, and organizing your finances to make consistent progress toward your goals. </p>

<p>Make sure to listen to the full episode for tips that can transform how you handle debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;ve got to prioritize it if you want to pay off debt. It has to be a priority. It can&#39;t be just the last thing because, guess what, there won&#39;t be anything left if you just send what&#39;s left at the end of the month. I promise you, things will come up, things will happen, and if you see that money sitting there in your account, and if you&#39;re not really, really committed and intentional with what you&#39;ve got sitting there, it will go to something else.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling to budget? My FREE <strong><em>&quot;Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success Bootcamp&quot;</em></strong> will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp starting September 22nd at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever felt like paying off debt while affording everyday necessities is an impossible task?</p>

<p>In this episode, we explore strategies for balancing debt payment with essential expenses, even when money is tight. </p>

<p>We&#39;ll dive into practical tips on defining true necessities, prioritizing your spending, and organizing your finances to make consistent progress toward your goals. </p>

<p>Make sure to listen to the full episode for tips that can transform how you handle debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;ve got to prioritize it if you want to pay off debt. It has to be a priority. It can&#39;t be just the last thing because, guess what, there won&#39;t be anything left if you just send what&#39;s left at the end of the month. I promise you, things will come up, things will happen, and if you see that money sitting there in your account, and if you&#39;re not really, really committed and intentional with what you&#39;ve got sitting there, it will go to something else.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling to budget? My FREE <strong><em>&quot;Roadmap to Real-Life Money Success Bootcamp&quot;</em></strong> will help you set up a doable financial plan and build lasting habits. Save your seat here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Come join us for the FREE Roadmap to Money Success Bootcamp starting September 22nd at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#220 When to tip and how much? </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/220</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 27 Aug 2024 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/26b720d6-d199-40f1-acff-16193591459c.mp3" length="22746569" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>220</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#220 When to tip and how much? </itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Why does everyone ask for a tip nowadays? It's getting ridiculous at this point.

Listen to my thoughts and when I tip and when I don't.

Let me know what you do or if I'm right or wrong on Instagram @budgetsmadeeasy</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:47</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Feeling lost in the complex world of tipping? In this episode, we unpack tipping culture in the U.S.
Whether you're dining out, picking up takeout, or receiving a service at home, we cover the expectations and realities of tipping in various situations.
Listen to my thoughts on when I tip and when I don't, and let me know what you do or whether you think I'm right or wrong on Instagram @budgetsmadeeasy.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“Why don't you just pay your people enough to work? Like, I don't get it. We need to just pay a living wage, even if that means that we pay more on the menu.” 
- Ashley Patrick
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>when do you need to tip, when do you not need to tip</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Feeling lost in the complex world of tipping? In this episode, we unpack tipping culture in the U.S.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re dining out, picking up takeout, or receiving a service at home, we cover the expectations and realities of tipping in various situations.</p>

<p>Listen to my thoughts on when I tip and when I don&#39;t, and let me know what you do or whether you think I&#39;m right or wrong on Instagram @budgetsmadeeasy.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Why don&#39;t you just pay your people enough to work? Like, I don&#39;t get it. We need to just pay a living wage, even if that means that we pay more on the menu.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Feeling lost in the complex world of tipping? In this episode, we unpack tipping culture in the U.S.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re dining out, picking up takeout, or receiving a service at home, we cover the expectations and realities of tipping in various situations.</p>

<p>Listen to my thoughts on when I tip and when I don&#39;t, and let me know what you do or whether you think I&#39;m right or wrong on Instagram @budgetsmadeeasy.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Why don&#39;t you just pay your people enough to work? Like, I don&#39;t get it. We need to just pay a living wage, even if that means that we pay more on the menu.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#216 Starting Over</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/216</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2024 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>216</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#216 Starting Over</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Feeling overwhelmed by your current financial situation? Join us as we explore effective strategies to reset your budget and regain financial stability.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>13:07</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>On today's episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, we dive into the art of starting over with your budget and financial planning. Life can get chaotic, and it's easy to lose track of your spending.
Whether you're overwhelmed by your current situation or just need a fresh start, this episode provides practical tips on how to reset and regain control of your finances. From reconciling your bank accounts to implementing no-spend challenges, you'll learn strategies to simplify your budgeting process and stay on track.
Tune in to find out how to make a clean slate, set realistic goals, and manage your money more effectively.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“Don't feel like you have to go back and track everything. Just start over tomorrow, start over next week, wipe the slate clean, and take your bank account minus what hasn't posted yet. That's what you have left. Do a no-spend challenge, reevaluate your goals, and decide what you actually want to do with your money this year.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Struggling with overspending? Take control of your finances with our FREE Masterclass: "How to Stop Overspending." Discover practical tips to curb emotional spending, create a solid money plan, and stay on track with your financial goals. 
Register for the LIVE session on June 20th at 8pm ET - 5pm PT and start your journey towards financial freedom. Limited spots available – sign up now at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* FREE Masterclass: "How to Stop Overspending": www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>starting your budget over, money plan, no spend challenge</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>On today&#39;s episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, we dive into the art of starting over with your budget and financial planning. Life can get chaotic, and it&#39;s easy to lose track of your spending.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re overwhelmed by your current situation or just need a fresh start, this episode provides practical tips on how to reset and regain control of your finances. From reconciling your bank accounts to implementing no-spend challenges, you&#39;ll learn strategies to simplify your budgeting process and stay on track.</p>

<p>Tune in to find out how to make a clean slate, set realistic goals, and manage your money more effectively.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Don&#39;t feel like you have to go back and track everything. Just start over tomorrow, start over next week, wipe the slate clean, and take your bank account minus what hasn&#39;t posted yet. That&#39;s what you have left. Do a no-spend challenge, reevaluate your goals, and decide what you actually want to do with your money this year.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling with overspending? Take control of your finances with our <strong><em>FREE Masterclass: &quot;How to Stop Overspending.&quot;</em></strong> Discover practical tips to curb emotional spending, create a solid money plan, and stay on track with your financial goals. </p>

<p>Register for the LIVE session on June 20th at 8pm ET - 5pm PT and start your journey towards financial freedom. Limited spots available – sign up now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Masterclass: &quot;How to Stop Overspending&quot;: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>On today&#39;s episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, we dive into the art of starting over with your budget and financial planning. Life can get chaotic, and it&#39;s easy to lose track of your spending.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re overwhelmed by your current situation or just need a fresh start, this episode provides practical tips on how to reset and regain control of your finances. From reconciling your bank accounts to implementing no-spend challenges, you&#39;ll learn strategies to simplify your budgeting process and stay on track.</p>

<p>Tune in to find out how to make a clean slate, set realistic goals, and manage your money more effectively.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Don&#39;t feel like you have to go back and track everything. Just start over tomorrow, start over next week, wipe the slate clean, and take your bank account minus what hasn&#39;t posted yet. That&#39;s what you have left. Do a no-spend challenge, reevaluate your goals, and decide what you actually want to do with your money this year.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Struggling with overspending? Take control of your finances with our <strong><em>FREE Masterclass: &quot;How to Stop Overspending.&quot;</em></strong> Discover practical tips to curb emotional spending, create a solid money plan, and stay on track with your financial goals. </p>

<p>Register for the LIVE session on June 20th at 8pm ET - 5pm PT and start your journey towards financial freedom. Limited spots available – sign up now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Masterclass: &quot;How to Stop Overspending&quot;: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#211 10 Things I've Learned About Money Since Becoming A Money Coach	</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/211</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/a34af031-741a-4c8c-b720-1d47014590a3.mp3" length="27593893" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>211</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#211 10 Things I've Learned About Money Since Becoming A Money Coach	</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Ever found yourself struggling to navigate the ever-changing world of personal finance? Join us as we explore the valuable lessons Ashley learned over seven years as a money coach, offering insights to help you overcome financial challenges and achieve your goals.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>19:09</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Welcome back to the Money Mindset Podcast!
Today's episode explores the valuable lessons Ashley learned over seven years as a money coach. We'll discuss personal finance insights, how individual perspectives shape financial decisions, and why there's no one-size-fits-all approach.
Join us as we dive into topics like understanding diverse learning styles and navigating different seasons of life. These insights offer guidance on developing a healthier relationship with money.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“Because it is personal. And you know what you do with your money, what your goals are, what is important to you is personal, and it's not gonna be the same for everybody. And that's what's so exciting about really being intentional with your money is that you get to decide based on your values, your life vision, what you want to leave as your legacy, how you wanna teach your kids, what you wanna teach your kids. All those things are personal. And so it's really exciting because you get to dictate what that looks like for you.” 
- Ashley Patrick
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>lessons from a money coach</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to the Money Mindset Podcast!</p>

<p>Today&#39;s episode explores the valuable lessons Ashley learned over seven years as a money coach. We&#39;ll discuss personal finance insights, how individual perspectives shape financial decisions, and why there&#39;s no one-size-fits-all approach.</p>

<p>Join us as we dive into topics like understanding diverse learning styles and navigating different seasons of life. These insights offer guidance on developing a healthier relationship with money.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Because it is personal. And you know what you do with your money, what your goals are, what is important to you is personal, and it&#39;s not gonna be the same for everybody. And that&#39;s what&#39;s so exciting about really being intentional with your money is that you get to decide based on your values, your life vision, what you want to leave as your legacy, how you wanna teach your kids, what you wanna teach your kids. All those things are personal. And so it&#39;s really exciting because you get to dictate what that looks like for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to the Money Mindset Podcast!</p>

<p>Today&#39;s episode explores the valuable lessons Ashley learned over seven years as a money coach. We&#39;ll discuss personal finance insights, how individual perspectives shape financial decisions, and why there&#39;s no one-size-fits-all approach.</p>

<p>Join us as we dive into topics like understanding diverse learning styles and navigating different seasons of life. These insights offer guidance on developing a healthier relationship with money.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Because it is personal. And you know what you do with your money, what your goals are, what is important to you is personal, and it&#39;s not gonna be the same for everybody. And that&#39;s what&#39;s so exciting about really being intentional with your money is that you get to decide based on your values, your life vision, what you want to leave as your legacy, how you wanna teach your kids, what you wanna teach your kids. All those things are personal. And so it&#39;s really exciting because you get to dictate what that looks like for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#210 This is why your budget doesn't work for you	</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/210</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 18 Apr 2024 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/420e3a94-6305-42c6-980b-d8781f138b0e.mp3" length="22369336" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>210</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#210 This is why your budget doesn't work for you	</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>
Feeling overwhelmed by budgeting and unsure why it's not working for you? Tune in as we explore common pitfalls and actionable steps to make your budgeting efforts more effective and sustainable.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:31</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Struggling to make your budget work? In this episode, we delve into the common pitfalls that often sabotage our financial plans. From unrealistic expectations to poor preparation, discover practical strategies to align your budget with your lifestyle, ensuring sustainable financial growth. 
Join us as we explore the importance of being realistic, creating effective plans, and establishing healthy habits to set yourself up for financial success.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
“So, what do you need to do to set yourself up for success when it comes to sticking to your budget? That means your meal planning, okay? But it also could be making sure that you have in your schedule a day, a time, and a place that you are going to check in with your budget. So, check in with your spending, check in with where your money needs to go.” 
- Ashley Patrick
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
* Find the video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/eQvD7mi0tgw
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>why budgeting doesn't work, making a budget work</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Struggling to make your budget work? In this episode, we delve into the common pitfalls that often sabotage our financial plans. From unrealistic expectations to poor preparation, discover practical strategies to align your budget with your lifestyle, ensuring sustainable financial growth. </p>

<p>Join us as we explore the importance of being realistic, creating effective plans, and establishing healthy habits to set yourself up for financial success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p><em>“So, what do you need to do to set yourself up for success when it comes to sticking to your budget? That means your meal planning, okay? But it also could be making sure that you have in your schedule a day, a time, and a place that you are going to check in with your budget. So, check in with your spending, check in with where your money needs to go.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<ul>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/eQvD7mi0tgw" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/eQvD7mi0tgw</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Struggling to make your budget work? In this episode, we delve into the common pitfalls that often sabotage our financial plans. From unrealistic expectations to poor preparation, discover practical strategies to align your budget with your lifestyle, ensuring sustainable financial growth. </p>

<p>Join us as we explore the importance of being realistic, creating effective plans, and establishing healthy habits to set yourself up for financial success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p><em>“So, what do you need to do to set yourself up for success when it comes to sticking to your budget? That means your meal planning, okay? But it also could be making sure that you have in your schedule a day, a time, and a place that you are going to check in with your budget. So, check in with your spending, check in with where your money needs to go.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<ul>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/eQvD7mi0tgw" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/eQvD7mi0tgw</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#207 BBMU 3 Tips to Stop Overspending! </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/207</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 26 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>207</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#207 BBMU 3 Tips to Stop Overspending! </itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Struggling to curb overspending and regain control of your finances? Tune in to our latest episode where we explore the issue of lifestyle creep and offer practical strategies to cultivate mindful spending habits.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>30:30</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Join us for another episode of the Budget Bestie Meetup on the Money Mindset Podcast as we dive into the crucial topic of overspending and its impact on financial well-being.
In this episode, we dissect the concept of lifestyle creep, where rising income often leads to increased expenditure. Discover practical strategies to combat overspending, including deleting shopping apps and reframing your mindset around money.
Gain valuable insights into identifying triggers for impulsive spending and learn how to cultivate mindful spending habits at any income level.
Don't miss out on this insightful discussion that can empower you to take control of your financial future.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“If you are feeling a certain type of way around certain people, following certain accounts, or even getting certain emails, and you feel like it's causing you to spend money that you don't necessarily want to spend, then it's important to unsubscribe for emails, unfollow people on social media and identify what exactly is triggering you. Because once you identify that, it will make it easier for you to change how you respond to the trigger, right? It may still trigger you, but it makes it better once you identify and recognize why it's triggering you. You can change the way you respond to it to react in a healthier way.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a Budget Bestie Meetup on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let's learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Book Recommendation:
* Atomic Habits by James Clear  
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
* Find the video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/JN8UBvOnsH8 
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to stop overspending, how to stick to a budget, can't stop spending</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Join us for another episode of the Budget Bestie Meetup on the Money Mindset Podcast as we dive into the crucial topic of overspending and its impact on financial well-being.</p>

<p>In this episode, we dissect the concept of lifestyle creep, where rising income often leads to increased expenditure. Discover practical strategies to combat overspending, including deleting shopping apps and reframing your mindset around money.</p>

<p>Gain valuable insights into identifying triggers for impulsive spending and learn how to cultivate mindful spending habits at any income level.</p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on this insightful discussion that can empower you to take control of your financial future.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“If you are feeling a certain type of way around certain people, following certain accounts, or even getting certain emails, and you feel like it&#39;s causing you to spend money that you don&#39;t necessarily want to spend, then it&#39;s important to unsubscribe for emails, unfollow people on social media and identify what exactly is triggering you. Because once you identify that, it will make it easier for you to change how you respond to the trigger, right? It may still trigger you, but it makes it better once you identify and recognize why it&#39;s triggering you. You can change the way you respond to it to react in a healthier way.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <em><strong>Budget Bestie Meetup</strong></em> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Atomic Habits by James Clear<br></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/JN8UBvOnsH8" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/JN8UBvOnsH8</a> </li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join us for another episode of the Budget Bestie Meetup on the Money Mindset Podcast as we dive into the crucial topic of overspending and its impact on financial well-being.</p>

<p>In this episode, we dissect the concept of lifestyle creep, where rising income often leads to increased expenditure. Discover practical strategies to combat overspending, including deleting shopping apps and reframing your mindset around money.</p>

<p>Gain valuable insights into identifying triggers for impulsive spending and learn how to cultivate mindful spending habits at any income level.</p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on this insightful discussion that can empower you to take control of your financial future.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“If you are feeling a certain type of way around certain people, following certain accounts, or even getting certain emails, and you feel like it&#39;s causing you to spend money that you don&#39;t necessarily want to spend, then it&#39;s important to unsubscribe for emails, unfollow people on social media and identify what exactly is triggering you. Because once you identify that, it will make it easier for you to change how you respond to the trigger, right? It may still trigger you, but it makes it better once you identify and recognize why it&#39;s triggering you. You can change the way you respond to it to react in a healthier way.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <em><strong>Budget Bestie Meetup</strong></em> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Atomic Habits by James Clear<br></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/JN8UBvOnsH8" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/JN8UBvOnsH8</a> </li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#206 What a 1:1 Session Looks Like</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/206</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 19 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/2aca590c-9928-409a-a759-f282053ec125.mp3" length="24255190" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>206</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#206 What a 1:1 Session Looks Like</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Curious about 1:1 coaching? In this episode I breakdown what to expect while working with a coach.

How to prepare and what happens inbetween your sessions. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>16:50</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Step into the final installment of the Money Coach Series on the Money Mindset podcast, where we unravel the essential steps to maximize your sessions with a money coach.
Explore practical tips on preparing for meetings, optimizing your coach's guidance, and maintaining momentum between sessions. Learn how to advocate for personalized strategies tailored to your financial journey and discover the key elements of effective coaching relationships.
Tune in to equip yourself with the insights needed to make the most of your financial coaching experience.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“It's important that the strategy lines up with your life and making sure it's realistic for you to do because otherwise you're setting yourself up for failure. So you want a coach that's gonna help you set yourself up for success and that means tailoring a plan for you.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the Confident Money Mastermind – JUST FOR YOU!
This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.
Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind 
* Grab your Budget Starter Kit here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start 
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money coach, building confidence around money, sticking to a budget, overspending</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Step into the final installment of the Money Coach Series on the Money Mindset podcast, where we unravel the essential steps to maximize your sessions with a money coach.</p>

<p>Explore practical tips on preparing for meetings, optimizing your coach&#39;s guidance, and maintaining momentum between sessions. Learn how to advocate for personalized strategies tailored to your financial journey and discover the key elements of effective coaching relationships.</p>

<p>Tune in to equip yourself with the insights needed to make the most of your financial coaching experience.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s important that the strategy lines up with your life and making sure it&#39;s realistic for you to do because otherwise you&#39;re setting yourself up for failure. So you want a coach that&#39;s gonna help you set yourself up for success and that means tailoring a plan for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the Confident Money Mastermind – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
<li>Grab your Budget Starter Kit here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Step into the final installment of the Money Coach Series on the Money Mindset podcast, where we unravel the essential steps to maximize your sessions with a money coach.</p>

<p>Explore practical tips on preparing for meetings, optimizing your coach&#39;s guidance, and maintaining momentum between sessions. Learn how to advocate for personalized strategies tailored to your financial journey and discover the key elements of effective coaching relationships.</p>

<p>Tune in to equip yourself with the insights needed to make the most of your financial coaching experience.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s important that the strategy lines up with your life and making sure it&#39;s realistic for you to do because otherwise you&#39;re setting yourself up for failure. So you want a coach that&#39;s gonna help you set yourself up for success and that means tailoring a plan for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the Confident Money Mastermind – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
<li>Grab your Budget Starter Kit here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
<item>
  <title>#205 Building Your Confidence with a Money Coach</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/205</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 07 Mar 2024 08:45:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/2e699c54-f75f-4b03-9fce-54fed5fab3f9.mp3" length="18873072" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>205</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#205 Building Your Confidence with a Money Coach</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Ever felt overwhelmed by financial decisions? Explore how a money coach can provide clarity and guidance to help you navigate your financial journey with confidence.
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>13:06</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Discover how working with a money coach can build your confidence in Episode 3 of the Money Coach Series on the Money Mindset Podcast. Find out how they can provide personalized strategies to tackle financial challenges and assist you in reaching your goals.
Learn simple tips for organizing your finances and communicating about money with your partner, and gain practical advice to feel confident about your financial journey.
Listen to uncover how a money coach can help you take charge of your money and plan for success.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“A money coach can really help you build your confidence so that you don't stay stuck and you keep moving forward. And really, that is truly the most important thing. It doesn't matter how fast you make progress, right? It's kind of like the tortoise and the hare. As long as you keep going, you don't have to sprint and then wear yourself out. As long as you go slow and steady, you're going to get there.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the Confident Money Mastermind – JUST FOR YOU!
This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.
Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind 
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money coach, building confidence around money, sticking to a budget, overspending</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Discover how working with a money coach can build your confidence in Episode 3 of the Money Coach Series on the Money Mindset Podcast. Find out how they can provide personalized strategies to tackle financial challenges and assist you in reaching your goals.</p>

<p>Learn simple tips for organizing your finances and communicating about money with your partner, and gain practical advice to feel confident about your financial journey.</p>

<p>Listen to uncover how a money coach can help you take charge of your money and plan for success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“A money coach can really help you build your confidence so that you don&#39;t stay stuck and you keep moving forward. And really, that is truly the most important thing. It doesn&#39;t matter how fast you make progress, right? It&#39;s kind of like the tortoise and the hare. As long as you keep going, you don&#39;t have to sprint and then wear yourself out. As long as you go slow and steady, you&#39;re going to get there.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the <strong><em>Confident Money Mastermind</em></strong> – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Discover how working with a money coach can build your confidence in Episode 3 of the Money Coach Series on the Money Mindset Podcast. Find out how they can provide personalized strategies to tackle financial challenges and assist you in reaching your goals.</p>

<p>Learn simple tips for organizing your finances and communicating about money with your partner, and gain practical advice to feel confident about your financial journey.</p>

<p>Listen to uncover how a money coach can help you take charge of your money and plan for success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“A money coach can really help you build your confidence so that you don&#39;t stay stuck and you keep moving forward. And really, that is truly the most important thing. It doesn&#39;t matter how fast you make progress, right? It&#39;s kind of like the tortoise and the hare. As long as you keep going, you don&#39;t have to sprint and then wear yourself out. As long as you go slow and steady, you&#39;re going to get there.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the <strong><em>Confident Money Mastermind</em></strong> – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#204 - When to know when it's time for a money coach</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/204</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 29 Feb 2024 08:30:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#204 - When to know when it's time for a money coach</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Ever found yourself struggling to follow through with your financial plans, or feeling lost in knowing what steps to take? Join us as we explore the topic of when it's time to consider hiring a money coach.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>8:39</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Join us for Episode 2 of our Money Coach Series as we discuss when it's time to consider hiring a money coach. We explore the signs indicating the need for their support, such as accountability struggles and the search for financial clarity.
Learn why understanding your financial needs is crucial and how a trusted advisor can tailor strategies to fit them. Whether you face challenges in implementing financial plans or seek validation for your approach, recognizing the role of a money coach can empower your financial decisions. 
Tune in for valuable insights on enhancing your financial journey with the right support system.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“A money coach can also help you when you know generally what to do and you will follow through with it. They can also help you make sure that what you're doing aligns with your goals and is right for you because general financial advice is great for the majority of people, but it doesn't mean that it's a hundred percent right for a hundred percent of people, right? So your situation may be a little different and it's really good to have another set of eyes on your situation and make sure that your plan fits with your lifestyle and it fits with your values and it fits with your goal.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the Confident Money Mastermind – JUST FOR YOU!
This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.
Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind 
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money coach</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join us for Episode 2 of our Money Coach Series as we discuss when it&#39;s time to consider hiring a money coach. We explore the signs indicating the need for their support, such as accountability struggles and the search for financial clarity.</p>

<p>Learn why understanding your financial needs is crucial and how a trusted advisor can tailor strategies to fit them. Whether you face challenges in implementing financial plans or seek validation for your approach, recognizing the role of a money coach can empower your financial decisions. </p>

<p>Tune in for valuable insights on enhancing your financial journey with the right support system.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“A money coach can also help you when you know generally what to do and you will follow through with it. They can also help you make sure that what you&#39;re doing aligns with your goals and is right for you because general financial advice is great for the majority of people, but it doesn&#39;t mean that it&#39;s a hundred percent right for a hundred percent of people, right? So your situation may be a little different and it&#39;s really good to have another set of eyes on your situation and make sure that your plan fits with your lifestyle and it fits with your values and it fits with your goal.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the <em><strong>Confident Money Mastermind</strong></em> – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join us for Episode 2 of our Money Coach Series as we discuss when it&#39;s time to consider hiring a money coach. We explore the signs indicating the need for their support, such as accountability struggles and the search for financial clarity.</p>

<p>Learn why understanding your financial needs is crucial and how a trusted advisor can tailor strategies to fit them. Whether you face challenges in implementing financial plans or seek validation for your approach, recognizing the role of a money coach can empower your financial decisions. </p>

<p>Tune in for valuable insights on enhancing your financial journey with the right support system.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“A money coach can also help you when you know generally what to do and you will follow through with it. They can also help you make sure that what you&#39;re doing aligns with your goals and is right for you because general financial advice is great for the majority of people, but it doesn&#39;t mean that it&#39;s a hundred percent right for a hundred percent of people, right? So your situation may be a little different and it&#39;s really good to have another set of eyes on your situation and make sure that your plan fits with your lifestyle and it fits with your values and it fits with your goal.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the <em><strong>Confident Money Mastermind</strong></em> – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#203 What a Money Coach is &amp; How to Find One</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/203</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>203</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#203 What a Money Coach is &amp; How to Find One</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Wondering if it's time to seek professional guidance for your finances? Listen in as we discuss key considerations and questions to ask when choosing a money coach.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>28:35</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Welcome back to the Money Mindset Podcast! Today, we're diving into a new series focused on hiring a money coach.
We'll explore the role of money coaches, providing day-to-day support with budgeting, overcoming financial obstacles, and staying accountable to your goals. Discover the importance of finding a coach whose values align with yours and learn key questions to ask in your search.
Join us in the next episode as we discuss when it's time to hire a money coach and when to navigate financial challenges independently.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“A money coach really helps you in the day-to-day money management 'cause that's where things are gonna change. You're not gonna make changes with a few things here and there through the years. You can make some small changes of course, but if you wanna make fast changes and really hit those goals, a money coach can help you stay on track even when it feels tough, even when you feel like giving up, even when it feels like the whole world is against you. A coach is there in your back pocket to help push you along the way and support you when you do need a break.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the Confident Money Mastermind – JUST FOR YOU!
This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.
Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind 
* Grab your Budget Starter Kit here: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start 
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>what is a money coach, can a money coach help you pay off debt</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to the Money Mindset Podcast! Today, we&#39;re diving into a new series focused on hiring a money coach.</p>

<p>We&#39;ll explore the role of money coaches, providing day-to-day support with budgeting, overcoming financial obstacles, and staying accountable to your goals. Discover the importance of finding a coach whose values align with yours and learn key questions to ask in your search.</p>

<p>Join us in the next episode as we discuss when it&#39;s time to hire a money coach and when to navigate financial challenges independently.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“A money coach really helps you in the day-to-day money management &#39;cause that&#39;s where things are gonna change. You&#39;re not gonna make changes with a few things here and there through the years. You can make some small changes of course, but if you wanna make fast changes and really hit those goals, a money coach can help you stay on track even when it feels tough, even when you feel like giving up, even when it feels like the whole world is against you. A coach is there in your back pocket to help push you along the way and support you when you do need a break.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the <strong><em>Confident Money Mastermind</em></strong> – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
<li>Grab your Budget Starter Kit here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to the Money Mindset Podcast! Today, we&#39;re diving into a new series focused on hiring a money coach.</p>

<p>We&#39;ll explore the role of money coaches, providing day-to-day support with budgeting, overcoming financial obstacles, and staying accountable to your goals. Discover the importance of finding a coach whose values align with yours and learn key questions to ask in your search.</p>

<p>Join us in the next episode as we discuss when it&#39;s time to hire a money coach and when to navigate financial challenges independently.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“A money coach really helps you in the day-to-day money management &#39;cause that&#39;s where things are gonna change. You&#39;re not gonna make changes with a few things here and there through the years. You can make some small changes of course, but if you wanna make fast changes and really hit those goals, a money coach can help you stay on track even when it feels tough, even when you feel like giving up, even when it feels like the whole world is against you. A coach is there in your back pocket to help push you along the way and support you when you do need a break.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p>Ready to take control of your finances with personalized support? Introducing the <strong><em>Confident Money Mastermind</em></strong> – JUST FOR YOU!</p>

<p>This exclusive program is designed for individuals who want to make lasting financial changes with the guidance of 1:1 coaching and a supportive community, helping them save, pay off debt, and achieve their financial goals.</p>

<p>Our small group format guarantees tailored support and accountability. With only 10 spots available, apply now at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> to secure your spot and begin your journey to financial confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Join us inside the Confident Money Mastermind at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mastermind</a> </li>
<li>Grab your Budget Starter Kit here: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#198 What are you willing to do to reach your 2024 goal?</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/198</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 26 Dec 2023 07:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>198</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#198 What are you willing to do to reach your 2024 goal?</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Ever found yourself setting New Year's resolutions only to lose steam by February? Join us as we discuss how to break the cycle and make 2024 the year your financial goals become a reality.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>10:37</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you ready to kick off the new year with the best foot forward? 
We often set ambitious resolutions, only to find them slipping away by February. But 2024 can be different with a realistic and simple plan. 
Join us in this episode as we explore how to set achievable financial goals, stay motivated, and take practical steps to make your 2024 financial dreams a reality.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“When you set yourself up for success by making small changes over time, you will be able to do these things and you will be able to reach those goals and those New Year's resolutions to help set you up for success and kickstart the new year.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Setting realistic resolutions for 2024
01:44 - The Kickstart 2024 bundle
04:18 - Planning S.M.A.R.T. goals
05:40 - Creating an actionable plan with the 2024 Action Planner
07:23 - Importance of creating a priority list for your goals
08:03 - Shifting the Mindset that anything is possible temporarily
09:02 - Why your goals need to be worth the sacrifice
Ready to Finally Pay Off Debt and Actually Save Money in 2024.... without all the overthinking and procrastination? Kickstart your best year ever with the Kickstart 2024 Bundle! Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart to grab your bundle today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Kickstart 2024 Bundle: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>goal setting for 2024, how to reach your financial goal in 2024</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you ready to kick off the new year with the best foot forward? </p>

<p>We often set ambitious resolutions, only to find them slipping away by February. But 2024 can be different with a realistic and simple plan. </p>

<p>Join us in this episode as we explore how to set achievable financial goals, stay motivated, and take practical steps to make your 2024 financial dreams a reality.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“When you set yourself up for success by making small changes over time, you will be able to do these things and you will be able to reach those goals and those New Year&#39;s resolutions to help set you up for success and kickstart the new year.”</em> <br>
<strong><em>- Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Setting realistic resolutions for 2024<br>
01:44 - The Kickstart 2024 bundle<br>
04:18 - Planning S.M.A.R.T. goals<br>
05:40 - Creating an actionable plan with the 2024 Action Planner<br>
07:23 - Importance of creating a priority list for your goals<br>
08:03 - Shifting the Mindset that anything is possible temporarily<br>
09:02 - Why your goals need to be worth the sacrifice</p>

<p>Ready to Finally Pay Off Debt and Actually Save Money in 2024.... without all the overthinking and procrastination? Kickstart your best year ever with the <strong><em>Kickstart 2024 Bundle</em></strong>! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a> to grab your bundle today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Kickstart 2024 Bundle: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you ready to kick off the new year with the best foot forward? </p>

<p>We often set ambitious resolutions, only to find them slipping away by February. But 2024 can be different with a realistic and simple plan. </p>

<p>Join us in this episode as we explore how to set achievable financial goals, stay motivated, and take practical steps to make your 2024 financial dreams a reality.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“When you set yourself up for success by making small changes over time, you will be able to do these things and you will be able to reach those goals and those New Year&#39;s resolutions to help set you up for success and kickstart the new year.”</em> <br>
<strong><em>- Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Setting realistic resolutions for 2024<br>
01:44 - The Kickstart 2024 bundle<br>
04:18 - Planning S.M.A.R.T. goals<br>
05:40 - Creating an actionable plan with the 2024 Action Planner<br>
07:23 - Importance of creating a priority list for your goals<br>
08:03 - Shifting the Mindset that anything is possible temporarily<br>
09:02 - Why your goals need to be worth the sacrifice</p>

<p>Ready to Finally Pay Off Debt and Actually Save Money in 2024.... without all the overthinking and procrastination? Kickstart your best year ever with the <strong><em>Kickstart 2024 Bundle</em></strong>! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a> to grab your bundle today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Kickstart 2024 Bundle: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#188 How Often Should You Check Your Credit Report</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/188</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 16 Nov 2023 06:15:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/34dabff2-ab60-43f3-969f-776d08d950fe.mp3" length="19209428" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>188</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#188 How Often Should You Check Your Credit Report</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Now that the government has made it permanent to allow free weekly credit reports from the three credit bureaus, how often should you check it?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>13:20</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Welcome back to another episode of the Money Mindset podcast! Today, we're tackling a crucial question: "How often should you check your credit report?"
Things have changed, and now you can get a free report every week from each credit bureau in the US. We're here to guide you on the best way to use this free service without making it a weekly chore. 
Let's explore together how often you should really be keeping an eye on your credit and why it matters for your financial well-being.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“It's important to check it periodically. Put a freeze on your credit report so that, hopefully, new charges aren't brought, but it's not foolproof, like I said. Know your rights because consumer protections are there to help protect you. And so knowing what your options are when it comes to your credit score, your credit report is very important.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:54 - Introduction
01:34 - Frequency recommendations
03:02 - Checking your credit report regularly
05:01 - The importance of knowing your rights
07:51 - Freezing your credit report
10:55 - Implementing a routine
11:37 - Wrapping up and actionable steps
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Check your reports at www.AnnualCreditReport.com
* Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how often to check credit report</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to another episode of the Money Mindset podcast! Today, we&#39;re tackling a crucial question: &quot;How often should you check your credit report?&quot;</p>

<p>Things have changed, and now you can get a free report every week from each credit bureau in the US. We&#39;re here to guide you on the best way to use this free service without making it a weekly chore. </p>

<p>Let&#39;s explore together how often you should really be keeping an eye on your credit and why it matters for your financial well-being.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s important to check it periodically. Put a freeze on your credit report so that, hopefully, new charges aren&#39;t brought, but it&#39;s not foolproof, like I said. Know your rights because consumer protections are there to help protect you. And so knowing what your options are when it comes to your credit score, your credit report is very important.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:54 - Introduction<br>
01:34 - Frequency recommendations<br>
03:02 - Checking your credit report regularly<br>
05:01 - The importance of knowing your rights<br>
07:51 - Freezing your credit report<br>
10:55 - Implementing a routine<br>
11:37 - Wrapping up and actionable steps</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Check your reports at <a href="http://www.AnnualCreditReport.com" rel="nofollow">www.AnnualCreditReport.com</a></li>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to another episode of the Money Mindset podcast! Today, we&#39;re tackling a crucial question: &quot;How often should you check your credit report?&quot;</p>

<p>Things have changed, and now you can get a free report every week from each credit bureau in the US. We&#39;re here to guide you on the best way to use this free service without making it a weekly chore. </p>

<p>Let&#39;s explore together how often you should really be keeping an eye on your credit and why it matters for your financial well-being.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s important to check it periodically. Put a freeze on your credit report so that, hopefully, new charges aren&#39;t brought, but it&#39;s not foolproof, like I said. Know your rights because consumer protections are there to help protect you. And so knowing what your options are when it comes to your credit score, your credit report is very important.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:54 - Introduction<br>
01:34 - Frequency recommendations<br>
03:02 - Checking your credit report regularly<br>
05:01 - The importance of knowing your rights<br>
07:51 - Freezing your credit report<br>
10:55 - Implementing a routine<br>
11:37 - Wrapping up and actionable steps</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Check your reports at <a href="http://www.AnnualCreditReport.com" rel="nofollow">www.AnnualCreditReport.com</a></li>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
<item>
  <title>#183 How to Start a Money Routine</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/183</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 26 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/1ac58c3c-e5bb-4a0e-87fe-625af51f10fe.mp3" length="32615794" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>183</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#183 How to Start a Money Routine</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Struggling to maintain financial consistency? Find out why a money routine could be your secret weapon.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>22:38</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are your financial goals feeling out of reach? Join us in this episode as we explore the essential practice of establishing a money routine.
Learn to create a sustainable routine that ensures you keep progressing, even when motivation wanes. Tune in for practical tips on setting a productive schedule, staying accountable, and turning your financial actions into habits that you can execute on autopilot. 
Say goodbye to procrastination and hello to a sustainable money routine that works for you!
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“The more you can create that structure to your habits and your routines, the better off you're going to be in the long run because it's gonna keep you consistent, it's gonna keep you moving forward even when you are struggling. It really takes out the confusion and the overwhelm of what to do because you already have that structure in place of what to do. And as long as you just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep up with those habits and those routines that you start once, you don't have to use as much brain power to think about what you need to do” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:55 - Introduction to the importance of establishing a money routine 
04:26 - Navigating consistency in habits and routines
05:35 - Exploring what works for you
06:42 - How to start a money routine
08:28 - Put it in your calendar 
07:00 - Set yourself up for success
11:35 - Using a binder to set your financial goals
13:39 - Know what to work on by keeping a to-do list
16:03 - Set a timer while working on your routine
17:06 - Make it fun and reward yourself
19:25 - Have an accountability partner
20:45 - Track your progress with a 15-minute weekly check-in
Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you're going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?
If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the Money Success Club at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Money Success Club: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to start a money routine, money ritual, consistency with money habits</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are your financial goals feeling out of reach? Join us in this episode as we explore the essential practice of establishing a money routine.</p>

<p>Learn to create a sustainable routine that ensures you keep progressing, even when motivation wanes. Tune in for practical tips on setting a productive schedule, staying accountable, and turning your financial actions into habits that you can execute on autopilot. </p>

<p>Say goodbye to procrastination and hello to a sustainable money routine that works for you!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“The more you can create that structure to your habits and your routines, the better off you&#39;re going to be in the long run because it&#39;s gonna keep you consistent, it&#39;s gonna keep you moving forward even when you are struggling. It really takes out the confusion and the overwhelm of what to do because you already have that structure in place of what to do. And as long as you just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep up with those habits and those routines that you start once, you don&#39;t have to use as much brain power to think about what you need to do”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:55 - Introduction to the importance of establishing a money routine <br>
04:26 - Navigating consistency in habits and routines<br>
05:35 - Exploring what works for you<br>
06:42 - How to start a money routine<br>
08:28 - Put it in your calendar <br>
07:00 - Set yourself up for success<br>
11:35 - Using a binder to set your financial goals<br>
13:39 - Know what to work on by keeping a to-do list<br>
16:03 - Set a timer while working on your routine<br>
17:06 - Make it fun and reward yourself<br>
19:25 - Have an accountability partner<br>
20:45 - Track your progress with a 15-minute weekly check-in</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are your financial goals feeling out of reach? Join us in this episode as we explore the essential practice of establishing a money routine.</p>

<p>Learn to create a sustainable routine that ensures you keep progressing, even when motivation wanes. Tune in for practical tips on setting a productive schedule, staying accountable, and turning your financial actions into habits that you can execute on autopilot. </p>

<p>Say goodbye to procrastination and hello to a sustainable money routine that works for you!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“The more you can create that structure to your habits and your routines, the better off you&#39;re going to be in the long run because it&#39;s gonna keep you consistent, it&#39;s gonna keep you moving forward even when you are struggling. It really takes out the confusion and the overwhelm of what to do because you already have that structure in place of what to do. And as long as you just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep up with those habits and those routines that you start once, you don&#39;t have to use as much brain power to think about what you need to do”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:55 - Introduction to the importance of establishing a money routine <br>
04:26 - Navigating consistency in habits and routines<br>
05:35 - Exploring what works for you<br>
06:42 - How to start a money routine<br>
08:28 - Put it in your calendar <br>
07:00 - Set yourself up for success<br>
11:35 - Using a binder to set your financial goals<br>
13:39 - Know what to work on by keeping a to-do list<br>
16:03 - Set a timer while working on your routine<br>
17:06 - Make it fun and reward yourself<br>
19:25 - Have an accountability partner<br>
20:45 - Track your progress with a 15-minute weekly check-in</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#182 Should You Tithe While in Debt?</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/182</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 23 Oct 2023 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/c8e45018-96ad-4306-bdb2-2b6972ce5ac2.mp3" length="16191156" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>182</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#182 Should You Tithe While in Debt?</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Struggling with the decision of whether to prioritize tithing or paying off debt? Join us for practical insights on aligning your faith with your financial reality.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>11:14</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>In today's episode of the Money Mindset podcast, we tackle the sensitive yet crucial topic of tithing.
Whether you're dealing with substantial debt, struggling to make ends meet, or seeking clarity on your financial priorities, we explore the question of whether you should continue tithing, even when it's challenging.
Join us for a reflective discussion that delves into the connection between faith, finances, and personal values.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So don't feel bad, don't feel guilty if right now you need to pay off debt first because you're gonna be able to give back to your church and to your community in a lot bigger way once you are debt free. And in some ways it may even motivate you to do it even faster. Like if tithing is that important to you, use it as a motivator to get the debt paid off as fast as you can so that you can tithe and you can tithe more than what you are now.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:55 - Introduction to the complex world of tithing
04:28 - Prioritizing your money: Tithing or debt payoff?
07:02 - Alternative ways to tithe when finances are tight
07:49 - Finding the motivation to become debt-free
09:41 - Directing your money toward your most important goals
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy 
</description>
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    <![CDATA[<p>In today&#39;s episode of the Money Mindset podcast, we tackle the sensitive yet crucial topic of tithing.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re dealing with substantial debt, struggling to make ends meet, or seeking clarity on your financial priorities, we explore the question of whether you should continue tithing, even when it&#39;s challenging.</p>

<p>Join us for a reflective discussion that delves into the connection between faith, finances, and personal values.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So don&#39;t feel bad, don&#39;t feel guilty if right now you need to pay off debt first because you&#39;re gonna be able to give back to your church and to your community in a lot bigger way once you are debt free. And in some ways it may even motivate you to do it even faster. Like if tithing is that important to you, use it as a motivator to get the debt paid off as fast as you can so that you can tithe and you can tithe more than what you are now.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:55 - Introduction to the complex world of tithing<br>
04:28 - Prioritizing your money: Tithing or debt payoff?<br>
07:02 - Alternative ways to tithe when finances are tight<br>
07:49 - Finding the motivation to become debt-free<br>
09:41 - Directing your money toward your most important goals</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>In today&#39;s episode of the Money Mindset podcast, we tackle the sensitive yet crucial topic of tithing.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re dealing with substantial debt, struggling to make ends meet, or seeking clarity on your financial priorities, we explore the question of whether you should continue tithing, even when it&#39;s challenging.</p>

<p>Join us for a reflective discussion that delves into the connection between faith, finances, and personal values.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So don&#39;t feel bad, don&#39;t feel guilty if right now you need to pay off debt first because you&#39;re gonna be able to give back to your church and to your community in a lot bigger way once you are debt free. And in some ways it may even motivate you to do it even faster. Like if tithing is that important to you, use it as a motivator to get the debt paid off as fast as you can so that you can tithe and you can tithe more than what you are now.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:55 - Introduction to the complex world of tithing<br>
04:28 - Prioritizing your money: Tithing or debt payoff?<br>
07:02 - Alternative ways to tithe when finances are tight<br>
07:49 - Finding the motivation to become debt-free<br>
09:41 - Directing your money toward your most important goals</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Grab your FREE Budget Starter Kit at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#181 Why Parents Need to Put Their Own Financial Oxygen Masks on First</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/181</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2023 06:15:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>181</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#181 Why Parents Need to Put Their Own Financial Oxygen Masks on First</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you torn between prioritizing your retirement savings and saving for your children's college education? Discover how to strike the right balance in this episode.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>27:25</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Welcome back to another episode of the Money Mindset podcast. In this special episode, we're joined by award-winning blogger and podcaster Andy Hill from Marriage Kids and Money. 
We'll be discussing why parents should prioritize their financial well-being before helping their children. The debate between saving for retirement and college expenses is a hot topic, and Andy shares valuable insights and strategies for maintaining your financial stability while preparing your kids for the real world. 
Don't miss this enlightening conversation!
Meet Andy!
Andy Hill is the award-winning family finance coach behind Marriage Kids and Money - a platform dedicated to helping young families build wealth and happiness. 
Andy's advice and personal finance experience have been featured in major media outlets like CNBC, Forbes, MarketWatch, Kiplinger’s Personal Finance and NBC News. With millions of podcast downloads and video views, Andy’s message of family financial empowerment has resonated with listeners, readers and viewers across the world.   
When he's not "talking money", Andy enjoys being a Soccer Dad, singing karaoke with his wife and relaxing on his hammock. 
“We need to start making some decisions that are for our personal betterment because our kids have a resource that a lot of us don't have, is they have got a lot more time. They've got a lot more time on their side to build wealth, to take care of their future, to do the things they need to do to create the life that they have. So whether that's investing or earning their own money or choosing career paths that work best for them, they've got time on their side. We're a little older. We don't have as much time, maybe not as much energy either to make all these things happen. So we're gonna have to make some decisions that are really best for our personal future.” 
- Andy Hill
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to the episode
02:36 - Meet our special guest, Andy Hill from Marriage Kids and Money
04:01 - The importance of teaching kids to become independent
06:44 - Establishing boundaries with older children
09:32 - Teaching kids family and financial responsibilities
14:55 - Deciding between saving for college and retirement
19:18 - Last words of wisdom
23:12 - Resources for teaching children about money and financial planning
24:44 - Andy's book recommendation
26:30 - Connect with Andy
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* A free section of my new course Make My Kid a Millionaire!: www.marriagekidsandmoney.com/AshelyP
* Budget Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start 
Book Recommendation:
* Die With Zero by Bill Perkins
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Andy:
* Website: www.marriagekidsandmoney.com
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/MarriageKidsandMoney
* Facebook: www.facebook.com/MarriageKidsandMoney
* Twitter: www.twitter.com/AndyHillMKM
* LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/AndyHillMKM 
 Special Guest: Andy Hill.
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>saving for retirement and college</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to another episode of the Money Mindset podcast. In this special episode, we&#39;re joined by award-winning blogger and podcaster Andy Hill from Marriage Kids and Money. </p>

<p>We&#39;ll be discussing why parents should prioritize their financial well-being before helping their children. The debate between saving for retirement and college expenses is a hot topic, and Andy shares valuable insights and strategies for maintaining your financial stability while preparing your kids for the real world. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss this enlightening conversation!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Andy!</strong><br>
Andy Hill is the award-winning family finance coach behind Marriage Kids and Money - a platform dedicated to helping young families build wealth and happiness. </p>

<p>Andy&#39;s advice and personal finance experience have been featured in major media outlets like CNBC, Forbes, MarketWatch, Kiplinger’s Personal Finance and NBC News. With millions of podcast downloads and video views, Andy’s message of family financial empowerment has resonated with listeners, readers and viewers across the world.   </p>

<p>When he&#39;s not &quot;talking money&quot;, Andy enjoys being a Soccer Dad, singing karaoke with his wife and relaxing on his hammock. </p>

<p><em>“We need to start making some decisions that are for our personal betterment because our kids have a resource that a lot of us don&#39;t have, is they have got a lot more time. They&#39;ve got a lot more time on their side to build wealth, to take care of their future, to do the things they need to do to create the life that they have. So whether that&#39;s investing or earning their own money or choosing career paths that work best for them, they&#39;ve got time on their side. We&#39;re a little older. We don&#39;t have as much time, maybe not as much energy either to make all these things happen. So we&#39;re gonna have to make some decisions that are really best for our personal future.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Andy Hill</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to the episode<br>
02:36 - Meet our special guest, Andy Hill from Marriage Kids and Money<br>
04:01 - The importance of teaching kids to become independent<br>
06:44 - Establishing boundaries with older children<br>
09:32 - Teaching kids family and financial responsibilities<br>
14:55 - Deciding between saving for college and retirement<br>
19:18 - Last words of wisdom<br>
23:12 - Resources for teaching children about money and financial planning<br>
24:44 - Andy&#39;s book recommendation<br>
26:30 - Connect with Andy</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>A free section of my new course Make My Kid a Millionaire!: <a href="http://www.marriagekidsandmoney.com/AshelyP" rel="nofollow">www.marriagekidsandmoney.com/AshelyP</a></li>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Die With Zero by Bill Perkins</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Andy:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.marriagekidsandmoney.com" rel="nofollow">www.marriagekidsandmoney.com</a></li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/MarriageKidsandMoney" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/MarriageKidsandMoney</a></li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/MarriageKidsandMoney" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/MarriageKidsandMoney</a></li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="http://www.twitter.com/AndyHillMKM" rel="nofollow">www.twitter.com/AndyHillMKM</a></li>
<li>LinkedIn: <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/AndyHillMKM" rel="nofollow">www.linkedin.com/AndyHillMKM</a> </li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Andy Hill.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to another episode of the Money Mindset podcast. In this special episode, we&#39;re joined by award-winning blogger and podcaster Andy Hill from Marriage Kids and Money. </p>

<p>We&#39;ll be discussing why parents should prioritize their financial well-being before helping their children. The debate between saving for retirement and college expenses is a hot topic, and Andy shares valuable insights and strategies for maintaining your financial stability while preparing your kids for the real world. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss this enlightening conversation!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Andy!</strong><br>
Andy Hill is the award-winning family finance coach behind Marriage Kids and Money - a platform dedicated to helping young families build wealth and happiness. </p>

<p>Andy&#39;s advice and personal finance experience have been featured in major media outlets like CNBC, Forbes, MarketWatch, Kiplinger’s Personal Finance and NBC News. With millions of podcast downloads and video views, Andy’s message of family financial empowerment has resonated with listeners, readers and viewers across the world.   </p>

<p>When he&#39;s not &quot;talking money&quot;, Andy enjoys being a Soccer Dad, singing karaoke with his wife and relaxing on his hammock. </p>

<p><em>“We need to start making some decisions that are for our personal betterment because our kids have a resource that a lot of us don&#39;t have, is they have got a lot more time. They&#39;ve got a lot more time on their side to build wealth, to take care of their future, to do the things they need to do to create the life that they have. So whether that&#39;s investing or earning their own money or choosing career paths that work best for them, they&#39;ve got time on their side. We&#39;re a little older. We don&#39;t have as much time, maybe not as much energy either to make all these things happen. So we&#39;re gonna have to make some decisions that are really best for our personal future.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Andy Hill</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to the episode<br>
02:36 - Meet our special guest, Andy Hill from Marriage Kids and Money<br>
04:01 - The importance of teaching kids to become independent<br>
06:44 - Establishing boundaries with older children<br>
09:32 - Teaching kids family and financial responsibilities<br>
14:55 - Deciding between saving for college and retirement<br>
19:18 - Last words of wisdom<br>
23:12 - Resources for teaching children about money and financial planning<br>
24:44 - Andy&#39;s book recommendation<br>
26:30 - Connect with Andy</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>A free section of my new course Make My Kid a Millionaire!: <a href="http://www.marriagekidsandmoney.com/AshelyP" rel="nofollow">www.marriagekidsandmoney.com/AshelyP</a></li>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Die With Zero by Bill Perkins</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Andy:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.marriagekidsandmoney.com" rel="nofollow">www.marriagekidsandmoney.com</a></li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/MarriageKidsandMoney" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/MarriageKidsandMoney</a></li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/MarriageKidsandMoney" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/MarriageKidsandMoney</a></li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="http://www.twitter.com/AndyHillMKM" rel="nofollow">www.twitter.com/AndyHillMKM</a></li>
<li>LinkedIn: <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/AndyHillMKM" rel="nofollow">www.linkedin.com/AndyHillMKM</a> </li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Andy Hill.</p>]]>
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  <title>#180 Budget Must Dos When Redecorating or Remodeling</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/180</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 09 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>180</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#180 Budget Must Dos When Redecorating or Remodeling</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Ever wondered how to achieve your dream home makeover without blowing your budget? Tune in as Gabriella Milgrom takes us on a journey through the art of cost-effective home renovations, revealing practical tips and strategies to make your vision a reality.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>40:42</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Have you ever wondered how to transform your home without breaking the bank?
Join us in this enlightening podcast episode as we have a conversation with Gabriella, a home design and building expert. We'll dive into the typical budget pitfalls that can swiftly turn your renovation dreams into a financial nightmare. Gabriella will share invaluable tips on how to prioritize your renovation projects and avoid these common budget traps.
Tune in for a dose of inspiration and practical advice that will assist you in turning your living space into a masterpiece, all while ensuring your wallet stays happy. Get ready to embark on your home renovation journey with confidence!
Meet Gabriella!
Gabriella, is an accredited interior designer and professional project manager that’s been in the design and construction industry for over 12 years designing and managing multi-million dollar residential projects, commercial spaces and hospitals. Gabriella teaches women how to create their dream home, the right way from the start, by combining the key design drivers and desires with the needed management tactics to build the home they’ve always dreamed about, without losing time, money, and their sanity in the process.
“In terms of really being able to plan accordingly and not end up in those moments where you're like, I've run outta money. The biggest tips that I can give you is to plan accordingly from a contingency fund and also create a reserve fund.” 
- Gabriella Milgrom
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction: Meet Gabriella
03:57 - Redecorating and remodeling mistakes to avoid 
08:24 - The importance of upfront planning
11:59 - Prioritizing renovation tasks and creating a budget hierarchy
15:50 - Dealing with unexpected expenses and preparing a contingency fund
25:11 - Understanding lead times and creating a project timeline
32:13 - Resources for those new to design and project planning
38:32 - Wrapping up the episode and final thoughts
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* House to Home challenge- free 3 week design challenge : https://www.gabriellamilgrom.co/house-to-home-challenge
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Gabriella:
* Website: http://www.gabriellamilgrom.co
* Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/gabriellamilgrom.co
* Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOZKmD6XbeABRiQ4mIMBQ Special Guest: Gabriella Milgrom.
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  <itunes:keywords>redecorating on a budget, saving money on decorating, remodeling on a budget</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered how to transform your home without breaking the bank?</p>

<p>Join us in this enlightening podcast episode as we have a conversation with Gabriella, a home design and building expert. We&#39;ll dive into the typical budget pitfalls that can swiftly turn your renovation dreams into a financial nightmare. Gabriella will share invaluable tips on how to prioritize your renovation projects and avoid these common budget traps.</p>

<p>Tune in for a dose of inspiration and practical advice that will assist you in turning your living space into a masterpiece, all while ensuring your wallet stays happy. Get ready to embark on your home renovation journey with confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Gabriella!</strong></p>

<p>Gabriella, is an accredited interior designer and professional project manager that’s been in the design and construction industry for over 12 years designing and managing multi-million dollar residential projects, commercial spaces and hospitals. Gabriella teaches women how to create their dream home, the right way from the start, by combining the key design drivers and desires with the needed management tactics to build the home they’ve always dreamed about, without losing time, money, and their sanity in the process.</p>

<p><em>“In terms of really being able to plan accordingly and not end up in those moments where you&#39;re like, I&#39;ve run outta money. The biggest tips that I can give you is to plan accordingly from a contingency fund and also create a reserve fund.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Gabriella Milgrom</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction: Meet Gabriella<br>
03:57 - Redecorating and remodeling mistakes to avoid <br>
08:24 - The importance of upfront planning<br>
11:59 - Prioritizing renovation tasks and creating a budget hierarchy<br>
15:50 - Dealing with unexpected expenses and preparing a contingency fund<br>
25:11 - Understanding lead times and creating a project timeline<br>
32:13 - Resources for those new to design and project planning<br>
38:32 - Wrapping up the episode and final thoughts</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>House to Home challenge- free 3 week design challenge : <a href="https://www.gabriellamilgrom.co/house-to-home-challenge" rel="nofollow">https://www.gabriellamilgrom.co/house-to-home-challenge</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Gabriella:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.gabriellamilgrom.co" rel="nofollow">http://www.gabriellamilgrom.co</a></li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/gabriellamilgrom.co" rel="nofollow">http://www.instagram.com/gabriellamilgrom.co</a></li>
<li>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOZKmD6X_beABRiQ_4mIMBQ" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOZKmD6X_beABRiQ_4mIMBQ</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Gabriella Milgrom.</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered how to transform your home without breaking the bank?</p>

<p>Join us in this enlightening podcast episode as we have a conversation with Gabriella, a home design and building expert. We&#39;ll dive into the typical budget pitfalls that can swiftly turn your renovation dreams into a financial nightmare. Gabriella will share invaluable tips on how to prioritize your renovation projects and avoid these common budget traps.</p>

<p>Tune in for a dose of inspiration and practical advice that will assist you in turning your living space into a masterpiece, all while ensuring your wallet stays happy. Get ready to embark on your home renovation journey with confidence!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Gabriella!</strong></p>

<p>Gabriella, is an accredited interior designer and professional project manager that’s been in the design and construction industry for over 12 years designing and managing multi-million dollar residential projects, commercial spaces and hospitals. Gabriella teaches women how to create their dream home, the right way from the start, by combining the key design drivers and desires with the needed management tactics to build the home they’ve always dreamed about, without losing time, money, and their sanity in the process.</p>

<p><em>“In terms of really being able to plan accordingly and not end up in those moments where you&#39;re like, I&#39;ve run outta money. The biggest tips that I can give you is to plan accordingly from a contingency fund and also create a reserve fund.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Gabriella Milgrom</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction: Meet Gabriella<br>
03:57 - Redecorating and remodeling mistakes to avoid <br>
08:24 - The importance of upfront planning<br>
11:59 - Prioritizing renovation tasks and creating a budget hierarchy<br>
15:50 - Dealing with unexpected expenses and preparing a contingency fund<br>
25:11 - Understanding lead times and creating a project timeline<br>
32:13 - Resources for those new to design and project planning<br>
38:32 - Wrapping up the episode and final thoughts</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE <strong><em>Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>House to Home challenge- free 3 week design challenge : <a href="https://www.gabriellamilgrom.co/house-to-home-challenge" rel="nofollow">https://www.gabriellamilgrom.co/house-to-home-challenge</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Gabriella:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.gabriellamilgrom.co" rel="nofollow">http://www.gabriellamilgrom.co</a></li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/gabriellamilgrom.co" rel="nofollow">http://www.instagram.com/gabriellamilgrom.co</a></li>
<li>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOZKmD6X_beABRiQ_4mIMBQ" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOZKmD6X_beABRiQ_4mIMBQ</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Gabriella Milgrom.</p>]]>
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  <title>#179 Procrastination is not Laziness</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/179</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 05 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>179</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#179 Procrastination is not Laziness</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you ever felt like procrastination was a sign of laziness? Discover the surprising truth behind this common misconception.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>6:42</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Welcome to another episode of the Money Mindset Podcast with your host, Ashley, creator of Budgets Made Easy. Today, we're diving into a common issue that plagues many, the feeling of laziness when it comes to managing finances. 
Ashley uncovers the real reason behind procrastination and how fear often disguises itself as laziness.
Join her as she reveals how to break free from this mindset and get on the path to financial success.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“It's not about doing things the right way from the beginning. You just have to get going and try different things. You just have to be willing to try and willing to get past the fear of failing or not doing it the right way because you're not gonna be able to succeed if you don't even try, right? So you're not lazy, you're not dumb, you just need to get started and quote unquote, get on the right track, right head in the right direction, which the right direction for you is wherever you want to go. There is no right or wrong when it comes to where you want to end up.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - The Truth About Procrastination
00:48 - Being an overthinking perfectionist
02:06 - There is no right or wrong way
03:15 - Figuring out what will work for you
04:55 - The empowering community of Money Success Club
Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you're going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?
If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the Money Success Club at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Money Success Club: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>productivity, time management, money management, budgeting</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to another episode of the Money Mindset Podcast with your host, Ashley, creator of Budgets Made Easy. Today, we&#39;re diving into a common issue that plagues many, the feeling of laziness when it comes to managing finances. </p>

<p>Ashley uncovers the real reason behind procrastination and how fear often disguises itself as laziness.</p>

<p>Join her as she reveals how to break free from this mindset and get on the path to financial success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s not about doing things the right way from the beginning. You just have to get going and try different things. You just have to be willing to try and willing to get past the fear of failing or not doing it the right way because you&#39;re not gonna be able to succeed if you don&#39;t even try, right? So you&#39;re not lazy, you&#39;re not dumb, you just need to get started and quote unquote, get on the right track, right head in the right direction, which the right direction for you is wherever you want to go. There is no right or wrong when it comes to where you want to end up.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - The Truth About Procrastination<br>
00:48 - Being an overthinking perfectionist<br>
02:06 - There is no right or wrong way<br>
03:15 - Figuring out what will work for you<br>
04:55 - The empowering community of Money Success Club</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to another episode of the Money Mindset Podcast with your host, Ashley, creator of Budgets Made Easy. Today, we&#39;re diving into a common issue that plagues many, the feeling of laziness when it comes to managing finances. </p>

<p>Ashley uncovers the real reason behind procrastination and how fear often disguises itself as laziness.</p>

<p>Join her as she reveals how to break free from this mindset and get on the path to financial success.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s not about doing things the right way from the beginning. You just have to get going and try different things. You just have to be willing to try and willing to get past the fear of failing or not doing it the right way because you&#39;re not gonna be able to succeed if you don&#39;t even try, right? So you&#39;re not lazy, you&#39;re not dumb, you just need to get started and quote unquote, get on the right track, right head in the right direction, which the right direction for you is wherever you want to go. There is no right or wrong when it comes to where you want to end up.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - The Truth About Procrastination<br>
00:48 - Being an overthinking perfectionist<br>
02:06 - There is no right or wrong way<br>
03:15 - Figuring out what will work for you<br>
04:55 - The empowering community of Money Success Club</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#178 "I suck with money" and other mindsets holding us back</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/178</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 02 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/53043034-4a26-47f4-9a2f-5b678208957a.mp3" length="12014556" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>178</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#178 "I suck with money" and other mindsets holding us back</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Ever felt like you're too old, lazy, or just not good with money?

Discover how these beliefs can impact your financial journey.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>8:20</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are negative thoughts about your finances holding you back from achieving your money goals? 
Join Ashley on this enlightening episode of the Money Mindset Podcast as she breaks down the damaging mindsets that can hinder your financial success. Discover why you're not alone in facing these challenges and how you can overcome them to take control of your money. 
Get ready for a shift in perspective that will empower you to make positive changes in your financial life!
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“I want you to know that you aren't struggling with your finances because you are lazy, dumb, or too old, but those thoughts and mindsets about yourself and those things that you think about yourself that are negative are holding you back from reaching your financial goals.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Money Success Club success story
02:16 - The impact of negative financial mindsets
03:11 - Addressing common negative beliefs about money
04:22 - Real-life transformation: Kelly's journey to financial success
07:06 - How to take control of your finances
Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you're going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?
If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the Money Success Club at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Money Success Club: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money mindset, success story, how to control your finances, money struggles</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are negative thoughts about your finances holding you back from achieving your money goals? </p>

<p>Join Ashley on this enlightening episode of the Money Mindset Podcast as she breaks down the damaging mindsets that can hinder your financial success. Discover why you&#39;re not alone in facing these challenges and how you can overcome them to take control of your money. </p>

<p>Get ready for a shift in perspective that will empower you to make positive changes in your financial life!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“I want you to know that you aren&#39;t struggling with your finances because you are lazy, dumb, or too old, but those thoughts and mindsets about yourself and those things that you think about yourself that are negative are holding you back from reaching your financial goals.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Money Success Club success story<br>
02:16 - The impact of negative financial mindsets<br>
03:11 - Addressing common negative beliefs about money<br>
04:22 - Real-life transformation: Kelly&#39;s journey to financial success<br>
07:06 - How to take control of your finances</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are negative thoughts about your finances holding you back from achieving your money goals? </p>

<p>Join Ashley on this enlightening episode of the Money Mindset Podcast as she breaks down the damaging mindsets that can hinder your financial success. Discover why you&#39;re not alone in facing these challenges and how you can overcome them to take control of your money. </p>

<p>Get ready for a shift in perspective that will empower you to make positive changes in your financial life!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“I want you to know that you aren&#39;t struggling with your finances because you are lazy, dumb, or too old, but those thoughts and mindsets about yourself and those things that you think about yourself that are negative are holding you back from reaching your financial goals.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Money Success Club success story<br>
02:16 - The impact of negative financial mindsets<br>
03:11 - Addressing common negative beliefs about money<br>
04:22 - Real-life transformation: Kelly&#39;s journey to financial success<br>
07:06 - How to take control of your finances</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#176 Quick Fix vs Long-Term Strategy</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/176</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 14 Sep 2023 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/2e8fa9e3-d7a9-4b41-8c6a-489129d1cc78.mp3" length="25476858" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>176</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#176 Quick Fix vs Long-Term Strategy</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you find yourself looking for a quick fix like a planner or spreadsheet to finally get your finances together?

While there are some helpful quick fixes, most are not going to help you in the long-term.

Long-term strategy is how you will change your finances and start living the life you want.

If you want to join us for the Money Roadmap to Freedom 5 part DRIVE Framework training series save your seat at https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/money-roadmap-bootcamp/

I can't wait to see you there!

Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @budgetsmadeeasy</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>17:41</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you stuck in a rut, feeling overwhelmed about getting your finances in order for retirement or other life goals?
Join us in this insightful episode as we delve into the mindsets of quick fixes versus long-term financial strategies. Discover the pros and cons of each approach and how they impact your financial journey and overall life. 
Tune in to learn why recognizing the need for a quick fix is just the beginning, and how embracing a long-term strategy can lead to lasting financial freedom and personal growth.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“But I want you to start thinking about things with that long-term strategy in mind instead of the day to day, what do I need to do today to get me through to tomorrow? And when you can have that shift, and I realize that takes time and to a certain extent takes a little bit of privilege, but even just mentally preparing yourself like anybody can do that, right? It is going to set you up for that long-term strategy so that you can see the opportunities when they present themselves. So when things come up, you are making a decision based on the long-term instead of the quick fix that is not gonna really help your situation overall, but it feels like it is.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:54 - How to join the Money Roadmap to Freedom
01:53 - Introduction to the episode
02:21 - The Temptation of Quick Fixes
03:59 - Examples of Quick Fixes
04:51 - Understanding the significance of  Long-Term Strategy
05:16 - Examples of Long-Term Strategy 
06:17 - The Power of Long-Term Strategy
10:39 - The importance of having a support system
11:38 - Setting Boundaries around your money
14:01 - Changing jobs for a Long-Term Strategy
16:19 - Final words of wisdom
If you want to join us for the Money Roadmap to Freedom 5 part DRIVE Framework training series save your seat at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
I can't wait to see you there!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Money Roadmap to Freedom Bootcamp: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
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  <itunes:keywords>money success, how to be successful with money, how to budget for success</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Are you stuck in a rut, feeling overwhelmed about getting your finances in order for retirement or other life goals?</p>

<p>Join us in this insightful episode as we delve into the mindsets of quick fixes versus long-term financial strategies. Discover the pros and cons of each approach and how they impact your financial journey and overall life. </p>

<p>Tune in to learn why recognizing the need for a quick fix is just the beginning, and how embracing a long-term strategy can lead to lasting financial freedom and personal growth.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“But I want you to start thinking about things with that long-term strategy in mind instead of the day to day, what do I need to do today to get me through to tomorrow? And when you can have that shift, and I realize that takes time and to a certain extent takes a little bit of privilege, but even just mentally preparing yourself like anybody can do that, right? It is going to set you up for that long-term strategy so that you can see the opportunities when they present themselves. So when things come up, you are making a decision based on the long-term instead of the quick fix that is not gonna really help your situation overall, but it feels like it is.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:54 - How to join the Money Roadmap to Freedom<br>
01:53 - Introduction to the episode<br>
02:21 - The Temptation of Quick Fixes<br>
03:59 - Examples of Quick Fixes<br>
04:51 - Understanding the significance of  Long-Term Strategy<br>
05:16 - Examples of Long-Term Strategy <br>
06:17 - The Power of Long-Term Strategy<br>
10:39 - The importance of having a support system<br>
11:38 - Setting Boundaries around your money<br>
14:01 - Changing jobs for a Long-Term Strategy<br>
16:19 - Final words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you want to join us for the <strong><em>Money Roadmap to Freedom</em></strong> 5 part DRIVE Framework training series save your seat at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p>I can&#39;t wait to see you there!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Roadmap to Freedom Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you stuck in a rut, feeling overwhelmed about getting your finances in order for retirement or other life goals?</p>

<p>Join us in this insightful episode as we delve into the mindsets of quick fixes versus long-term financial strategies. Discover the pros and cons of each approach and how they impact your financial journey and overall life. </p>

<p>Tune in to learn why recognizing the need for a quick fix is just the beginning, and how embracing a long-term strategy can lead to lasting financial freedom and personal growth.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“But I want you to start thinking about things with that long-term strategy in mind instead of the day to day, what do I need to do today to get me through to tomorrow? And when you can have that shift, and I realize that takes time and to a certain extent takes a little bit of privilege, but even just mentally preparing yourself like anybody can do that, right? It is going to set you up for that long-term strategy so that you can see the opportunities when they present themselves. So when things come up, you are making a decision based on the long-term instead of the quick fix that is not gonna really help your situation overall, but it feels like it is.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:54 - How to join the Money Roadmap to Freedom<br>
01:53 - Introduction to the episode<br>
02:21 - The Temptation of Quick Fixes<br>
03:59 - Examples of Quick Fixes<br>
04:51 - Understanding the significance of  Long-Term Strategy<br>
05:16 - Examples of Long-Term Strategy <br>
06:17 - The Power of Long-Term Strategy<br>
10:39 - The importance of having a support system<br>
11:38 - Setting Boundaries around your money<br>
14:01 - Changing jobs for a Long-Term Strategy<br>
16:19 - Final words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you want to join us for the <strong><em>Money Roadmap to Freedom</em></strong> 5 part DRIVE Framework training series save your seat at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></p>

<p>I can&#39;t wait to see you there!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Roadmap to Freedom Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/training</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#170 How 2 Teachers are paying off $400,000 in debt!</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 17 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#170 How 2 Teachers are paying off $400,000 in debt!</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Who doesn't love a good debt pay off story?

In this episode Cara with A Purpose Driven Mom shares her journey of paying off $400,000 and she isn't done yet! But she's made a huge impact despite a lot of ups and downs over the past 10 years.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>44:41</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>In this episode, we have a special guest, Cara Harvey, who is back on the Money Mindset podcast to share her debt pay off journey.
Cara, the creator and founder of "A Purpose Driven Mom," previously talked about productivity and prioritizing time and money in episode 53. Today, she shares how she and her husband, both teachers, managed to pay off a couple hundred thousand dollars in debt despite facing job losses along the way. Cara's story is a realistic and inspiring example of how financial goals can be achieved through perseverance and smart money management. 
Tune in to hear her tips and insights on staying focused, navigating financial challenges, and making progress towards becoming debt-free.
Meet Cara!
Cara is a wife, mom to a 16-year-old stepson, 7-year-old daughter, 5-year-old son, and a woman of God. She works as a productivity coach for work at home moms  and her mission is to provide women with the tools, resources, and community to reach their goals, empower themselves, find their happiness, and live a life by design. She does this via her blog, podcast "The Purpose Driven Mom Show", virtual community groups, and e-courses that help moms figure out how to grow and scale a business without hustle, shame, or guilt
“So I always, always say before you jump in, take a pause and go into this baseline and add in that dream phase while you're going through, while you're acknowledging the spending, while you're just paying attention. Start to think what would I do with this money if I didn't spend it on this? What would I like to do? Allow yourself to dream. I think a lot of times when we're in a lot of debt we feel like we can't dream about things like that cuz we don't deserve it, we didn't earn it. I'm so bad with my money already. I don't have the money for this. You deserve to dream, you deserve to make goals. But like when you start to like think about it and open your brain up to it, your brain will start to see other possibilities of it and it starts to become realistic. If you don't ever allow yourself to dream, then your brain is gonna shut off there.” 
- Cara Harvey
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to today's episode
05:59 - Meet Cara!
07:20 - Cara's financial  journey
17:05 - Balancing roles and tracking in financial planning
21:09 - App for expense tracking and category management
21:44 - The importance of finding a system that works for you and your partner
28:12 - Balancing smaller financial goals and bigger financial goals
32:44 - Preparing for potential income loss and unexpected financial challenges
35:10 - Starting with a baseline and creating realistic goals
40:24 - Cara’s book recommendations
42:04 - Where to follow Cara
42:34 - Last words of wisdom
If you need help paying off your debt, go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your Paying Off Debt Starter Kit. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Book Recommendation:
* The 15 Minute Formula: How Busy Moms Can Ditch the Guilt, Say Yes to What Matters and Conquer Their Goals by Cara Harvey
* Drive Your Own Darn Bus by Julia Kristina
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Cara:
* Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/purpose-driven-mom-show/id1465377461
* Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/cara4384
* Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/findyourawesome/ 
* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apurposedrivenmom/ 
* Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3rmBh--3wrq9nEOs2ZcCYg
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  <itunes:keywords>teachers paying off debt, student loan debt, paying off $400,000 in debt, how to pay off large amounts of debt</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we have a special guest, Cara Harvey, who is back on the Money Mindset podcast to share her debt pay off journey.</p>

<p>Cara, the creator and founder of &quot;A Purpose Driven Mom,&quot; previously talked about productivity and prioritizing time and money in episode 53. Today, she shares how she and her husband, both teachers, managed to pay off a couple hundred thousand dollars in debt despite facing job losses along the way. Cara&#39;s story is a realistic and inspiring example of how financial goals can be achieved through perseverance and smart money management. </p>

<p>Tune in to hear her tips and insights on staying focused, navigating financial challenges, and making progress towards becoming debt-free.</p>

<p><strong>Meet Cara!</strong><br>
Cara is a wife, mom to a 16-year-old stepson, 7-year-old daughter, 5-year-old son, and a woman of God. She works as a productivity coach for work at home moms  and her mission is to provide women with the tools, resources, and community to reach their goals, empower themselves, find their happiness, and live a life by design. She does this via her blog, podcast &quot;The Purpose Driven Mom Show&quot;, virtual community groups, and e-courses that help moms figure out how to grow and scale a business without hustle, shame, or guilt</p>

<p><em>“So I always, always say before you jump in, take a pause and go into this baseline and add in that dream phase while you&#39;re going through, while you&#39;re acknowledging the spending, while you&#39;re just paying attention. Start to think what would I do with this money if I didn&#39;t spend it on this? What would I like to do? Allow yourself to dream. I think a lot of times when we&#39;re in a lot of debt we feel like we can&#39;t dream about things like that cuz we don&#39;t deserve it, we didn&#39;t earn it. I&#39;m so bad with my money already. I don&#39;t have the money for this. You deserve to dream, you deserve to make goals. But like when you start to like think about it and open your brain up to it, your brain will start to see other possibilities of it and it starts to become realistic. If you don&#39;t ever allow yourself to dream, then your brain is gonna shut off there.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Cara Harvey</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
05:59 - Meet Cara!<br>
07:20 - Cara&#39;s financial  journey<br>
17:05 - Balancing roles and tracking in financial planning<br>
21:09 - App for expense tracking and category management<br>
21:44 - The importance of finding a system that works for you and your partner<br>
28:12 - Balancing smaller financial goals and bigger financial goals<br>
32:44 - Preparing for potential income loss and unexpected financial challenges<br>
35:10 - Starting with a baseline and creating realistic goals<br>
40:24 - Cara’s book recommendations<br>
42:04 - Where to follow Cara<br>
42:34 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a> for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The 15 Minute Formula: How Busy Moms Can Ditch the Guilt, Say Yes to What Matters and Conquer Their Goals by Cara Harvey</li>
<li>Drive Your Own Darn Bus by Julia Kristina</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Cara:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/purpose-driven-mom-show/id1465377461" rel="nofollow">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/purpose-driven-mom-show/id1465377461</a></li>
<li>Facebook Page: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/cara4384" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/cara4384</a></li>
<li>Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/findyourawesome/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/findyourawesome/</a> </li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/apurposedrivenmom/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/apurposedrivenmom/</a> </li>
<li>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3rmBh--3wrq9nEOs2ZcCYg" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3rmBh--3wrq9nEOs2ZcCYg</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we have a special guest, Cara Harvey, who is back on the Money Mindset podcast to share her debt pay off journey.</p>

<p>Cara, the creator and founder of &quot;A Purpose Driven Mom,&quot; previously talked about productivity and prioritizing time and money in episode 53. Today, she shares how she and her husband, both teachers, managed to pay off a couple hundred thousand dollars in debt despite facing job losses along the way. Cara&#39;s story is a realistic and inspiring example of how financial goals can be achieved through perseverance and smart money management. </p>

<p>Tune in to hear her tips and insights on staying focused, navigating financial challenges, and making progress towards becoming debt-free.</p>

<p><strong>Meet Cara!</strong><br>
Cara is a wife, mom to a 16-year-old stepson, 7-year-old daughter, 5-year-old son, and a woman of God. She works as a productivity coach for work at home moms  and her mission is to provide women with the tools, resources, and community to reach their goals, empower themselves, find their happiness, and live a life by design. She does this via her blog, podcast &quot;The Purpose Driven Mom Show&quot;, virtual community groups, and e-courses that help moms figure out how to grow and scale a business without hustle, shame, or guilt</p>

<p><em>“So I always, always say before you jump in, take a pause and go into this baseline and add in that dream phase while you&#39;re going through, while you&#39;re acknowledging the spending, while you&#39;re just paying attention. Start to think what would I do with this money if I didn&#39;t spend it on this? What would I like to do? Allow yourself to dream. I think a lot of times when we&#39;re in a lot of debt we feel like we can&#39;t dream about things like that cuz we don&#39;t deserve it, we didn&#39;t earn it. I&#39;m so bad with my money already. I don&#39;t have the money for this. You deserve to dream, you deserve to make goals. But like when you start to like think about it and open your brain up to it, your brain will start to see other possibilities of it and it starts to become realistic. If you don&#39;t ever allow yourself to dream, then your brain is gonna shut off there.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Cara Harvey</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
05:59 - Meet Cara!<br>
07:20 - Cara&#39;s financial  journey<br>
17:05 - Balancing roles and tracking in financial planning<br>
21:09 - App for expense tracking and category management<br>
21:44 - The importance of finding a system that works for you and your partner<br>
28:12 - Balancing smaller financial goals and bigger financial goals<br>
32:44 - Preparing for potential income loss and unexpected financial challenges<br>
35:10 - Starting with a baseline and creating realistic goals<br>
40:24 - Cara’s book recommendations<br>
42:04 - Where to follow Cara<br>
42:34 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a> for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The 15 Minute Formula: How Busy Moms Can Ditch the Guilt, Say Yes to What Matters and Conquer Their Goals by Cara Harvey</li>
<li>Drive Your Own Darn Bus by Julia Kristina</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Cara:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/purpose-driven-mom-show/id1465377461" rel="nofollow">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/purpose-driven-mom-show/id1465377461</a></li>
<li>Facebook Page: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/cara4384" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/cara4384</a></li>
<li>Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/findyourawesome/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/findyourawesome/</a> </li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/apurposedrivenmom/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/apurposedrivenmom/</a> </li>
<li>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3rmBh--3wrq9nEOs2ZcCYg" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3rmBh--3wrq9nEOs2ZcCYg</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#169  Debt Series - What Matters Most (Part 5 of 5)</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/169</link>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 14 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>169</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#169  Debt Series - What Matters Most (Part 5 of 5)</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Struggling to maintain consistency in your financial journey? Discover how redefining consistency and setting realistic expectations can keep you motivated and on track.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>7:26</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Join Ashley, the host of Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast, for an insightful discussion on consistency in the final episode of the Debt Series. 
Discover why setting realistic expectations for consistency is crucial in your financial journey. Ashley emphasizes the importance of getting it mostly right, most of the time, rather than striving for perfection. Learn how to redefine consistency and stay motivated on your path to paying off debt. 
Don't miss out on this insightful episode that will transform your perspective on consistency and help you achieve your financial goals.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“That is what consistency is. It's getting it mostly right most of the time. You're not gonna be able to do something a hundred percent, a hundred percent of the time forever. Like it's not realistic. And so when you have realistic expectations of your habits and your routines and consistency, you'll realize that you're doing okay. And that is a big part of sticking with the journey of paying off debt, is when you realize that you can just make some shifts in your mindset and you'll be able to keep yourself going. Cuz that is the most important thing, is if you don't give up. And so consistency and having a realistic expectation of yourself and what consistency actually looks like is the most important thing, right?” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
01:25 - Introduction to the final day of the Debt Series
02:10 - Redefining consistency and understanding its true meaning
04:26 - Embracing realistic expectations to stay on track
05:49 - Invitation to the Debt to Wealth Bundle 
Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It's time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle! 
This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done. 
Get the Debt to Wealth Bundle today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family! 
🔗 Visit www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle and grab your bundle now!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle
Find the video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/HaUR5iVT32A
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
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  <itunes:keywords>consistency, mindset, motivation, set realistic expectations, financial journey</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join Ashley, the host of Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast, for an insightful discussion on consistency in the final episode of the Debt Series. </p>

<p>Discover why setting realistic expectations for consistency is crucial in your financial journey. Ashley emphasizes the importance of getting it mostly right, most of the time, rather than striving for perfection. Learn how to redefine consistency and stay motivated on your path to paying off debt. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on this insightful episode that will transform your perspective on consistency and help you achieve your financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“That is what consistency is. It&#39;s getting it mostly right most of the time. You&#39;re not gonna be able to do something a hundred percent, a hundred percent of the time forever. Like it&#39;s not realistic. And so when you have realistic expectations of your habits and your routines and consistency, you&#39;ll realize that you&#39;re doing okay. And that is a big part of sticking with the journey of paying off debt, is when you realize that you can just make some shifts in your mindset and you&#39;ll be able to keep yourself going. Cuz that is the most important thing, is if you don&#39;t give up. And so consistency and having a realistic expectation of yourself and what consistency actually looks like is the most important thing, right?”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:25 - Introduction to the final day of the Debt Series<br>
02:10 - Redefining consistency and understanding its true meaning<br>
04:26 - Embracing realistic expectations to stay on track<br>
05:49 - Invitation to the Debt to Wealth Bundle </p>

<p>Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It&#39;s time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle! </p>

<p>This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done. </p>

<p>Get the <strong><em>Debt to Wealth Bundle</em></strong> today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family! <br>
🔗 Visit <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a> and grab your bundle now!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></p></li>
<li><p>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/HaUR5iVT32A" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/HaUR5iVT32A</a></p></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join Ashley, the host of Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast, for an insightful discussion on consistency in the final episode of the Debt Series. </p>

<p>Discover why setting realistic expectations for consistency is crucial in your financial journey. Ashley emphasizes the importance of getting it mostly right, most of the time, rather than striving for perfection. Learn how to redefine consistency and stay motivated on your path to paying off debt. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on this insightful episode that will transform your perspective on consistency and help you achieve your financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“That is what consistency is. It&#39;s getting it mostly right most of the time. You&#39;re not gonna be able to do something a hundred percent, a hundred percent of the time forever. Like it&#39;s not realistic. And so when you have realistic expectations of your habits and your routines and consistency, you&#39;ll realize that you&#39;re doing okay. And that is a big part of sticking with the journey of paying off debt, is when you realize that you can just make some shifts in your mindset and you&#39;ll be able to keep yourself going. Cuz that is the most important thing, is if you don&#39;t give up. And so consistency and having a realistic expectation of yourself and what consistency actually looks like is the most important thing, right?”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:25 - Introduction to the final day of the Debt Series<br>
02:10 - Redefining consistency and understanding its true meaning<br>
04:26 - Embracing realistic expectations to stay on track<br>
05:49 - Invitation to the Debt to Wealth Bundle </p>

<p>Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It&#39;s time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle! </p>

<p>This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done. </p>

<p>Get the <strong><em>Debt to Wealth Bundle</em></strong> today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family! <br>
🔗 Visit <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a> and grab your bundle now!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></p></li>
<li><p>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/HaUR5iVT32A" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/HaUR5iVT32A</a></p></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#167 Debt Series - Where Are You Going? (Part 3 of 5)</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/167</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 12 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#167 Debt Series - Where Are You Going? (Part 3 of 5)</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you ready to take your debt payoff journey to the next level by setting clear goals and creating a vision for your financial future?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>7:34</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Join Ashley in the third part of the Debt Series on the Money Mindset podcast as she explores the importance of having a clear vision and end goal when it comes to paying off debt. 
Discover how creating a vision board and mapping out your goals can provide the motivation and focus needed to achieve financial freedom. 
Don't miss out on this valuable episode that will help you stay inspired on your debt payoff journey.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“You know, really embrace the goal and that will help you believe that it's possible because you may not even be to the point where you believe you can do it, right? And that is a process in and of itself. And once you kind of get going, you're gonna be able to see that you can do it and how quickly you can do it.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
01:17 - Introduction to Part 3 of the Debt Series
02:00 - The significance of having a clear vision and goal
04:58 - Creating visual reminders to keep you motivated
06:40 - Announcement: FREE training on How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in 30 Days
Tired of Living Paycheck To Paycheck? Want to Pay Off $500 Next Month? I've got just the thing for you! This FREE Workshop will teach you How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in 30 Days without selling a kidney or robbing a bank! Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle
How to Pay Off $500 in 30 Days: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>goal setting for 2023, 2023 goal planning, how to set smart goals for 2023, new years resolutions for 2023, how to make goals you can actually stick to</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join Ashley in the third part of the Debt Series on the Money Mindset podcast as she explores the importance of having a clear vision and end goal when it comes to paying off debt. </p>

<p>Discover how creating a vision board and mapping out your goals can provide the motivation and focus needed to achieve financial freedom. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on this valuable episode that will help you stay inspired on your debt payoff journey.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“You know, really embrace the goal and that will help you believe that it&#39;s possible because you may not even be to the point where you believe you can do it, right? And that is a process in and of itself. And once you kind of get going, you&#39;re gonna be able to see that you can do it and how quickly you can do it.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:17 - Introduction to Part 3 of the Debt Series<br>
02:00 - The significance of having a clear vision and goal<br>
04:58 - Creating visual reminders to keep you motivated<br>
06:40 - Announcement: FREE training on How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in 30 Days</p>

<p>Tired of Living Paycheck To Paycheck? Want to Pay Off $500 Next Month? I&#39;ve got just the thing for you! This FREE Workshop will teach you <em><strong>How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in 30 Days</strong></em> without selling a kidney or robbing a bank! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></p></li>
<li><p>How to Pay Off $500 in 30 Days: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></p></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join Ashley in the third part of the Debt Series on the Money Mindset podcast as she explores the importance of having a clear vision and end goal when it comes to paying off debt. </p>

<p>Discover how creating a vision board and mapping out your goals can provide the motivation and focus needed to achieve financial freedom. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on this valuable episode that will help you stay inspired on your debt payoff journey.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“You know, really embrace the goal and that will help you believe that it&#39;s possible because you may not even be to the point where you believe you can do it, right? And that is a process in and of itself. And once you kind of get going, you&#39;re gonna be able to see that you can do it and how quickly you can do it.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:17 - Introduction to Part 3 of the Debt Series<br>
02:00 - The significance of having a clear vision and goal<br>
04:58 - Creating visual reminders to keep you motivated<br>
06:40 - Announcement: FREE training on How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in 30 Days</p>

<p>Tired of Living Paycheck To Paycheck? Want to Pay Off $500 Next Month? I&#39;ve got just the thing for you! This FREE Workshop will teach you <em><strong>How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in 30 Days</strong></em> without selling a kidney or robbing a bank! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></p></li>
<li><p>How to Pay Off $500 in 30 Days: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></p></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#166 Debt Series - How Quickly Can You Pay Off Your Debt? (Part 2 of 5)</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/166</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 11 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you curious to know how quickly you can pay off your debts and achieve financial freedom? Join us as we dive into calculating your debt payoff date in this episode.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:01</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>In this second episode of the Debt series on the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley delves into the crucial step of calculating your debt payoff date. 
Discover the power of understanding how quickly you can pay off your debts and the motivation it brings. Ashley shares a user-friendly calculator that simplifies the process, allowing you to explore various scenarios and see the impact of extra payments. Tune in as she guides you through the calculation and highlights the importance of staying consistent on your debt-free journey. 
Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical tips to accelerate your progress. Join Ashley and take control of your financial future.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“But keep in mind you just gotta start, right? You gotta start, you've got to find ways to keep going, find ways to save money, all of those things. But it starts with just one thing cuz you, you know, you can get overwhelmed really quickly and it's important to just keep going. That is really the most important thing.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
01:18 - Introduction to episode two of the Debt series
5:55 - Sample numbers of debt payment using different methods
08:18 - The power of manifestation and being intentional with your finances
14:19 - Preview of upcoming episodes and topics in the Debt Series
Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It's time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle!
This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done.
Get the Debt to Wealth Bundle today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family!
🔗 Visit www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle and grab your bundle now!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle
* Undebt.it referral link: https://undebt.it/?ref=423
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
* Find the video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/Ti7GfxBzCVo
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>debt calculators</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>In this second episode of the Debt series on the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley delves into the crucial step of calculating your debt payoff date. </p>

<p>Discover the power of understanding how quickly you can pay off your debts and the motivation it brings. Ashley shares a user-friendly calculator that simplifies the process, allowing you to explore various scenarios and see the impact of extra payments. Tune in as she guides you through the calculation and highlights the importance of staying consistent on your debt-free journey. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on valuable insights and practical tips to accelerate your progress. Join Ashley and take control of your financial future.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“But keep in mind you just gotta start, right? You gotta start, you&#39;ve got to find ways to keep going, find ways to save money, all of those things. But it starts with just one thing cuz you, you know, you can get overwhelmed really quickly and it&#39;s important to just keep going. That is really the most important thing.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - Introduction to episode two of the Debt series<br>
5:55 - Sample numbers of debt payment using different methods<br>
08:18 - The power of manifestation and being intentional with your finances<br>
14:19 - Preview of upcoming episodes and topics in the Debt Series</p>

<p>Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It&#39;s time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle!</p>

<p>This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done.</p>

<p>Get the Debt to Wealth Bundle today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family!<br>
🔗 Visit <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a> and grab your bundle now!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></li>
<li>Undebt.it referral link: <a href="https://undebt.it/?ref=423" rel="nofollow">https://undebt.it/?ref=423</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/Ti7GfxBzCVo" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/Ti7GfxBzCVo</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>In this second episode of the Debt series on the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley delves into the crucial step of calculating your debt payoff date. </p>

<p>Discover the power of understanding how quickly you can pay off your debts and the motivation it brings. Ashley shares a user-friendly calculator that simplifies the process, allowing you to explore various scenarios and see the impact of extra payments. Tune in as she guides you through the calculation and highlights the importance of staying consistent on your debt-free journey. </p>

<p>Don&#39;t miss out on valuable insights and practical tips to accelerate your progress. Join Ashley and take control of your financial future.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“But keep in mind you just gotta start, right? You gotta start, you&#39;ve got to find ways to keep going, find ways to save money, all of those things. But it starts with just one thing cuz you, you know, you can get overwhelmed really quickly and it&#39;s important to just keep going. That is really the most important thing.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - Introduction to episode two of the Debt series<br>
5:55 - Sample numbers of debt payment using different methods<br>
08:18 - The power of manifestation and being intentional with your finances<br>
14:19 - Preview of upcoming episodes and topics in the Debt Series</p>

<p>Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It&#39;s time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle!</p>

<p>This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done.</p>

<p>Get the Debt to Wealth Bundle today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family!<br>
🔗 Visit <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a> and grab your bundle now!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></li>
<li>Undebt.it referral link: <a href="https://undebt.it/?ref=423" rel="nofollow">https://undebt.it/?ref=423</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/Ti7GfxBzCVo" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/Ti7GfxBzCVo</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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<item>
  <title>#165 Debt Series - You Have to Know Where You Are Starting! (Part 1 of 5)</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/165</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 10 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>165</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#165 Debt Series - You Have to Know Where You Are Starting! (Part 1 of 5)</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you ready to take the first step towards a debt-free life? Learn why understanding your starting point is key to making meaningful progress.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>8:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Listen to Ashley from Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast as she dives into a new series all about paying off debt and achieving financial freedom. 
In this first episode, Ashley emphasizes the importance of knowing where you're starting and understanding your total debt. Discover practical tips for organizing your debt and tracking your progress along the way. 
Get ready to take control of your finances and make meaningful strides towards a debt-free life.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“I do want you to start by knowing your big number, the first number, because it's going to be important later on. It's going to be important when you are feeling stuck and feeling like you're not making any progress. You can look back and see where you started and how much progress you actually have made, because this is going to happen somewhere along your journey. And you want to know how far you really have come, because you're gonna feel discouraged at certain times. It's not gonna just be all happy and magical and you're just gonna get through it and be debt free. Yay. There's gonna be ups and downs, there's gonna be seasons… and so you've really got to like know the number of where you're starting so that you can celebrate along the way of how much progress you have made.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
01:18 - Introduction and the significance of paying off debt
02:59 - Why knowing your starting point is crucial 
05:26 - Day 1: Writing down or printing off your debt
06:44 - Announcement and details of the upcoming Debt to Wealth Bundle
Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It's time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle!
This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done.
Get the Debt to Wealth Bundle today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family!
🔗 Visit www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle and grab your bundle now!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
* Find the video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/NF-i-QQIoSc
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>where to start for paying off debt, how to start paying off debt</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Listen to Ashley from Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast as she dives into a new series all about paying off debt and achieving financial freedom. </p>

<p>In this first episode, Ashley emphasizes the importance of knowing where you&#39;re starting and understanding your total debt. Discover practical tips for organizing your debt and tracking your progress along the way. </p>

<p>Get ready to take control of your finances and make meaningful strides towards a debt-free life.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“I do want you to start by knowing your big number, the first number, because it&#39;s going to be important later on. It&#39;s going to be important when you are feeling stuck and feeling like you&#39;re not making any progress. You can look back and see where you started and how much progress you actually have made, because this is going to happen somewhere along your journey. And you want to know how far you really have come, because you&#39;re gonna feel discouraged at certain times. It&#39;s not gonna just be all happy and magical and you&#39;re just gonna get through it and be debt free. Yay. There&#39;s gonna be ups and downs, there&#39;s gonna be seasons… and so you&#39;ve really got to like know the number of where you&#39;re starting so that you can celebrate along the way of how much progress you have made.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - Introduction and the significance of paying off debt<br>
02:59 - Why knowing your starting point is crucial <br>
05:26 - Day 1: Writing down or printing off your debt<br>
06:44 - Announcement and details of the upcoming Debt to Wealth Bundle</p>

<p>Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It&#39;s time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle!</p>

<p>This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done.</p>

<p>Get the Debt to Wealth Bundle today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family!<br>
🔗 Visit <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a> and grab your bundle now!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/NF-i-QQIoSc" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/NF-i-QQIoSc</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Listen to Ashley from Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast as she dives into a new series all about paying off debt and achieving financial freedom. </p>

<p>In this first episode, Ashley emphasizes the importance of knowing where you&#39;re starting and understanding your total debt. Discover practical tips for organizing your debt and tracking your progress along the way. </p>

<p>Get ready to take control of your finances and make meaningful strides towards a debt-free life.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“I do want you to start by knowing your big number, the first number, because it&#39;s going to be important later on. It&#39;s going to be important when you are feeling stuck and feeling like you&#39;re not making any progress. You can look back and see where you started and how much progress you actually have made, because this is going to happen somewhere along your journey. And you want to know how far you really have come, because you&#39;re gonna feel discouraged at certain times. It&#39;s not gonna just be all happy and magical and you&#39;re just gonna get through it and be debt free. Yay. There&#39;s gonna be ups and downs, there&#39;s gonna be seasons… and so you&#39;ve really got to like know the number of where you&#39;re starting so that you can celebrate along the way of how much progress you have made.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - Introduction and the significance of paying off debt<br>
02:59 - Why knowing your starting point is crucial <br>
05:26 - Day 1: Writing down or printing off your debt<br>
06:44 - Announcement and details of the upcoming Debt to Wealth Bundle</p>

<p>Are you a busy mom who is tired of struggling with money and ready to pay off debt? It&#39;s time to take control of your financial future and build a legacy worth leaving your children. Introducing the highly anticipated Debt to Wealth Bundle!</p>

<p>This carefully curated collection of 20+ products is specifically designed for overwhelmed moms who are ready to make more money, pay off debt, and build wealth without sacrificing valuable time with their family. You can achieve your goals without spending thousands of dollars to get it done.</p>

<p>Get the Debt to Wealth Bundle today and start paying off debt and building a brighter financial future for yourself and your family!<br>
🔗 Visit <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a> and grab your bundle now!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Learn more about the Debt to Wealth Bundle here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debttowealthbundle</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
<li>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/NF-i-QQIoSc" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/NF-i-QQIoSc</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#164  Building a Legacy Your Kids Can Be Proud Of</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/164</link>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 07 Jul 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/b92415f3-8d24-43e9-b432-4e8b4d8e0241.mp3" length="28714524" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>164</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#164  Building a Legacy Your Kids Can Be Proud Of</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you scared of leaving behind a mess for your kids to deal with when you pass on? Or even being a burden to them in your last years?

What kind of legacy do you want to leave your children or the world after you are gone?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>19:56</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Join Ashley with Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast as she explores the concept of leaving a meaningful legacy for your children. 
In this episode, Ashley reflects on the importance of building a financial foundation that supports your family's future and shares practical tips for organizing your finances and planning for the years ahead. 
Gain insights on how you can leave a lasting impact and ensure the well-being of your loved ones even after you're no longer here.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“It's just, it's a lot to deal with when you're already dealing with the grief of losing somebody that you love that's been in your life, your entire life. When you can make that easier for your family, it helps everybody. And so when we get our finances together, you can make that transition a little bit easier and leave a legacy as a good example for your children or grandchildren of what they should do.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
01:17 - Introduction to today's episode
02:16 - The Debt to Wealth Bundle
04:46 - Reflecting on the legacy you want to leave
09:52 - Leaving a legacy beyond financial matters
11:11 - Organizing your affairs for a smoother transition
19:16 - Preview of upcoming episodes and events 
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>leaving a legacy for your children, estate planning, legacy building</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join Ashley with Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast as she explores the concept of leaving a meaningful legacy for your children. </p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley reflects on the importance of building a financial foundation that supports your family&#39;s future and shares practical tips for organizing your finances and planning for the years ahead. </p>

<p>Gain insights on how you can leave a lasting impact and ensure the well-being of your loved ones even after you&#39;re no longer here.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s just, it&#39;s a lot to deal with when you&#39;re already dealing with the grief of losing somebody that you love that&#39;s been in your life, your entire life. When you can make that easier for your family, it helps everybody. And so when we get our finances together, you can make that transition a little bit easier and leave a legacy as a good example for your children or grandchildren of what they should do.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:17 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
02:16 - The Debt to Wealth Bundle<br>
04:46 - Reflecting on the legacy you want to leave<br>
09:52 - Leaving a legacy beyond financial matters<br>
11:11 - Organizing your affairs for a smoother transition<br>
19:16 - Preview of upcoming episodes and events </p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Join Ashley with Budgets Made Easy and the Money Mindset Podcast as she explores the concept of leaving a meaningful legacy for your children. </p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley reflects on the importance of building a financial foundation that supports your family&#39;s future and shares practical tips for organizing your finances and planning for the years ahead. </p>

<p>Gain insights on how you can leave a lasting impact and ensure the well-being of your loved ones even after you&#39;re no longer here.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s just, it&#39;s a lot to deal with when you&#39;re already dealing with the grief of losing somebody that you love that&#39;s been in your life, your entire life. When you can make that easier for your family, it helps everybody. And so when we get our finances together, you can make that transition a little bit easier and leave a legacy as a good example for your children or grandchildren of what they should do.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:17 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
02:16 - The Debt to Wealth Bundle<br>
04:46 - Reflecting on the legacy you want to leave<br>
09:52 - Leaving a legacy beyond financial matters<br>
11:11 - Organizing your affairs for a smoother transition<br>
19:16 - Preview of upcoming episodes and events </p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#158  How to Budget for Vacation &amp; What to do When it Doesn't go as Planned - BBMU</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/158</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/441b27db-7c34-4cb5-a836-3a1920d0f0d0.mp3" length="96585212" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>158</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#158  How to Budget for Vacation &amp; What to do When it Doesn't go as Planned - BBMU</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you planning a vacation and feeling overwhelmed by the thought of budgeting for it? Join us in this episode as we share tips and insights on how to effectively plan your travel budget.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>1:07:04</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Planning a vacation can be exciting, but it's important to be prepared for unexpected expenses that can quickly add up. 
Join us in this Budget Bestie Meetup episode as we dive into the world of travel budgeting. Ashley shares her recent experience of planning her first international trip and the valuable lessons she learned along the way. Discover the significance of early planning, unexpected costs, and how personal factors can impact your travel budget. 
Whether you're a seasoned traveler or embarking on your first adventure, this episode will provide you with valuable insights to help you budget for your next trip.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So you know, even with the best of intentions and planning, things can go wrong. Things can be way more expensive than you thought or planned or expected even if you did your due diligence ahead of time. So don't beat yourself up about it, deal with it when you get home and try and plan better in the future.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to the podcast episode and the topic of travel budgeting
01:12 - The Side Hustle Academy
04:31 - How to join the Budget Bestie Meetup
05:46 - The importance of early planning and researching travel costs in advance
19:39 - Breaking down what to include in your budget when traveling
31:03 - Tips and strategies for budgeting for travel
50:21 - Sharing wins for the month
01:04:30 - Final words of wisdom
Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a Budget Bestie Meetup on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let's learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Find the video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/LnQluXlH4Sw
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to budget for vacation</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Planning a vacation can be exciting, but it&#39;s important to be prepared for unexpected expenses that can quickly add up. </p>

<p>Join us in this Budget Bestie Meetup episode as we dive into the world of travel budgeting. Ashley shares her recent experience of planning her first international trip and the valuable lessons she learned along the way. Discover the significance of early planning, unexpected costs, and how personal factors can impact your travel budget. </p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re a seasoned traveler or embarking on your first adventure, this episode will provide you with valuable insights to help you budget for your next trip.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So you know, even with the best of intentions and planning, things can go wrong. Things can be way more expensive than you thought or planned or expected even if you did your due diligence ahead of time. So don&#39;t beat yourself up about it, deal with it when you get home and try and plan better in the future.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to the podcast episode and the topic of travel budgeting<br>
01:12 - The Side Hustle Academy<br>
04:31 - How to join the Budget Bestie Meetup<br>
05:46 - The importance of early planning and researching travel costs in advance<br>
19:39 - Breaking down what to include in your budget when traveling<br>
31:03 - Tips and strategies for budgeting for travel<br>
50:21 - Sharing wins for the month<br>
01:04:30 - Final words of wisdom</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p></li>
<li><p>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/LnQluXlH4Sw" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/LnQluXlH4Sw</a></p></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Planning a vacation can be exciting, but it&#39;s important to be prepared for unexpected expenses that can quickly add up. </p>

<p>Join us in this Budget Bestie Meetup episode as we dive into the world of travel budgeting. Ashley shares her recent experience of planning her first international trip and the valuable lessons she learned along the way. Discover the significance of early planning, unexpected costs, and how personal factors can impact your travel budget. </p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re a seasoned traveler or embarking on your first adventure, this episode will provide you with valuable insights to help you budget for your next trip.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So you know, even with the best of intentions and planning, things can go wrong. Things can be way more expensive than you thought or planned or expected even if you did your due diligence ahead of time. So don&#39;t beat yourself up about it, deal with it when you get home and try and plan better in the future.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to the podcast episode and the topic of travel budgeting<br>
01:12 - The Side Hustle Academy<br>
04:31 - How to join the Budget Bestie Meetup<br>
05:46 - The importance of early planning and researching travel costs in advance<br>
19:39 - Breaking down what to include in your budget when traveling<br>
31:03 - Tips and strategies for budgeting for travel<br>
50:21 - Sharing wins for the month<br>
01:04:30 - Final words of wisdom</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p></li>
<li><p>Find the video on YouTube at <a href="https://youtu.be/LnQluXlH4Sw" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/LnQluXlH4Sw</a></p></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#146 - You DON'T Have to do it all! </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/146</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 11 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>146</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#146 - You DON'T Have to do it all! </itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you a busy mom trying to juggle numerous responsibilities, including family finances? Do you feel overwhelmed handling everything on your own?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:10</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Feeling overwhelmed with the never-ending tasks of managing your family's finances? As busy moms, we often find ourselves shouldering the burden of handling everything on our own. But guess what? You don't have to do it all by yourself.
In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, we'll explore why you don't have to carry the burden alone. Join Ashley as she delves into effective strategies and tips to get your family on board with the finances. Discover how to let go of control, involve your family, and effectively communicate your needs. Learn practical tips, strategies, and inspiring ideas that have worked for others. It's time to embrace the power of teamwork and alleviate the stress of managing finances single-handedly.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“You definitely should find some ways that they can help you because it's not just the time to sit down and do the things that you know you need to do with your finances, it's also the mental load. And guess what? I know you are already handling the mental load for maybe everything in your family, if not the majority of the things. So it's okay to help spread that load out and relieve yourself of some of that and get rid of some of the guilt surrounding that as well.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to today's episode
02:20 - Overcoming perfectionism and fear of relinquishing control
04:05 - Teaching children about money and involving them in financial decisions
06:18 - Involving your partner with managing the finances 
09:45 - Maintaining focus on the end goal 
13:07 - The significance of visual aids and setting specific end dates for goals
15:30 - Tips on how to approach your family to get their help and get them on board
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>sharing finances with spouse, how to get spouse on board with a budget, financial goal planning</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Feeling overwhelmed with the never-ending tasks of managing your family&#39;s finances? As busy moms, we often find ourselves shouldering the burden of handling everything on our own. But guess what? You don&#39;t have to do it all by yourself.</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, we&#39;ll explore why you don&#39;t have to carry the burden alone. Join Ashley as she delves into effective strategies and tips to get your family on board with the finances. Discover how to let go of control, involve your family, and effectively communicate your needs. Learn practical tips, strategies, and inspiring ideas that have worked for others. It&#39;s time to embrace the power of teamwork and alleviate the stress of managing finances single-handedly.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“You definitely should find some ways that they can help you because it&#39;s not just the time to sit down and do the things that you know you need to do with your finances, it&#39;s also the mental load. And guess what? I know you are already handling the mental load for maybe everything in your family, if not the majority of the things. So it&#39;s okay to help spread that load out and relieve yourself of some of that and get rid of some of the guilt surrounding that as well.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
02:20 - Overcoming perfectionism and fear of relinquishing control<br>
04:05 - Teaching children about money and involving them in financial decisions<br>
06:18 - Involving your partner with managing the finances <br>
09:45 - Maintaining focus on the end goal <br>
13:07 - The significance of visual aids and setting specific end dates for goals<br>
15:30 - Tips on how to approach your family to get their help and get them on board</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Feeling overwhelmed with the never-ending tasks of managing your family&#39;s finances? As busy moms, we often find ourselves shouldering the burden of handling everything on our own. But guess what? You don&#39;t have to do it all by yourself.</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, we&#39;ll explore why you don&#39;t have to carry the burden alone. Join Ashley as she delves into effective strategies and tips to get your family on board with the finances. Discover how to let go of control, involve your family, and effectively communicate your needs. Learn practical tips, strategies, and inspiring ideas that have worked for others. It&#39;s time to embrace the power of teamwork and alleviate the stress of managing finances single-handedly.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“You definitely should find some ways that they can help you because it&#39;s not just the time to sit down and do the things that you know you need to do with your finances, it&#39;s also the mental load. And guess what? I know you are already handling the mental load for maybe everything in your family, if not the majority of the things. So it&#39;s okay to help spread that load out and relieve yourself of some of that and get rid of some of the guilt surrounding that as well.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
02:20 - Overcoming perfectionism and fear of relinquishing control<br>
04:05 - Teaching children about money and involving them in financial decisions<br>
06:18 - Involving your partner with managing the finances <br>
09:45 - Maintaining focus on the end goal <br>
13:07 - The significance of visual aids and setting specific end dates for goals<br>
15:30 - Tips on how to approach your family to get their help and get them on board</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#144 BSS - Giving Yourself Some Freedom to Spend and Stop Overthinking Everything!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/144</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/f6803e20-a7dd-4c64-a2ec-c32b1d555e83.mp3" length="43357598" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>144</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#144 BSS - Giving Yourself Some Freedom to Spend and Stop Overthinking Everything!</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle with overthinking and overanalyzing every financial decision, making it hard to enjoy life and spend money on the things you want?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>30:06</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Do you find yourself struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing your finances? Do you have a hard time allowing yourself some freedom to spend?
In this episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, Ashley speaks to Melanie, who is struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing her finances, and discusses how financial planning can help her manage her finances better to stop her from overthinking. Ashley also encourages us to give ourselves permission to spend money on things we enjoy and shares a few tips on how to do so without derailing our financial goals.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So you know, not everything has to be something you need, like if you just enjoy it and it's something you want, as long as it's reasonable and it's not putting you off track for your other goals, it's not keeping you from retirement, it's not keeping you in debt. Give yourself some joy. Give yourself permission to spend some money on things you just want because you can.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to today's episode
01:45 - Melanie's background and struggles with overthinking credit card payments and tracking expenses
05:37 - Paying your credit card statement by the closing date
09:40 - Tips for tracking expenses and creating a schedule for credit card payments
17:05 - Tracking expenses on your own terms
20:45 - Encouraging people to have fun and spend money on things they want and enjoy
22:56 - Using your extra money for fun money
27:53 - Melanie's 24-hour action step
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>productivity, saving money, organization tips, </itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing your finances? Do you have a hard time allowing yourself some freedom to spend?</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, Ashley speaks to Melanie, who is struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing her finances, and discusses how financial planning can help her manage her finances better to stop her from overthinking. Ashley also encourages us to give ourselves permission to spend money on things we enjoy and shares a few tips on how to do so without derailing our financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So you know, not everything has to be something you need, like if you just enjoy it and it&#39;s something you want, as long as it&#39;s reasonable and it&#39;s not putting you off track for your other goals, it&#39;s not keeping you from retirement, it&#39;s not keeping you in debt. Give yourself some joy. Give yourself permission to spend some money on things you just want because you can.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:45 - Melanie&#39;s background and struggles with overthinking credit card payments and tracking expenses<br>
05:37 - Paying your credit card statement by the closing date<br>
09:40 - Tips for tracking expenses and creating a schedule for credit card payments<br>
17:05 - Tracking expenses on your own terms<br>
20:45 - Encouraging people to have fun and spend money on things they want and enjoy<br>
22:56 - Using your extra money for fun money<br>
27:53 - Melanie&#39;s 24-hour action step</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a> and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing your finances? Do you have a hard time allowing yourself some freedom to spend?</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset Podcast, Ashley speaks to Melanie, who is struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing her finances, and discusses how financial planning can help her manage her finances better to stop her from overthinking. Ashley also encourages us to give ourselves permission to spend money on things we enjoy and shares a few tips on how to do so without derailing our financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So you know, not everything has to be something you need, like if you just enjoy it and it&#39;s something you want, as long as it&#39;s reasonable and it&#39;s not putting you off track for your other goals, it&#39;s not keeping you from retirement, it&#39;s not keeping you in debt. Give yourself some joy. Give yourself permission to spend some money on things you just want because you can.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:45 - Melanie&#39;s background and struggles with overthinking credit card payments and tracking expenses<br>
05:37 - Paying your credit card statement by the closing date<br>
09:40 - Tips for tracking expenses and creating a schedule for credit card payments<br>
17:05 - Tracking expenses on your own terms<br>
20:45 - Encouraging people to have fun and spend money on things they want and enjoy<br>
22:56 - Using your extra money for fun money<br>
27:53 - Melanie&#39;s 24-hour action step</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a> and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#143 - BBMU What to do with your tax refund (or a large lump sum of money)</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/143</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 02 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/62336451-fe73-4931-8eb1-6d0bbc80f015.mp3" length="47766286" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>143</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#143 - BBMU What to do with your tax refund (or a large lump sum of money)</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>What should you do when you get a large lump sum of money like a tax refund?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>33:09</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Have you ever received a large sum of money at once, like a tax refund or a bonus, and felt unsure of what to do with it? 
Tune in to this episode of the Budget Bestie Meetup where Ashley from The Money Mindset Podcast discusses what to do when you get a big tax refund or bonus and shares some tips for making the most of it. Ashley will also share some practical advice on how to handle these types of unexpected financial gain and use them wisely to reach your financial goals.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So when you have some money coming in, I really want you to focus on the priority list for you. And that's gonna look different for other people. So it could be focusing on the savings funds, like I talked about. It could be focusing on some debt that you can knock out and just make sure that you have it a list, like a visual, you've thought it through hopefully before you get the money. So like if it's something that you're expecting that usually comes once a year or a tax refund that you're expecting and you have a rough idea of what it should be or tax return, you know what it's going to be, go ahead and prioritize where you want the money to go. And it's okay to spend some money on yourself or things that you've been putting off as long as that is the priority for you.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
01:18 - Introduction to the episode
03:33 - Importance of planning and creating a priority list for the extra money
04:36 - Examples of expenses that can be covered with the extra money 
05:18 - Option to pay off debts
06:27 - The Impact method
10:08 - Importance of planning and thinking ahead regarding where your money is going
13:01 - Sharing wins and accomplishments in managing finances, such as paying taxes, meal planning, and having an emergency fund in your budget
32:37 - How to join the Budget Bestie Meetup
Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a Budget Bestie Meetup on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let's learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
This episode can also be viewed on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/live/ZGD4HsJW3lY?feature=share
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  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever received a large sum of money at once, like a tax refund or a bonus, and felt unsure of what to do with it? </p>

<p>Tune in to this episode of the Budget Bestie Meetup where Ashley from The Money Mindset Podcast discusses what to do when you get a big tax refund or bonus and shares some tips for making the most of it. Ashley will also share some practical advice on how to handle these types of unexpected financial gain and use them wisely to reach your financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So when you have some money coming in, I really want you to focus on the priority list for you. And that&#39;s gonna look different for other people. So it could be focusing on the savings funds, like I talked about. It could be focusing on some debt that you can knock out and just make sure that you have it a list, like a visual, you&#39;ve thought it through hopefully before you get the money. So like if it&#39;s something that you&#39;re expecting that usually comes once a year or a tax refund that you&#39;re expecting and you have a rough idea of what it should be or tax return, you know what it&#39;s going to be, go ahead and prioritize where you want the money to go. And it&#39;s okay to spend some money on yourself or things that you&#39;ve been putting off as long as that is the priority for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - Introduction to the episode<br>
03:33 - Importance of planning and creating a priority list for the extra money<br>
04:36 - Examples of expenses that can be covered with the extra money <br>
05:18 - Option to pay off debts<br>
06:27 - The Impact method<br>
10:08 - Importance of planning and thinking ahead regarding where your money is going<br>
13:01 - Sharing wins and accomplishments in managing finances, such as paying taxes, meal planning, and having an emergency fund in your budget<br>
32:37 - How to join the Budget Bestie Meetup</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p></li>
<li><p>This episode can also be viewed on YouTube at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/live/ZGD4HsJW3lY?feature=share" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/live/ZGD4HsJW3lY?feature=share</a></p></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever received a large sum of money at once, like a tax refund or a bonus, and felt unsure of what to do with it? </p>

<p>Tune in to this episode of the Budget Bestie Meetup where Ashley from The Money Mindset Podcast discusses what to do when you get a big tax refund or bonus and shares some tips for making the most of it. Ashley will also share some practical advice on how to handle these types of unexpected financial gain and use them wisely to reach your financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So when you have some money coming in, I really want you to focus on the priority list for you. And that&#39;s gonna look different for other people. So it could be focusing on the savings funds, like I talked about. It could be focusing on some debt that you can knock out and just make sure that you have it a list, like a visual, you&#39;ve thought it through hopefully before you get the money. So like if it&#39;s something that you&#39;re expecting that usually comes once a year or a tax refund that you&#39;re expecting and you have a rough idea of what it should be or tax return, you know what it&#39;s going to be, go ahead and prioritize where you want the money to go. And it&#39;s okay to spend some money on yourself or things that you&#39;ve been putting off as long as that is the priority for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - Introduction to the episode<br>
03:33 - Importance of planning and creating a priority list for the extra money<br>
04:36 - Examples of expenses that can be covered with the extra money <br>
05:18 - Option to pay off debts<br>
06:27 - The Impact method<br>
10:08 - Importance of planning and thinking ahead regarding where your money is going<br>
13:01 - Sharing wins and accomplishments in managing finances, such as paying taxes, meal planning, and having an emergency fund in your budget<br>
32:37 - How to join the Budget Bestie Meetup</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li><p>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p></li>
<li><p>This episode can also be viewed on YouTube at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/live/ZGD4HsJW3lY?feature=share" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/live/ZGD4HsJW3lY?feature=share</a></p></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#135 Prioritizing Your Money Plan</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/135</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 13 Apr 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/65dd41ac-37e0-4062-9921-39f727895a20.mp3" length="21960974" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>135</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#135 Prioritizing Your Money Plan</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you need help figuring out what to focus on first? On this podcast episode, we'll dive into the topic of prioritizing your money plan and getting unstuck.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:14</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you feeling overwhelmed with your finances and unsure where to start? Are you struggling to prioritize your bills and debt payments? Do you need help figuring out what to focus on first?
In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley tackles one of the biggest obstacles that many people face when it comes to their finances: feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to start. If you're struggling to prioritize your bills and debt payments, or if you need help figuring out what to focus on first, then you won't want to miss this episode.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So whatever you gotta do to get yourself excited about the process is what you need to do. So don't worry about following a certain order when it comes to paying off your debt. Don't overthink it. It's not gonna be perfect, right? And you don't have to do it in any kind of perfect way. That's the beauty about personal finance and money coaching. You don't have to do it one specific way.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to today's episode
03:00 - What to prioritize first
03:56 - Prioritizing your needs
06:46 - Prioritizing your wants
07:23 - Prioritizing your debt
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money plan, budget, priorities, needs, wants, debt</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you feeling overwhelmed with your finances and unsure where to start? Are you struggling to prioritize your bills and debt payments? Do you need help figuring out what to focus on first?</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley tackles one of the biggest obstacles that many people face when it comes to their finances: feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to start. If you&#39;re struggling to prioritize your bills and debt payments, or if you need help figuring out what to focus on first, then you won&#39;t want to miss this episode.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So whatever you gotta do to get yourself excited about the process is what you need to do. So don&#39;t worry about following a certain order when it comes to paying off your debt. Don&#39;t overthink it. It&#39;s not gonna be perfect, right? And you don&#39;t have to do it in any kind of perfect way. That&#39;s the beauty about personal finance and money coaching. You don&#39;t have to do it one specific way.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
03:00 - What to prioritize first<br>
03:56 - Prioritizing your needs<br>
06:46 - Prioritizing your wants<br>
07:23 - Prioritizing your debt</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you feeling overwhelmed with your finances and unsure where to start? Are you struggling to prioritize your bills and debt payments? Do you need help figuring out what to focus on first?</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley tackles one of the biggest obstacles that many people face when it comes to their finances: feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to start. If you&#39;re struggling to prioritize your bills and debt payments, or if you need help figuring out what to focus on first, then you won&#39;t want to miss this episode.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So whatever you gotta do to get yourself excited about the process is what you need to do. So don&#39;t worry about following a certain order when it comes to paying off your debt. Don&#39;t overthink it. It&#39;s not gonna be perfect, right? And you don&#39;t have to do it in any kind of perfect way. That&#39;s the beauty about personal finance and money coaching. You don&#39;t have to do it one specific way.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
03:00 - What to prioritize first<br>
03:56 - Prioritizing your needs<br>
06:46 - Prioritizing your wants<br>
07:23 - Prioritizing your debt</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#134 - The Best Advice I've Followed</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/134</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 06 Apr 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/d8f038b4-1a42-4f54-a396-0d3599f0a04c.mp3" length="15362896" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>134</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#134 - The Best Advice I've Followed</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the podcast, we will discuss the best financial advice I've ever received.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>10:39</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you tired of living paycheck to paycheck and struggling to make ends meet? Have you been trying hard to achieve financial stability and build long-term wealth? If so, you won't want to miss our latest podcast episode!
In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley shares the best personal financial advice she's ever received and explains how it has helped her and her family set up a plan for long-term wealth building. She will also provide actionable tips for managing your finances, including advice on saving, developing habits and routines, and more.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“And that's the biggest thing when you set up these habits and these routines early on, even when life comes and you make some mistakes along the way, you can soften the blow and really just keep going and you still have that momentum when you have that cushion. And it's just easier to start the longer you are. But of course if you're older and you're listening, it's okay. Like you can start now.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to today's episode
01:13 - The importance of paying yourself first
03:38 - The benefits of automating your savings
04:58 - Saving money with each paycheck
05:54 - Establishing good habits and routines for saving
07:11 - Actionable steps to improve your financial situation
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>financial advice, saving, habits and routines, personal finance, investing</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you tired of living paycheck to paycheck and struggling to make ends meet? Have you been trying hard to achieve financial stability and build long-term wealth? If so, you won&#39;t want to miss our latest podcast episode!</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley shares the best personal financial advice she&#39;s ever received and explains how it has helped her and her family set up a plan for long-term wealth building. She will also provide actionable tips for managing your finances, including advice on saving, developing habits and routines, and more.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“And that&#39;s the biggest thing when you set up these habits and these routines early on, even when life comes and you make some mistakes along the way, you can soften the blow and really just keep going and you still have that momentum when you have that cushion. And it&#39;s just easier to start the longer you are. But of course if you&#39;re older and you&#39;re listening, it&#39;s okay. Like you can start now.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:13 - The importance of paying yourself first<br>
03:38 - The benefits of automating your savings<br>
04:58 - Saving money with each paycheck<br>
05:54 - Establishing good habits and routines for saving<br>
07:11 - Actionable steps to improve your financial situation</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you tired of living paycheck to paycheck and struggling to make ends meet? Have you been trying hard to achieve financial stability and build long-term wealth? If so, you won&#39;t want to miss our latest podcast episode!</p>

<p>In this episode of the Money Mindset podcast, Ashley shares the best personal financial advice she&#39;s ever received and explains how it has helped her and her family set up a plan for long-term wealth building. She will also provide actionable tips for managing your finances, including advice on saving, developing habits and routines, and more.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“And that&#39;s the biggest thing when you set up these habits and these routines early on, even when life comes and you make some mistakes along the way, you can soften the blow and really just keep going and you still have that momentum when you have that cushion. And it&#39;s just easier to start the longer you are. But of course if you&#39;re older and you&#39;re listening, it&#39;s okay. Like you can start now.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:13 - The importance of paying yourself first<br>
03:38 - The benefits of automating your savings<br>
04:58 - Saving money with each paycheck<br>
05:54 - Establishing good habits and routines for saving<br>
07:11 - Actionable steps to improve your financial situation</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#132 Are You Too Old to Pay Off Debt?</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/132</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2023 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/b83e2c71-8b2d-4236-85cb-487ef3945765.mp3" length="16718200" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>132</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#132 Are You Too Old to Pay Off Debt?</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you feeling too old to bother with paying off debt?

Join us Sunday April 2nd, 2023 at 2pm ET to put your debt pay off plan together WITH us! 

Sign up here-&gt; https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>11:36</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you feeling like you're too old to pay off debt, save for retirement, and live the life you want? Do you find yourself thinking that time has run out and it's too late for you to start making progress? 
It's common to feel like you've missed the opportunity to achieve financial success as you get older, but the truth is that it's never too late to start taking control of your finances. 
In this episode, Ashley challenges these beliefs and shares some practical ways to shift your mindset so you can start taking action towards your goals.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“In my opinion, of course this is just my opinion, it is more important to focus on getting your bills lowered as you move into retirement. Because more than likely your income will be lower if you haven't been able to save up to that point. And if you have been able to save, awesome, then you can focus on paying off debt more than saving more because you've already got enough saved.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to the episode
00:52 - The Implementation Day Workshop 
02:08 - The mindset of feeling too old to pay off debt, save for retirement, and do the things that one wants to do
04:11 - Adjusting your priorities as you get older
08:29 - Last words of wisdom
10:36 - How to join the Implementation Day Workshop
Are you tired of procrastinating on your finances and neglecting your debt? Do you often find yourself making excuses for why you can't pay off your debts yet? If so, it's time to put an end to it and take action with our Debt Pay Off Plan Workshop - Implementation Day!
If you're struggling to get started with a debt pay off plan or constantly making excuses for why you can't do it right now, this workshop is perfect for you. Head over to https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/ and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Debt Pay Off Plan Workshop - Implementation Day:  https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>are you too old to pay off debt?</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you feeling like you&#39;re too old to pay off debt, save for retirement, and live the life you want? Do you find yourself thinking that time has run out and it&#39;s too late for you to start making progress? </p>

<p>It&#39;s common to feel like you&#39;ve missed the opportunity to achieve financial success as you get older, but the truth is that it&#39;s never too late to start taking control of your finances. </p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley challenges these beliefs and shares some practical ways to shift your mindset so you can start taking action towards your goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“In my opinion, of course this is just my opinion, it is more important to focus on getting your bills lowered as you move into retirement. Because more than likely your income will be lower if you haven&#39;t been able to save up to that point. And if you have been able to save, awesome, then you can focus on paying off debt more than saving more because you&#39;ve already got enough saved.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to the episode<br>
00:52 - The Implementation Day Workshop <br>
02:08 - The mindset of feeling too old to pay off debt, save for retirement, and do the things that one wants to do<br>
04:11 - Adjusting your priorities as you get older<br>
08:29 - Last words of wisdom<br>
10:36 - How to join the Implementation Day Workshop</p>

<p>Are you tired of procrastinating on your finances and neglecting your debt? Do you often find yourself making excuses for why you can&#39;t pay off your debts yet? If so, it&#39;s time to put an end to it and take action with our <strong><em>Debt Pay Off Plan Workshop - Implementation Day!</em></strong></p>

<p>If you&#39;re struggling to get started with a debt pay off plan or constantly making excuses for why you can&#39;t do it right now, this workshop is perfect for you. Head over to <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Debt Pay Off Plan Workshop - Implementation Day:  <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you feeling like you&#39;re too old to pay off debt, save for retirement, and live the life you want? Do you find yourself thinking that time has run out and it&#39;s too late for you to start making progress? </p>

<p>It&#39;s common to feel like you&#39;ve missed the opportunity to achieve financial success as you get older, but the truth is that it&#39;s never too late to start taking control of your finances. </p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley challenges these beliefs and shares some practical ways to shift your mindset so you can start taking action towards your goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“In my opinion, of course this is just my opinion, it is more important to focus on getting your bills lowered as you move into retirement. Because more than likely your income will be lower if you haven&#39;t been able to save up to that point. And if you have been able to save, awesome, then you can focus on paying off debt more than saving more because you&#39;ve already got enough saved.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to the episode<br>
00:52 - The Implementation Day Workshop <br>
02:08 - The mindset of feeling too old to pay off debt, save for retirement, and do the things that one wants to do<br>
04:11 - Adjusting your priorities as you get older<br>
08:29 - Last words of wisdom<br>
10:36 - How to join the Implementation Day Workshop</p>

<p>Are you tired of procrastinating on your finances and neglecting your debt? Do you often find yourself making excuses for why you can&#39;t pay off your debts yet? If so, it&#39;s time to put an end to it and take action with our <strong><em>Debt Pay Off Plan Workshop - Implementation Day!</em></strong></p>

<p>If you&#39;re struggling to get started with a debt pay off plan or constantly making excuses for why you can&#39;t do it right now, this workshop is perfect for you. Head over to <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Debt Pay Off Plan Workshop - Implementation Day:  <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/implementation-day-debt-plan-april-2023/</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#131 BBMU - How Much Does $100 Extra Make When Paying Off Debt?</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/131</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2023 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/713ff350-c3fd-44e3-b756-1c48ca4e11ec.mp3" length="48733478" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>131</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#131 BBMU - How Much Does $100 Extra Make When Paying Off Debt?</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Does an extra $100 a month really make a difference when paying off debt?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>33:50</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>How much of an impact does an extra $100 per month have on paying off debt? 
Listen to this episode to find out as Ashley delves into the topic of paying off debt and emphasizes the importance of making consistent payments to achieve financial freedom. She provides a clear breakdown of the numbers to demonstrate how an extra $100 per month can significantly impact debt pay off. Additionally, Ashley gives an example scenario to illustrate the importance of consistent payments towards debt.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“When you are intentional and you are sending extra money to debt, which method you use does not make a difference. It might, if it's taking you a long, long time and you're starting and stopping and all of those things, it could make a difference. But when you are being really intentional about it, it doesn't make a difference. Like it really doesn't.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
03:35 - Introduction to the episode's topic
05:00 - Discussing the potential impact of making $100 towards debt each month
09:21 - Example scenario with three credit cards using the debt snowball method
13:34 - Comparison between the debt snowball and debt avalanche methods
19:43 - Celebrating wins
30:46 ­- Using tax refund to pay off credit card
Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a Budget Bestie Meetup on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let's learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>paying off debt, consistent payments, financial freedom, $100 per month</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>How much of an impact does an extra $100 per month have on paying off debt? </p>

<p>Listen to this episode to find out as Ashley delves into the topic of paying off debt and emphasizes the importance of making consistent payments to achieve financial freedom. She provides a clear breakdown of the numbers to demonstrate how an extra $100 per month can significantly impact debt pay off. Additionally, Ashley gives an example scenario to illustrate the importance of consistent payments towards debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“When you are intentional and you are sending extra money to debt, which method you use does not make a difference. It might, if it&#39;s taking you a long, long time and you&#39;re starting and stopping and all of those things, it could make a difference. But when you are being really intentional about it, it doesn&#39;t make a difference. Like it really doesn&#39;t.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
03:35 - Introduction to the episode&#39;s topic<br>
05:00 - Discussing the potential impact of making $100 towards debt each month<br>
09:21 - Example scenario with three credit cards using the debt snowball method<br>
13:34 - Comparison between the debt snowball and debt avalanche methods<br>
19:43 - Celebrating wins<br>
30:46 ­- Using tax refund to pay off credit card</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>How much of an impact does an extra $100 per month have on paying off debt? </p>

<p>Listen to this episode to find out as Ashley delves into the topic of paying off debt and emphasizes the importance of making consistent payments to achieve financial freedom. She provides a clear breakdown of the numbers to demonstrate how an extra $100 per month can significantly impact debt pay off. Additionally, Ashley gives an example scenario to illustrate the importance of consistent payments towards debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“When you are intentional and you are sending extra money to debt, which method you use does not make a difference. It might, if it&#39;s taking you a long, long time and you&#39;re starting and stopping and all of those things, it could make a difference. But when you are being really intentional about it, it doesn&#39;t make a difference. Like it really doesn&#39;t.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
03:35 - Introduction to the episode&#39;s topic<br>
05:00 - Discussing the potential impact of making $100 towards debt each month<br>
09:21 - Example scenario with three credit cards using the debt snowball method<br>
13:34 - Comparison between the debt snowball and debt avalanche methods<br>
19:43 - Celebrating wins<br>
30:46 ­- Using tax refund to pay off credit card</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#129 Deserve is Not a Currency </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/129</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 09 Mar 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/e0ccb2d7-3ee1-43f1-a3b2-2b93929b49e3.mp3" length="19271022" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>129</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#129 Deserve is Not a Currency </itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you ever really wanted something but knew you really shouldn’t buy it or at least should wait because you didn’t have the money? 

Or maybe you couldn’t afford it at all but you really wanted it so you told yourself “I deserve it”.

Maybe it was the new car you really liked but the car payment was going to be a stretch and you’d have to work extra to make it work……every single month for 6+ years…..

But in your mind it would totally be worth it but you really wanted this new shiny car…

You could just stop eating out for lunch everyday to make up the difference right?

Or maybe cut cable or streaming services to help make it work.

You say things like “I work hard, I deserve it”
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>13:22</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you someone who justifies spending money on things you don't really need or can't afford with the statement, "I deserve it because I work hard"? 
In this podcast episode, Ashley discusses the idea of using "I deserve it" as a justification for spending money that you cannot afford. She explains how making emotional decisions and using this mindset can lead to financial struggles and debt. She also offers tips on how to change your mindset around spending and make more logical financial decisions based on what you can afford.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So instead of justifying spending money because you deserve it, flip that mindset into, I deserve to stay focused on my goals because I work hard and I deserve to be able to not stress about money and do the things that I want to do in life. When you really believe that you are worthy and you deserve better, your life will start to change.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - What today's episode is about
00:59 - The Money Mindset Podcast giveaway
01:35 - The 'I deserve it' mindset
03:18 - Making decisions based on emotions
06:23 - Deserve is not a currency
07:44 - Switching your mindset
11:47 - The Implementation day workshop
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>you deserve to be debt free</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you someone who justifies spending money on things you don&#39;t really need or can&#39;t afford with the statement, &quot;I deserve it because I work hard&quot;? </p>

<p>In this podcast episode, Ashley discusses the idea of using &quot;I deserve it&quot; as a justification for spending money that you cannot afford. She explains how making emotional decisions and using this mindset can lead to financial struggles and debt. She also offers tips on how to change your mindset around spending and make more logical financial decisions based on what you can afford.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So instead of justifying spending money because you deserve it, flip that mindset into, I deserve to stay focused on my goals because I work hard and I deserve to be able to not stress about money and do the things that I want to do in life. When you really believe that you are worthy and you deserve better, your life will start to change.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - What today&#39;s episode is about<br>
00:59 - The Money Mindset Podcast giveaway<br>
01:35 - The &#39;I deserve it&#39; mindset<br>
03:18 - Making decisions based on emotions<br>
06:23 - Deserve is not a currency<br>
07:44 - Switching your mindset<br>
11:47 - The Implementation day workshop</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you someone who justifies spending money on things you don&#39;t really need or can&#39;t afford with the statement, &quot;I deserve it because I work hard&quot;? </p>

<p>In this podcast episode, Ashley discusses the idea of using &quot;I deserve it&quot; as a justification for spending money that you cannot afford. She explains how making emotional decisions and using this mindset can lead to financial struggles and debt. She also offers tips on how to change your mindset around spending and make more logical financial decisions based on what you can afford.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So instead of justifying spending money because you deserve it, flip that mindset into, I deserve to stay focused on my goals because I work hard and I deserve to be able to not stress about money and do the things that I want to do in life. When you really believe that you are worthy and you deserve better, your life will start to change.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - What today&#39;s episode is about<br>
00:59 - The Money Mindset Podcast giveaway<br>
01:35 - The &#39;I deserve it&#39; mindset<br>
03:18 - Making decisions based on emotions<br>
06:23 - Deserve is not a currency<br>
07:44 - Switching your mindset<br>
11:47 - The Implementation day workshop</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
<item>
  <title>#128 What if I Didn't Stop</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/128</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 09:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/c800ff91-f763-49cf-875f-e09da776d543.mp3" length="9730148" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>128</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#128 What if I Didn't Stop</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#128 - Another milestone for the Money Mindset Podcast! Woohoo! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>6:45</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>The Money Mindset Podcast is almost at 100,000 downloads! Woohoo! 
In this podcast episode, Ashley reflects on her journey to another milestone for the Money Mindset Podcast and shares her thoughts on the importance of taking action and not waiting for the perfect moment to begin working toward one's financial goals.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“All those things that you can look back now and see that maybe you could have done things a little bit differently. Who knows if you would've done things differently, you wouldn't be where you're at today. And the only thing you can do is change what you do today and then tomorrow make new choices and change what you do tomorrow. You can't change what you've done in the past, and yet the past holds us back so, so much. And I just wanted to jump on and encourage you today to just keep going. Don't wait for things to be perfect, because they never will be. They just won't.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Another milestone for the Money Mindset Podcast
00:38 - The journey and the process of getting to our goals
01:49 - Just keep going
02:13 - Don't focus on the past
04:25 - Taking the first step
05:46 - The Money Mind Podcast giveaway
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>financial goals, achieving goals, taking action, personal finance</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>The Money Mindset Podcast is almost at 100,000 downloads! Woohoo! </p>

<p>In this podcast episode, Ashley reflects on her journey to another milestone for the Money Mindset Podcast and shares her thoughts on the importance of taking action and not waiting for the perfect moment to begin working toward one&#39;s financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“All those things that you can look back now and see that maybe you could have done things a little bit differently. Who knows if you would&#39;ve done things differently, you wouldn&#39;t be where you&#39;re at today. And the only thing you can do is change what you do today and then tomorrow make new choices and change what you do tomorrow. You can&#39;t change what you&#39;ve done in the past, and yet the past holds us back so, so much. And I just wanted to jump on and encourage you today to just keep going. Don&#39;t wait for things to be perfect, because they never will be. They just won&#39;t.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Another milestone for the Money Mindset Podcast<br>
00:38 - The journey and the process of getting to our goals<br>
01:49 - Just keep going<br>
02:13 - Don&#39;t focus on the past<br>
04:25 - Taking the first step<br>
05:46 - The Money Mind Podcast giveaway</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>The Money Mindset Podcast is almost at 100,000 downloads! Woohoo! </p>

<p>In this podcast episode, Ashley reflects on her journey to another milestone for the Money Mindset Podcast and shares her thoughts on the importance of taking action and not waiting for the perfect moment to begin working toward one&#39;s financial goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“All those things that you can look back now and see that maybe you could have done things a little bit differently. Who knows if you would&#39;ve done things differently, you wouldn&#39;t be where you&#39;re at today. And the only thing you can do is change what you do today and then tomorrow make new choices and change what you do tomorrow. You can&#39;t change what you&#39;ve done in the past, and yet the past holds us back so, so much. And I just wanted to jump on and encourage you today to just keep going. Don&#39;t wait for things to be perfect, because they never will be. They just won&#39;t.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Another milestone for the Money Mindset Podcast<br>
00:38 - The journey and the process of getting to our goals<br>
01:49 - Just keep going<br>
02:13 - Don&#39;t focus on the past<br>
04:25 - Taking the first step<br>
05:46 - The Money Mind Podcast giveaway</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#127 BSS - When to pay off 0% interest debt first</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/127</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 02 Mar 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/44f9f55e-d07b-4d06-a21c-c57e0a241b5f.mp3" length="27172620" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>127</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#127 BSS - When to pay off 0% interest debt first</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you ever found yourself with multiple debts and struggled to decide which one to pay off first? Should you focus on paying off high-interest debt, the smallest balance, or 0% interest debt?

Paying off 0% interest debt first can be a dilemma for some people. While it may seem logical to pay off high-interest debt or the smallest balance first, there are situations where paying off 0% interest debt makes more sense.

In this episode, Ashley will discuss when it may be beneficial to pay off 0% interest debt before high-interest debt or the smallest balance debt, and how to determine if this strategy is the right choice for your individual financial situation.
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:51</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Have you ever found yourself with multiple debts and struggled to decide which one to pay off first? Should you focus on paying off high-interest debt, the smallest balance, or 0% interest debt?
Paying off 0% interest debt first can be a dilemma for some people. While it may seem logical to pay off high-interest debt or the smallest balance first, there are situations where paying off 0% interest debt makes more sense.
In this episode, Ashley will discuss when it may be beneficial to pay off 0% interest debt before high-interest debt or the smallest balance debt, and how to determine if this strategy is the right choice for your individual financial situation.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“General advice, you know, the debt snowball method, which is focusing on the smallest balance works for most people and a lot of different situations, but it's not a one size fits all. Right? And so sometimes we want to follow the rules so to speak and do things the right way, but that's not always the case because we have different situations. So it's okay to deviate from the plan to fit your situation better.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to today's episode
01:46 - Meet Jen
05:46 - Feeling stuck and falling behind
07:21 - Paying off 0% interest debt first
10:36 - Building up an emergency fund
11:22 - Jen's 24 hour action steps
16:18 - Paying by paycheck
18:18 - Last words of wisdom
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Money Success Club waitlist - www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>paying off debt methods, debt snowball method, 0% interest card how to pay off</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever found yourself with multiple debts and struggled to decide which one to pay off first? Should you focus on paying off high-interest debt, the smallest balance, or 0% interest debt?</p>

<p>Paying off 0% interest debt first can be a dilemma for some people. While it may seem logical to pay off high-interest debt or the smallest balance first, there are situations where paying off 0% interest debt makes more sense.</p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley will discuss when it may be beneficial to pay off 0% interest debt before high-interest debt or the smallest balance debt, and how to determine if this strategy is the right choice for your individual financial situation.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“General advice, you know, the debt snowball method, which is focusing on the smallest balance works for most people and a lot of different situations, but it&#39;s not a one size fits all. Right? And so sometimes we want to follow the rules so to speak and do things the right way, but that&#39;s not always the case because we have different situations. So it&#39;s okay to deviate from the plan to fit your situation better.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:46 - Meet Jen<br>
05:46 - Feeling stuck and falling behind<br>
07:21 - Paying off 0% interest debt first<br>
10:36 - Building up an emergency fund<br>
11:22 - Jen&#39;s 24 hour action steps<br>
16:18 - Paying by paycheck<br>
18:18 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club waitlist - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever found yourself with multiple debts and struggled to decide which one to pay off first? Should you focus on paying off high-interest debt, the smallest balance, or 0% interest debt?</p>

<p>Paying off 0% interest debt first can be a dilemma for some people. While it may seem logical to pay off high-interest debt or the smallest balance first, there are situations where paying off 0% interest debt makes more sense.</p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley will discuss when it may be beneficial to pay off 0% interest debt before high-interest debt or the smallest balance debt, and how to determine if this strategy is the right choice for your individual financial situation.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“General advice, you know, the debt snowball method, which is focusing on the smallest balance works for most people and a lot of different situations, but it&#39;s not a one size fits all. Right? And so sometimes we want to follow the rules so to speak and do things the right way, but that&#39;s not always the case because we have different situations. So it&#39;s okay to deviate from the plan to fit your situation better.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:46 - Meet Jen<br>
05:46 - Feeling stuck and falling behind<br>
07:21 - Paying off 0% interest debt first<br>
10:36 - Building up an emergency fund<br>
11:22 - Jen&#39;s 24 hour action steps<br>
16:18 - Paying by paycheck<br>
18:18 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club waitlist - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a></li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#126 BBMU - Should you use a debt relief company?</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/126</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/28db5539-43b0-4f59-a5eb-ac7b3bf77ae6.mp3" length="47430540" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>126</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#126 BBMU - Should you use a debt relief company?</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Debt relief companies are a popular choice for people who are struggling to manage their debts. They offer a variety of services to help people reduce or eliminate their debt burden. But is this really a good option for you?

Before deciding to use a debt relief company, there are a few things to consider. Listen in as Ashley discusses some of these points and offers some guidance to help you make the right choice.
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>32:55</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Debt relief companies are a popular choice for people who are struggling to manage their debts. They offer a variety of services to help people reduce or eliminate their debt burden. But is this really a good option for you?
Before deciding to use a debt relief company, there are a few things to consider. Listen in as Ashley discusses some of these points and offers some guidance to help you make the right choice.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So definitely before you commit to any kind of debt relief program, know your numbers so that you can make the best decision for you and you need to know your options and when you know your numbers and know what you can actually afford, things will get clear and you'll be able to make a more informed decision.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps:
01:17 - The Budget Bestie Meetup
03:10 - Should you use a debt relief company?
06:03 - Debt relief scams
06:47 - How it affects your credit score
09:47 - Talk to a bankruptcy attorney
10:46 - Do your research
12:04 - Know what the tax implications are
13:04 - Have a money plan
15:59 - About credit score
23:40 - Wins for February
31:24 - How to sign up for a Budget Bestie Meetup
Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a Budget Bestie Meetup on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let's learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here -&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>debt relief to pay off debt, should I use a debt relief company, </itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Debt relief companies are a popular choice for people who are struggling to manage their debts. They offer a variety of services to help people reduce or eliminate their debt burden. But is this really a good option for you?</p>

<p>Before deciding to use a debt relief company, there are a few things to consider. Listen in as Ashley discusses some of these points and offers some guidance to help you make the right choice.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So definitely before you commit to any kind of debt relief program, know your numbers so that you can make the best decision for you and you need to know your options and when you know your numbers and know what you can actually afford, things will get clear and you&#39;ll be able to make a more informed decision.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong><br>
01:17 - The Budget Bestie Meetup<br>
03:10 - Should you use a debt relief company?<br>
06:03 - Debt relief scams<br>
06:47 - How it affects your credit score<br>
09:47 - Talk to a bankruptcy attorney<br>
10:46 - Do your research<br>
12:04 - Know what the tax implications are<br>
13:04 - Have a money plan<br>
15:59 - About credit score<br>
23:40 - Wins for February<br>
31:24 - How to sign up for a Budget Bestie Meetup</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here -&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Debt relief companies are a popular choice for people who are struggling to manage their debts. They offer a variety of services to help people reduce or eliminate their debt burden. But is this really a good option for you?</p>

<p>Before deciding to use a debt relief company, there are a few things to consider. Listen in as Ashley discusses some of these points and offers some guidance to help you make the right choice.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So definitely before you commit to any kind of debt relief program, know your numbers so that you can make the best decision for you and you need to know your options and when you know your numbers and know what you can actually afford, things will get clear and you&#39;ll be able to make a more informed decision.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong><br>
01:17 - The Budget Bestie Meetup<br>
03:10 - Should you use a debt relief company?<br>
06:03 - Debt relief scams<br>
06:47 - How it affects your credit score<br>
09:47 - Talk to a bankruptcy attorney<br>
10:46 - Do your research<br>
12:04 - Know what the tax implications are<br>
13:04 - Have a money plan<br>
15:59 - About credit score<br>
23:40 - Wins for February<br>
31:24 - How to sign up for a Budget Bestie Meetup</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here -&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#125 Why You Should Have Fun Money When In Debt</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/125</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/5db97a79-cd06-438b-b21a-d9e339219b41.mp3" length="22531071" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>125</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#125 Why You Should Have Fun Money When In Debt</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#125 - Has some "expert" told you that if you are in debt, you can't have any fun and must eat beans and rice every day?

Well......that's a terrible way to live and it will backfire in a big way!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:18</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Debt is something that we all experience in our lives at some point or another. It can feel like a weight on our shoulders and be quite frustrating. 
The good news is that there are ways to take the pressure off and make debt feel less like a burden and more like something that you can look forward to getting rid of someday!
In this episode, Ashley will explain why having some "fun money" each month can give you the financial freedom to still do the things you enjoy without the stress of having to pay off your debts.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“If you have a lot of debt and it's gonna take you a couple years to pay it off and if you like having your hair nails done, that's not something that you're gonna put off for years, right? Like you're gonna still get your hair done, you're still gonna get your nails done. And so you just have to make a plan for that. As long as you have the money in your budget that you can send to that, I'm okay with it. Now if you're going into debt to pay for these things, that's a little different, right?” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:29 - Introduction to today's episode
02:16 - Setting money aside on wants
03:33 - Losing motivation to keep going
05:11 - Making small changes overtime and managing your money in a realistic way
06:30 - Creating a realistic plan
08:29 - Building habits and routines
09:03 - Make extra money
12:48 - Figure out what will work for you
13:45 - Coming up on the podcast
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>have fun money when in debt, can you spend money while in debt</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Debt is something that we all experience in our lives at some point or another. It can feel like a weight on our shoulders and be quite frustrating. </p>

<p>The good news is that there are ways to take the pressure off and make debt feel less like a burden and more like something that you can look forward to getting rid of someday!</p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley will explain why having some &quot;fun money&quot; each month can give you the financial freedom to still do the things you enjoy without the stress of having to pay off your debts.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“If you have a lot of debt and it&#39;s gonna take you a couple years to pay it off and if you like having your hair nails done, that&#39;s not something that you&#39;re gonna put off for years, right? Like you&#39;re gonna still get your hair done, you&#39;re still gonna get your nails done. And so you just have to make a plan for that. As long as you have the money in your budget that you can send to that, I&#39;m okay with it. Now if you&#39;re going into debt to pay for these things, that&#39;s a little different, right?”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:29 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
02:16 - Setting money aside on wants<br>
03:33 - Losing motivation to keep going<br>
05:11 - Making small changes overtime and managing your money in a realistic way<br>
06:30 - Creating a realistic plan<br>
08:29 - Building habits and routines<br>
09:03 - Make extra money<br>
12:48 - Figure out what will work for you<br>
13:45 - Coming up on the podcast</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong>Budget Strategy Session</strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Debt is something that we all experience in our lives at some point or another. It can feel like a weight on our shoulders and be quite frustrating. </p>

<p>The good news is that there are ways to take the pressure off and make debt feel less like a burden and more like something that you can look forward to getting rid of someday!</p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley will explain why having some &quot;fun money&quot; each month can give you the financial freedom to still do the things you enjoy without the stress of having to pay off your debts.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“If you have a lot of debt and it&#39;s gonna take you a couple years to pay it off and if you like having your hair nails done, that&#39;s not something that you&#39;re gonna put off for years, right? Like you&#39;re gonna still get your hair done, you&#39;re still gonna get your nails done. And so you just have to make a plan for that. As long as you have the money in your budget that you can send to that, I&#39;m okay with it. Now if you&#39;re going into debt to pay for these things, that&#39;s a little different, right?”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:29 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
02:16 - Setting money aside on wants<br>
03:33 - Losing motivation to keep going<br>
05:11 - Making small changes overtime and managing your money in a realistic way<br>
06:30 - Creating a realistic plan<br>
08:29 - Building habits and routines<br>
09:03 - Make extra money<br>
12:48 - Figure out what will work for you<br>
13:45 - Coming up on the podcast</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong>Budget Strategy Session</strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
<item>
  <title>#124 5 Things Your Parents Didn't Teach You About Money!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/124</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/8b4341bb-bee9-4c61-a123-c6c14a0fe783.mp3" length="27170334" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>124</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#124 5 Things Your Parents Didn't Teach You About Money!</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#124 - I doubt that anyone, including your parents, taught you these things! Why? Because they likely didn't know either! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:51</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Do you think your parents just didn't have enough money that's why they couldn't teach you about it? Or do you think they didn't want to teach you the topic because it was too complicated or too scary?
Well, chances are our parents weren't taught much about money, either! In fact, it's possible that they haven't even learned the most basic financial lessons themselves.
So, in today's episode, Ashley will go over some of the money lessons that our parents did not teach us about - but should have, such as making a realistic plan, planning ahead for non-regular expenses, and creating a plan for each paycheck.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“A lot of times what I see is people make a plan, but it's based on everything going perfectly. And guess what? You're not perfect. And especially in the beginning, your plan is definitely not gonna be perfect. You are not gonna wake up a different person tomorrow. You are not going to be able to easily change your habits and behaviors overnight. Of course you can over time as you build new habits and new routines, yes you can change and you can make big change relatively fast, but it's not gonna happen overnight. And so a lot of times I see these plans that are not realistic at all based on you and your family and the things that you're already doing. It's based on this perfect idea of what you want things to be. And those are not, those are not gonna be the same, especially if you are just starting out with creating a money plan at all and sticking to a money plan at all. It's just not going to happen.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - The topic for today's episode
01:55 - Not making a realistic plan
03:45 - Not creating a plan for each paycheck
05:28 - Now planning ahead for non-regular expenses
07:34 - Not learning how to deal with overspending and addiction to online shopping
12:11 - Not paying yourself first
17:26 - How to have your own Budget Budget Strategy Session episode
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>things you should know about money, parents didn't teach me about money</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you think your parents just didn&#39;t have enough money that&#39;s why they couldn&#39;t teach you about it? Or do you think they didn&#39;t want to teach you the topic because it was too complicated or too scary?</p>

<p>Well, chances are our parents weren&#39;t taught much about money, either! In fact, it&#39;s possible that they haven&#39;t even learned the most basic financial lessons themselves.</p>

<p>So, in today&#39;s episode, Ashley will go over some of the money lessons that our parents did not teach us about - but should have, such as making a realistic plan, planning ahead for non-regular expenses, and creating a plan for each paycheck.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“A lot of times what I see is people make a plan, but it&#39;s based on everything going perfectly. And guess what? You&#39;re not perfect. And especially in the beginning, your plan is definitely not gonna be perfect. You are not gonna wake up a different person tomorrow. You are not going to be able to easily change your habits and behaviors overnight. Of course you can over time as you build new habits and new routines, yes you can change and you can make big change relatively fast, but it&#39;s not gonna happen overnight. And so a lot of times I see these plans that are not realistic at all based on you and your family and the things that you&#39;re already doing. It&#39;s based on this perfect idea of what you want things to be. And those are not, those are not gonna be the same, especially if you are just starting out with creating a money plan at all and sticking to a money plan at all. It&#39;s just not going to happen.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - The topic for today&#39;s episode<br>
01:55 - Not making a realistic plan<br>
03:45 - Not creating a plan for each paycheck<br>
05:28 - Now planning ahead for non-regular expenses<br>
07:34 - Not learning how to deal with overspending and addiction to online shopping<br>
12:11 - Not paying yourself first<br>
17:26 - How to have your own Budget Budget Strategy Session episode</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you think your parents just didn&#39;t have enough money that&#39;s why they couldn&#39;t teach you about it? Or do you think they didn&#39;t want to teach you the topic because it was too complicated or too scary?</p>

<p>Well, chances are our parents weren&#39;t taught much about money, either! In fact, it&#39;s possible that they haven&#39;t even learned the most basic financial lessons themselves.</p>

<p>So, in today&#39;s episode, Ashley will go over some of the money lessons that our parents did not teach us about - but should have, such as making a realistic plan, planning ahead for non-regular expenses, and creating a plan for each paycheck.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“A lot of times what I see is people make a plan, but it&#39;s based on everything going perfectly. And guess what? You&#39;re not perfect. And especially in the beginning, your plan is definitely not gonna be perfect. You are not gonna wake up a different person tomorrow. You are not going to be able to easily change your habits and behaviors overnight. Of course you can over time as you build new habits and new routines, yes you can change and you can make big change relatively fast, but it&#39;s not gonna happen overnight. And so a lot of times I see these plans that are not realistic at all based on you and your family and the things that you&#39;re already doing. It&#39;s based on this perfect idea of what you want things to be. And those are not, those are not gonna be the same, especially if you are just starting out with creating a money plan at all and sticking to a money plan at all. It&#39;s just not going to happen.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - The topic for today&#39;s episode<br>
01:55 - Not making a realistic plan<br>
03:45 - Not creating a plan for each paycheck<br>
05:28 - Now planning ahead for non-regular expenses<br>
07:34 - Not learning how to deal with overspending and addiction to online shopping<br>
12:11 - Not paying yourself first<br>
17:26 - How to have your own Budget Budget Strategy Session episode</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#122 Do ONE thing at a time! </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/122</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2023 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/dcfde859-8346-4884-aa12-1d81596daf6a.mp3" length="12524155" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>122</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#122 Do ONE thing at a time! </itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#122 Do you feel like you aren't making any progress with your money plan even though you've been trying for awhile?

It could be because you are making this one mistake.....</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>8:21</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Do you feel like you aren't making any progress with your money plan even though you've been trying for a while?
If you are feeling like your money plan isn't working the way that you hoped it would, it may be because you are doing too much at once. 
Listen in as Ashley discusses how to create a realistic money plan that will keep you from feeling stuck and getting overwhelmed.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“So it's more important for the long-term success that you start small and just make it simple as possible so that you can follow through with it. If you make it complicated and a whole bunch of steps at once, you're not gonna make as fast a progress, if any progress because you're just too overwhelmed and trying to do too many new things at once. You wanna start with one small thing at a time.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:26 - How to register for the Free workshop on 'How to pay off $500 in Debt in just 30 days'
00:58 - The topic of today's episode
01:47 - Do one thing at a time
02:34 - Plan for what was left after bills
03:51 - Creating a money plan
04:13 - Meal plan
05:37 - Cash envelopes
07:07 - Start small
Tired of Living Paycheck To Paycheck? Want to Pay Off $500 Next Month? I've got just the thing for you! This FREE Workshop will teach you How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in just 30 Days without selling a kidney or robbing a bank! Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in just 30 Days: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>How to start budgeting, how to stick to a budget</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you feel like you aren&#39;t making any progress with your money plan even though you&#39;ve been trying for a while?</p>

<p>If you are feeling like your money plan isn&#39;t working the way that you hoped it would, it may be because you are doing too much at once. </p>

<p>Listen in as Ashley discusses how to create a realistic money plan that will keep you from feeling stuck and getting overwhelmed.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“So it&#39;s more important for the long-term success that you start small and just make it simple as possible so that you can follow through with it. If you make it complicated and a whole bunch of steps at once, you&#39;re not gonna make as fast a progress, if any progress because you&#39;re just too overwhelmed and trying to do too many new things at once. You wanna start with one small thing at a time.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:26 - How to register for the Free workshop on &#39;How to pay off $500 in Debt in just 30 days&#39;<br>
00:58 - The topic of today&#39;s episode<br>
01:47 - Do one thing at a time<br>
02:34 - Plan for what was left after bills<br>
03:51 - Creating a money plan<br>
04:13 - Meal plan<br>
05:37 - Cash envelopes<br>
07:07 - Start small</p>

<p>Tired of Living Paycheck To Paycheck? Want to Pay Off $500 Next Month? I&#39;ve got just the thing for you! This FREE Workshop will teach you <strong><em>How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in just 30 Days</em></strong> without selling a kidney or robbing a bank! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in just 30 Days: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you feel like you aren&#39;t making any progress with your money plan even though you&#39;ve been trying for a while?</p>

<p>If you are feeling like your money plan isn&#39;t working the way that you hoped it would, it may be because you are doing too much at once. </p>

<p>Listen in as Ashley discusses how to create a realistic money plan that will keep you from feeling stuck and getting overwhelmed.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“So it&#39;s more important for the long-term success that you start small and just make it simple as possible so that you can follow through with it. If you make it complicated and a whole bunch of steps at once, you&#39;re not gonna make as fast a progress, if any progress because you&#39;re just too overwhelmed and trying to do too many new things at once. You wanna start with one small thing at a time.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:26 - How to register for the Free workshop on &#39;How to pay off $500 in Debt in just 30 days&#39;<br>
00:58 - The topic of today&#39;s episode<br>
01:47 - Do one thing at a time<br>
02:34 - Plan for what was left after bills<br>
03:51 - Creating a money plan<br>
04:13 - Meal plan<br>
05:37 - Cash envelopes<br>
07:07 - Start small</p>

<p>Tired of Living Paycheck To Paycheck? Want to Pay Off $500 Next Month? I&#39;ve got just the thing for you! This FREE Workshop will teach you <strong><em>How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in just 30 Days</em></strong> without selling a kidney or robbing a bank! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>How to Pay Off $500 in Debt in just 30 Days: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#121 BSS - Deciding Which Debt to Pay First</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/121</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/f2703fbb-35c8-47be-8447-18a251950579.mp3" length="42437794" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>121</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#121 BSS - Deciding Which Debt to Pay First</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Wondering where to put the rest of your money after you've paid all your bills? Should you use it to pay off more debt, or should you put it towards something else?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>29:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Wondering where to put the rest of your money after you've paid all your bills? Should you use it to pay off more debt, or should you put it towards something else?
Listen in today's episode, as Ashley discusses debt strategies with Christina, including what to do with her leftover money after paying all of her bills, how to allocate those funds, and what her options are for paying off her debt.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“Well, it's overwhelming. And then you're like, I don't know what to do because I'm overwhelmed. And so when you just take it one step at a time, so just focus on the one debt you wanna pay off first, I find running the numbers motivating, especially if you have a good chunk each month that you could send to it and you see that number, you're like, oh, I can do that. It'll help get you going. It'll give you that momentum to get started.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - How to sign up for your Budget Strategy Session
00:38 - Introduction to today's episode
01:16 - Meet Christina
04:02 - Christina's financial struggle
06:23 - What to do with the money that is left over after paying bills
08:38 - Emergency and Sinking funds
09:44 - Having a buffer amount
11:13 - Deciding on your biggest financial goal
13:37 - Which debt to pay off first
17:01 - Focusing on one debt at a time
19:07 - Christina's 24 hour action step
19:34 - Impact, Debt Snowball, and Debt Avalanche method
23:07 - Planning your left over money where you want it to go
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to combine finances with your spouse, which debt to focus on, debt snowball, debt avalanche</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Wondering where to put the rest of your money after you&#39;ve paid all your bills? Should you use it to pay off more debt, or should you put it towards something else?</p>

<p>Listen in today&#39;s episode, as Ashley discusses debt strategies with Christina, including what to do with her leftover money after paying all of her bills, how to allocate those funds, and what her options are for paying off her debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Well, it&#39;s overwhelming. And then you&#39;re like, I don&#39;t know what to do because I&#39;m overwhelmed. And so when you just take it one step at a time, so just focus on the one debt you wanna pay off first, I find running the numbers motivating, especially if you have a good chunk each month that you could send to it and you see that number, you&#39;re like, oh, I can do that. It&#39;ll help get you going. It&#39;ll give you that momentum to get started.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - How to sign up for your Budget Strategy Session<br>
00:38 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:16 - Meet Christina<br>
04:02 - Christina&#39;s financial struggle<br>
06:23 - What to do with the money that is left over after paying bills<br>
08:38 - Emergency and Sinking funds<br>
09:44 - Having a buffer amount<br>
11:13 - Deciding on your biggest financial goal<br>
13:37 - Which debt to pay off first<br>
17:01 - Focusing on one debt at a time<br>
19:07 - Christina&#39;s 24 hour action step<br>
19:34 - Impact, Debt Snowball, and Debt Avalanche method<br>
23:07 - Planning your left over money where you want it to go</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Wondering where to put the rest of your money after you&#39;ve paid all your bills? Should you use it to pay off more debt, or should you put it towards something else?</p>

<p>Listen in today&#39;s episode, as Ashley discusses debt strategies with Christina, including what to do with her leftover money after paying all of her bills, how to allocate those funds, and what her options are for paying off her debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Well, it&#39;s overwhelming. And then you&#39;re like, I don&#39;t know what to do because I&#39;m overwhelmed. And so when you just take it one step at a time, so just focus on the one debt you wanna pay off first, I find running the numbers motivating, especially if you have a good chunk each month that you could send to it and you see that number, you&#39;re like, oh, I can do that. It&#39;ll help get you going. It&#39;ll give you that momentum to get started.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - How to sign up for your Budget Strategy Session<br>
00:38 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
01:16 - Meet Christina<br>
04:02 - Christina&#39;s financial struggle<br>
06:23 - What to do with the money that is left over after paying bills<br>
08:38 - Emergency and Sinking funds<br>
09:44 - Having a buffer amount<br>
11:13 - Deciding on your biggest financial goal<br>
13:37 - Which debt to pay off first<br>
17:01 - Focusing on one debt at a time<br>
19:07 - Christina&#39;s 24 hour action step<br>
19:34 - Impact, Debt Snowball, and Debt Avalanche method<br>
23:07 - Planning your left over money where you want it to go</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#120 Our Worst Financial Mistake That Cost Us $1million dollars 😲</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/120</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/91e4604c-d1b3-4b72-a6fe-533fae3cb6d1.mp3" length="21398782" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>120</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#120 Our Worst Financial Mistake That Cost Us $1million dollars 😲</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#120 We learn more from our mistakes than we do from our success....</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>14:51</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>I'm sure you've been given money advice at some point in your life that sounded good at the time, but turned out to be bad advice that cost you money!
Today I'm sharing the worst advice we followed that led to our biggest money mistake.....one that will cost us almost $1 MILLION.....yes million....dollars in our lifetimes.
But as with all mistakes and setbacks, there is a silver lining!
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“But you know, we all make mistakes and we learn from each other. So I would love to hear your biggest mistake and maybe you know, what you've learned from that mistake because that's where we really grow and that's where we make the biggest progress in our learning and our journey because we're like, hmm, never wanna do that again. Right? We learn more from our failures and our mess-ups than we do from our successes. And that's just how our brains work.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:11 - The Money Success Club
00:57 - The topic of today's episode
02:52 - What made us take out a loan
05:33 - 401(k) loan
10:59 - The start of our debt free journey
12:40 - Tell us about your biggest financial mistake
14:22 - How to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode
Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you're going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?
If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the Money Success Club at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Money Success Club: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc 
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
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  <itunes:keywords>401(k) loans, worst financial advice, money mistakes</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m sure you&#39;ve been given money advice at some point in your life that sounded good at the time, but turned out to be bad advice that cost you money!</p>

<p>Today I&#39;m sharing the worst advice we followed that led to our biggest money mistake.....one that will cost us almost $1 MILLION.....yes million....dollars in our lifetimes.</p>

<p>But as with all mistakes and setbacks, there is a silver lining!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“But you know, we all make mistakes and we learn from each other. So I would love to hear your biggest mistake and maybe you know, what you&#39;ve learned from that mistake because that&#39;s where we really grow and that&#39;s where we make the biggest progress in our learning and our journey because we&#39;re like, hmm, never wanna do that again. Right? We learn more from our failures and our mess-ups than we do from our successes. And that&#39;s just how our brains work.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:11 - The Money Success Club<br>
00:57 - The topic of today&#39;s episode<br>
02:52 - What made us take out a loan<br>
05:33 - 401(k) loan<br>
10:59 - The start of our debt free journey<br>
12:40 - Tell us about your biggest financial mistake<br>
14:22 - How to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m sure you&#39;ve been given money advice at some point in your life that sounded good at the time, but turned out to be bad advice that cost you money!</p>

<p>Today I&#39;m sharing the worst advice we followed that led to our biggest money mistake.....one that will cost us almost $1 MILLION.....yes million....dollars in our lifetimes.</p>

<p>But as with all mistakes and setbacks, there is a silver lining!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“But you know, we all make mistakes and we learn from each other. So I would love to hear your biggest mistake and maybe you know, what you&#39;ve learned from that mistake because that&#39;s where we really grow and that&#39;s where we make the biggest progress in our learning and our journey because we&#39;re like, hmm, never wanna do that again. Right? We learn more from our failures and our mess-ups than we do from our successes. And that&#39;s just how our brains work.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:11 - The Money Success Club<br>
00:57 - The topic of today&#39;s episode<br>
02:52 - What made us take out a loan<br>
05:33 - 401(k) loan<br>
10:59 - The start of our debt free journey<br>
12:40 - Tell us about your biggest financial mistake<br>
14:22 - How to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode</p>

<p>Do you need time, space, and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing, such as budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan, and all the other things that keep falling off your to-do list? Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who understand what you&#39;re going through and are working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <strong><em>Money Success Club</em></strong> at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Money Success Club: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</a> </li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#118 BBMU - How to Start Changing Your Behavior</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/118</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#118 BBMU - How to Start Changing Your Behavior</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#118 Our first community meetup where we discuss how to start changing your behavior and what does that even mean? Plus what is the debt snowball and share our wins from the month. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>1:02:08</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Welcome to the very first episode of our new series called the Budget Bestie Meetup! Yay! 
The Budget Bestie Meetup is a free community meetup that brings together a supportive group of women to talk about money so that we can learn and grow as a community.
In this episode, we'll talk about how to start changing your behavior, how to put it into action, and how to incorporate habit stacking into your daily routine. In addition, we will also talk about the different methods to pay off your debt and share our wins for the month.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“So you know, it's tracking your spending, like that is a behavior, it's a habit, it's a routine that we wanna build and create as we're trying to change our behavior. So it's not always the impulsive spending, it's not always the overspending, but it's the little things that we do on the day-to-day. Those habits and routines could also be said instead of behavior. But it is those little things of what we do with our finances. Not always the big things of overspending and you know, shopping way too much on Amazon. Of course that plays into it as well. But you know, mainly the habits and setting up the systems to really be successful in the long run.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
01:18 - About the Budget Bestie Meetup
03:39 - Changing your behavior
07:31 - Implementing your habits and routines
18:14 - Renee's win
16:32 - How to include habit stacking to your daily routine
25:07 - Cindy's win
29:18 - Kristina's win
30:13 - About the snowball, impact, and debt avalanche method
36:58 - Word of the year
39:26 - Kathy's win
40:43 - Trinette's win
41:17 - Paying credit card balance using the snowball method
45:18 - Elizabeth's win
01:01:42 - How to sign up for the Budget Bestie Meetup episode
Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a Budget Bestie Meetup on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let's learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Book Recommendation:
* Atomic Habits by James Clear
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to change your finances, money mindset, what is the debt snowball</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the very first episode of our new series called the Budget Bestie Meetup! Yay! </p>

<p>The Budget Bestie Meetup is a free community meetup that brings together a supportive group of women to talk about money so that we can learn and grow as a community.</p>

<p>In this episode, we&#39;ll talk about how to start changing your behavior, how to put it into action, and how to incorporate habit stacking into your daily routine. In addition, we will also talk about the different methods to pay off your debt and share our wins for the month.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“So you know, it&#39;s tracking your spending, like that is a behavior, it&#39;s a habit, it&#39;s a routine that we wanna build and create as we&#39;re trying to change our behavior. So it&#39;s not always the impulsive spending, it&#39;s not always the overspending, but it&#39;s the little things that we do on the day-to-day. Those habits and routines could also be said instead of behavior. But it is those little things of what we do with our finances. Not always the big things of overspending and you know, shopping way too much on Amazon. Of course that plays into it as well. But you know, mainly the habits and setting up the systems to really be successful in the long run.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - About the Budget Bestie Meetup<br>
03:39 - Changing your behavior<br>
07:31 - Implementing your habits and routines<br>
18:14 - Renee&#39;s win<br>
16:32 - How to include habit stacking to your daily routine<br>
25:07 - Cindy&#39;s win<br>
29:18 - Kristina&#39;s win<br>
30:13 - About the snowball, impact, and debt avalanche method<br>
36:58 - Word of the year<br>
39:26 - Kathy&#39;s win<br>
40:43 - Trinette&#39;s win<br>
41:17 - Paying credit card balance using the snowball method<br>
45:18 - Elizabeth&#39;s win<br>
01:01:42 - How to sign up for the Budget Bestie Meetup episode</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Atomic Habits by James Clear</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the very first episode of our new series called the Budget Bestie Meetup! Yay! </p>

<p>The Budget Bestie Meetup is a free community meetup that brings together a supportive group of women to talk about money so that we can learn and grow as a community.</p>

<p>In this episode, we&#39;ll talk about how to start changing your behavior, how to put it into action, and how to incorporate habit stacking into your daily routine. In addition, we will also talk about the different methods to pay off your debt and share our wins for the month.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“So you know, it&#39;s tracking your spending, like that is a behavior, it&#39;s a habit, it&#39;s a routine that we wanna build and create as we&#39;re trying to change our behavior. So it&#39;s not always the impulsive spending, it&#39;s not always the overspending, but it&#39;s the little things that we do on the day-to-day. Those habits and routines could also be said instead of behavior. But it is those little things of what we do with our finances. Not always the big things of overspending and you know, shopping way too much on Amazon. Of course that plays into it as well. But you know, mainly the habits and setting up the systems to really be successful in the long run.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
01:18 - About the Budget Bestie Meetup<br>
03:39 - Changing your behavior<br>
07:31 - Implementing your habits and routines<br>
18:14 - Renee&#39;s win<br>
16:32 - How to include habit stacking to your daily routine<br>
25:07 - Cindy&#39;s win<br>
29:18 - Kristina&#39;s win<br>
30:13 - About the snowball, impact, and debt avalanche method<br>
36:58 - Word of the year<br>
39:26 - Kathy&#39;s win<br>
40:43 - Trinette&#39;s win<br>
41:17 - Paying credit card balance using the snowball method<br>
45:18 - Elizabeth&#39;s win<br>
01:01:42 - How to sign up for the Budget Bestie Meetup episode</p>

<p>Do you wish you had a supportive group of women like you to connect with about money? Come join me for a <strong><em>Budget Bestie Meetup</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast, and let&#39;s learn and grow as a community! You can sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a>.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Atomic Habits by James Clear</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Bestie Meetup episode here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/meetup</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#116 The Key to Sticking to Your New Year Resolutions in 2023</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/116</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2023 10:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>116</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#116 The Key to Sticking to Your New Year Resolutions in 2023</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#116 Do you wonder where all your money went year after year? You do your taxes and are shocked at how much made and have nothing to show for it? This year can be different if you change this one thing! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>11:56</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Most people set resolutions for the New Year in an attempt to change their lives for the better - but few actually follow through with them.
The problem is that making resolutions without a plan and sticking to it often leads to disappointment and failure. So how can you make sure you keep your resolutions this year?
Listen to this episode and learn the key steps you should take in order to make a New Year’s resolution that you can stick to!
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“You've just gotta keep going and know that, you know, failure is part of the journey, but so is success. You can't have one without the other. Believe it or not, they go together, right? And so you have to give yourself some grace and have patience with yourself and know that it is never going to be perfect. It's never gonna be perfect, so then the key is being patient with yourself, giving yourself some grace, keep going, don't give up.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - The topic of today's episode
01:08 - The key to sticking to your new year resolutions
01:55 - Giving yourself some grace
05:02 - Keep going and not mentally give up
05:51 - Creating SMART goals
10:37 - About the Money Plan Bootcamp
Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn't need to be overwhelming! Join my Money Plan Bootcamp where I'll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* The Money Plan Bootcamp: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to stick to new years resolutions, goal setting for 2023, achieving goals in 2023, 2023 new year resolutions</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Most people set resolutions for the New Year in an attempt to change their lives for the better - but few actually follow through with them.</p>

<p>The problem is that making resolutions without a plan and sticking to it often leads to disappointment and failure. So how can you make sure you keep your resolutions this year?</p>

<p>Listen to this episode and learn the key steps you should take in order to make a New Year’s resolution that you can stick to!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;ve just gotta keep going and know that, you know, failure is part of the journey, but so is success. You can&#39;t have one without the other. Believe it or not, they go together, right? And so you have to give yourself some grace and have patience with yourself and know that it is never going to be perfect. It&#39;s never gonna be perfect, so then the key is being patient with yourself, giving yourself some grace, keep going, don&#39;t give up.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - The topic of today&#39;s episode<br>
01:08 - The key to sticking to your new year resolutions<br>
01:55 - Giving yourself some grace<br>
05:02 - Keep going and not mentally give up<br>
05:51 - Creating SMART goals<br>
10:37 - About the Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Most people set resolutions for the New Year in an attempt to change their lives for the better - but few actually follow through with them.</p>

<p>The problem is that making resolutions without a plan and sticking to it often leads to disappointment and failure. So how can you make sure you keep your resolutions this year?</p>

<p>Listen to this episode and learn the key steps you should take in order to make a New Year’s resolution that you can stick to!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;ve just gotta keep going and know that, you know, failure is part of the journey, but so is success. You can&#39;t have one without the other. Believe it or not, they go together, right? And so you have to give yourself some grace and have patience with yourself and know that it is never going to be perfect. It&#39;s never gonna be perfect, so then the key is being patient with yourself, giving yourself some grace, keep going, don&#39;t give up.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - The topic of today&#39;s episode<br>
01:08 - The key to sticking to your new year resolutions<br>
01:55 - Giving yourself some grace<br>
05:02 - Keep going and not mentally give up<br>
05:51 - Creating SMART goals<br>
10:37 - About the Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#115 5 Budget Mistakes to Avoid in 2023</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/115</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>115</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#115 5 Budget Mistakes to Avoid in 2023</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#115 Avoid these mistakes so you can have a productive and success year! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:32</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Are you ready for a productive and successful year? If you're like most people, your answer is likely a  yes. But how can you make that happen?
In this episode, Ashley discusses five budget mistakes to avoid in 2023 so that you can have a productive and successful year ahead such as not putting a deadline on tasks, expecting everything to go perfectly, not setting a baseline and mid-level goals, and more!
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“So you're constantly feeling like you're failing because you can't be perfect and your money plan’s never gonna be perfect because that's life and we beat ourselves up and we get in this mental cycle of feeling like we failed because we're not perfect, but we're human. So we literally cannot be perfect. So you've gotta keep going. When bumps come along the way, along the road when there's bumps and life happens, you've gotta keep going. It's never gonna be perfect. But if you keep going, you will be successful. If you stop and quit and avoid, you're not gonna reach your big goals. So you have to keep going and not expect everything to go perfectly.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - What today's episode is about
00:25 - How to sign up for the Money Plan Bootcamp
03:04 - Not putting a deadline on tasks
04:37 - Expecting everything to go perfectly
06:14 - Not setting a baseline and mid-level goals
09:45 - Not being intentional
12:31 - Trying to do too much
Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn't need to be overwhelming! Join my Money Plan Bootcamp where I'll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* The Money Plan Bootcamp: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>5 money mistakes, 5 money mistakes to avoid in 2023, money mistakes, perfectionism, not being intentional, trying to do too much</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Are you ready for a productive and successful year? If you&#39;re like most people, your answer is likely a  yes. But how can you make that happen?</p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley discusses five budget mistakes to avoid in 2023 so that you can have a productive and successful year ahead such as not putting a deadline on tasks, expecting everything to go perfectly, not setting a baseline and mid-level goals, and more!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So you&#39;re constantly feeling like you&#39;re failing because you can&#39;t be perfect and your money plan’s never gonna be perfect because that&#39;s life and we beat ourselves up and we get in this mental cycle of feeling like we failed because we&#39;re not perfect, but we&#39;re human. So we literally cannot be perfect. So you&#39;ve gotta keep going. When bumps come along the way, along the road when there&#39;s bumps and life happens, you&#39;ve gotta keep going. It&#39;s never gonna be perfect. But if you keep going, you will be successful. If you stop and quit and avoid, you&#39;re not gonna reach your big goals. So you have to keep going and not expect everything to go perfectly.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - What today&#39;s episode is about<br>
00:25 - How to sign up for the Money Plan Bootcamp<br>
03:04 - Not putting a deadline on tasks<br>
04:37 - Expecting everything to go perfectly<br>
06:14 - Not setting a baseline and mid-level goals<br>
09:45 - Not being intentional<br>
12:31 - Trying to do too much</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Are you ready for a productive and successful year? If you&#39;re like most people, your answer is likely a  yes. But how can you make that happen?</p>

<p>In this episode, Ashley discusses five budget mistakes to avoid in 2023 so that you can have a productive and successful year ahead such as not putting a deadline on tasks, expecting everything to go perfectly, not setting a baseline and mid-level goals, and more!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“So you&#39;re constantly feeling like you&#39;re failing because you can&#39;t be perfect and your money plan’s never gonna be perfect because that&#39;s life and we beat ourselves up and we get in this mental cycle of feeling like we failed because we&#39;re not perfect, but we&#39;re human. So we literally cannot be perfect. So you&#39;ve gotta keep going. When bumps come along the way, along the road when there&#39;s bumps and life happens, you&#39;ve gotta keep going. It&#39;s never gonna be perfect. But if you keep going, you will be successful. If you stop and quit and avoid, you&#39;re not gonna reach your big goals. So you have to keep going and not expect everything to go perfectly.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - What today&#39;s episode is about<br>
00:25 - How to sign up for the Money Plan Bootcamp<br>
03:04 - Not putting a deadline on tasks<br>
04:37 - Expecting everything to go perfectly<br>
06:14 - Not setting a baseline and mid-level goals<br>
09:45 - Not being intentional<br>
12:31 - Trying to do too much</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#114 How to Pay Off Debt &amp; Save at the Same Time (Q&amp;A pt4)</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/114</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2023 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/c52cd0fb-891e-4aef-bceb-d596abe0ae10.mp3" length="25150230" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>114</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#114 How to Pay Off Debt &amp; Save at the Same Time (Q&amp;A pt4)</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#114 - I answer questions like....How do you pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck? How do you get past the guilt when the plan doesn't go as planned? and Can you start your budget for the month with the previous month's last paycheck?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>17:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Hey everyone, it's question and answer time on the podcast! 
This is Part 4 of our Q&amp;amp;A series, and I'll be answering some of the questions that Money Plan Bootcamp members have sent in.
Listen in as I answer the following questions: How to pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck, How to get past guilt when the plan doesn't work out, and Can you start your monthly budget with the previous month's last paycheck?
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“Remember, focus on one thing at a time. Budget comes first, saving, then paying off debt. I know you wanna just dive in head first into paying off debt and get it out of your life. I love it when you are that excited about it. But you've gotta really cover the foundational stuff first so that you don't go back into debt later.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:00 - Introduction to today's episode
04:18 - How to pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck
09:55 - How to get past the guilt when the plan doesn't go as planned
14:57 - Can you start your budget for the month with the previous month's last paycheck?
16:48 - How to join the Money Plan Bootcamp
Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn't need to be overwhelming! Join my Money Plan Bootcamp where I'll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* The Money Plan Bootcamp: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp
* Send your questions here -&amp;gt; www.speakpipe.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>q&amp;a series, How to pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck, How to get past the guilt when the plan doesn't go as planned, Can you start your budget for the month with the previous month's last paycheck</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Hey everyone, it&#39;s question and answer time on the podcast! </p>

<p>This is Part 4 of our Q&amp;A series, and I&#39;ll be answering some of the questions that Money Plan Bootcamp members have sent in.</p>

<p>Listen in as I answer the following questions: How to pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck, How to get past guilt when the plan doesn&#39;t work out, and Can you start your monthly budget with the previous month&#39;s last paycheck?</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“Remember, focus on one thing at a time. Budget comes first, saving, then paying off debt. I know you wanna just dive in head first into paying off debt and get it out of your life. I love it when you are that excited about it. But you&#39;ve gotta really cover the foundational stuff first so that you don&#39;t go back into debt later.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
04:18 - How to pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck<br>
09:55 - How to get past the guilt when the plan doesn&#39;t go as planned<br>
14:57 - Can you start your budget for the month with the previous month&#39;s last paycheck?<br>
16:48 - How to join the Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
<li>Send your questions here -&gt; <a href="http://www.speakpipe.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.speakpipe.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Hey everyone, it&#39;s question and answer time on the podcast! </p>

<p>This is Part 4 of our Q&amp;A series, and I&#39;ll be answering some of the questions that Money Plan Bootcamp members have sent in.</p>

<p>Listen in as I answer the following questions: How to pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck, How to get past guilt when the plan doesn&#39;t work out, and Can you start your monthly budget with the previous month&#39;s last paycheck?</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“Remember, focus on one thing at a time. Budget comes first, saving, then paying off debt. I know you wanna just dive in head first into paying off debt and get it out of your life. I love it when you are that excited about it. But you&#39;ve gotta really cover the foundational stuff first so that you don&#39;t go back into debt later.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
04:18 - How to pay off debt and save while living paycheck to paycheck<br>
09:55 - How to get past the guilt when the plan doesn&#39;t go as planned<br>
14:57 - Can you start your budget for the month with the previous month&#39;s last paycheck?<br>
16:48 - How to join the Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
<li>Send your questions here -&gt; <a href="http://www.speakpipe.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.speakpipe.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#111 Resources for Going to College as an Adult</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/111</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/f14a8975-10e3-46c8-9ce9-59349cb7f1b3.mp3" length="76723034" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>111</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#111 Resources for Going to College as an Adult</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Plus how Katelyn paid off $110,000 in 18 months and has continued on her college education for FREE! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>53:16</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Thinking of going back to school? 
Whether you're going back to school to pursue a bachelor's degree or looking to expand your career opportunities by furthering your education, it's never too late to study again.
Listen in as Katelyn, a career coach, guides others through the process so you understand your options and can make an informed decision. She also has some helpful tips and tricks for doing it for little to no cost to you!
Meet Katelyn
Katelyn is a non-traditional college student and college instructor that stopped and started her education at over ten schools over the last fifteen years. She amassed $60,000 in debt pursuing her undergrad, then found a better way, completed two master’s degrees where she profited $1800 through education benefits and scholarships, and now pursuing a doctorate which will cost her $0. All of this was completed on an accelerated timeline, while working a full-time job and 2 part time jobs, paying off over $100,000 in debt, and raising her three kids. 
In her full-time job, Katelyn acts as a pseudo-career coach helping people in her organization to get qualified for their next role, finding low cost or no cost education programs, prepping resumes, and she teaches the job application process at a local university as a part of a career service orientation. Her mission and passion are helping people get qualified for their dream job without taking on mountains of debt. 
“When you're looking to go back to school, whether you're traditional or non-traditional, you have to be an informed consumer and you have to be your own advocate. No one else is looking out for you, no one else has your specific goals and desires or passions. So make sure that you're researching, that you're finding things that are right for you. And also making sure that there's alignment between your career aspirations and the programs that you're going for.” 
- Katelyn Shannon
Timestamps: 
00:55 - Introduction to today's episode
03:01 - Meet Katelyn
14:18 - Be an informed consumer
15:42 - Do your research to find the right program that fits your career goals
19:17 - Check your employee benefits
20:20 - Scholarship and grant applications
23:23 - Credit Transfer
26:59 - Regional and national accreditation
33:43 - Regarding Katelyn's work in human resources
38:46 - How to stand out when applying for a Job
43:06 - Who should I speak with about employee benefits
44:54 - Takeaways from this episode
50:44 - Last words of wisdom
52:24 - The Kickstart 2023 Bundle
If you're ready to get out of debt, start saving money, and have your best year yet, check out the Kickstart 2023 Bundle. It will help you create a simple plan that you can actually follow so you can pay off debt and save money in 2023! Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart to grab your bundle today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Book Recommendation:
* Stop Organizing, Start Producing: Leverage the 12 Factors that Make or Break the Busy Professional | 2011 Casey Moore 
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Kickstart 2023 Bundle: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart
* 3 FREE consultation spots available for the listeners of the Money Mindset Podcast: Email k.liddington@yahoo.com
* sophia.org
* study.com
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Katelyn:
* Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katelynshannon-learningprofessional/
 Special Guest: Katelyn Shannon.
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  <itunes:keywords>college as an adult, saving on college as an adult, going back to school as an adult</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Thinking of going back to school? </p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re going back to school to pursue a bachelor&#39;s degree or looking to expand your career opportunities by furthering your education, it&#39;s never too late to study again.</p>

<p>Listen in as Katelyn, a career coach, guides others through the process so you understand your options and can make an informed decision. She also has some helpful tips and tricks for doing it for little to no cost to you!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Katelyn</strong><br>
Katelyn is a non-traditional college student and college instructor that stopped and started her education at over ten schools over the last fifteen years. She amassed $60,000 in debt pursuing her undergrad, then found a better way, completed two master’s degrees where she profited $1800 through education benefits and scholarships, and now pursuing a doctorate which will cost her $0. All of this was completed on an accelerated timeline, while working a full-time job and 2 part time jobs, paying off over $100,000 in debt, and raising her three kids. </p>

<p>In her full-time job, Katelyn acts as a pseudo-career coach helping people in her organization to get qualified for their next role, finding low cost or no cost education programs, prepping resumes, and she teaches the job application process at a local university as a part of a career service orientation. Her mission and passion are helping people get qualified for their dream job without taking on mountains of debt. </p>

<p><em>“When you&#39;re looking to go back to school, whether you&#39;re traditional or non-traditional, you have to be an informed consumer and you have to be your own advocate. No one else is looking out for you, no one else has your specific goals and desires or passions. So make sure that you&#39;re researching, that you&#39;re finding things that are right for you. And also making sure that there&#39;s alignment between your career aspirations and the programs that you&#39;re going for.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Katelyn Shannon</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:55 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
03:01 - Meet Katelyn<br>
14:18 - Be an informed consumer<br>
15:42 - Do your research to find the right program that fits your career goals<br>
19:17 - Check your employee benefits<br>
20:20 - Scholarship and grant applications<br>
23:23 - Credit Transfer<br>
26:59 - Regional and national accreditation<br>
33:43 - Regarding Katelyn&#39;s work in human resources<br>
38:46 - How to stand out when applying for a Job<br>
43:06 - Who should I speak with about employee benefits<br>
44:54 - Takeaways from this episode<br>
50:44 - Last words of wisdom<br>
52:24 - The Kickstart 2023 Bundle</p>

<p>If you&#39;re ready to get out of debt, start saving money, and have your best year yet, check out the <strong><em>Kickstart 2023 Bundle</em></strong>. It will help you create a simple plan that you can actually follow so you can pay off debt and save money in 2023! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a> to grab your bundle today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Stop Organizing, Start Producing: Leverage the 12 Factors that Make or Break the Busy Professional | 2011 Casey Moore </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Kickstart 2023 Bundle: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a></li>
<li>3 FREE consultation spots available for the listeners of the Money Mindset Podcast: Email <a href="mailto:k.liddington@yahoo.com" rel="nofollow">k.liddington@yahoo.com</a></li>
<li>sophia.org</li>
<li>study.com</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Katelyn:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/katelynshannon-learningprofessional/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/katelynshannon-learningprofessional/</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Katelyn Shannon.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Thinking of going back to school? </p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re going back to school to pursue a bachelor&#39;s degree or looking to expand your career opportunities by furthering your education, it&#39;s never too late to study again.</p>

<p>Listen in as Katelyn, a career coach, guides others through the process so you understand your options and can make an informed decision. She also has some helpful tips and tricks for doing it for little to no cost to you!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Katelyn</strong><br>
Katelyn is a non-traditional college student and college instructor that stopped and started her education at over ten schools over the last fifteen years. She amassed $60,000 in debt pursuing her undergrad, then found a better way, completed two master’s degrees where she profited $1800 through education benefits and scholarships, and now pursuing a doctorate which will cost her $0. All of this was completed on an accelerated timeline, while working a full-time job and 2 part time jobs, paying off over $100,000 in debt, and raising her three kids. </p>

<p>In her full-time job, Katelyn acts as a pseudo-career coach helping people in her organization to get qualified for their next role, finding low cost or no cost education programs, prepping resumes, and she teaches the job application process at a local university as a part of a career service orientation. Her mission and passion are helping people get qualified for their dream job without taking on mountains of debt. </p>

<p><em>“When you&#39;re looking to go back to school, whether you&#39;re traditional or non-traditional, you have to be an informed consumer and you have to be your own advocate. No one else is looking out for you, no one else has your specific goals and desires or passions. So make sure that you&#39;re researching, that you&#39;re finding things that are right for you. And also making sure that there&#39;s alignment between your career aspirations and the programs that you&#39;re going for.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Katelyn Shannon</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:55 - Introduction to today&#39;s episode<br>
03:01 - Meet Katelyn<br>
14:18 - Be an informed consumer<br>
15:42 - Do your research to find the right program that fits your career goals<br>
19:17 - Check your employee benefits<br>
20:20 - Scholarship and grant applications<br>
23:23 - Credit Transfer<br>
26:59 - Regional and national accreditation<br>
33:43 - Regarding Katelyn&#39;s work in human resources<br>
38:46 - How to stand out when applying for a Job<br>
43:06 - Who should I speak with about employee benefits<br>
44:54 - Takeaways from this episode<br>
50:44 - Last words of wisdom<br>
52:24 - The Kickstart 2023 Bundle</p>

<p>If you&#39;re ready to get out of debt, start saving money, and have your best year yet, check out the <strong><em>Kickstart 2023 Bundle</em></strong>. It will help you create a simple plan that you can actually follow so you can pay off debt and save money in 2023! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a> to grab your bundle today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Stop Organizing, Start Producing: Leverage the 12 Factors that Make or Break the Busy Professional | 2011 Casey Moore </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Kickstart 2023 Bundle: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a></li>
<li>3 FREE consultation spots available for the listeners of the Money Mindset Podcast: Email <a href="mailto:k.liddington@yahoo.com" rel="nofollow">k.liddington@yahoo.com</a></li>
<li>sophia.org</li>
<li>study.com</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Katelyn:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/katelynshannon-learningprofessional/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/katelynshannon-learningprofessional/</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Katelyn Shannon.</p>]]>
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  <title>#109 How to Set Real Goals for 2023</title>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2022 19:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>109</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#109 How to Set Real Goals for 2023</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#109 Tired of never making progress year after year? 2023 is your year to make a better and more realistic plan to actually make progress on your finances. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>21:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>With 2023 only a few days away, I'm sure we're all hoping to start the New Year off on the right foot. And what better way to kick off the new year than by making plans to reach your financial goals?
Listen in as I share tips on how to prioritize your finances by taking action, tracking your progress, developing habits and routines, and setting SMART goals to help you achieve financial freedom in 2023!
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“We have to make our finances a priority if you want them to change. So if you wanna get better, if you wanna learn, if you wanna start making better habits and routines, then we have to start taking action. And it actually starts right now.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps: 
00:53 - Introduction for today's episode
01:46 - Making your finances a priority by taking  action
03:02 - How small actions lead to big results
03:45 - How tracking your progress will allow you to see how far you've come
05:38 - Building habits and routines
06:56 - How to make a SMART goal
09:08 - Breaking down your big goals into smaller, achievable goals
12:58 - Setting up quarterly goals
18:21 - The Money Plan Bootcamp
18:54 - The Kickstart 2023 Bundle
If you're ready to get out of debt, start saving money, and have your best year yet, check out the Kickstart 2023 Bundle. It will help you create a simple plan that you can actually follow so you can pay off debt and save money in 2023! Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart to grab your bundle today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Kickstart 2023 Bundle: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart
* Episode 83 - BSS - Letting Perfectionism Go So You Get Back on Track: https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/83
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>goal setting for 2023, 2023 goal planning, how to set smart goals for 2023, new years resolutions for 2023, how to make goals you can actually stick to</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>With 2023 only a few days away, I&#39;m sure we&#39;re all hoping to start the New Year off on the right foot. And what better way to kick off the new year than by making plans to reach your financial goals?</p>

<p>Listen in as I share tips on how to prioritize your finances by taking action, tracking your progress, developing habits and routines, and setting SMART goals to help you achieve financial freedom in 2023!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“We have to make our finances a priority if you want them to change. So if you wanna get better, if you wanna learn, if you wanna start making better habits and routines, then we have to start taking action. And it actually starts right now.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:53 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
01:46 - Making your finances a priority by taking  action<br>
03:02 - How small actions lead to big results<br>
03:45 - How tracking your progress will allow you to see how far you&#39;ve come<br>
05:38 - Building habits and routines<br>
06:56 - How to make a SMART goal<br>
09:08 - Breaking down your big goals into smaller, achievable goals<br>
12:58 - Setting up quarterly goals<br>
18:21 - The Money Plan Bootcamp<br>
18:54 - The Kickstart 2023 Bundle</p>

<p>If you&#39;re ready to get out of debt, start saving money, and have your best year yet, check out the <strong><em>Kickstart 2023 Bundle</em></strong>. It will help you create a simple plan that you can actually follow so you can pay off debt and save money in 2023! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a> to grab your bundle today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Kickstart 2023 Bundle: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a></li>
<li>Episode 83 - BSS - Letting Perfectionism Go So You Get Back on Track: <a href="https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/83" rel="nofollow">https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/83</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>With 2023 only a few days away, I&#39;m sure we&#39;re all hoping to start the New Year off on the right foot. And what better way to kick off the new year than by making plans to reach your financial goals?</p>

<p>Listen in as I share tips on how to prioritize your finances by taking action, tracking your progress, developing habits and routines, and setting SMART goals to help you achieve financial freedom in 2023!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“We have to make our finances a priority if you want them to change. So if you wanna get better, if you wanna learn, if you wanna start making better habits and routines, then we have to start taking action. And it actually starts right now.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps:</strong> <br>
00:53 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
01:46 - Making your finances a priority by taking  action<br>
03:02 - How small actions lead to big results<br>
03:45 - How tracking your progress will allow you to see how far you&#39;ve come<br>
05:38 - Building habits and routines<br>
06:56 - How to make a SMART goal<br>
09:08 - Breaking down your big goals into smaller, achievable goals<br>
12:58 - Setting up quarterly goals<br>
18:21 - The Money Plan Bootcamp<br>
18:54 - The Kickstart 2023 Bundle</p>

<p>If you&#39;re ready to get out of debt, start saving money, and have your best year yet, check out the <strong><em>Kickstart 2023 Bundle</em></strong>. It will help you create a simple plan that you can actually follow so you can pay off debt and save money in 2023! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a> to grab your bundle today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Kickstart 2023 Bundle: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/kickstart</a></li>
<li>Episode 83 - BSS - Letting Perfectionism Go So You Get Back on Track: <a href="https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/83" rel="nofollow">https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/83</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#108 Living Without a Car to Get On Track With Their Finances</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/108</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>108</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#108 Living Without a Car to Get On Track With Their Finances</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#108 Could you live without a car through the winter? Christine and her husband got behind on bills and are not intentionally living without a car through the winter so they can get caught up and on track with their finances.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>24:43</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Managing your finances is hard enough, which is why when it comes to getting out of debt, you have to be creative, and thinking outside the box can come in handy.
Listen in as Christine shares her financial journey, money mindset, and how she used an unconventional way to pay off debt in order to get her finances back on track.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“Think outside the box like maybe you can't live without a car but what can you do that you're like, people are gonna think I'm crazy. Like I would never have thought to even do that to help pay off debt. But I bet you there's some things that you can do to help pay off debt that you know might be a little extreme to other people but maybe not as extreme to you.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:00 - What today's episode is about
02:26 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session episode
02:56 - Get to know Christine
11:02 - Christine's goals
12:42 - Christine's financial journey
16:01 - Christine's long term debt payoff goal
18:09 - Book recommendation
19:19 - What kept her motivated
20:45 - Take away from this episode
23:34 - Last words of wisdom
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Book Recommendation:
* God, where are you?
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>living with one car, can you live without a car, extreme methods to pay off debt</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Managing your finances is hard enough, which is why when it comes to getting out of debt, you have to be creative, and thinking outside the box can come in handy.</p>

<p>Listen in as Christine shares her financial journey, money mindset, and how she used an unconventional way to pay off debt in order to get her finances back on track.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“Think outside the box like maybe you can&#39;t live without a car but what can you do that you&#39;re like, people are gonna think I&#39;m crazy. Like I would never have thought to even do that to help pay off debt. But I bet you there&#39;s some things that you can do to help pay off debt that you know might be a little extreme to other people but maybe not as extreme to you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - What today&#39;s episode is about<br>
02:26 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session episode<br>
02:56 - Get to know Christine<br>
11:02 - Christine&#39;s goals<br>
12:42 - Christine&#39;s financial journey<br>
16:01 - Christine&#39;s long term debt payoff goal<br>
18:09 - Book recommendation<br>
19:19 - What kept her motivated<br>
20:45 - Take away from this episode<br>
23:34 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>God, where are you?</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Managing your finances is hard enough, which is why when it comes to getting out of debt, you have to be creative, and thinking outside the box can come in handy.</p>

<p>Listen in as Christine shares her financial journey, money mindset, and how she used an unconventional way to pay off debt in order to get her finances back on track.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“Think outside the box like maybe you can&#39;t live without a car but what can you do that you&#39;re like, people are gonna think I&#39;m crazy. Like I would never have thought to even do that to help pay off debt. But I bet you there&#39;s some things that you can do to help pay off debt that you know might be a little extreme to other people but maybe not as extreme to you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - What today&#39;s episode is about<br>
02:26 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session episode<br>
02:56 - Get to know Christine<br>
11:02 - Christine&#39;s goals<br>
12:42 - Christine&#39;s financial journey<br>
16:01 - Christine&#39;s long term debt payoff goal<br>
18:09 - Book recommendation<br>
19:19 - What kept her motivated<br>
20:45 - Take away from this episode<br>
23:34 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>God, where are you?</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#105 Building Wealth on a Dime</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/105</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>105</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#105 Building Wealth on a Dime</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#105 Welcome back Kimberly Hamilton from debt pay off story episode #8 for an update and an exciting announcement! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>19:47</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Want to know how to build wealth even if you don't have much money to invest?
In Kimberly's new book, Building Wealth on a Dime, she helps you understand how to manage your debt and money better so you can invest even on a tight budget. 
She was a special guest here on The Money Mindset Podcast way back when I started in October 2019 on Episode #8 where she shared how she paid off over $40,000 in student loans in 3 years. 
Now she gives us an update on her journey and how she is changing personal finance education for women like you!
Meet Kimberly!
Kimberly Hamilton is the author of Building Wealth on a Dime and the Founder of Beworth Finance where she helps women and millennials make smart money moves via online courses and workshops. As a Certified Financial Education Instructor, Kimberly has been featured in major publications such as Forbes, Business Insider, Health magazine, and The Everygirl, among others. She has conducted workshops for partners such as Capital One Cafe and Ladies Get Paid, and is also the Senior Manager of Financial Education at major fintech company, Rocket Money -- but today, we're really excited to talk about her book, which we'll dive into in just a second.
“One is start small, dream big. So when you're talking about investing, I think a lot of people get intimidated and think that they need to have a lot of money, you know, or it's only for people that already have money or come from money, what have you. But, the truth is technology is more on our side now than it ever has been before. And so investing's really a lot more accessible if you're willing to learn the ways to go about it. You can have an app on your phone and you can start investing with as little as $5. So don't think that it has to be, oh, I need a thousand dollars or $10,000 to get started. You can really get started with a lot less.” 
- Kimberly Hamilton
Timestamps 
01:19 - Introduction for today's episode
02:46 - Meet Kimberly
04:52 - About Kimberly's book called "Building Wealth on a Dime"
06:28 - Sneak peek at one of the stories in the book
10:36 - Tips on how to build wealth on a dime 
16:00 - Last words of wisdom
17:30 - Where to get Kimberly's book
19:08 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session episode
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
* Pre-order before Dec 22 and get free access to Kimberly's Investing 101 workshop where you'll learn what to consider when selecting investments, how to set up a brokerage and more! Simply send your proof of receipt to hello@beworthfinance.com and she'll get you that interview link! 
* indiebound.org
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Kimberly:
* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beworthfinance 
* Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beworthfinance 
* Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/beworthfinance 
* Website: https://www.beworthfinance.com/building-wealth-on-a-dime
 Special Guest: Kimberly Hamilton.
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    <![CDATA[<p>Want to know how to build wealth even if you don&#39;t have much money to invest?</p>

<p>In Kimberly&#39;s new book, Building Wealth on a Dime, she helps you understand how to manage your debt and money better so you can invest even on a tight budget. </p>

<p>She was a special guest here on The Money Mindset Podcast way back when I started in October 2019 on Episode #8 where she shared how she paid off over $40,000 in student loans in 3 years. </p>

<p>Now she gives us an update on her journey and how she is changing personal finance education for women like you!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Kimberly!</strong><br>
Kimberly Hamilton is the author of Building Wealth on a Dime and the Founder of Beworth Finance where she helps women and millennials make smart money moves via online courses and workshops. As a Certified Financial Education Instructor, Kimberly has been featured in major publications such as Forbes, Business Insider, Health magazine, and The Everygirl, among others. She has conducted workshops for partners such as Capital One Cafe and Ladies Get Paid, and is also the Senior Manager of Financial Education at major fintech company, Rocket Money -- but today, we&#39;re really excited to talk about her book, which we&#39;ll dive into in just a second.</p>

<p><em>“One is start small, dream big. So when you&#39;re talking about investing, I think a lot of people get intimidated and think that they need to have a lot of money, you know, or it&#39;s only for people that already have money or come from money, what have you. But, the truth is technology is more on our side now than it ever has been before. And so investing&#39;s really a lot more accessible if you&#39;re willing to learn the ways to go about it. You can have an app on your phone and you can start investing with as little as $5. So don&#39;t think that it has to be, oh, I need a thousand dollars or $10,000 to get started. You can really get started with a lot less.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Kimberly Hamilton</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:19 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
02:46 - Meet Kimberly<br>
04:52 - About Kimberly&#39;s book called &quot;Building Wealth on a Dime&quot;<br>
06:28 - Sneak peek at one of the stories in the book<br>
10:36 - Tips on how to build wealth on a dime <br>
16:00 - Last words of wisdom<br>
17:30 - Where to get Kimberly&#39;s book<br>
19:08 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session episode</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
<li>Pre-order before Dec 22 and get free access to Kimberly&#39;s Investing 101 workshop where you&#39;ll learn what to consider when selecting investments, how to set up a brokerage and more! Simply send your proof of receipt to <a href="mailto:hello@beworthfinance.com" rel="nofollow">hello@beworthfinance.com</a> and she&#39;ll get you that interview link! </li>
<li>indiebound.org</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Kimberly:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/beworthfinance" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/beworthfinance</a> </li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/beworthfinance" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/beworthfinance</a> </li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/beworthfinance" rel="nofollow">https://www.twitter.com/beworthfinance</a> </li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://www.beworthfinance.com/building-wealth-on-a-dime" rel="nofollow">https://www.beworthfinance.com/building-wealth-on-a-dime</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Kimberly Hamilton.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Want to know how to build wealth even if you don&#39;t have much money to invest?</p>

<p>In Kimberly&#39;s new book, Building Wealth on a Dime, she helps you understand how to manage your debt and money better so you can invest even on a tight budget. </p>

<p>She was a special guest here on The Money Mindset Podcast way back when I started in October 2019 on Episode #8 where she shared how she paid off over $40,000 in student loans in 3 years. </p>

<p>Now she gives us an update on her journey and how she is changing personal finance education for women like you!</p>

<p><strong>Meet Kimberly!</strong><br>
Kimberly Hamilton is the author of Building Wealth on a Dime and the Founder of Beworth Finance where she helps women and millennials make smart money moves via online courses and workshops. As a Certified Financial Education Instructor, Kimberly has been featured in major publications such as Forbes, Business Insider, Health magazine, and The Everygirl, among others. She has conducted workshops for partners such as Capital One Cafe and Ladies Get Paid, and is also the Senior Manager of Financial Education at major fintech company, Rocket Money -- but today, we&#39;re really excited to talk about her book, which we&#39;ll dive into in just a second.</p>

<p><em>“One is start small, dream big. So when you&#39;re talking about investing, I think a lot of people get intimidated and think that they need to have a lot of money, you know, or it&#39;s only for people that already have money or come from money, what have you. But, the truth is technology is more on our side now than it ever has been before. And so investing&#39;s really a lot more accessible if you&#39;re willing to learn the ways to go about it. You can have an app on your phone and you can start investing with as little as $5. So don&#39;t think that it has to be, oh, I need a thousand dollars or $10,000 to get started. You can really get started with a lot less.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Kimberly Hamilton</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:19 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
02:46 - Meet Kimberly<br>
04:52 - About Kimberly&#39;s book called &quot;Building Wealth on a Dime&quot;<br>
06:28 - Sneak peek at one of the stories in the book<br>
10:36 - Tips on how to build wealth on a dime <br>
16:00 - Last words of wisdom<br>
17:30 - Where to get Kimberly&#39;s book<br>
19:08 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session episode</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a FREE <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
<li>Pre-order before Dec 22 and get free access to Kimberly&#39;s Investing 101 workshop where you&#39;ll learn what to consider when selecting investments, how to set up a brokerage and more! Simply send your proof of receipt to <a href="mailto:hello@beworthfinance.com" rel="nofollow">hello@beworthfinance.com</a> and she&#39;ll get you that interview link! </li>
<li>indiebound.org</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Kimberly:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/beworthfinance" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/beworthfinance</a> </li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/beworthfinance" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/beworthfinance</a> </li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/beworthfinance" rel="nofollow">https://www.twitter.com/beworthfinance</a> </li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://www.beworthfinance.com/building-wealth-on-a-dime" rel="nofollow">https://www.beworthfinance.com/building-wealth-on-a-dime</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Kimberly Hamilton.</p>]]>
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  <title>#104 BSS - Getting the Family to Stop Spending so You Can Stay at Home! </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/104</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#104 BSS - Getting the Family to Stop Spending so You Can Stay at Home! </itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#103 BSS w/Heather who wants to be able to quit her job and stay at home with her kids but she can't get the rest of the family to stop spending money! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>42:51</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Do you want to quit your job so you can stay at home with your kids, but can't because the rest of your family is unable to stop spending money?
Listen to today's episode as I discuss some action steps Heather can take with her family so she can quit her job and stay at home with the kids, such as using cash instead of credit cards, preparing freezer meals, setting time frames, and creating visual trackers to get everyone on board with her goals.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“I really encourage people to start working on their behavior before they do something like that so that you've already kind of laid that groundwork. Because what almost always happens is people refinance, they get comfortable and then they rack up the debt again.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:00 - Overview of today's episode
01:32 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session
02:39 - Get to know Heather
06:23 - Discussing your financial goals together as a family
08:01 - Using cash instead of credit cards
12:30 - About refinancing and changing your behavior
13:16 - Setting time frame and visuals for your goals
15:05 - Preparing freezer meals
16:24 - Creating a visual tracker
17:35 - Getting everybody on board to work together towards your goal
22:04 - Heather's 24 hour goal
39:38 - Giving yourself some grace
41:15 - Last words of wisdom
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a free Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
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    <![CDATA[<p>Do you want to quit your job so you can stay at home with your kids, but can&#39;t because the rest of your family is unable to stop spending money?</p>

<p>Listen to today&#39;s episode as I discuss some action steps Heather can take with her family so she can quit her job and stay at home with the kids, such as using cash instead of credit cards, preparing freezer meals, setting time frames, and creating visual trackers to get everyone on board with her goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“I really encourage people to start working on their behavior before they do something like that so that you&#39;ve already kind of laid that groundwork. Because what almost always happens is people refinance, they get comfortable and then they rack up the debt again.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Overview of today&#39;s episode<br>
01:32 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session<br>
02:39 - Get to know Heather<br>
06:23 - Discussing your financial goals together as a family<br>
08:01 - Using cash instead of credit cards<br>
12:30 - About refinancing and changing your behavior<br>
13:16 - Setting time frame and visuals for your goals<br>
15:05 - Preparing freezer meals<br>
16:24 - Creating a visual tracker<br>
17:35 - Getting everybody on board to work together towards your goal<br>
22:04 - Heather&#39;s 24 hour goal<br>
39:38 - Giving yourself some grace<br>
41:15 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a free <em><strong>Budget Strategy Session</strong></em> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Do you want to quit your job so you can stay at home with your kids, but can&#39;t because the rest of your family is unable to stop spending money?</p>

<p>Listen to today&#39;s episode as I discuss some action steps Heather can take with her family so she can quit her job and stay at home with the kids, such as using cash instead of credit cards, preparing freezer meals, setting time frames, and creating visual trackers to get everyone on board with her goals.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“I really encourage people to start working on their behavior before they do something like that so that you&#39;ve already kind of laid that groundwork. Because what almost always happens is people refinance, they get comfortable and then they rack up the debt again.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Overview of today&#39;s episode<br>
01:32 - How to have your own Budget Strategy Session<br>
02:39 - Get to know Heather<br>
06:23 - Discussing your financial goals together as a family<br>
08:01 - Using cash instead of credit cards<br>
12:30 - About refinancing and changing your behavior<br>
13:16 - Setting time frame and visuals for your goals<br>
15:05 - Preparing freezer meals<br>
16:24 - Creating a visual tracker<br>
17:35 - Getting everybody on board to work together towards your goal<br>
22:04 - Heather&#39;s 24 hour goal<br>
39:38 - Giving yourself some grace<br>
41:15 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a free <em><strong>Budget Strategy Session</strong></em> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#102 BSS - Overcoming Buy Now Pay Later so Gwen Can Pay Off Debt</title>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#102 BSS - Overcoming Buy Now Pay Later so Gwen Can Pay Off Debt</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>#102 Are you stuck in the cycle of Afterpay and those buy now pay later programs? Gwen was stuck in that cycle and now she is focused on paying off debt.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>30:38</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Services that offer a buy now, pay later program such as Afterpay can sometimes be more beneficial to use.
It can be a great help when buying goods and items. But, if you are unable to keep up with your payments, you'll only end up with more debt.
Listen in as Ashley shares tips on how to overcome buy now, pay later debts such as using your extra money to cover payments, tracking your spending, making extra money, and using cash envelopes to help save for future purchases and pay off debt.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“Make a list of priorities for where you want that money to go to so that it doesn't just get mindlessly spent but it can go towards your goal.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:00 - Introduction for today's episode
00:54 - How to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode
02:06 - Meet Gwen
04:03 - Gwen's biggest struggle
08:02 - Actions Gwen can take to manage her financial struggles
14:48 - About the cash envelope system
21:32 - Gwen's 24 hour goal
25:08 - Making realistic goals
27:31 - Making visuals to remind you of your goals
If you'd like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a Budget Strategy Session on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>afterpay debt payments, get out of the buy now pay later cycle, motivation to pay off debt</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Services that offer a buy now, pay later program such as Afterpay can sometimes be more beneficial to use.</p>

<p>It can be a great help when buying goods and items. But, if you are unable to keep up with your payments, you&#39;ll only end up with more debt.</p>

<p>Listen in as Ashley shares tips on how to overcome buy now, pay later debts such as using your extra money to cover payments, tracking your spending, making extra money, and using cash envelopes to help save for future purchases and pay off debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“Make a list of priorities for where you want that money to go to so that it doesn&#39;t just get mindlessly spent but it can go towards your goal.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
00:54 - How to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode<br>
02:06 - Meet Gwen<br>
04:03 - Gwen&#39;s biggest struggle<br>
08:02 - Actions Gwen can take to manage her financial struggles<br>
14:48 - About the cash envelope system<br>
21:32 - Gwen&#39;s 24 hour goal<br>
25:08 - Making realistic goals<br>
27:31 - Making visuals to remind you of your goals</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Services that offer a buy now, pay later program such as Afterpay can sometimes be more beneficial to use.</p>

<p>It can be a great help when buying goods and items. But, if you are unable to keep up with your payments, you&#39;ll only end up with more debt.</p>

<p>Listen in as Ashley shares tips on how to overcome buy now, pay later debts such as using your extra money to cover payments, tracking your spending, making extra money, and using cash envelopes to help save for future purchases and pay off debt.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“Make a list of priorities for where you want that money to go to so that it doesn&#39;t just get mindlessly spent but it can go towards your goal.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
00:54 - How to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode<br>
02:06 - Meet Gwen<br>
04:03 - Gwen&#39;s biggest struggle<br>
08:02 - Actions Gwen can take to manage her financial struggles<br>
14:48 - About the cash envelope system<br>
21:32 - Gwen&#39;s 24 hour goal<br>
25:08 - Making realistic goals<br>
27:31 - Making visuals to remind you of your goals</p>

<p>If you&#39;d like to work through your own struggle with your budget 1:1 with me, sign up for a <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> on The Money Mindset Podcast! Sign up at <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#99 BSS The Cost of Waiting</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/99</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/f6e01905-8805-4ca6-bfff-ad9ba6cdef4a.mp3" length="50045564" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>99</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#99 BSS The Cost of Waiting</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you really know the cost of waiting to get your finances on track and pay off debt? Not the financial cost....we know that...but the mental cost of waiting? It's bigger than you think!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>34:44</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Most people tend to procrastinate and make excuses when it comes to managing their finances. The problem is that the longer you wait to save and pay off debt, the more stressful and harder it will be to make progress to achieve your goals. 
Today, we're going to discuss the cost of waiting and how taking action toward your financial goals early on can help lessen the mental stress and prepare you for unexpected events, so you can take control of your finances and get back on track.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“If you keep putting off taking action on your financial goals and just wishing for it to happen some day, that day is never going to come. You are going to stay in this cycle of year after year wondering where the heck all your money went, why you can't seem to save for the things that you really want to do, why you can't seem to paying cash for that vacation or you're not able to buy that house that you want with for your family. And you know that mental cost of stress.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:00 - Introduction for today's episode
03:50 - How to join the FREE Masterclass "5 Money Mistakes You're Making &amp;amp; How to Fix Them"
08:01 - Meet Breanna
10:03 - Breanna's financial struggle
20:11 - Keeping your momentum going
22:45 - Being financially and mentally prepared for unexpected events
31:56 - Take away from this episode
Want to know the 5 Money Mistakes You're Making &amp;amp; How to Fix Them? I've got just the thing for you! This FREE Masterclass will help you identify and fix the common money mistakes you're making so you can start saving and paying off debt! Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* 5 Money Mistakes You're Making &amp;amp; How to Fix Them: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>cost of waiting, financial stress, saving, paying off debt</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Most people tend to procrastinate and make excuses when it comes to managing their finances. The problem is that the longer you wait to save and pay off debt, the more stressful and harder it will be to make progress to achieve your goals. </p>

<p>Today, we&#39;re going to discuss the cost of waiting and how taking action toward your financial goals early on can help lessen the mental stress and prepare you for unexpected events, so you can take control of your finances and get back on track.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“If you keep putting off taking action on your financial goals and just wishing for it to happen some day, that day is never going to come. You are going to stay in this cycle of year after year wondering where the heck all your money went, why you can&#39;t seem to save for the things that you really want to do, why you can&#39;t seem to paying cash for that vacation or you&#39;re not able to buy that house that you want with for your family. And you know that mental cost of stress.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
03:50 - How to join the FREE Masterclass &quot;5 Money Mistakes You&#39;re Making &amp; How to Fix Them&quot;<br>
08:01 - Meet Breanna<br>
10:03 - Breanna&#39;s financial struggle<br>
20:11 - Keeping your momentum going<br>
22:45 - Being financially and mentally prepared for unexpected events<br>
31:56 - Take away from this episode</p>

<p>Want to know the <strong><em>5 Money Mistakes You&#39;re Making &amp; How to Fix Them?</em></strong> I&#39;ve got just the thing for you! This FREE Masterclass will help you identify and fix the common money mistakes you&#39;re making so you can start saving and paying off debt! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>5 Money Mistakes You&#39;re Making &amp; How to Fix Them: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a></li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Most people tend to procrastinate and make excuses when it comes to managing their finances. The problem is that the longer you wait to save and pay off debt, the more stressful and harder it will be to make progress to achieve your goals. </p>

<p>Today, we&#39;re going to discuss the cost of waiting and how taking action toward your financial goals early on can help lessen the mental stress and prepare you for unexpected events, so you can take control of your finances and get back on track.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“If you keep putting off taking action on your financial goals and just wishing for it to happen some day, that day is never going to come. You are going to stay in this cycle of year after year wondering where the heck all your money went, why you can&#39;t seem to save for the things that you really want to do, why you can&#39;t seem to paying cash for that vacation or you&#39;re not able to buy that house that you want with for your family. And you know that mental cost of stress.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
03:50 - How to join the FREE Masterclass &quot;5 Money Mistakes You&#39;re Making &amp; How to Fix Them&quot;<br>
08:01 - Meet Breanna<br>
10:03 - Breanna&#39;s financial struggle<br>
20:11 - Keeping your momentum going<br>
22:45 - Being financially and mentally prepared for unexpected events<br>
31:56 - Take away from this episode</p>

<p>Want to know the <strong><em>5 Money Mistakes You&#39;re Making &amp; How to Fix Them?</em></strong> I&#39;ve got just the thing for you! This FREE Masterclass will help you identify and fix the common money mistakes you&#39;re making so you can start saving and paying off debt! Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>5 Money Mistakes You&#39;re Making &amp; How to Fix Them: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/class</a></li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
<item>
  <title>#97 Money Success Roadmap Stage 6</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/97</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/c49d05e6-351c-4847-b7fe-4a107f10038b.mp3" length="22394126" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>97</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#97 Money Success Roadmap Stage 6</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>The last stage on the road to financial freedom. What will you do now that you are debt-free?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:32</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>We're finally at the last stage of the Money Success Roadmap!
Stage 6 means financial freedom. This is your bigger vision for your life, what you want to do that you can't do because of debt. This is where you get to start building the life that you really truly want.
In this episode, we'll cover automating your savings, retirement, and investment accounts as well as figuring out an estate plan. Additionally, we'll discuss building a five-year plan for your new goals now that you’re debt-free!
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“Just have a goal, have a vision, because I want you to stay focused on that. It's so incredibly important to have a plan for your life and have a plan for your finances so that you can stay on track because it's so easy to get distracted” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:57 - The last stage of the Money Success Roadmap
02:52 - You are debt free. Now what?
03:36 - Creating a plan for your new goals
07:55 - Stage 6 milestones
10:07 - Creating a new SMART goal for the next five years
14:55 - How to join the Money Plan Bootcamp
Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn't need to be overwhelming! Join my Money Plan Bootcamp where I'll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* The Money Plan Bootcamp: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>financial freedom, saving for retirement, investing for college,</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>We&#39;re finally at the last stage of the Money Success Roadmap!</p>

<p>Stage 6 means financial freedom. This is your bigger vision for your life, what you want to do that you can&#39;t do because of debt. This is where you get to start building the life that you really truly want.</p>

<p>In this episode, we&#39;ll cover automating your savings, retirement, and investment accounts as well as figuring out an estate plan. Additionally, we&#39;ll discuss building a five-year plan for your new goals now that you’re debt-free!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Just have a goal, have a vision, because I want you to stay focused on that. It&#39;s so incredibly important to have a plan for your life and have a plan for your finances so that you can stay on track because it&#39;s so easy to get distracted”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:57 - The last stage of the Money Success Roadmap<br>
02:52 - You are debt free. Now what?<br>
03:36 - Creating a plan for your new goals<br>
07:55 - Stage 6 milestones<br>
10:07 - Creating a new SMART goal for the next five years<br>
14:55 - How to join the Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>We&#39;re finally at the last stage of the Money Success Roadmap!</p>

<p>Stage 6 means financial freedom. This is your bigger vision for your life, what you want to do that you can&#39;t do because of debt. This is where you get to start building the life that you really truly want.</p>

<p>In this episode, we&#39;ll cover automating your savings, retirement, and investment accounts as well as figuring out an estate plan. Additionally, we&#39;ll discuss building a five-year plan for your new goals now that you’re debt-free!</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Just have a goal, have a vision, because I want you to stay focused on that. It&#39;s so incredibly important to have a plan for your life and have a plan for your finances so that you can stay on track because it&#39;s so easy to get distracted”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:57 - The last stage of the Money Success Roadmap<br>
02:52 - You are debt free. Now what?<br>
03:36 - Creating a plan for your new goals<br>
07:55 - Stage 6 milestones<br>
10:07 - Creating a new SMART goal for the next five years<br>
14:55 - How to join the Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <strong><em>Money Plan Bootcamp</em></strong> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#96 Money Success Roadmap Stage 5</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/96</link>
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  <pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/5b7576b9-672b-4db6-9a3c-06943d84bec6.mp3" length="26727950" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>96</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#96 Money Success Roadmap Stage 5</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Step-by-step plan to pay off debt. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:33</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>After developing a solid plan and becoming super motivated to overcome your debts, you're ready to move on to the next stage.
Stage 5 is where you start getting your plan off the ground, making it happen, and actually paying off your debts.
In today's episode, we'll talk about how to find ways to increase your income, how to focus on one debt at a time, and how to stay motivated to pay off your debts faster.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“When you are more intentional with your overall plan of what you wanna do, including after paying off debt, it's a whole lot easier to stay on track through the long term. And so that means not depriving yourself of all the joys in your life while just because you have debt or while you're paying off debt.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
01:58 - Stage 5 of the Money Success Roadmap
04:44 - Be intentional with where your money is going
05:33 - Moving past the Perfectionist mindset
06:20 - Identifying ways to increase your income
07:14 - Focusing on one debt at a time
08:35 - Visual progress trackers
12:25 - Finding ways to keep you motivated
16:58 - The Money Plan Bootcamp
Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn't need to be overwhelming! Join my Money Plan Bootcamp where I'll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp and register today!
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* The Money Plan Bootcamp: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>paying off debt trackers, paying off debt motivation, how to pay off debt fast</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>After developing a solid plan and becoming super motivated to overcome your debts, you&#39;re ready to move on to the next stage.</p>

<p>Stage 5 is where you start getting your plan off the ground, making it happen, and actually paying off your debts.</p>

<p>In today&#39;s episode, we&#39;ll talk about how to find ways to increase your income, how to focus on one debt at a time, and how to stay motivated to pay off your debts faster.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“When you are more intentional with your overall plan of what you wanna do, including after paying off debt, it&#39;s a whole lot easier to stay on track through the long term. And so that means not depriving yourself of all the joys in your life while just because you have debt or while you&#39;re paying off debt.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:58 - Stage 5 of the Money Success Roadmap<br>
04:44 - Be intentional with where your money is going<br>
05:33 - Moving past the Perfectionist mindset<br>
06:20 - Identifying ways to increase your income<br>
07:14 - Focusing on one debt at a time<br>
08:35 - Visual progress trackers<br>
12:25 - Finding ways to keep you motivated<br>
16:58 - The Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <em><strong>Money Plan Bootcamp</strong></em> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>After developing a solid plan and becoming super motivated to overcome your debts, you&#39;re ready to move on to the next stage.</p>

<p>Stage 5 is where you start getting your plan off the ground, making it happen, and actually paying off your debts.</p>

<p>In today&#39;s episode, we&#39;ll talk about how to find ways to increase your income, how to focus on one debt at a time, and how to stay motivated to pay off your debts faster.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“When you are more intentional with your overall plan of what you wanna do, including after paying off debt, it&#39;s a whole lot easier to stay on track through the long term. And so that means not depriving yourself of all the joys in your life while just because you have debt or while you&#39;re paying off debt.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:58 - Stage 5 of the Money Success Roadmap<br>
04:44 - Be intentional with where your money is going<br>
05:33 - Moving past the Perfectionist mindset<br>
06:20 - Identifying ways to increase your income<br>
07:14 - Focusing on one debt at a time<br>
08:35 - Visual progress trackers<br>
12:25 - Finding ways to keep you motivated<br>
16:58 - The Money Plan Bootcamp</p>

<p>Starting and sticking to a money plan doesn&#39;t need to be overwhelming! Join my <em><strong>Money Plan Bootcamp</strong></em> where I&#39;ll teach you the 5 key steps for creating a money plan you can actually stick to...for FREE!⁣⁣ Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a> and register today!</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Money Plan Bootcamp: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/bootcamp</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#89 BSS Selling items to avoid going further into debt</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/89</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/1402ce61-f1e2-4c69-8a18-3b3f5f1e8440.mp3" length="58891212" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>89</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#89 BSS Selling items to avoid going further into debt</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Should you go further into debt for your daughter's wedding or sell some stuff?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>40:53</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Having some extra cash is always a good thing since we are always in need of money to pay bills,  pay for services, purchase items, and treat ourselves and our loved ones.
Occasionally, we get unexpected and random expenses, leaving us in a situation where we need to raise some extra funds.
Listen in and learn strategies and creative ways on how to make some extra money like selling things around the house that you don't need, cutting back on eating out, and doing money challenges to help you avoid going further into debt so you can save money for the things that really matter.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“Just like life there's seasons and there's seasons with your finances and it happens. It happens to everybody. And so don't beat yourself up about that. The best thing you can do now is just look forward instead of in the past and you know, feeling bad about it, cuz you're here and you're making the steps that, you know, you need to take to move forward.” 
- Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:00 - Introduction for today's episode 
03:07 - Meet April 
03:36 - April's biggest struggle with her finances 
14:20 - The impact method 
17:30 - Selling items to make more money 
23:15 - Ways to help keep you on track moving forward 
25:48 - About having bigger goals to keep you motivated 
32:36 - April's 24 hour goal 
Want to stop stressing about payday? Want to be able to pay cash for those things that always "pop up"? Check out the new 2023 Budget Planner! The Budgets Made Easy Budget Planner is the Ultimate Step-by-Step Guide to help you save money and pay off debt by getting organized and focused on what's important for your family. Go to www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner  to get your planner today.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* 2023 Budget Planner: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>selling items to avoid debt, paying for daughters wedding, budgeting for fun</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Having some extra cash is always a good thing since we are always in need of money to pay bills,  pay for services, purchase items, and treat ourselves and our loved ones.</p>

<p>Occasionally, we get unexpected and random expenses, leaving us in a situation where we need to raise some extra funds.</p>

<p>Listen in and learn strategies and creative ways on how to make some extra money like selling things around the house that you don&#39;t need, cutting back on eating out, and doing money challenges to help you avoid going further into debt so you can save money for the things that really matter.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Just like life there&#39;s seasons and there&#39;s seasons with your finances and it happens. It happens to everybody. And so don&#39;t beat yourself up about that. The best thing you can do now is just look forward instead of in the past and you know, feeling bad about it, cuz you&#39;re here and you&#39;re making the steps that, you know, you need to take to move forward.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode <br>
03:07 - Meet April <br>
03:36 - April&#39;s biggest struggle with her finances <br>
14:20 - The impact method <br>
17:30 - Selling items to make more money <br>
23:15 - Ways to help keep you on track moving forward <br>
25:48 - About having bigger goals to keep you motivated <br>
32:36 - April&#39;s 24 hour goal </p>

<p>Want to stop stressing about payday? Want to be able to pay cash for those things that always &quot;pop up&quot;? Check out the new <strong><em>2023 Budget Planner</em></strong>! The Budgets Made Easy Budget Planner is the Ultimate Step-by-Step Guide to help you save money and pay off debt by getting organized and focused on what&#39;s important for your family. Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner</a>  to get your planner today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>2023 Budget Planner: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner</a></li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Having some extra cash is always a good thing since we are always in need of money to pay bills,  pay for services, purchase items, and treat ourselves and our loved ones.</p>

<p>Occasionally, we get unexpected and random expenses, leaving us in a situation where we need to raise some extra funds.</p>

<p>Listen in and learn strategies and creative ways on how to make some extra money like selling things around the house that you don&#39;t need, cutting back on eating out, and doing money challenges to help you avoid going further into debt so you can save money for the things that really matter.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“Just like life there&#39;s seasons and there&#39;s seasons with your finances and it happens. It happens to everybody. And so don&#39;t beat yourself up about that. The best thing you can do now is just look forward instead of in the past and you know, feeling bad about it, cuz you&#39;re here and you&#39;re making the steps that, you know, you need to take to move forward.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:00 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode <br>
03:07 - Meet April <br>
03:36 - April&#39;s biggest struggle with her finances <br>
14:20 - The impact method <br>
17:30 - Selling items to make more money <br>
23:15 - Ways to help keep you on track moving forward <br>
25:48 - About having bigger goals to keep you motivated <br>
32:36 - April&#39;s 24 hour goal </p>

<p>Want to stop stressing about payday? Want to be able to pay cash for those things that always &quot;pop up&quot;? Check out the new <strong><em>2023 Budget Planner</em></strong>! The Budgets Made Easy Budget Planner is the Ultimate Step-by-Step Guide to help you save money and pay off debt by getting organized and focused on what&#39;s important for your family. Go to <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner</a>  to get your planner today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>2023 Budget Planner: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/planner</a></li>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#86 BSS Giving Yourself Flexibility In Your Budget Even When You Are Paying Off Debt</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/86</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/038a914b-a581-40c0-9511-2a4019f298a7.mp3" length="28565448" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>86</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#86 BSS Giving Yourself Flexibility In Your Budget Even When You Are Paying Off Debt</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you struggling to stay motivated with paying off debt? Check out how Marie is going to get back on track!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>19:49</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>There is no right or wrong way when doing your budget but it is important to figure out what works for you.
Your budget shouldn’t feel restrictive and suffocating, so giving yourself enough flexibility can make it a little more fun to stick with, especially when you're paying off debt.
Listen in and gain tips on how to give yourself flexibility by learning more about sinking funds, how to budget for the things that always "pop up", and how to use visuals to help keep track of your debt and finances.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“You don't have to do it one way. Like you can start one way do it another, like it really is personal, like figuring out what works for you.” 
-Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
01:58 - Meet Marie
05:37 - Figuring out what works for you
06:23 - Marie's financial struggles
08:57 - Strategies to help with Marie's financial struggles
11:06 - Adding a sinking fund for fun and miscellaneous spending
16:05 - Marie's 24 hour goal
18:23 - Putting money aside for the extra things that always "pop up" in your budget
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>paying off debt trackers, paying off debt motivation,</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>There is no right or wrong way when doing your budget but it is important to figure out what works for you.</p>

<p>Your budget shouldn’t feel restrictive and suffocating, so giving yourself enough flexibility can make it a little more fun to stick with, especially when you&#39;re paying off debt.</p>

<p>Listen in and gain tips on how to give yourself flexibility by learning more about sinking funds, how to budget for the things that always &quot;pop up&quot;, and how to use visuals to help keep track of your debt and finances.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You don&#39;t have to do it one way. Like you can start one way do it another, like it really is personal, like figuring out what works for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>-Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:58 - Meet Marie<br>
05:37 - Figuring out what works for you<br>
06:23 - Marie&#39;s financial struggles<br>
08:57 - Strategies to help with Marie&#39;s financial struggles<br>
11:06 - Adding a sinking fund for fun and miscellaneous spending<br>
16:05 - Marie&#39;s 24 hour goal<br>
18:23 - Putting money aside for the extra things that always &quot;pop up&quot; in your budget</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>There is no right or wrong way when doing your budget but it is important to figure out what works for you.</p>

<p>Your budget shouldn’t feel restrictive and suffocating, so giving yourself enough flexibility can make it a little more fun to stick with, especially when you&#39;re paying off debt.</p>

<p>Listen in and gain tips on how to give yourself flexibility by learning more about sinking funds, how to budget for the things that always &quot;pop up&quot;, and how to use visuals to help keep track of your debt and finances.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong><br>
I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You don&#39;t have to do it one way. Like you can start one way do it another, like it really is personal, like figuring out what works for you.”</em> <br>
<strong>-Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:58 - Meet Marie<br>
05:37 - Figuring out what works for you<br>
06:23 - Marie&#39;s financial struggles<br>
08:57 - Strategies to help with Marie&#39;s financial struggles<br>
11:06 - Adding a sinking fund for fun and miscellaneous spending<br>
16:05 - Marie&#39;s 24 hour goal<br>
18:23 - Putting money aside for the extra things that always &quot;pop up&quot; in your budget</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
<item>
  <title>82: #82 BSS - Ways to Stop Impulse Spending Especially w/ADHD</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/82</link>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/c79fb153-a3f8-4d63-b07c-7c3bb18059d8.mp3" length="38114854" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>82</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#82 BSS - Ways to Stop Impulse Spending Especially w/ADHD</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you constantly getting distracted and spending online? These simple tips will help you break the cycle of mindlessly spending. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>26:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>We’ve all been guilty of impulse spending. 
Many people find it hard to resist because it’s so easy and so instantly rewarding, and for people with ADHD, keeping impulse spending in check can be challenging.
Listen in as I share tips on how to gain control of it by creating new habits and routines to help with consistency, setting up barriers and roadblocks to your spending, and how creating a written budget and doing a simple action can help stop your overspending.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“So, you know, just little baby steps, you know the one small action that you can do this week. And it could be as simple as deleting the Amazon app off your phone or deleting the credit cards that are saved in there to make it harder for you to spend on Amazon. Like you got to take an extra step to spend money. Like you can delete your cards out of there and then you have to like, go get your car. It's like so much more effort. Right? Cause it's so easy. They have it set up so easy to spend money.” 
-Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:01 - Introduction for today's episode
02:43 - Meet Haze
06:07 - About emotional spending
07:34 - Setting up roadblocks to your spending
09:35 - Haze's goals for the next 2 years
12:06 - About consistency
14:10 - Creating visuals of your dreams
14:55 - Doing small actions to help stop overspending 
17:59 - Setting up new habits and routines
21:31 - Writing down your budget to track your spending
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>We’ve all been guilty of impulse spending. </p>

<p>Many people find it hard to resist because it’s so easy and so instantly rewarding, and for people with ADHD, keeping impulse spending in check can be challenging.</p>

<p>Listen in as I share tips on how to gain control of it by creating new habits and routines to help with consistency, setting up barriers and roadblocks to your spending, and how creating a written budget and doing a simple action can help stop your overspending.</p>

<p><strong><em>Hosting Today:</em></strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“So, you know, just little baby steps, you know the one small action that you can do this week. And it could be as simple as deleting the Amazon app off your phone or deleting the credit cards that are saved in there to make it harder for you to spend on Amazon. Like you got to take an extra step to spend money. Like you can delete your cards out of there and then you have to like, go get your car. It&#39;s like so much more effort. Right? Cause it&#39;s so easy. They have it set up so easy to spend money.”</em> <br>
<strong><em>-Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:01 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
02:43 - Meet Haze<br>
06:07 - About emotional spending<br>
07:34 - Setting up roadblocks to your spending<br>
09:35 - Haze&#39;s goals for the next 2 years<br>
12:06 - About consistency<br>
14:10 - Creating visuals of your dreams<br>
14:55 - Doing small actions to help stop overspending <br>
17:59 - Setting up new habits and routines<br>
21:31 - Writing down your budget to track your spending</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>We’ve all been guilty of impulse spending. </p>

<p>Many people find it hard to resist because it’s so easy and so instantly rewarding, and for people with ADHD, keeping impulse spending in check can be challenging.</p>

<p>Listen in as I share tips on how to gain control of it by creating new habits and routines to help with consistency, setting up barriers and roadblocks to your spending, and how creating a written budget and doing a simple action can help stop your overspending.</p>

<p><strong><em>Hosting Today:</em></strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“So, you know, just little baby steps, you know the one small action that you can do this week. And it could be as simple as deleting the Amazon app off your phone or deleting the credit cards that are saved in there to make it harder for you to spend on Amazon. Like you got to take an extra step to spend money. Like you can delete your cards out of there and then you have to like, go get your car. It&#39;s like so much more effort. Right? Cause it&#39;s so easy. They have it set up so easy to spend money.”</em> <br>
<strong><em>-Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:01 - Introduction for today&#39;s episode<br>
02:43 - Meet Haze<br>
06:07 - About emotional spending<br>
07:34 - Setting up roadblocks to your spending<br>
09:35 - Haze&#39;s goals for the next 2 years<br>
12:06 - About consistency<br>
14:10 - Creating visuals of your dreams<br>
14:55 - Doing small actions to help stop overspending <br>
17:59 - Setting up new habits and routines<br>
21:31 - Writing down your budget to track your spending</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
</item>
<item>
  <title>#81 BSS - Getting Over Mom Guilt so You Can Stop Overspending</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/81</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 07 Sep 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/033fa8b1-99ff-4ca4-b557-fbb42c149347.mp3" length="35008482" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>81</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#81 BSS - Getting Over Mom Guilt so You Can Stop Overspending</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are your kids constantly guilting you into spending money? Or you overspend because you love them and don't want to tell them no?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>24:18</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Ever felt like you were finally doing a great job setting up your budget, only to have it all fall apart when your kids asked for something, or when you ended up going over budget because you couldn't say no to them?
It's because of the so-called mom guilt! 
Listen in as we discuss about the mom guilt and how it influences our actions and, unfortunately, our financial goals. We also go through some tips on how to overcome it like setting up financial boundaries with your child, teaching them delayed gratification, changing your mindset and turning your guilt into motivation, and why saying no is beneficial to your child's future.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“And, you know, she will appreciate it later in life and spoiling her now because of that mom guilt doesn't necessarily set her up for success in the future with how you want her to handle her finances or working toward a goal. Like there's so many life skills that you can teach her by telling her no, or letting her work for it. So instead of thinking that feeling guilty as the mom, you could use that as a motivator to teach her some things instead of feeling guilty and spending the money” 
-Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
01:58 - Meet Trinnette
02:36 - Trinnette's biggest financial struggle
03:55 - Setting financial boundaries with your child
05:10 - Teaching your child about delayed gratification
07:18 - Getting past the mom guilt
08:15 - Changing your mindset about the mom guilt
09:48 - Trinnette's goals
14:12 - Adding a category for your child in your budget
17:23 - Practicing delayed gratification
19:35 - Trinnette's dream for her daughter
20:31 - Making a vision board to help achieve their goals
22:47 - Recognizing your triggers
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>mom guilt, overspending because of mom guilt, paying off debt with kids</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever felt like you were finally doing a great job setting up your budget, only to have it all fall apart when your kids asked for something, or when you ended up going over budget because you couldn&#39;t say no to them?</p>

<p>It&#39;s because of the so-called mom guilt! </p>

<p>Listen in as we discuss about the mom guilt and how it influences our actions and, unfortunately, our financial goals. We also go through some tips on how to overcome it like setting up financial boundaries with your child, teaching them delayed gratification, changing your mindset and turning your guilt into motivation, and why saying no is beneficial to your child&#39;s future.</p>

<p><em><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></em></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“And, you know, she will appreciate it later in life and spoiling her now because of that mom guilt doesn&#39;t necessarily set her up for success in the future with how you want her to handle her finances or working toward a goal. Like there&#39;s so many life skills that you can teach her by telling her no, or letting her work for it. So instead of thinking that feeling guilty as the mom, you could use that as a motivator to teach her some things instead of feeling guilty and spending the money”</em> <br>
<strong><em>-Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:58 - Meet Trinnette<br>
02:36 - Trinnette&#39;s biggest financial struggle<br>
03:55 - Setting financial boundaries with your child<br>
05:10 - Teaching your child about delayed gratification<br>
07:18 - Getting past the mom guilt<br>
08:15 - Changing your mindset about the mom guilt<br>
09:48 - Trinnette&#39;s goals<br>
14:12 - Adding a category for your child in your budget<br>
17:23 - Practicing delayed gratification<br>
19:35 - Trinnette&#39;s dream for her daughter<br>
20:31 - Making a vision board to help achieve their goals<br>
22:47 - Recognizing your triggers</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Ever felt like you were finally doing a great job setting up your budget, only to have it all fall apart when your kids asked for something, or when you ended up going over budget because you couldn&#39;t say no to them?</p>

<p>It&#39;s because of the so-called mom guilt! </p>

<p>Listen in as we discuss about the mom guilt and how it influences our actions and, unfortunately, our financial goals. We also go through some tips on how to overcome it like setting up financial boundaries with your child, teaching them delayed gratification, changing your mindset and turning your guilt into motivation, and why saying no is beneficial to your child&#39;s future.</p>

<p><em><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></em></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“And, you know, she will appreciate it later in life and spoiling her now because of that mom guilt doesn&#39;t necessarily set her up for success in the future with how you want her to handle her finances or working toward a goal. Like there&#39;s so many life skills that you can teach her by telling her no, or letting her work for it. So instead of thinking that feeling guilty as the mom, you could use that as a motivator to teach her some things instead of feeling guilty and spending the money”</em> <br>
<strong><em>-Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:58 - Meet Trinnette<br>
02:36 - Trinnette&#39;s biggest financial struggle<br>
03:55 - Setting financial boundaries with your child<br>
05:10 - Teaching your child about delayed gratification<br>
07:18 - Getting past the mom guilt<br>
08:15 - Changing your mindset about the mom guilt<br>
09:48 - Trinnette&#39;s goals<br>
14:12 - Adding a category for your child in your budget<br>
17:23 - Practicing delayed gratification<br>
19:35 - Trinnette&#39;s dream for her daughter<br>
20:31 - Making a vision board to help achieve their goals<br>
22:47 - Recognizing your triggers</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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<item>
  <title>#80 BSS - Curb Overspending by Focusing on Your Big Goal</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/80</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>80</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#80 BSS - Curb Overspending by Focusing on Your Big Goal</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Are you constantly overspending even though you make a plan? Or you hate feeling restricted by a "budget"?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>22:53</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>One of the most common mistakes a person can make when it comes to money is overspending. We sometimes spend money mindlessly without knowing what causes it until it's too late.
So if you're wondering  
* How to recognize and identify the triggers that make you spend mindlessly
* How setting up and staying focused on your big goals help control overspending
* How to not feel deprived and restricted by your spending plan
* How to let go of perfectionism
Then this episode is for you, so make sure to jot down these golden nuggets that are being shared!
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“You're going to have to keep reminding them and yourself of what your bigger goal is and know that you're going to screw up from time to time. You're still going to impulsively spend. I mean, that's, that's just normal, but if you keep building up those wins over time, you're going to get there and they're going to become less and less and you're going to make the progress that you want to make, especially when you have that clear goal.” 
-Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
01:19 - Meet Jen
03:03 - Jen's financial struggles
04:30 - What triggers her to impulsively spend?
05:31 - Recognizing the triggers and putting up roadblocks between spending money
07:04 - How setting up goals help control impulse spending
10:49 - How using visuals and reminders help you stay focused to reach your goals
11:53 - How to set a realistic but timely goal
12:36 - Struggles with budgeting
13:49 - Creating a flexible spending plan
16:49 - Problems with being a perfectionist
19:12 - Give yourself permission to fail
20:24 - Jen's 24 hour goal
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>overspending, mindless spending, shopping when bored</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>One of the most common mistakes a person can make when it comes to money is overspending. We sometimes spend money mindlessly without knowing what causes it until it&#39;s too late.</p>

<p>So if you&#39;re wondering  </p>

<ul>
<li>How to recognize and identify the triggers that make you spend mindlessly</li>
<li>How setting up and staying focused on your big goals help control overspending</li>
<li>How to not feel deprived and restricted by your spending plan</li>
<li>How to let go of perfectionism</li>
</ul>

<p>Then this episode is for you, so make sure to jot down these golden nuggets that are being shared!</p>

<p><em><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></em></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;re going to have to keep reminding them and yourself of what your bigger goal is and know that you&#39;re going to screw up from time to time. You&#39;re still going to impulsively spend. I mean, that&#39;s, that&#39;s just normal, but if you keep building up those wins over time, you&#39;re going to get there and they&#39;re going to become less and less and you&#39;re going to make the progress that you want to make, especially when you have that clear goal.”</em> <br>
<em><strong>-Ashley Patrick</strong></em></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:19 - Meet Jen<br>
03:03 - Jen&#39;s financial struggles<br>
04:30 - What triggers her to impulsively spend?<br>
05:31 - Recognizing the triggers and putting up roadblocks between spending money<br>
07:04 - How setting up goals help control impulse spending<br>
10:49 - How using visuals and reminders help you stay focused to reach your goals<br>
11:53 - How to set a realistic but timely goal<br>
12:36 - Struggles with budgeting<br>
13:49 - Creating a flexible spending plan<br>
16:49 - Problems with being a perfectionist<br>
19:12 - Give yourself permission to fail<br>
20:24 - Jen&#39;s 24 hour goal</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>One of the most common mistakes a person can make when it comes to money is overspending. We sometimes spend money mindlessly without knowing what causes it until it&#39;s too late.</p>

<p>So if you&#39;re wondering  </p>

<ul>
<li>How to recognize and identify the triggers that make you spend mindlessly</li>
<li>How setting up and staying focused on your big goals help control overspending</li>
<li>How to not feel deprived and restricted by your spending plan</li>
<li>How to let go of perfectionism</li>
</ul>

<p>Then this episode is for you, so make sure to jot down these golden nuggets that are being shared!</p>

<p><em><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></em></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“You&#39;re going to have to keep reminding them and yourself of what your bigger goal is and know that you&#39;re going to screw up from time to time. You&#39;re still going to impulsively spend. I mean, that&#39;s, that&#39;s just normal, but if you keep building up those wins over time, you&#39;re going to get there and they&#39;re going to become less and less and you&#39;re going to make the progress that you want to make, especially when you have that clear goal.”</em> <br>
<em><strong>-Ashley Patrick</strong></em></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
01:19 - Meet Jen<br>
03:03 - Jen&#39;s financial struggles<br>
04:30 - What triggers her to impulsively spend?<br>
05:31 - Recognizing the triggers and putting up roadblocks between spending money<br>
07:04 - How setting up goals help control impulse spending<br>
10:49 - How using visuals and reminders help you stay focused to reach your goals<br>
11:53 - How to set a realistic but timely goal<br>
12:36 - Struggles with budgeting<br>
13:49 - Creating a flexible spending plan<br>
16:49 - Problems with being a perfectionist<br>
19:12 - Give yourself permission to fail<br>
20:24 - Jen&#39;s 24 hour goal</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <strong><em>Budget Strategy Session</em></strong> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#79 3 Year Anniversary of the Podcast, Coaching Week is HERE!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/79</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cc9ea94b-9266-420d-9883-8c329b286c73.mp3" length="7441126" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>79</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#79 3 Year Anniversary of the Podcast, Coaching Week is HERE!</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Can you believe it has been three years since I officially started the Money Mindset Podcast? 

To honour this milestone, we are changing some things up by doing a Coaching Week!
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>5:09</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Can you believe it has been three years since I officially started the Money Mindset Podcast? 
To honour this milestone, we are changing some things up by doing a Coaching Week!
This week we have several interviews where we talked about past money mistakes and money struggles like overspending because you don't know your big goal because of mom guilt, being unorganized, perfectionism, impulsive spending because of ADHD and more. I will also share tips on and how to make progress and get over that big struggle to achieve your financial goals so make sure you listen to all the Budget Strategy Sessions this week.
Hosting Today:
I'm Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I'd have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. 
After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family's finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. 
Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family's finances.
“I'm going to give you actionable steps and you are going to realize that you are not alone. And that is really the biggest hurdle, right? We feel like that we do all of these things. And one of the only ones that do them and everybody else has it all figured out with their finances, but that's not true.” 
-Ashley Patrick
Timestamps 
00:03 - New introduction to the Money Mindset Podcast
00:25 - Meet Ashley
01:18 - Changes to the Podcast
01:57 - This week on the Money Mindset Podcast
04:20 - How to participate in the coaching sessions/the Budget Strategy Sessions
If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own Budget Strategy Session episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&amp;gt; www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>money coach, financial coach, </itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Can you believe it has been three years since I officially started the Money Mindset Podcast? </p>

<p>To honour this milestone, we are changing some things up by doing a Coaching Week!</p>

<p>This week we have several interviews where we talked about past money mistakes and money struggles like overspending because you don&#39;t know your big goal because of mom guilt, being unorganized, perfectionism, impulsive spending because of ADHD and more. I will also share tips on and how to make progress and get over that big struggle to achieve your financial goals so make sure you listen to all the Budget Strategy Sessions this week.</p>

<p><strong><em>Hosting Today:</em></strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“I&#39;m going to give you actionable steps and you are going to realize that you are not alone. And that is really the biggest hurdle, right? We feel like that we do all of these things. And one of the only ones that do them and everybody else has it all figured out with their finances, but that&#39;s not true.”</em> <br>
<strong>-Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:03 - New introduction to the Money Mindset Podcast<br>
00:25 - Meet Ashley<br>
01:18 - Changes to the Podcast<br>
01:57 - This week on the Money Mindset Podcast<br>
04:20 - How to participate in the coaching sessions/the Budget Strategy Sessions</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <em><strong>Budget Strategy Session</strong></em> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Can you believe it has been three years since I officially started the Money Mindset Podcast? </p>

<p>To honour this milestone, we are changing some things up by doing a Coaching Week!</p>

<p>This week we have several interviews where we talked about past money mistakes and money struggles like overspending because you don&#39;t know your big goal because of mom guilt, being unorganized, perfectionism, impulsive spending because of ADHD and more. I will also share tips on and how to make progress and get over that big struggle to achieve your financial goals so make sure you listen to all the Budget Strategy Sessions this week.</p>

<p><strong><em>Hosting Today:</em></strong></p>

<p>I&#39;m Ashley Patrick, ex detective turned debt-free CEO of my very own business and stay at home mom of three. Not too long ago, my dreams of staying at home with my kids seemed impossible. I thought I&#39;d have to stay miserable in a high stress demanding job, just so I could retire someday. </p>

<p>After gaining the confidence in my own ability to manage my family&#39;s finances and a simple step-by-step plan to make it happen, I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months, which then allowed me to finally quit my job, stay at home with my kids, and build a debt-free business. </p>

<p>Now, my mission is to help moms like you conquer debt and free themselves from the mental load of handling their family&#39;s finances.</p>

<p><em>“I&#39;m going to give you actionable steps and you are going to realize that you are not alone. And that is really the biggest hurdle, right? We feel like that we do all of these things. And one of the only ones that do them and everybody else has it all figured out with their finances, but that&#39;s not true.”</em> <br>
<strong>-Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
00:03 - New introduction to the Money Mindset Podcast<br>
00:25 - Meet Ashley<br>
01:18 - Changes to the Podcast<br>
01:57 - This week on the Money Mindset Podcast<br>
04:20 - How to participate in the coaching sessions/the Budget Strategy Sessions</p>

<p>If you would like to sit down with me and discuss what you are struggling with and some steps that you can take to make progress and get over that big struggle, I invite you to sign up for your own <em><strong>Budget Strategy Session</strong></em> episode at budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy and have a mini coaching session with me.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Book your Budget Strategy Session here-&gt; <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/strategy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#77 How Colleen's Parents Set Her Up For Financial Success!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/77</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 22 Aug 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/ad0f8027-c222-41ce-98e2-c21ff0299c8d.mp3" length="43365656" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>77</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#77 How Colleen's Parents Set Her Up For Financial Success!</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you think taking a new career path will better yourself and will help you with your financial journey?
Listen in as Coleen shares her story about how her parents taught her about money, what she's teaching her children about money, her financial journey on paying off her husband's student loan debt and about having no debt except for her house and switching careers because of COVID.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>30:06</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Do you think taking a new career path will better yourself and will help you with your financial journey?
Listen in as Coleen shares her story about how her parents taught her about money, what she's teaching her children about money, her financial journey on paying off her husband's student loan debt and about having no debt except for her house and switching careers because of COVID.
Meet Colleen…
Colleen is a wife, mom of 3 kiddos, animal lover and loves the lake. After over 20 years in the medical field, she decided to follow her heart by quitting her x-ray job and becoming a REALTOR(R), something she had been wanting to do for many years. She has always enjoyed taking care of others and now she gets to do so by being a trusted advisor and helping them to have all the tools needed to make their real estate dreams come true. She truly loves to assist in the buying and selling of homes. Colleen has also spent many years learning how to do well with budgeting and is currently working to become a financial coach, as well. She believes it is very important to make wise decisions with (most likely) the biggest purchase of a person's lifetime, including tough financial conversations and choices. She strives to help people to get into the home they love and will continue to love because they can afford it and won't become house poor. A continued conversation is encouraged and as she becomes a coach as well, she'll be able to help in many ways for time to come.
“Go with your gut and know that you're doing the right thing. Like just really think hard about that budget and know that there's an end goal and it's going to be hard no matter what, but really just being open to what is available to you and just making the most of what you have.”
- Colleen Fueling
Timestamps 
03:40 - Meet Colleen
05:14 - How do you get your husband on board with paying off debt? 
06:38 - How did your parents influence your mindset about debt?
08:00 - How do you pay off your husband's student loans fast?
09:12 - Does having a plan in place be so mentally freeing?
10:52 - How do priorities change when you switch careers?
14:33 - What are your thoughts and feelings with the real estate market?
15:05 - What are your feelings on credit scores for somebody wanting to rent or buy a house right now?
18:28 - About zero credit score
20:23 - Do real estate agents or realtors help people find rentals?
21:24 - What are your current financial goals and how are you staying focused on them? 
22:40 - When do you want to have your house paid off?
24:01 - What is the best piece of financial advice you have received? 
24:42 - What are some things that you are doing to teach your children about finances?
25:40 - Words of wisdom about paying off debt or managing your finances
Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Free Budgeting Workshop: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
* Link to get a free automated valuation of your house: https://hmbt.co/FwFB6a 
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Colleen:
* FB: https://www.facebook.com/colleenfeulingtherealtor 
 Special Guest: Colleen Feuling.
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>teaching kids about money, finding a rental, personal finance, switching careers, starting in real estate</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you think taking a new career path will better yourself and will help you with your financial journey?</p>

<p>Listen in as Coleen shares her story about how her parents taught her about money, what she&#39;s teaching her children about money, her financial journey on paying off her husband&#39;s student loan debt and about having no debt except for her house and switching careers because of COVID.</p>

<p><em><strong>Meet Colleen…</strong></em></p>

<p>Colleen is a wife, mom of 3 kiddos, animal lover and loves the lake. After over 20 years in the medical field, she decided to follow her heart by quitting her x-ray job and becoming a REALTOR(R), something she had been wanting to do for many years. She has always enjoyed taking care of others and now she gets to do so by being a trusted advisor and helping them to have all the tools needed to make their real estate dreams come true. She truly loves to assist in the buying and selling of homes. Colleen has also spent many years learning how to do well with budgeting and is currently working to become a financial coach, as well. She believes it is very important to make wise decisions with (most likely) the biggest purchase of a person&#39;s lifetime, including tough financial conversations and choices. She strives to help people to get into the home they love and will continue to love because they can afford it and won&#39;t become house poor. A continued conversation is encouraged and as she becomes a coach as well, she&#39;ll be able to help in many ways for time to come.</p>

<p><em>“Go with your gut and know that you&#39;re doing the right thing. Like just really think hard about that budget and know that there&#39;s an end goal and it&#39;s going to be hard no matter what, but really just being open to what is available to you and just making the most of what you have.”</em><br>
<strong>- Colleen Fueling</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
03:40 - Meet Colleen<br>
05:14 - How do you get your husband on board with paying off debt? <br>
06:38 - How did your parents influence your mindset about debt?<br>
08:00 - How do you pay off your husband&#39;s student loans fast?<br>
09:12 - Does having a plan in place be so mentally freeing?<br>
10:52 - How do priorities change when you switch careers?<br>
14:33 - What are your thoughts and feelings with the real estate market?<br>
15:05 - What are your feelings on credit scores for somebody wanting to rent or buy a house right now?<br>
18:28 - About zero credit score<br>
20:23 - Do real estate agents or realtors help people find rentals?<br>
21:24 - What are your current financial goals and how are you staying focused on them? <br>
22:40 - When do you want to have your house paid off?<br>
24:01 - What is the best piece of financial advice you have received? <br>
24:42 - What are some things that you are doing to teach your children about finances?<br>
25:40 - Words of wisdom about paying off debt or managing your finances</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Free Budgeting Workshop: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Link to get a free automated valuation of your house: <a href="https://hmbt.co/FwFB6a" rel="nofollow">https://hmbt.co/FwFB6a</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Colleen:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/colleenfeulingtherealtor" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/colleenfeulingtherealtor</a> </li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Colleen Feuling.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Do you think taking a new career path will better yourself and will help you with your financial journey?</p>

<p>Listen in as Coleen shares her story about how her parents taught her about money, what she&#39;s teaching her children about money, her financial journey on paying off her husband&#39;s student loan debt and about having no debt except for her house and switching careers because of COVID.</p>

<p><em><strong>Meet Colleen…</strong></em></p>

<p>Colleen is a wife, mom of 3 kiddos, animal lover and loves the lake. After over 20 years in the medical field, she decided to follow her heart by quitting her x-ray job and becoming a REALTOR(R), something she had been wanting to do for many years. She has always enjoyed taking care of others and now she gets to do so by being a trusted advisor and helping them to have all the tools needed to make their real estate dreams come true. She truly loves to assist in the buying and selling of homes. Colleen has also spent many years learning how to do well with budgeting and is currently working to become a financial coach, as well. She believes it is very important to make wise decisions with (most likely) the biggest purchase of a person&#39;s lifetime, including tough financial conversations and choices. She strives to help people to get into the home they love and will continue to love because they can afford it and won&#39;t become house poor. A continued conversation is encouraged and as she becomes a coach as well, she&#39;ll be able to help in many ways for time to come.</p>

<p><em>“Go with your gut and know that you&#39;re doing the right thing. Like just really think hard about that budget and know that there&#39;s an end goal and it&#39;s going to be hard no matter what, but really just being open to what is available to you and just making the most of what you have.”</em><br>
<strong>- Colleen Fueling</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
03:40 - Meet Colleen<br>
05:14 - How do you get your husband on board with paying off debt? <br>
06:38 - How did your parents influence your mindset about debt?<br>
08:00 - How do you pay off your husband&#39;s student loans fast?<br>
09:12 - Does having a plan in place be so mentally freeing?<br>
10:52 - How do priorities change when you switch careers?<br>
14:33 - What are your thoughts and feelings with the real estate market?<br>
15:05 - What are your feelings on credit scores for somebody wanting to rent or buy a house right now?<br>
18:28 - About zero credit score<br>
20:23 - Do real estate agents or realtors help people find rentals?<br>
21:24 - What are your current financial goals and how are you staying focused on them? <br>
22:40 - When do you want to have your house paid off?<br>
24:01 - What is the best piece of financial advice you have received? <br>
24:42 - What are some things that you are doing to teach your children about finances?<br>
25:40 - Words of wisdom about paying off debt or managing your finances</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Free Budgeting Workshop: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Link to get a free automated valuation of your house: <a href="https://hmbt.co/FwFB6a" rel="nofollow">https://hmbt.co/FwFB6a</a> </li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Colleen:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/colleenfeulingtherealtor" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/colleenfeulingtherealtor</a> </li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Colleen Feuling.</p>]]>
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  <title>#75 Help Paying for College as a First Generation Student</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>75</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#75 Help Paying for College as a First Generation Student</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Want to learn the tools and information you need to be strategic with your money when it comes to college planning? In this episode, we really dive into the different types of grants and which situation they best suit. We also cover how the system works and the different options that are available to you. 
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>48:47</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Want to learn the tools and information you need to be strategic with your money when it comes to college planning? In this episode, we really dive into the different types of grants and which situation they best suit. We also cover how the system works and the different options that are available to you. 
Meet Michelle!
Michelle Onaka is a mom of two young children, part-time university academic counselor supporting first-generation college students, and founder of Intentional Money Life. She loves to learn, strategize, support others, get into the nitty gritty, systemize, and demystify things. In her business, she helps people build financial education, apply it to themselves, and intentionally create a life that they love. She does this through posting regular educational visuals and short videos on social media, as well as through offering online financial courses.
“If you couldn't make your student loans, making sure that you're aware there's forbearance, there's deferment, and then there are multiple different repayment plans. You can get on a different payment plan where you pay less.” 
-Michelle Onaka
Timestamps 
04:39 - Michelle's role and expertise
06:06 - Pell Grant
07:02 - How many people are getting the Pell Grant?
08:53 - Pell Grant and EFC calculations
09:30 - What is the threshold of the EFC to be Pell eligible?
11:23 - What does being considered independent mean for you?
14:40 - What do you need to do to be declared independent?
15:26 - To get any of these resources you do need to fill out the FASFA? 
17:22 - What to do if you think you're eligible.
19:39 - What services do you offer? What does this program do? 
25:23 - What to do if you aren't Pell eligible?
26:13 - Being strategic about your course selection and what will transfer.
35:17 - A few things to know about student loans.
37:25 - How can you figure out how much your student loan is before you graduate?
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* FREE Budget Starter Kit - www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
* Michelle Onaka’s courses :www.intentionalmoneylife.com/courses
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Michelle:
* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intentionalmoneylife/
* FB: https://www.facebook.com/IntentionalMoneyLife
* Website: https://intentionalmoneylife.com/ 
 Special Guest: Michelle Onaka.
</description>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Want to learn the tools and information you need to be strategic with your money when it comes to college planning? In this episode, we really dive into the different types of grants and which situation they best suit. We also cover how the system works and the different options that are available to you. </p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Michelle!</em></strong></p>

<p>Michelle Onaka is a mom of two young children, part-time university academic counselor supporting first-generation college students, and founder of Intentional Money Life. She loves to learn, strategize, support others, get into the nitty gritty, systemize, and demystify things. In her business, she helps people build financial education, apply it to themselves, and intentionally create a life that they love. She does this through posting regular educational visuals and short videos on social media, as well as through offering online financial courses.</p>

<p><em>“If you couldn&#39;t make your student loans, making sure that you&#39;re aware there&#39;s forbearance, there&#39;s deferment, and then there are multiple different repayment plans. You can get on a different payment plan where you pay less.”</em> <br>
<strong>-Michelle Onaka</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
04:39 - Michelle&#39;s role and expertise<br>
06:06 - Pell Grant<br>
07:02 - How many people are getting the Pell Grant?<br>
08:53 - Pell Grant and EFC calculations<br>
09:30 - What is the threshold of the EFC to be Pell eligible?<br>
11:23 - What does being considered independent mean for you?<br>
14:40 - What do you need to do to be declared independent?<br>
15:26 - To get any of these resources you do need to fill out the FASFA? <br>
17:22 - What to do if you think you&#39;re eligible.<br>
19:39 - What services do you offer? What does this program do? <br>
25:23 - What to do if you aren&#39;t Pell eligible?<br>
26:13 - Being strategic about your course selection and what will transfer.<br>
35:17 - A few things to know about student loans.<br>
37:25 - How can you figure out how much your student loan is before you graduate?</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Budget Starter Kit - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
<li>Michelle Onaka’s courses :<a href="http://www.intentionalmoneylife.com/courses" rel="nofollow">www.intentionalmoneylife.com/courses</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Michelle:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/intentionalmoneylife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/intentionalmoneylife/</a></li>
<li>FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/IntentionalMoneyLife" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/IntentionalMoneyLife</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://intentionalmoneylife.com/" rel="nofollow">https://intentionalmoneylife.com/</a> </li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Michelle Onaka.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Want to learn the tools and information you need to be strategic with your money when it comes to college planning? In this episode, we really dive into the different types of grants and which situation they best suit. We also cover how the system works and the different options that are available to you. </p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Michelle!</em></strong></p>

<p>Michelle Onaka is a mom of two young children, part-time university academic counselor supporting first-generation college students, and founder of Intentional Money Life. She loves to learn, strategize, support others, get into the nitty gritty, systemize, and demystify things. In her business, she helps people build financial education, apply it to themselves, and intentionally create a life that they love. She does this through posting regular educational visuals and short videos on social media, as well as through offering online financial courses.</p>

<p><em>“If you couldn&#39;t make your student loans, making sure that you&#39;re aware there&#39;s forbearance, there&#39;s deferment, and then there are multiple different repayment plans. You can get on a different payment plan where you pay less.”</em> <br>
<strong>-Michelle Onaka</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
04:39 - Michelle&#39;s role and expertise<br>
06:06 - Pell Grant<br>
07:02 - How many people are getting the Pell Grant?<br>
08:53 - Pell Grant and EFC calculations<br>
09:30 - What is the threshold of the EFC to be Pell eligible?<br>
11:23 - What does being considered independent mean for you?<br>
14:40 - What do you need to do to be declared independent?<br>
15:26 - To get any of these resources you do need to fill out the FASFA? <br>
17:22 - What to do if you think you&#39;re eligible.<br>
19:39 - What services do you offer? What does this program do? <br>
25:23 - What to do if you aren&#39;t Pell eligible?<br>
26:13 - Being strategic about your course selection and what will transfer.<br>
35:17 - A few things to know about student loans.<br>
37:25 - How can you figure out how much your student loan is before you graduate?</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Budget Starter Kit - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
<li>Michelle Onaka’s courses :<a href="http://www.intentionalmoneylife.com/courses" rel="nofollow">www.intentionalmoneylife.com/courses</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Michelle:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/intentionalmoneylife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/intentionalmoneylife/</a></li>
<li>FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/IntentionalMoneyLife" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/IntentionalMoneyLife</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://intentionalmoneylife.com/" rel="nofollow">https://intentionalmoneylife.com/</a> </li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Michelle Onaka.</p>]]>
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  <title>#74 The 3 Steps to Take Before Paying Your Medical Bills</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/74</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>74</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#74 The 3 Steps to Take Before Paying Your Medical Bills</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>The number one cause of all debt and bankruptcy in the United States is medical bills, medical debt. It can feel daunting and downright scary being confronted by this, not knowing your rights or what you can do about it.

If you have medical bills to pay right now or know you may need to in the future, then you’ll want to listen in on today’s episode.
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>34:58</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>The number one cause of all debt and bankruptcy in the United States is medical bills, medical debt. It can feel daunting and downright scary being confronted by this, not knowing your rights or what you can do about it.
If you have medical bills to pay right now or know you may need to in the future, then you’ll want to listen in on today’s episode.
Dr Virgie educates us on the three steps you should take to pay your medical bills, what to do if you can’t afford your medical bill, busting myths and sharing the top 5 reasons people end up overpaying their medical bills.
Meet Dr Virgie…
Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington is an internal medicine physician and medical billing expert.
A dedicated patient advocate, Dr. Virgie practiced more than 20 years in primary care and psychiatric settings and as a health insurance executive.
Dr. Virgie now helps patients understand complex medical procedures, communicate effectively with their healthcare providers, and avoid financial devastation from crushing medical bills through her "What Your Doctor Wants You to Know" series.
She is the author of "What Your Doctor Wants You to Know to CRUSH MEDICAL DEBT" and the host of the weekly "Ask a Doctor - What Your Doctor Wants You to Know with Dr. Virgie" show on the VoiceAmerica radio network.
 “The number one cause of all debt and bankruptcy in the United States is medical bills, medical debt. Unfortunately there's some numbers that say up to 30% of that is bills that people did not owe, or there are bills that they were overcharged.”
-Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington
Timestamps 
03:46 - Meet Dr Virgie
07:20 - Why you shouldn't sign papers in the hospital accepting liability for costs your insurance doesn't cover.
13:27 - The three steps to paying your medical bill
17:33 - What to do if you can't afford to pay what you owe.
19:31 - Are there different steps for bills from your doctors office?
20:35 - Why do healthcare facilities agree to your payment plans.
21:35 - Myth Buster: Can they send your bill to collections if you keep paying as little as $10 per month?
25:05 - The top 5 reasons people overpaying on their medical bills?
31:10 - Surprise billing and what it means for you
32:11 - Book recommendation
Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Free Budgeting Workshop: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
* Medical Bill Checklist: https://crushmedicaldebt.com/medical-bill-paying-checklist
Book Recommendation:
* Your Money or Your Life - Joe Dominguez &amp;amp; Vicki Robin
Connect with Ashley:
* IG: https://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Guest:
* IG: https://www.instagram.com/therealdrvirgie
* Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoctorDiaries
* Website: crushmedicaldebt.com
* Twitter: https://twitter.com/therealdrvirgie
* Youtube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCmA-WL2ucIfDelCMr1wzgKg
* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drvirgie
 Special Guest: Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington.
</description>
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    <![CDATA[<p>The number one cause of all debt and bankruptcy in the United States is medical bills, medical debt. It can feel daunting and downright scary being confronted by this, not knowing your rights or what you can do about it.</p>

<p>If you have medical bills to pay right now or know you may need to in the future, then you’ll want to listen in on today’s episode.</p>

<p>Dr Virgie educates us on the three steps you should take to pay your medical bills, what to do if you can’t afford your medical bill, busting myths and sharing the top 5 reasons people end up overpaying their medical bills.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Dr Virgie…</em></strong></p>

<p>Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington is an internal medicine physician and medical billing expert.</p>

<p>A dedicated patient advocate, Dr. Virgie practiced more than 20 years in primary care and psychiatric settings and as a health insurance executive.</p>

<p>Dr. Virgie now helps patients understand complex medical procedures, communicate effectively with their healthcare providers, and avoid financial devastation from crushing medical bills through her &quot;What Your Doctor Wants You to Know&quot; series.</p>

<p>She is the author of &quot;What Your Doctor Wants You to Know to CRUSH MEDICAL DEBT&quot; and the host of the weekly &quot;Ask a Doctor - What Your Doctor Wants You to Know with Dr. Virgie&quot; show on the VoiceAmerica radio network.</p>

<p><em>“The number one cause of all debt and bankruptcy in the United States is medical bills, medical debt. Unfortunately there&#39;s some numbers that say up to 30% of that is bills that people did not owe, or there are bills that they were overcharged.”</em><br>
<strong>-Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
03:46 - Meet Dr Virgie<br>
07:20 - Why you shouldn&#39;t sign papers in the hospital accepting liability for costs your insurance doesn&#39;t cover.<br>
13:27 - The three steps to paying your medical bill<br>
17:33 - What to do if you can&#39;t afford to pay what you owe.<br>
19:31 - Are there different steps for bills from your doctors office?<br>
20:35 - Why do healthcare facilities agree to your payment plans.<br>
21:35 - Myth Buster: Can they send your bill to collections if you keep paying as little as $10 per month?<br>
25:05 - The top 5 reasons people overpaying on their medical bills?<br>
31:10 - Surprise billing and what it means for you<br>
32:11 - Book recommendation</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <em><strong>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)!</strong></em> Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Free Budgeting Workshop: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Medical Bill Checklist: <a href="https://crushmedicaldebt.com/medical-bill-paying-checklist" rel="nofollow">https://crushmedicaldebt.com/medical-bill-paying-checklist</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Your Money or Your Life - Joe Dominguez &amp; Vicki Robin</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/therealdrvirgie" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/therealdrvirgie</a></li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/DoctorDiaries" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/DoctorDiaries</a></li>
<li>Website: crushmedicaldebt.com</li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/therealdrvirgie" rel="nofollow">https://twitter.com/therealdrvirgie</a></li>
<li>Youtube: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmA-WL2ucIfDelCMr1wzgKg" rel="nofollow">www.youtube.com/channel/UCmA-WL2ucIfDelCMr1wzgKg</a></li>
<li>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drvirgie" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/drvirgie</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington.</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>The number one cause of all debt and bankruptcy in the United States is medical bills, medical debt. It can feel daunting and downright scary being confronted by this, not knowing your rights or what you can do about it.</p>

<p>If you have medical bills to pay right now or know you may need to in the future, then you’ll want to listen in on today’s episode.</p>

<p>Dr Virgie educates us on the three steps you should take to pay your medical bills, what to do if you can’t afford your medical bill, busting myths and sharing the top 5 reasons people end up overpaying their medical bills.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Dr Virgie…</em></strong></p>

<p>Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington is an internal medicine physician and medical billing expert.</p>

<p>A dedicated patient advocate, Dr. Virgie practiced more than 20 years in primary care and psychiatric settings and as a health insurance executive.</p>

<p>Dr. Virgie now helps patients understand complex medical procedures, communicate effectively with their healthcare providers, and avoid financial devastation from crushing medical bills through her &quot;What Your Doctor Wants You to Know&quot; series.</p>

<p>She is the author of &quot;What Your Doctor Wants You to Know to CRUSH MEDICAL DEBT&quot; and the host of the weekly &quot;Ask a Doctor - What Your Doctor Wants You to Know with Dr. Virgie&quot; show on the VoiceAmerica radio network.</p>

<p><em>“The number one cause of all debt and bankruptcy in the United States is medical bills, medical debt. Unfortunately there&#39;s some numbers that say up to 30% of that is bills that people did not owe, or there are bills that they were overcharged.”</em><br>
<strong>-Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
03:46 - Meet Dr Virgie<br>
07:20 - Why you shouldn&#39;t sign papers in the hospital accepting liability for costs your insurance doesn&#39;t cover.<br>
13:27 - The three steps to paying your medical bill<br>
17:33 - What to do if you can&#39;t afford to pay what you owe.<br>
19:31 - Are there different steps for bills from your doctors office?<br>
20:35 - Why do healthcare facilities agree to your payment plans.<br>
21:35 - Myth Buster: Can they send your bill to collections if you keep paying as little as $10 per month?<br>
25:05 - The top 5 reasons people overpaying on their medical bills?<br>
31:10 - Surprise billing and what it means for you<br>
32:11 - Book recommendation</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <em><strong>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)!</strong></em> Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Free Budgeting Workshop: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Medical Bill Checklist: <a href="https://crushmedicaldebt.com/medical-bill-paying-checklist" rel="nofollow">https://crushmedicaldebt.com/medical-bill-paying-checklist</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Your Money or Your Life - Joe Dominguez &amp; Vicki Robin</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/therealdrvirgie" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/therealdrvirgie</a></li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/DoctorDiaries" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/DoctorDiaries</a></li>
<li>Website: crushmedicaldebt.com</li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/therealdrvirgie" rel="nofollow">https://twitter.com/therealdrvirgie</a></li>
<li>Youtube: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmA-WL2ucIfDelCMr1wzgKg" rel="nofollow">www.youtube.com/channel/UCmA-WL2ucIfDelCMr1wzgKg</a></li>
<li>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drvirgie" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/drvirgie</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Dr. Virgie Bright Ellington.</p>]]>
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  <title>#73 How to Use Fear of Failing as a Tool </title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>73</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#73 How to Use Fear of Failing as a Tool </itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Feeling the fear around failing with your finances again and again? 
Do you find yourself hiding the mail in a drawer so that you can avoid facing what's inside?
Listen in and learn how you can use fear as a tool to drive you and change your money story. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>29:57</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Feeling the fear around failing with your finances again and again? 
Do you find yourself hiding the mail in a drawer so that you can avoid facing what's inside?
It often feels like a huge mental to even think about sorting out your finances, especially when you're doing all the things as a busy mom.
Listen in as Rebecca tells us why fear is your friend and what you can do to overcome it so you can manage your finances better. Learn how you can use fear as a tool to drive you and change your money story. 
Meet Rebecca Wiener McGregor…
She is an Amplifier of Love, catalyst for breakthroughs, and author of the beloved book Loving Her: 10 Loving Standards to Call Forward the Wealthy Woman Inside You. She shares her gifts as a transformational hypnotist + money mindset coach committed to helping over-working and over-giving visionaries release old blocks, traumas, and hidden fears to find a deeper sense of self-worth and determination to live life on their own terms while being fulfilled, well-paid, and having loads of fun.
 “Everything comes down to being a choice. Choice to open those envelopes, the choice to write down the numbers, the choice to do the research of what you've been spending and making decisions from there about what you wanna spend. And the choice to love yourself through the whole process.”
- Rebecca Wiener McGregor
Timestamps
02:46 - Rebecca's Journey
08:02 - How can we use fear as a tool to get going?
10:26 - How do people get to where they can use the fear and put it into action?
11:56 - Why is it important not to judge yourself?
14:31 - What happens when you attach judgment to an emotion?
15:28 - How can busy moms build their confidence and their self worth around their finances?
20:19 - Women's history with money
23:19 - Why is fear your friend?
24:28 - Why you should stop saying 'I can't afford it.'
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Budget Starter Kit: budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
* Free Workshop: 4 Steps to Activate Your Money Flow - getinyourmoneyflow.com
Book Recommendation:
* The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
* Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver
* The Power of Intention Dr Wayne Dyer
Connect with Ashley:
* IG: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Guest:
* Facebook: :https://www.facebook.com/iamrebeccasue
* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamrebeccasue/
* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamrebeccasue/
* Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamrebeccasue
 Special Guest: Rebecca Wiener McGregor.
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    <![CDATA[<p>Feeling the fear around failing with your finances again and again? </p>

<p>Do you find yourself hiding the mail in a drawer so that you can avoid facing what&#39;s inside?</p>

<p>It often feels like a huge mental to even think about sorting out your finances, especially when you&#39;re doing all the things as a busy mom.</p>

<p>Listen in as Rebecca tells us why fear is your friend and what you can do to overcome it so you can manage your finances better. Learn how you can use fear as a tool to drive you and change your money story. </p>

<p><em><strong>Meet Rebecca Wiener McGregor…</strong></em></p>

<p>She is an Amplifier of Love, catalyst for breakthroughs, and author of the beloved book Loving Her: 10 Loving Standards to Call Forward the Wealthy Woman Inside You. She shares her gifts as a transformational hypnotist + money mindset coach committed to helping over-working and over-giving visionaries release old blocks, traumas, and hidden fears to find a deeper sense of self-worth and determination to live life on their own terms while being fulfilled, well-paid, and having loads of fun.</p>

<p><em>“Everything comes down to being a choice. Choice to open those envelopes, the choice to write down the numbers, the choice to do the research of what you&#39;ve been spending and making decisions from there about what you wanna spend. And the choice to love yourself through the whole process.”</em><br>
<strong>- Rebecca Wiener McGregor</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:46 - Rebecca&#39;s Journey<br>
08:02 - How can we use fear as a tool to get going?<br>
10:26 - How do people get to where they can use the fear and put it into action?<br>
11:56 - Why is it important not to judge yourself?<br>
14:31 - What happens when you attach judgment to an emotion?<br>
15:28 - How can busy moms build their confidence and their self worth around their finances?<br>
20:19 - Women&#39;s history with money<br>
23:19 - Why is fear your friend?<br>
24:28 - Why you should stop saying &#39;I can&#39;t afford it.&#39;</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</li>
<li>Free Workshop: 4 Steps to Activate Your Money Flow - getinyourmoneyflow.com</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz</li>
<li>Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver</li>
<li>The Power of Intention Dr Wayne Dyer</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Facebook: :<a href="https://www.facebook.com/iamrebeccasue" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/iamrebeccasue</a></li>
<li>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamrebeccasue/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamrebeccasue/</a></li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamrebeccasue/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/iamrebeccasue/</a></li>
<li>Tik Tok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamrebeccasue" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@iamrebeccasue</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Rebecca Wiener McGregor.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Feeling the fear around failing with your finances again and again? </p>

<p>Do you find yourself hiding the mail in a drawer so that you can avoid facing what&#39;s inside?</p>

<p>It often feels like a huge mental to even think about sorting out your finances, especially when you&#39;re doing all the things as a busy mom.</p>

<p>Listen in as Rebecca tells us why fear is your friend and what you can do to overcome it so you can manage your finances better. Learn how you can use fear as a tool to drive you and change your money story. </p>

<p><em><strong>Meet Rebecca Wiener McGregor…</strong></em></p>

<p>She is an Amplifier of Love, catalyst for breakthroughs, and author of the beloved book Loving Her: 10 Loving Standards to Call Forward the Wealthy Woman Inside You. She shares her gifts as a transformational hypnotist + money mindset coach committed to helping over-working and over-giving visionaries release old blocks, traumas, and hidden fears to find a deeper sense of self-worth and determination to live life on their own terms while being fulfilled, well-paid, and having loads of fun.</p>

<p><em>“Everything comes down to being a choice. Choice to open those envelopes, the choice to write down the numbers, the choice to do the research of what you&#39;ve been spending and making decisions from there about what you wanna spend. And the choice to love yourself through the whole process.”</em><br>
<strong>- Rebecca Wiener McGregor</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:46 - Rebecca&#39;s Journey<br>
08:02 - How can we use fear as a tool to get going?<br>
10:26 - How do people get to where they can use the fear and put it into action?<br>
11:56 - Why is it important not to judge yourself?<br>
14:31 - What happens when you attach judgment to an emotion?<br>
15:28 - How can busy moms build their confidence and their self worth around their finances?<br>
20:19 - Women&#39;s history with money<br>
23:19 - Why is fear your friend?<br>
24:28 - Why you should stop saying &#39;I can&#39;t afford it.&#39;</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budget Starter Kit: budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</li>
<li>Free Workshop: 4 Steps to Activate Your Money Flow - getinyourmoneyflow.com</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz</li>
<li>Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver</li>
<li>The Power of Intention Dr Wayne Dyer</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Facebook: :<a href="https://www.facebook.com/iamrebeccasue" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/iamrebeccasue</a></li>
<li>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamrebeccasue/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamrebeccasue/</a></li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamrebeccasue/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/iamrebeccasue/</a></li>
<li>Tik Tok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamrebeccasue" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@iamrebeccasue</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Rebecca Wiener McGregor.</p>]]>
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  <title>#72 Investing Based On Your Values </title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#72 Investing Based On Your Values </itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you want where you invest your money to align with your goals? Want to know exactly where your money is going, what it’s doing and who it’s supporting?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>38:44</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Do you want where you invest your money to align with your goals? Want to know exactly where your money is going, what it’s doing and who it’s supporting?
Listen in as Brian shares with us what value based investing is. What is ESG and how to find out if you're working with or investing in a company that aligns with your values. He also shares some great tips on what to do if you’re a business in the industry and want to become more value based focus.
Meet Brian…
Brian helps people understand not just what to do, but how and why they should do it. Part teacher and part financial therapist!
Brian has been in the Financial Services Business since 2003, working with a diverse group of clients representing a slice of the Washington DC marketplace. As a native of the Washington area, he grew up in Chevy Chase, Maryland, attending high school in Bethesda. He founded The Haney Company with his father in 2013, combining 2 generations of industry experience. With more than a decade of experience in Banking, Investments, Asset management and Insurance, Brian's expertise and keen insights provide organizations, businesses and individuals with unique and innovative strategies to meet their insurance needs and financial goals.
“Have a vision for your life and the type of person that you are. Center yourself. What are the values that are really important to you? Find resources and approach professionals that understand this and are willing to help you carry that forward. Be practical about it and take your time.”
- Brian Haney
Timestamps
03:19 - About Brian
06:08 - Business of Pride Award
08:50 - What is value-based investing?
11:21 - What is ESG?
13:04 - How does a company meet an ESG criteria?
14:37 - Where can you get advice on investing in the right company?
17:23 - Investing Strategy: all in for ESG or a combination?
20:20 - Can lower investments in an ESG be done on your own or through an adviser?
22:40 - How can a business in this industry become more value-based focused?
25:15 - What to keep in mind when learning about ESGs
28:05 - Checking if a business aligns with your values
30:36 - Brians values and 10-year plan
34:55 - Book recommendation: When by Dan Pink
If you need help paying off your debt, go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your Paying Off Debt Starter Kit. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt
Book Recommendation:
* When by Dan Pink (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/39t8uh4
Connect with Ashley:
* IG: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Guest:
* Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thehaneycompany
* Website: https://www.thehaneycompany.com/
* Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheHaneyCompany
 Special Guest: Brian Haney.
</description>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you want where you invest your money to align with your goals? Want to know exactly where your money is going, what it’s doing and who it’s supporting?</p>

<p>Listen in as Brian shares with us what value based investing is. What is ESG and how to find out if you&#39;re working with or investing in a company that aligns with your values. He also shares some great tips on what to do if you’re a business in the industry and want to become more value based focus.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Brian…</em></strong></p>

<p>Brian helps people understand not just what to do, but how and why they should do it. Part teacher and part financial therapist!</p>

<p>Brian has been in the Financial Services Business since 2003, working with a diverse group of clients representing a slice of the Washington DC marketplace. As a native of the Washington area, he grew up in Chevy Chase, Maryland, attending high school in Bethesda. He founded The Haney Company with his father in 2013, combining 2 generations of industry experience. With more than a decade of experience in Banking, Investments, Asset management and Insurance, Brian&#39;s expertise and keen insights provide organizations, businesses and individuals with unique and innovative strategies to meet their insurance needs and financial goals.</p>

<p><em>“Have a vision for your life and the type of person that you are. Center yourself. What are the values that are really important to you? Find resources and approach professionals that understand this and are willing to help you carry that forward. Be practical about it and take your time.”</em><br>
<strong>- Brian Haney</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:19 - About Brian<br>
06:08 - Business of Pride Award<br>
08:50 - What is value-based investing?<br>
11:21 - What is ESG?<br>
13:04 - How does a company meet an ESG criteria?<br>
14:37 - Where can you get advice on investing in the right company?<br>
17:23 - Investing Strategy: all in for ESG or a combination?<br>
20:20 - Can lower investments in an ESG be done on your own or through an adviser?<br>
22:40 - How can a business in this industry become more value-based focused?<br>
25:15 - What to keep in mind when learning about ESGs<br>
28:05 - Checking if a business aligns with your values<br>
30:36 - Brians values and 10-year plan<br>
34:55 - Book recommendation: When by Dan Pink</p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>When by Dan Pink (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/39t8uh4" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/39t8uh4</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/thehaneycompany" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/thehaneycompany</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://www.thehaneycompany.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thehaneycompany.com/</a></li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/TheHaneyCompany" rel="nofollow">https://twitter.com/TheHaneyCompany</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Brian Haney.</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Do you want where you invest your money to align with your goals? Want to know exactly where your money is going, what it’s doing and who it’s supporting?</p>

<p>Listen in as Brian shares with us what value based investing is. What is ESG and how to find out if you&#39;re working with or investing in a company that aligns with your values. He also shares some great tips on what to do if you’re a business in the industry and want to become more value based focus.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Brian…</em></strong></p>

<p>Brian helps people understand not just what to do, but how and why they should do it. Part teacher and part financial therapist!</p>

<p>Brian has been in the Financial Services Business since 2003, working with a diverse group of clients representing a slice of the Washington DC marketplace. As a native of the Washington area, he grew up in Chevy Chase, Maryland, attending high school in Bethesda. He founded The Haney Company with his father in 2013, combining 2 generations of industry experience. With more than a decade of experience in Banking, Investments, Asset management and Insurance, Brian&#39;s expertise and keen insights provide organizations, businesses and individuals with unique and innovative strategies to meet their insurance needs and financial goals.</p>

<p><em>“Have a vision for your life and the type of person that you are. Center yourself. What are the values that are really important to you? Find resources and approach professionals that understand this and are willing to help you carry that forward. Be practical about it and take your time.”</em><br>
<strong>- Brian Haney</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:19 - About Brian<br>
06:08 - Business of Pride Award<br>
08:50 - What is value-based investing?<br>
11:21 - What is ESG?<br>
13:04 - How does a company meet an ESG criteria?<br>
14:37 - Where can you get advice on investing in the right company?<br>
17:23 - Investing Strategy: all in for ESG or a combination?<br>
20:20 - Can lower investments in an ESG be done on your own or through an adviser?<br>
22:40 - How can a business in this industry become more value-based focused?<br>
25:15 - What to keep in mind when learning about ESGs<br>
28:05 - Checking if a business aligns with your values<br>
30:36 - Brians values and 10-year plan<br>
34:55 - Book recommendation: When by Dan Pink</p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>When by Dan Pink (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/39t8uh4" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/39t8uh4</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/thehaneycompany" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/thehaneycompany</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://www.thehaneycompany.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thehaneycompany.com/</a></li>
<li>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/TheHaneyCompany" rel="nofollow">https://twitter.com/TheHaneyCompany</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Brian Haney.</p>]]>
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  <title>#71 How to Budget When Always Behind</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/71</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#71 How to Budget When Always Behind</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Do you constantly feel like you're falling behind with your budget? It looks great on paper but things always pop up and ruin your plans? Let's answer your questions on what you can do to stick to your budget and get back on track.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>15:03</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Feel like you’re constantly falling behind with your budget? Everything looks great on paper but things keep popping up and ruining the plan you made? You really want to get organised and on top of things but it just isn’t working month after month?
You aren’t the only one. There are so many who ask the same question and have a similar problem. 
Join me in today’s episode where I answer a question that was submitted about what you can do to stick to your budget and get back on track when you feel like you’re constantly falling behind.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“Just imagine what you could do in life if you didn't have so many bills. If you just had to pay your rent or mortgage, what could you do with all that extra money that right now you're sending to debt. Dream big because you are worth so much more, you are capable of so much more.”
Ashley Patrick
Timestamps
00:47 - Question of the week
03:01 - Taking advantage of free resources when homeschooling
04:16 - Figure out what's setting you behind
06:31 - Make it difficult to access the money
09:31 - Accountability and implementation
12:55 - Planning your finances for the rest of the year
Do you need time, space and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing? Budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan and all the things that keep pushing their way down your to-do list. Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who get it and are also working to achieve similar financial goals?
If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the Money Success Coaching Group at budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc. There is a flash sale running from July 14th, 2022 until July 17th, 2022 at 11:59 PM Eastern time. Take action to change your finances and what the rest of your year looks like. Doors will open again in October, so if you’re past waiting for making the changes you’d like, join us!
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Budget Starter Kit - budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
* Budgeting Workshop -  budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
* Money Success Coaching Group - budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc
Connect with Ashley:
* IG: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy 
</description>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Feel like you’re constantly falling behind with your budget? Everything looks great on paper but things keep popping up and ruining the plan you made? You really want to get organised and on top of things but it just isn’t working month after month?</p>

<p>You aren’t the only one. There are so many who ask the same question and have a similar problem. </p>

<p>Join me in today’s episode where I answer a question that was submitted about what you can do to stick to your budget and get back on track when you feel like you’re constantly falling behind.</p>

<p><strong><em>Hosting Today:</em></strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p>“<em>Just imagine what you could do in life if you didn&#39;t have so many bills. If you just had to pay your rent or mortgage, what could you do with all that extra money that right now you&#39;re sending to debt. Dream big because you are worth so much more, you are capable of so much more</em>.”<br>
<strong><em>Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
00:47 - Question of the week<br>
03:01 - Taking advantage of free resources when homeschooling<br>
04:16 - Figure out what&#39;s setting you behind<br>
06:31 - Make it difficult to access the money<br>
09:31 - Accountability and implementation<br>
12:55 - Planning your finances for the rest of the year</p>

<p>Do you need time, space and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing? Budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan and all the things that keep pushing their way down your to-do list. Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who get it and are also working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <em><strong>Money Success Coaching Group</strong></em> at budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc. There is a <em><strong>flash sale running from July 14th, 2022 until July 17th, 2022 at 11:59 PM Eastern time.</strong></em> Take action to change your finances and what the rest of your year looks like. Doors will open again in October, so if you’re past waiting for making the changes you’d like, join us!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budget Starter Kit - budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</li>
<li>Budgeting Workshop -  budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Money Success Coaching Group - budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Feel like you’re constantly falling behind with your budget? Everything looks great on paper but things keep popping up and ruining the plan you made? You really want to get organised and on top of things but it just isn’t working month after month?</p>

<p>You aren’t the only one. There are so many who ask the same question and have a similar problem. </p>

<p>Join me in today’s episode where I answer a question that was submitted about what you can do to stick to your budget and get back on track when you feel like you’re constantly falling behind.</p>

<p><strong><em>Hosting Today:</em></strong><br>
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick, a personal finance expert and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p>“<em>Just imagine what you could do in life if you didn&#39;t have so many bills. If you just had to pay your rent or mortgage, what could you do with all that extra money that right now you&#39;re sending to debt. Dream big because you are worth so much more, you are capable of so much more</em>.”<br>
<strong><em>Ashley Patrick</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
00:47 - Question of the week<br>
03:01 - Taking advantage of free resources when homeschooling<br>
04:16 - Figure out what&#39;s setting you behind<br>
06:31 - Make it difficult to access the money<br>
09:31 - Accountability and implementation<br>
12:55 - Planning your finances for the rest of the year</p>

<p>Do you need time, space and accountability to take action on the things you KNOW you should be doing? Budgeting so you can actually pay off debt, save money, make a meal plan and all the things that keep pushing their way down your to-do list. Would you thrive in a supportive community of other busy moms who get it and are also working to achieve similar financial goals?</p>

<p>If that’s a YES, I invite you to sign up for the <em><strong>Money Success Coaching Group</strong></em> at budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc. There is a <em><strong>flash sale running from July 14th, 2022 until July 17th, 2022 at 11:59 PM Eastern time.</strong></em> Take action to change your finances and what the rest of your year looks like. Doors will open again in October, so if you’re past waiting for making the changes you’d like, join us!</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Budget Starter Kit - budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</li>
<li>Budgeting Workshop -  budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Money Success Coaching Group - budgetsmadeeasy.com/msc</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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  <title>#70 How to Scale Your Mindset and Your Small Business</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/70</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/9e64ffc4-4671-4a1d-ac14-9cdcba0b7703.mp3" length="43270064" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>70</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#70 How to Scale Your Mindset and Your Small Business</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Whether you want to start your own business or a side hustle to help pay off your debt - one thing you should focus on first is your mindset!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>30:02</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Whether you want to start your own business or a side hustle to help pay off your debt - one thing you should focus on first is your mindset!
Listen in as Nicole shares why having the right mindset is key to your success, tips on how to get started, how to manage mum life with business life and what you can do to make money for paying off your debt.
Meet Nicole…
I am a homeschooling Mom located in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am the founder of Fbombs &amp;amp; Booze. Which is a drinkware brand. We handmake wine glasses and tumblers with snark sayings and the heavy use of profanity. I quit my 6 figure job without a backup plan to save my mental health.
My products are sold on several eCommerce sites and are in over 100 shops and boutiques internationally. I am also a 1:1 coach for Women-owned handmade product-based businesses to help them scale their businesses.
“Options are endless and you are fully capable and there are so many people around that are willing to help you.” 
- Nicole Chenault
Timestamps 
04:14 - Nicole's Story
09:17 - Tips on getting started with a side business
14:06 - Mindset first
16:27 - Managing mum life and business life
20:38 - Tips for making money to pay off debt
24:40 - Last words of wisdom
Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
* Code BUDGETS  will give you 20% off our entire website: https://fbombsandbooze.com/?ref=b9H8wnL9
Book Recommendation:
* You are a badass at making money by Jen Sincero (affiliate link): https://amzn.to/3MWSm54
Connect with Ashley:
* IG: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Guest:
* IG: www.instagram.com/fbombsandbooze
* Facebook :www.facebook.com/fbombsandbooze
* Website: https://fbombsandbooze.com
* TikTok: www.tiktok.com/fbombsandbooze
* Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/fbombsandboozetumblers Special Guest: Nicole Chenault.
</description>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Whether you want to start your own business or a side hustle to help pay off your debt - one thing you should focus on first is your mindset!</p>

<p>Listen in as Nicole shares why having the right mindset is key to your success, tips on how to get started, how to manage mum life with business life and what you can do to make money for paying off your debt.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Nicole…</em></strong></p>

<p>I am a homeschooling Mom located in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am the founder of Fbombs &amp; Booze. Which is a drinkware brand. We handmake wine glasses and tumblers with snark sayings and the heavy use of profanity. I quit my 6 figure job without a backup plan to save my mental health.</p>

<p>My products are sold on several eCommerce sites and are in over 100 shops and boutiques internationally. I am also a 1:1 coach for Women-owned handmade product-based businesses to help them scale their businesses.</p>

<p><em>“Options are endless and you are fully capable and there are so many people around that are willing to help you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Nicole Chenault</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
04:14 - Nicole&#39;s Story<br>
09:17 - Tips on getting started with a side business<br>
14:06 - Mindset first<br>
16:27 - Managing mum life and business life<br>
20:38 - Tips for making money to pay off debt<br>
24:40 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Code BUDGETS  will give you 20% off our entire website: <a href="https://fbombsandbooze.com/?ref=b9H8wnL9" rel="nofollow">https://fbombsandbooze.com/?ref=b9H8wnL9</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>You are a badass at making money by Jen Sincero (affiliate link): <a href="https://amzn.to/3MWSm54" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3MWSm54</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/fbombsandbooze" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/fbombsandbooze</a></li>
<li>Facebook :<a href="http://www.facebook.com/fbombsandbooze" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/fbombsandbooze</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://fbombsandbooze.com" rel="nofollow">https://fbombsandbooze.com</a></li>
<li>TikTok: <a href="http://www.tiktok.com/fbombsandbooze" rel="nofollow">www.tiktok.com/fbombsandbooze</a></li>
<li>Pinterest: <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/fbombsandboozetumblers" rel="nofollow">www.pinterest.com/fbombsandboozetumblers</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Nicole Chenault.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Whether you want to start your own business or a side hustle to help pay off your debt - one thing you should focus on first is your mindset!</p>

<p>Listen in as Nicole shares why having the right mindset is key to your success, tips on how to get started, how to manage mum life with business life and what you can do to make money for paying off your debt.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Nicole…</em></strong></p>

<p>I am a homeschooling Mom located in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am the founder of Fbombs &amp; Booze. Which is a drinkware brand. We handmake wine glasses and tumblers with snark sayings and the heavy use of profanity. I quit my 6 figure job without a backup plan to save my mental health.</p>

<p>My products are sold on several eCommerce sites and are in over 100 shops and boutiques internationally. I am also a 1:1 coach for Women-owned handmade product-based businesses to help them scale their businesses.</p>

<p><em>“Options are endless and you are fully capable and there are so many people around that are willing to help you.”</em> <br>
<strong>- Nicole Chenault</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong> <br>
04:14 - Nicole&#39;s Story<br>
09:17 - Tips on getting started with a side business<br>
14:06 - Mindset first<br>
16:27 - Managing mum life and business life<br>
20:38 - Tips for making money to pay off debt<br>
24:40 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget: budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>Code BUDGETS  will give you 20% off our entire website: <a href="https://fbombsandbooze.com/?ref=b9H8wnL9" rel="nofollow">https://fbombsandbooze.com/?ref=b9H8wnL9</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>You are a badass at making money by Jen Sincero (affiliate link): <a href="https://amzn.to/3MWSm54" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3MWSm54</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Guest:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/fbombsandbooze" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/fbombsandbooze</a></li>
<li>Facebook :<a href="http://www.facebook.com/fbombsandbooze" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/fbombsandbooze</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://fbombsandbooze.com" rel="nofollow">https://fbombsandbooze.com</a></li>
<li>TikTok: <a href="http://www.tiktok.com/fbombsandbooze" rel="nofollow">www.tiktok.com/fbombsandbooze</a></li>
<li>Pinterest: <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/fbombsandboozetumblers" rel="nofollow">www.pinterest.com/fbombsandboozetumblers</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Nicole Chenault.</p>]]>
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  <title>#69 How to Get Started With Real Estate Investing</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/69</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 06:30:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/68ade670-85b0-48b1-868d-12788d85c7eb.mp3" length="52579948" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>69</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#69 How to Get Started With Real Estate Investing</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Investing in real estate can often feel daunting and overwhelming. You don’t know where to start or understand all the jargon. The key is to get educated so you can make informed decisions.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>36:30</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Investing in real estate can often feel daunting and overwhelming. You don’t know where to start or understand all the jargon.
The key is to get educated so you can make informed decisions. Listen in as John shares why it’s important to buy over renting, when you should move from your home, dealing with renters, the right insurance and what options you have with zero or low credit.
A little bit about John…
John Papaloni was born and raised in Etobicoke, often referred to as Toronto’s West End. From an early age John developed a passion for buying and selling and this has led him on the journey as a successful business entrepreneur and now highly focused Real Estate Agent working in the Greater Toronto Area.
John Papaloni has a commitment to his clients that is unmatched and a passion to deliver Top Value through mastering all the latest technologies and engaging in the most effective marketing campaigns! John is well on track to achieving various awards in the real estate industry that will set him apart from the rest. 
“Don't wait to buy real estate. Buy real estate and wait.” - John Papaloni
Timestamps
03:23 - John’s Story
06:55 - Don't wait to buy real estate. Buy real estate and wait. 
08:21 - Buying over renting
09:31 - When it makes sense to move
11:19 - Dealing with renters
18:05 - Insurance for covering damages
22:02 - Insurance when renting out your own home
32:39 - Last words of wisdom
If you need help paying off your debt, go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your Paying Off Debt Starter Kit. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. 
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt
Book Recommendation:
* Compound Effect by Darren Hardy: (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3OjdfZ0
Connect with Ashley:
* G: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with John:
* IG: www.instagram.com/johnpapaloni
* Facebook: www.facebook.com/papaloniteam
* Website: www.papaloniteam.com Special Guest: John Papaloni.
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  <itunes:keywords>real estate investing</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Investing in real estate can often feel daunting and overwhelming. You don’t know where to start or understand all the jargon.</p>

<p>The key is to get educated so you can make informed decisions. Listen in as John shares why it’s important to buy over renting, when you should move from your home, dealing with renters, the right insurance and what options you have with zero or low credit.</p>

<p><strong><em>A little bit about John…</em></strong></p>

<p>John Papaloni was born and raised in Etobicoke, often referred to as Toronto’s West End. From an early age John developed a passion for buying and selling and this has led him on the journey as a successful business entrepreneur and now highly focused Real Estate Agent working in the Greater Toronto Area.</p>

<p>John Papaloni has a commitment to his clients that is unmatched and a passion to deliver Top Value through mastering all the latest technologies and engaging in the most effective marketing campaigns! John is well on track to achieving various awards in the real estate industry that will set him apart from the rest. </p>

<p>“<em>Don&#39;t wait to buy real estate. Buy real estate and wait.</em>” <strong>- John Papaloni</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:23 - John’s Story<br>
06:55 - Don&#39;t wait to buy real estate. Buy real estate and wait. <br>
08:21 - Buying over renting<br>
09:31 - When it makes sense to move<br>
11:19 - Dealing with renters<br>
18:05 - Insurance for covering damages<br>
22:02 - Insurance when renting out your own home<br>
32:39 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Compound Effect by Darren Hardy: (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3OjdfZ0" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3OjdfZ0</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>G: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with John:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/johnpapaloni" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/johnpapaloni</a></li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/papaloniteam" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/papaloniteam</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.papaloniteam.com" rel="nofollow">www.papaloniteam.com</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: John Papaloni.</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Investing in real estate can often feel daunting and overwhelming. You don’t know where to start or understand all the jargon.</p>

<p>The key is to get educated so you can make informed decisions. Listen in as John shares why it’s important to buy over renting, when you should move from your home, dealing with renters, the right insurance and what options you have with zero or low credit.</p>

<p><strong><em>A little bit about John…</em></strong></p>

<p>John Papaloni was born and raised in Etobicoke, often referred to as Toronto’s West End. From an early age John developed a passion for buying and selling and this has led him on the journey as a successful business entrepreneur and now highly focused Real Estate Agent working in the Greater Toronto Area.</p>

<p>John Papaloni has a commitment to his clients that is unmatched and a passion to deliver Top Value through mastering all the latest technologies and engaging in the most effective marketing campaigns! John is well on track to achieving various awards in the real estate industry that will set him apart from the rest. </p>

<p>“<em>Don&#39;t wait to buy real estate. Buy real estate and wait.</em>” <strong>- John Papaloni</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:23 - John’s Story<br>
06:55 - Don&#39;t wait to buy real estate. Buy real estate and wait. <br>
08:21 - Buying over renting<br>
09:31 - When it makes sense to move<br>
11:19 - Dealing with renters<br>
18:05 - Insurance for covering damages<br>
22:02 - Insurance when renting out your own home<br>
32:39 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>If you need help paying off your debt, go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt for your <strong><em>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit</em></strong>. This will help you really get going on your journey to longer-term investing strategies. </p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Paying Off Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Compound Effect by Darren Hardy: (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3OjdfZ0" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3OjdfZ0</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>G: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with John:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/johnpapaloni" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/johnpapaloni</a></li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/papaloniteam" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/papaloniteam</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.papaloniteam.com" rel="nofollow">www.papaloniteam.com</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: John Papaloni.</p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#68 How to Pay For College</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/68</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2022 21:45:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>68</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#68 How to Pay For College</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you figured out how you’re going to pay for college? Or are you a parent with your own student loans wondering how you’re going to pay for both? Questioning if you should be saving for retirement or college first?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>47:56</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Have you figured out how you’re going to pay for college? Or are you a parent with your own student loans wondering how you’re going to pay for both? Questioning if you should be saving for retirement or college first?
There are so many questions when it comes to preparing for college. Wondering what college is best for the student, what financial aid they will have access to and what to do if the family finds themselves paying for a parent loan they weren’t aware of.
Listen in as Ann answers some of your burning questions and gives us some great tips on navigating how to pay for college without ending up with huge debts.
Meet Ann Garcia
AKA The College Financial Lady, has helped thousands of families save millions of dollars on college. A fee-only Certified Financial Planner® and managing partner of Independent Progressive Advisors, Ann specializes in helping families balance the desire to support their children’s dreams with the reality of funding their own lives. Her book How to Pay for College is set to release this summer from Harriman House; its companion online course is available now.
Early in Ann’s career as a financial advisor, she heard the same two questions again and again from her clients. One group asked, “How can we possibly afford to save for college and retirement?” Another group asked, “How can I save for retirement when I’m paying so much on my student loans every month?” Realizing that too many people struggled with this topic and too few advisors were willing to talk about it, she started The College Financial Lady blog to answer families’ college planning questions. A decade later, she is not just the go-to person for college financial planning, she is a trained assassin in that arena.
_“Think about it from the perspective of where do you see your student 10 years from now? What's the life that you want them to have? What are the experiences you want them to have in college? What are the things that make them successful or unsuccessful in an academic or social environment? .” _
- Ann Garcia
Timestamps
01:02 - About Ann
03:21 - What's more important? Saving for retirement or college first?
05:21 - How do you balance your own student loan when your kids are about to go to college?
08:14 - Who takes out the student loan? The parent or the student?
12:00 - General advice for making the best long term financial decisions.
19:17 - Tools to navigate scholarships and get great information
20:54 - Does it matter which college you go to?
27:03 - Parents who didn't realise they took our a parent loan.
30:01 - What do they do now?
35:12 -  Can social security be garnished for the student loans? 
36:50 - Those eligible for student loan forgiveness.
41:14 - Ann's book: How To Pay For College
42:40 - Last words of wisdom and book recommendations
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* FREE Budget Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Book Recommendation:
* Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel (affiliate link):  https://amzn.to/39q8MVT
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Ann:
* Facebook: www.facebook.com/collegefinanciallady
* Website: www.howtopayforcollege.com Special Guest: Ann Garcia.
</description>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you figured out how you’re going to pay for college? Or are you a parent with your own student loans wondering how you’re going to pay for both? Questioning if you should be saving for retirement or college first?</p>

<p>There are so many questions when it comes to preparing for college. Wondering what college is best for the student, what financial aid they will have access to and what to do if the family finds themselves paying for a parent loan they weren’t aware of.</p>

<p>Listen in as Ann answers some of your burning questions and gives us some great tips on navigating how to pay for college without ending up with huge debts.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Ann Garcia</em></strong></p>

<p>AKA The College Financial Lady, has helped thousands of families save millions of dollars on college. A fee-only Certified Financial Planner® and managing partner of Independent Progressive Advisors, Ann specializes in helping families balance the desire to support their children’s dreams with the reality of funding their own lives. Her book How to Pay for College is set to release this summer from Harriman House; its companion online course is available now.</p>

<p>Early in Ann’s career as a financial advisor, she heard the same two questions again and again from her clients. One group asked, “How can we possibly afford to save for college and retirement?” Another group asked, “How can I save for retirement when I’m paying so much on my student loans every month?” Realizing that too many people struggled with this topic and too few advisors were willing to talk about it, she started The College Financial Lady blog to answer families’ college planning questions. A decade later, she is not just the go-to person for college financial planning, she is a trained assassin in that arena.</p>

<p>_“Think about it from the perspective of where do you see your student 10 years from now? What&#39;s the life that you want them to have? What are the experiences you want them to have in college? What are the things that make them successful or unsuccessful in an academic or social environment? .” _<br>
<strong>- Ann Garcia</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
01:02 - About Ann<br>
03:21 - What&#39;s more important? Saving for retirement or college first?<br>
05:21 - How do you balance your own student loan when your kids are about to go to college?<br>
08:14 - Who takes out the student loan? The parent or the student?<br>
12:00 - General advice for making the best long term financial decisions.<br>
19:17 - Tools to navigate scholarships and get great information<br>
20:54 - Does it matter which college you go to?<br>
27:03 - Parents who didn&#39;t realise they took our a parent loan.<br>
30:01 - What do they do now?<br>
35:12 -  Can social security be garnished for the student loans? <br>
36:50 - Those eligible for student loan forgiveness.<br>
41:14 - Ann&#39;s book: How To Pay For College<br>
42:40 - Last words of wisdom and book recommendations</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel (affiliate link):  <a href="https://amzn.to/39q8MVT" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/39q8MVT</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ann:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/collegefinanciallady" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/collegefinanciallady</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.howtopayforcollege.com" rel="nofollow">www.howtopayforcollege.com</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Ann Garcia.</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you figured out how you’re going to pay for college? Or are you a parent with your own student loans wondering how you’re going to pay for both? Questioning if you should be saving for retirement or college first?</p>

<p>There are so many questions when it comes to preparing for college. Wondering what college is best for the student, what financial aid they will have access to and what to do if the family finds themselves paying for a parent loan they weren’t aware of.</p>

<p>Listen in as Ann answers some of your burning questions and gives us some great tips on navigating how to pay for college without ending up with huge debts.</p>

<p><strong><em>Meet Ann Garcia</em></strong></p>

<p>AKA The College Financial Lady, has helped thousands of families save millions of dollars on college. A fee-only Certified Financial Planner® and managing partner of Independent Progressive Advisors, Ann specializes in helping families balance the desire to support their children’s dreams with the reality of funding their own lives. Her book How to Pay for College is set to release this summer from Harriman House; its companion online course is available now.</p>

<p>Early in Ann’s career as a financial advisor, she heard the same two questions again and again from her clients. One group asked, “How can we possibly afford to save for college and retirement?” Another group asked, “How can I save for retirement when I’m paying so much on my student loans every month?” Realizing that too many people struggled with this topic and too few advisors were willing to talk about it, she started The College Financial Lady blog to answer families’ college planning questions. A decade later, she is not just the go-to person for college financial planning, she is a trained assassin in that arena.</p>

<p>_“Think about it from the perspective of where do you see your student 10 years from now? What&#39;s the life that you want them to have? What are the experiences you want them to have in college? What are the things that make them successful or unsuccessful in an academic or social environment? .” _<br>
<strong>- Ann Garcia</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
01:02 - About Ann<br>
03:21 - What&#39;s more important? Saving for retirement or college first?<br>
05:21 - How do you balance your own student loan when your kids are about to go to college?<br>
08:14 - Who takes out the student loan? The parent or the student?<br>
12:00 - General advice for making the best long term financial decisions.<br>
19:17 - Tools to navigate scholarships and get great information<br>
20:54 - Does it matter which college you go to?<br>
27:03 - Parents who didn&#39;t realise they took our a parent loan.<br>
30:01 - What do they do now?<br>
35:12 -  Can social security be garnished for the student loans? <br>
36:50 - Those eligible for student loan forgiveness.<br>
41:14 - Ann&#39;s book: How To Pay For College<br>
42:40 - Last words of wisdom and book recommendations</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <em><strong>FREE Budget Starter Kit</strong></em> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Recommendation:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel (affiliate link):  <a href="https://amzn.to/39q8MVT" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/39q8MVT</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ann:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/collegefinanciallady" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/collegefinanciallady</a></li>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.howtopayforcollege.com" rel="nofollow">www.howtopayforcollege.com</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Ann Garcia.</p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#67 Why You Should Advocate For Your Financial Health as a Busy Mom</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/67</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/0b56e81d-e6a8-4191-a1e3-4c19aee3a267.mp3" length="35276304" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>67</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#67 Why You Should Advocate For Your Financial Health as a Busy Mom</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you thought about what you want your life to look like? Do you know how to use your money to get you there? Learn how to do that along with the key things you have to keep in mind.
</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>24:29</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>→ Have you thought about what you want your life to look like?
→ Do you know how to use your money to get you there?
→ Do you put restrictions and hold a lot of guilt when it comes to the topic of money?
In today’s episode we learn that you’re allowed to spend your money on whatever you want. And in order to do this, there are key factors you have to keep in mind and implement. Listen in as Amy tells us what we should pay attention to, building better habits, what to do if you do and don’t manage the finances, if you should pay off debt or save first and so many other golden nuggets.
Who is Amy Schultz?
She is Co-Founder and Head Coach at Bolder Money, a company on a mission to close the gender wealth gap through compassionate money coaching for women. Amy transformed her personal challenges with money, work, and motherhood into a community that helps women use their money to build the lives they want. 
“When we can start tying our emotions to our spending and really being paying attention to why this is happening, that's where we start learning more about our impulses. That's where we can start building better habits.” 
- Amy Schultz
Timestamps
02:37 - Amy’s story and mission
05:43 - The emotional side of money
06:54 - Making good money but still broke
07:38 - The number one thing to start doing
09:36 - Getting your partner onboard with the plan
10:39 - Understand how you were raised around money
12:39 - What to do if someone else takes care of the money
15:51 - Key factors to focus on in the beginning
18:34 - Do you save first or pay off debt first?
20:16 - Last words of wisdom: your support system
21:49 - Book recommendations
Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
* FREE Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
* $49 off our 3-month Money Coaching package. Go to this link to sign up and use code BEBOLDER - 
https://www.google.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fbuy.stripe.com%2F28og0gcPSg6oa5ibIT&amp;amp;sa=D&amp;amp;sntz=1&amp;amp;usg=AOvVaw2yXKcFvYuXIICt6VBDGH_z
Book Reccomendations:
* Women Who Run with the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes - (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3xrjCTq
* Untamed by Glennon Doyle - (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3zDGYrD
Connect with Ashley:
* Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Amy:
* IG: instagram.com/amyschultzmoneycoach
* IG: instagram.com/bolder.money
* Website: www.boldermoney.com
 Special Guest: Amy Schultz.
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  <itunes:keywords>savings account, busy moms, finances, emergency funds</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>→ Have you thought about what you want your life to look like?<br>
→ Do you know how to use your money to get you there?<br>
→ Do you put restrictions and hold a lot of guilt when it comes to the topic of money?</p>

<p>In today’s episode we learn that you’re allowed to spend your money on whatever you want. And in order to do this, there are key factors you have to keep in mind and implement. Listen in as Amy tells us what we should pay attention to, building better habits, what to do if you do and don’t manage the finances, if you should pay off debt or save first and so many other golden nuggets.</p>

<p><strong><em>Who is Amy Schultz?</em></strong></p>

<p>She is Co-Founder and Head Coach at Bolder Money, a company on a mission to close the gender wealth gap through compassionate money coaching for women. Amy transformed her personal challenges with money, work, and motherhood into a community that helps women use their money to build the lives they want. </p>

<p>“<em>When we can start tying our emotions to our spending and really being paying attention to why this is happening, that&#39;s where we start learning more about our impulses. That&#39;s where we can start building better habits.</em>” <br>
<strong>- Amy Schultz</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:37 - Amy’s story and mission<br>
05:43 - The emotional side of money<br>
06:54 - Making good money but still broke<br>
07:38 - The number one thing to start doing<br>
09:36 - Getting your partner onboard with the plan<br>
10:39 - Understand how you were raised around money<br>
12:39 - What to do if someone else takes care of the money<br>
15:51 - Key factors to focus on in the beginning<br>
18:34 - Do you save first or pay off debt first?<br>
20:16 - Last words of wisdom: your support system<br>
21:49 - Book recommendations</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>$49 off our 3-month Money Coaching package. Go to this link to sign up and use code BEBOLDER - 
<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fbuy.stripe.com%2F28og0gcPSg6oa5ibIT&sa=D&sntz=1&usg=AOvVaw2yXKcFvYuXIICt6VBDGH_z" rel="nofollow">https://www.google.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fbuy.stripe.com%2F28og0gcPSg6oa5ibIT&amp;sa=D&amp;sntz=1&amp;usg=AOvVaw2yXKcFvYuXIICt6VBDGH_z</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Reccomendations:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Women Who Run with the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes - (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3xrjCTq" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3xrjCTq</a></li>
<li>Untamed by Glennon Doyle - (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3zDGYrD" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3zDGYrD</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Amy:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: instagram.com/amyschultzmoneycoach</li>
<li>IG: instagram.com/bolder.money</li>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.boldermoney.com" rel="nofollow">www.boldermoney.com</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Amy Schultz.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>→ Have you thought about what you want your life to look like?<br>
→ Do you know how to use your money to get you there?<br>
→ Do you put restrictions and hold a lot of guilt when it comes to the topic of money?</p>

<p>In today’s episode we learn that you’re allowed to spend your money on whatever you want. And in order to do this, there are key factors you have to keep in mind and implement. Listen in as Amy tells us what we should pay attention to, building better habits, what to do if you do and don’t manage the finances, if you should pay off debt or save first and so many other golden nuggets.</p>

<p><strong><em>Who is Amy Schultz?</em></strong></p>

<p>She is Co-Founder and Head Coach at Bolder Money, a company on a mission to close the gender wealth gap through compassionate money coaching for women. Amy transformed her personal challenges with money, work, and motherhood into a community that helps women use their money to build the lives they want. </p>

<p>“<em>When we can start tying our emotions to our spending and really being paying attention to why this is happening, that&#39;s where we start learning more about our impulses. That&#39;s where we can start building better habits.</em>” <br>
<strong>- Amy Schultz</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:37 - Amy’s story and mission<br>
05:43 - The emotional side of money<br>
06:54 - Making good money but still broke<br>
07:38 - The number one thing to start doing<br>
09:36 - Getting your partner onboard with the plan<br>
10:39 - Understand how you were raised around money<br>
12:39 - What to do if someone else takes care of the money<br>
15:51 - Key factors to focus on in the beginning<br>
18:34 - Do you save first or pay off debt first?<br>
20:16 - Last words of wisdom: your support system<br>
21:49 - Book recommendations</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>FREE Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</li>
<li>$49 off our 3-month Money Coaching package. Go to this link to sign up and use code BEBOLDER - 
<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fbuy.stripe.com%2F28og0gcPSg6oa5ibIT&sa=D&sntz=1&usg=AOvVaw2yXKcFvYuXIICt6VBDGH_z" rel="nofollow">https://www.google.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fbuy.stripe.com%2F28og0gcPSg6oa5ibIT&amp;sa=D&amp;sntz=1&amp;usg=AOvVaw2yXKcFvYuXIICt6VBDGH_z</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Book Reccomendations:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Women Who Run with the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes - (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3xrjCTq" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3xrjCTq</a></li>
<li>Untamed by Glennon Doyle - (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3zDGYrD" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3zDGYrD</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></li>
</ul>

<p><strong>Connect with Amy:</strong></p>

<ul>
<li>IG: instagram.com/amyschultzmoneycoach</li>
<li>IG: instagram.com/bolder.money</li>
<li>Website: <a href="http://www.boldermoney.com" rel="nofollow">www.boldermoney.com</a></li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Amy Schultz.</p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#64 Your Top Questions Answered!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/64</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/2d04428c-8ee4-4a7a-a6e6-3a58091bc282.mp3" length="26793592" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>64</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#64 Your Top Questions Answered!</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Answering your burning questions when it comes to budgeting, saving and getting out of debt especially for your circumstances.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:36</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Got a question you’d like to ask about budgeting, saving or getting out of debt?
Have a situation or circumstance that doesn’t fit into the norm and want a personalized solution?
Join me this week as I switch things up and answer your burning questions with my suggestions.
Hosting Today:
Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick and I’m a personal finance expert, and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“It's really about finding what works for you.” - Ashley Patrick
Timestamps
01:22 - Highest balance or higher interest rates first?
03:05 - Will budgeting work for someone who doesn't have a steady income? 
06:18 - Struggling with a shopping addiction.
11:04 - What to do when you've lost your job.
15:25 - I struggle to create and stick to budget plans and meal plans.
If you would like me to answer any of your questions, send me an email at ashley@budgetsmadeeasy.com and in the subject line add ‘#question’ and I will add it to the list to answer on the next Q&amp;amp;A podcast episode.
Also remember to check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy 
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>Q&amp;A, question and answer, getting out of debt, low income, shopping addication</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Got a question you’d like to ask about budgeting, saving or getting out of debt?</p>

<p>Have a situation or circumstance that doesn’t fit into the norm and want a personalized solution?</p>

<p>Join me this week as I switch things up and answer your burning questions with my suggestions.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick and I’m a personal finance expert, and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s really about finding what works for you.”</em> - <strong>Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
01:22 - Highest balance or higher interest rates first?<br>
03:05 - Will budgeting work for someone who doesn&#39;t have a steady income? <br>
06:18 - Struggling with a shopping addiction.<br>
11:04 - What to do when you&#39;ve lost your job.<br>
15:25 - I struggle to create and stick to budget plans and meal plans.</p>

<p>If you would like me to answer any of your questions, send me an email at <a href="mailto:ashley@budgetsmadeeasy.com" rel="nofollow">ashley@budgetsmadeeasy.com</a> and in the subject line add ‘#question’ and I will add it to the list to answer on the next Q&amp;A podcast episode.</p>

<p>Also remember to check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Got a question you’d like to ask about budgeting, saving or getting out of debt?</p>

<p>Have a situation or circumstance that doesn’t fit into the norm and want a personalized solution?</p>

<p>Join me this week as I switch things up and answer your burning questions with my suggestions.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey, I’m Ashley Patrick and I’m a personal finance expert, and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I help busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“It&#39;s really about finding what works for you.”</em> - <strong>Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
01:22 - Highest balance or higher interest rates first?<br>
03:05 - Will budgeting work for someone who doesn&#39;t have a steady income? <br>
06:18 - Struggling with a shopping addiction.<br>
11:04 - What to do when you&#39;ve lost your job.<br>
15:25 - I struggle to create and stick to budget plans and meal plans.</p>

<p>If you would like me to answer any of your questions, send me an email at <a href="mailto:ashley@budgetsmadeeasy.com" rel="nofollow">ashley@budgetsmadeeasy.com</a> and in the subject line add ‘#question’ and I will add it to the list to answer on the next Q&amp;A podcast episode.</p>

<p>Also remember to check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
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  <title>#62 Why I Quit Dave Ramsey</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/62</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/ea005900-5106-48d2-9859-8af3d95d788f.mp3" length="26183038" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>62</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#62 Why I Quit Dave Ramsey</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>You don’t have to shame, blame or belittle someone over their money mistakes. Listen in as I explain why I quit Dave Ramsey.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>18:10</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>You don’t have to shame, blame or belittle someone over their money mistakes. That’s not the best way to encourage and coach people to have long-term success.
Listen in as I explain why I quit Dave Ramsey and why I prefer being a Master Financial Coach.
My mission is to encourage you to pay off your debt and do better with your finances so that you can have the option to do what you want in life. WITHOUT name calling and brashness.
Hosting Today:
Hey I’m Ashley Patrick and I’m a personal finance expert, and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I helps busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. 
I was able to pay off $45,000 in just 17 months including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor's degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. 
Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.
“There's flexibility in a financial plan. It's not a one size fits thing. I promise you that personal finance is personal and money is emotional.” - Ashley Patrick
Timestamps
03:13 - Ashley's Journey with Dave Ramsey
05:06 - What Ashley achieved following Dave's book
05:58 - Why Ashley started moving away from Dave's teaching
07:06 - Things you need a good credit score for
11:00 - Why brashness isn't the answer for long term success
14:18 - Where does Ashley stand now?
15:23 - Barriers to getting your finances in order
16:43 - What Ashley's readers think about Dave Ramsey
Are you wondering how to start and stick to a budget, even when you are overwhelmed? 
Don’t understand why the heck you can't seem to save each month?
Fed up of not knowing where your money is going? 
Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy 
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>quit Dave Ramsey, budget without overwhelm, good credit score,</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>You don’t have to shame, blame or belittle someone over their money mistakes. That’s not the best way to encourage and coach people to have long-term success.</p>

<p>Listen in as I explain why I quit Dave Ramsey and why I prefer being a Master Financial Coach.</p>

<p>My mission is to encourage you to pay off your debt and do better with your finances so that you can have the option to do what you want in life. WITHOUT name calling and brashness.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey I’m Ashley Patrick and I’m a personal finance expert, and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I helps busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to <strong><em>pay off $45,000 in just 17 months</em></strong> including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“There&#39;s flexibility in a financial plan. It&#39;s not a one size fits thing. I promise you that personal finance is personal and money is emotional.”</em> <strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:13 - Ashley&#39;s Journey with Dave Ramsey<br>
05:06 - What Ashley achieved following Dave&#39;s book<br>
05:58 - Why Ashley started moving away from Dave&#39;s teaching<br>
07:06 - Things you need a good credit score for<br>
11:00 - Why brashness isn&#39;t the answer for long term success<br>
14:18 - Where does Ashley stand now?<br>
15:23 - Barriers to getting your finances in order<br>
16:43 - What Ashley&#39;s readers think about Dave Ramsey</p>

<ul>
<li>Are you wondering how to start and stick to a budget, even when you are overwhelmed? </li>
<li>Don’t understand why the heck you can&#39;t seem to save each month?</li>
<li>Fed up of not knowing where your money is going? </li>
</ul>

<p>Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>You don’t have to shame, blame or belittle someone over their money mistakes. That’s not the best way to encourage and coach people to have long-term success.</p>

<p>Listen in as I explain why I quit Dave Ramsey and why I prefer being a Master Financial Coach.</p>

<p>My mission is to encourage you to pay off your debt and do better with your finances so that you can have the option to do what you want in life. WITHOUT name calling and brashness.</p>

<p><strong>Hosting Today:</strong></p>

<p>Hey I’m Ashley Patrick and I’m a personal finance expert, and founder of Budgets Made Easy. I helps busy moms create systems to save money and pay off debt so they can reach their big dreams faster and easier. </p>

<p>I was able to <strong><em>pay off $45,000 in just 17 months</em></strong> including $25,000 in student loans in just 10 months. I’m a Master Financial Coach and have a bachelor&#39;s degree in psychology and will help you get to the root of your money problems. </p>

<p>Since my journey started I have been featured on Fox Business, Yahoo! Finance, Food Network, USA TODAY, MSN, CNBC, NerdWallet, and many others.</p>

<p><em>“There&#39;s flexibility in a financial plan. It&#39;s not a one size fits thing. I promise you that personal finance is personal and money is emotional.”</em> <strong>- Ashley Patrick</strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:13 - Ashley&#39;s Journey with Dave Ramsey<br>
05:06 - What Ashley achieved following Dave&#39;s book<br>
05:58 - Why Ashley started moving away from Dave&#39;s teaching<br>
07:06 - Things you need a good credit score for<br>
11:00 - Why brashness isn&#39;t the answer for long term success<br>
14:18 - Where does Ashley stand now?<br>
15:23 - Barriers to getting your finances in order<br>
16:43 - What Ashley&#39;s readers think about Dave Ramsey</p>

<ul>
<li>Are you wondering how to start and stick to a budget, even when you are overwhelmed? </li>
<li>Don’t understand why the heck you can&#39;t seem to save each month?</li>
<li>Fed up of not knowing where your money is going? </li>
</ul>

<p>Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#61 How Alexis Paid Off $48,000 in 13 Months!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/61</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/d1fa8737-36b2-4313-8214-cd6daba377e3.mp3" length="28038336" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>61</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#61 How Alexis Paid Off $48,000 in 13 Months!</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Alexis and her husband were able to pay off $48,000 in 13 months!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>19:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>The stress caused from worrying about money constantly can have a negative impact on your life and your health. Getting started somewhere, taking action and working with your partner can significantly decrease the stress you feel around your finances.
Listen in as we learn about the key components Alexis used to pay off debt fast! We also go through additional tips you can use along your financial journey and achieving your goals.
Meet our guest:
Alexis Fetterman: A wife, mom of three, registered nurse, and money coach. After having enough of living in debt and in constant money stress, Alexis and her husband paid off $48,000 of debt so they could pursue their dream of building a house. Now she helps others go from constantly being stressed about money to living the life they dream.
“You need to have a strong enough WHY so that you are committed and don't want to give up.” 
- Alexis Fetterman
Timestamps
02:38 - Alexis' Story
05:33 - The effects of stressing about money
07:30 - Working with your partner to pay off debt
08:42 - What made the biggest impact in paying off debt fast
08:52 - Having a WHY
09:04 - Budgeting
09:19 - Raising extra cash and putting as much towards debt
10:15 - How to gain clarity and control of your finances
11:00 - Flexible zero-based budget
11:57 - Other tips to pay down debt fast
14:53 - Tips on how to get started with budgeting
15:35 - Last words of wisdom
Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Alexis:
Website: www.fettermanfinancial.squarespace.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom
Facebook: www.facebook.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom Special Guest: Alexis Fetterman.
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>how to pay off debt fast, debt pay off story</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>The stress caused from worrying about money constantly can have a negative impact on your life and your health. Getting started somewhere, taking action and working with your partner can significantly decrease the stress you feel around your finances.</p>

<p>Listen in as we learn about the key components Alexis used to pay off debt fast! We also go through additional tips you can use along your financial journey and achieving your goals.</p>

<p><strong>Meet our guest:</strong></p>

<p>Alexis Fetterman: A wife, mom of three, registered nurse, and money coach. After having enough of living in debt and in constant money stress, Alexis and her husband paid off $48,000 of debt so they could pursue their dream of building a house. Now she helps others go from constantly being stressed about money to living the life they dream.</p>

<p>“<em>You need to have a strong enough WHY so that you are committed and don&#39;t want to give up.</em>” <br>
<strong><em>- Alexis Fetterman</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:38 - Alexis&#39; Story<br>
05:33 - The effects of stressing about money<br>
07:30 - Working with your partner to pay off debt<br>
08:42 - What made the biggest impact in paying off debt fast<br>
08:52 - Having a WHY<br>
09:04 - Budgeting<br>
09:19 - Raising extra cash and putting as much towards debt<br>
10:15 - How to gain clarity and control of your finances<br>
11:00 - Flexible zero-based budget<br>
11:57 - Other tips to pay down debt fast<br>
14:53 - Tips on how to get started with budgeting<br>
15:35 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Alexis:</strong><br>
Website: <a href="http://www.fettermanfinancial.squarespace.com" rel="nofollow">www.fettermanfinancial.squarespace.com</a><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom</a><br>
Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom</a></p><p>Special Guest: Alexis Fetterman.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>The stress caused from worrying about money constantly can have a negative impact on your life and your health. Getting started somewhere, taking action and working with your partner can significantly decrease the stress you feel around your finances.</p>

<p>Listen in as we learn about the key components Alexis used to pay off debt fast! We also go through additional tips you can use along your financial journey and achieving your goals.</p>

<p><strong>Meet our guest:</strong></p>

<p>Alexis Fetterman: A wife, mom of three, registered nurse, and money coach. After having enough of living in debt and in constant money stress, Alexis and her husband paid off $48,000 of debt so they could pursue their dream of building a house. Now she helps others go from constantly being stressed about money to living the life they dream.</p>

<p>“<em>You need to have a strong enough WHY so that you are committed and don&#39;t want to give up.</em>” <br>
<strong><em>- Alexis Fetterman</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:38 - Alexis&#39; Story<br>
05:33 - The effects of stressing about money<br>
07:30 - Working with your partner to pay off debt<br>
08:42 - What made the biggest impact in paying off debt fast<br>
08:52 - Having a WHY<br>
09:04 - Budgeting<br>
09:19 - Raising extra cash and putting as much towards debt<br>
10:15 - How to gain clarity and control of your finances<br>
11:00 - Flexible zero-based budget<br>
11:57 - Other tips to pay down debt fast<br>
14:53 - Tips on how to get started with budgeting<br>
15:35 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>Want to take the stress off your shoulders? Ready to learn how to create AND stick to your budget?! Check out my <strong><em>Free Workshop: How to Create and Stick to a Budget</em></strong> (even when you are overwhelmed)! Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/workshop and get started today.</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Alexis:</strong><br>
Website: <a href="http://www.fettermanfinancial.squarespace.com" rel="nofollow">www.fettermanfinancial.squarespace.com</a><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom</a><br>
Facebook: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/fettermanfinancialfreedom</a></p><p>Special Guest: Alexis Fetterman.</p>]]>
  </itunes:summary>
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  <title>#60 Take the DAMN Trip! </title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>60</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#60 Take the DAMN Trip! </itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Bevin shares her DAMN framework for making decisions so you can live without regret. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>29:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>Take advantage of every moment you have to live your life to the fullest AND make the best financial decisions to achieve your goals.
This might sound too good to be true but I’m here with Bevin Ferrand to tell you that it’s not. You can 100% do what you want while paying off debt and Bevin’s DAMN Framework will show you how!
Wondering how to:
* Choose your priorities and make the best decision you can with what you have
* Dig deep and find your six dimensional why to your goals (financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, socially, and spiritually)
* Stop comparing yourself to others and focus on yourself
* Be present in the moments that matter without guilt
* Take micro-action and build momentum
Then this episode is for you, so make sure to jot down these golden nuggets that are being shared!
So who’s Bevin?
In 2019, after unexpectedly losing her husband 5 days after they returned from a whirlwind trip to France, Bevin Farrand founded the Take the DAMN Chance movement. Her DAMN framework has inspired hundreds to connect with the people that they love, do the “crazy thing” that makes all the difference and, when given a choice, to take the damn chance.  Additionally, she is a business strategist and coach who supports small businesses and entrepreneurs in developing and executing strategies to take their revenue to 6- and 7-figures. 
“We have to decide what is the most important thing to us right now. We have to choose our top priority, because if everything is a priority, nothing is.”  - Bevin Farrand
Timestamps
03:05 - Bevin's Story
08:25 - The DAMN Framework and what is it?
08:54 - Deeper dive into the DAMN Framework
10:51 - D: Decide and Declare
13:47 - A: Attend Your Own Party
16:54 - M: Moments Not Minutes
19:24 - N: Now Is The Time
20:22 - Micro-actions and Momentum
23:12 - Important money question to ask yourself
23:39 - Last words of wisdom
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
FREE Budget Starter Kit - http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Book Recommendation: The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks - (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/3tAY2Lj
Book Recommendation: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz - (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3xQNI4j
The 10 Essential Questions For Finding Your Six-Dimensional Why™ -  www.sixdimensionalwhy.com
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram - www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Bevin:
Website: www.bevinfarrand.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/bevinfarrand
Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/takethedamntrip Special Guest: Bevin Farrand.
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>DAMN framework, living life with no regrets, </itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Take advantage of every moment you have to live your life to the fullest AND make the best financial decisions to achieve your goals.</p>

<p>This might sound too good to be true but I’m here with Bevin Ferrand to tell you that it’s not. You can 100% do what you want while paying off debt and Bevin’s DAMN Framework will show you how!</p>

<p><strong><em>Wondering how to:</em></strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Choose your priorities and make the best decision you can with what you have</li>
<li>Dig deep and find your six dimensional why to your goals (financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, socially, and spiritually)</li>
<li>Stop comparing yourself to others and focus on yourself</li>
<li>Be present in the moments that matter without guilt</li>
<li>Take micro-action and build momentum</li>
</ul>

<p>Then this episode is for you, so make sure to jot down these golden nuggets that are being shared!</p>

<p><strong>So who’s Bevin?</strong></p>

<p>In 2019, after unexpectedly losing her husband 5 days after they returned from a whirlwind trip to France, Bevin Farrand founded the Take the DAMN Chance movement. Her DAMN framework has inspired hundreds to connect with the people that they love, do the “crazy thing” that makes all the difference and, when given a choice, to take the damn chance.  Additionally, she is a business strategist and coach who supports small businesses and entrepreneurs in developing and executing strategies to take their revenue to 6- and 7-figures. </p>

<p><em>“We have to decide what is the most important thing to us right now. We have to choose our top priority, because if everything is a priority, nothing is.”</em>  - <strong><em>Bevin Farrand</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:05 - Bevin&#39;s Story<br>
08:25 - The DAMN Framework and what is it?<br>
08:54 - Deeper dive into the DAMN Framework<br>
10:51 - D: Decide and Declare<br>
13:47 - A: Attend Your Own Party<br>
16:54 - M: Moments Not Minutes<br>
19:24 - N: Now Is The Time<br>
20:22 - Micro-actions and Momentum<br>
23:12 - Important money question to ask yourself<br>
23:39 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
FREE Budget Starter Kit - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a><br>
Book Recommendation: The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks - (affiliate links) <a href="https://amzn.to/3tAY2Lj" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3tAY2Lj</a><br>
Book Recommendation: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz - (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3xQNI4j" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3xQNI4j</a><br>
The 10 Essential Questions For Finding Your Six-Dimensional Why™ -  <a href="http://www.sixdimensionalwhy.com" rel="nofollow">www.sixdimensionalwhy.com</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram - <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Bevin:</strong><br>
Website: <a href="http://www.bevinfarrand.com" rel="nofollow">www.bevinfarrand.com</a><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/bevinfarrand" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/bevinfarrand</a><br>
Facebook Group: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/groups/takethedamntrip" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/groups/takethedamntrip</a></p><p>Special Guest: Bevin Farrand.</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Take advantage of every moment you have to live your life to the fullest AND make the best financial decisions to achieve your goals.</p>

<p>This might sound too good to be true but I’m here with Bevin Ferrand to tell you that it’s not. You can 100% do what you want while paying off debt and Bevin’s DAMN Framework will show you how!</p>

<p><strong><em>Wondering how to:</em></strong></p>

<ul>
<li>Choose your priorities and make the best decision you can with what you have</li>
<li>Dig deep and find your six dimensional why to your goals (financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, socially, and spiritually)</li>
<li>Stop comparing yourself to others and focus on yourself</li>
<li>Be present in the moments that matter without guilt</li>
<li>Take micro-action and build momentum</li>
</ul>

<p>Then this episode is for you, so make sure to jot down these golden nuggets that are being shared!</p>

<p><strong>So who’s Bevin?</strong></p>

<p>In 2019, after unexpectedly losing her husband 5 days after they returned from a whirlwind trip to France, Bevin Farrand founded the Take the DAMN Chance movement. Her DAMN framework has inspired hundreds to connect with the people that they love, do the “crazy thing” that makes all the difference and, when given a choice, to take the damn chance.  Additionally, she is a business strategist and coach who supports small businesses and entrepreneurs in developing and executing strategies to take their revenue to 6- and 7-figures. </p>

<p><em>“We have to decide what is the most important thing to us right now. We have to choose our top priority, because if everything is a priority, nothing is.”</em>  - <strong><em>Bevin Farrand</em></strong></p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
03:05 - Bevin&#39;s Story<br>
08:25 - The DAMN Framework and what is it?<br>
08:54 - Deeper dive into the DAMN Framework<br>
10:51 - D: Decide and Declare<br>
13:47 - A: Attend Your Own Party<br>
16:54 - M: Moments Not Minutes<br>
19:24 - N: Now Is The Time<br>
20:22 - Micro-actions and Momentum<br>
23:12 - Important money question to ask yourself<br>
23:39 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
FREE Budget Starter Kit - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a><br>
Book Recommendation: The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks - (affiliate links) <a href="https://amzn.to/3tAY2Lj" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3tAY2Lj</a><br>
Book Recommendation: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz - (affiliate link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3xQNI4j" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3xQNI4j</a><br>
The 10 Essential Questions For Finding Your Six-Dimensional Why™ -  <a href="http://www.sixdimensionalwhy.com" rel="nofollow">www.sixdimensionalwhy.com</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram - <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Bevin:</strong><br>
Website: <a href="http://www.bevinfarrand.com" rel="nofollow">www.bevinfarrand.com</a><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/bevinfarrand" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/bevinfarrand</a><br>
Facebook Group: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/groups/takethedamntrip" rel="nofollow">www.facebook.com/groups/takethedamntrip</a></p><p>Special Guest: Bevin Farrand.</p>]]>
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  <title>#59 Walli's Journey to FIRE</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/59</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>59</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#59 Walli's Journey to FIRE</itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Can you imagine being able to retire at 40? 50? or at all? Walli shares her journey towards early retirement and how she will be able to retire at 40!</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>30:35</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Can you imagine being able to retire at 40? 50? or at all? Walli shares her journey towards early retirement and how she will be able to retire at 40!
Walli was able to pay off her debt and focus on investing even while enjoying her life and traveling. She shares her tips for getting over mindlessly spending so she can focus on what is really important to her.
“Money is a tool. If we can think about money as a tool to design the life we want, you make the decision of what you want your life to look like. I invest and save a lot of money, but it doesn't override what I want my life to look like today, just to save for the future. Being able to find that balance of what I want today without forfeiting what I know I'm going to need in the future.” - Wallie Miller
Who's Walli Miller?
Walli is a financial coach and a self-proclaimed money nerd.  She loves spreadsheets and has been known to watch PBS specials  about retirement for fun! It’s exactly this passion for all things money,  including spending it, that put her on the path to her true calling -  helping high-achieving, young professionals become work-optional  by taking control of their finances without sacrificing their lattes and  brunches.
Walli didn’t start out as an expert, she is a first generation college  graduate and daughter of an immigrant. She didn’t always understand  money or building wealth. She didn’t grow up looking at stock charts  with her dad or balancing the checkbook with her mom. They didn’t  talk about money much in her family. It took a Forbes article to make  her reevaluate what she was spending money on and the true cost of  her purchases. After that, Walli began listening to podcasts, reading  personal finance books and ingesting every bit of financial information  she could find. And now she will be work-optional by age 40 and is  committed to putting as many people as possible on that same path  to financial freedom through balanced spending, saving and wealth  building without deprivation.
Timestamps
02:45 - Walli's Story
07:33 - How Walli went from inspire to taking action
08:32 - What’s a no spend challenge? How can it help you?
10:57 - Why you should review where your money goes
12:21 - Willi’s FIRE journey while paying off debt and investing
16:46 - Walli’s current plan for early retirement
18:48 - The biggest misconception about the FIRE movement
22:40 - Tips on how you can get started with investing on your FIRE journey
24:35 - Can you invest while paying off debt?
27:08 - Last words of wisdom
For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my FREE Budget Starter Kit on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.
Resources and Links Mentioned:
FREE Budget Starter Kit - http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Book Recommendation: A Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins (aff link) https://amzn.to/3DAVjFn 
Walli's Investing Bootcamp sign up here: https://financiallythriving.com/
Connect with Ashley:
Instagram - www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy
Connect with Walli:
Website: www.financiallythriving.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/financially_thriving Special Guest: Walli Miller.
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  <itunes:keywords>FIRE journey, retiring early</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>Can you imagine being able to retire at 40? 50? or at all? Walli shares her journey towards early retirement and how she will be able to retire at 40!</p>

<p>Walli was able to pay off her debt and focus on investing even while enjoying her life and traveling. She shares her tips for getting over mindlessly spending so she can focus on what is really important to her.</p>

<p><em>“Money is a tool. If we can think about money as a tool to design the life we want, you make the decision of what you want your life to look like. I invest and save a lot of money, but it doesn&#39;t override what I want my life to look like today, just to save for the future. Being able to find that balance of what I want today without forfeiting what I know I&#39;m going to need in the future.”</em> - <strong>Wallie Miller</strong></p>

<p><strong>Who&#39;s Walli Miller?</strong></p>

<p>Walli is a financial coach and a self-proclaimed money nerd.  She loves spreadsheets and has been known to watch PBS specials  about retirement for fun! It’s exactly this passion for all things money,  including spending it, that put her on the path to her true calling -  helping high-achieving, young professionals become work-optional  by taking control of their finances without sacrificing their lattes and  brunches.</p>

<p>Walli didn’t start out as an expert, she is a first generation college  graduate and daughter of an immigrant. She didn’t always understand  money or building wealth. She didn’t grow up looking at stock charts  with her dad or balancing the checkbook with her mom. They didn’t  talk about money much in her family. It took a Forbes article to make  her reevaluate what she was spending money on and the true cost of  her purchases. After that, Walli began listening to podcasts, reading  personal finance books and ingesting every bit of financial information  she could find. And now she will be work-optional by age 40 and is  committed to putting as many people as possible on that same path  to financial freedom through balanced spending, saving and wealth  building without deprivation.</p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:45 - Walli&#39;s Story<br>
07:33 - How Walli went from inspire to taking action<br>
08:32 - What’s a no spend challenge? How can it help you?<br>
10:57 - Why you should review where your money goes<br>
12:21 - Willi’s FIRE journey while paying off debt and investing<br>
16:46 - Walli’s current plan for early retirement<br>
18:48 - The biggest misconception about the FIRE movement<br>
22:40 - Tips on how you can get started with investing on your FIRE journey<br>
24:35 - Can you invest while paying off debt?<br>
27:08 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
FREE Budget Starter Kit - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a><br>
Book Recommendation: A Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3DAVjFn" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3DAVjFn</a> <br>
Walli&#39;s Investing Bootcamp sign up here: <a href="https://financiallythriving.com/" rel="nofollow">https://financiallythriving.com/</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram - <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Walli:</strong><br>
Website: <a href="http://www.financiallythriving.com" rel="nofollow">www.financiallythriving.com</a><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/financially_thriving" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/financially_thriving</a></p><p>Special Guest: Walli Miller.</p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Can you imagine being able to retire at 40? 50? or at all? Walli shares her journey towards early retirement and how she will be able to retire at 40!</p>

<p>Walli was able to pay off her debt and focus on investing even while enjoying her life and traveling. She shares her tips for getting over mindlessly spending so she can focus on what is really important to her.</p>

<p><em>“Money is a tool. If we can think about money as a tool to design the life we want, you make the decision of what you want your life to look like. I invest and save a lot of money, but it doesn&#39;t override what I want my life to look like today, just to save for the future. Being able to find that balance of what I want today without forfeiting what I know I&#39;m going to need in the future.”</em> - <strong>Wallie Miller</strong></p>

<p><strong>Who&#39;s Walli Miller?</strong></p>

<p>Walli is a financial coach and a self-proclaimed money nerd.  She loves spreadsheets and has been known to watch PBS specials  about retirement for fun! It’s exactly this passion for all things money,  including spending it, that put her on the path to her true calling -  helping high-achieving, young professionals become work-optional  by taking control of their finances without sacrificing their lattes and  brunches.</p>

<p>Walli didn’t start out as an expert, she is a first generation college  graduate and daughter of an immigrant. She didn’t always understand  money or building wealth. She didn’t grow up looking at stock charts  with her dad or balancing the checkbook with her mom. They didn’t  talk about money much in her family. It took a Forbes article to make  her reevaluate what she was spending money on and the true cost of  her purchases. After that, Walli began listening to podcasts, reading  personal finance books and ingesting every bit of financial information  she could find. And now she will be work-optional by age 40 and is  committed to putting as many people as possible on that same path  to financial freedom through balanced spending, saving and wealth  building without deprivation.</p>

<p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>
02:45 - Walli&#39;s Story<br>
07:33 - How Walli went from inspire to taking action<br>
08:32 - What’s a no spend challenge? How can it help you?<br>
10:57 - Why you should review where your money goes<br>
12:21 - Willi’s FIRE journey while paying off debt and investing<br>
16:46 - Walli’s current plan for early retirement<br>
18:48 - The biggest misconception about the FIRE movement<br>
22:40 - Tips on how you can get started with investing on your FIRE journey<br>
24:35 - Can you invest while paying off debt?<br>
27:08 - Last words of wisdom</p>

<p>For easy step by step directions and worksheets on getting your budget together and done in 30 minutes a month, download my <strong><em>FREE Budget Starter Kit</em></strong> on budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</p>

<p>And if you enjoyed the podcast today and got some great takeaways, I’d really appreciate it if you followed the Money Mindset Podcast so you don’t miss out on future episodes.</p>

<p><strong>Resources and Links Mentioned:</strong><br>
FREE Budget Starter Kit - <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a><br>
Book Recommendation: A Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3DAVjFn" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3DAVjFn</a> <br>
Walli&#39;s Investing Bootcamp sign up here: <a href="https://financiallythriving.com/" rel="nofollow">https://financiallythriving.com/</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Ashley:</strong><br>
Instagram - <a href="http://www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/budgetsmadeeasy</a></p>

<p><strong>Connect with Walli:</strong><br>
Website: <a href="http://www.financiallythriving.com" rel="nofollow">www.financiallythriving.com</a><br>
Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/financially_thriving" rel="nofollow">www.instagram.com/financially_thriving</a></p><p>Special Guest: Walli Miller.</p>]]>
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  <title>#57 Overcoming Broke Mindsets So You Can Live The Life You Want!</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#57 Overcoming Broke Mindsets So You Can Live The Life You Want!</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Once you change the way you think about money and your actions around money, you can start making real change to reach those big dreams.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>22:30</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Once you change the way you think about money and your actions around money, you can start making real change to reach those big dreams.
In today's episode, Nicole Babel, financial coach, shares her journey with money and how to overcome the way you think about your needs and wants. 
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Free Debt Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt
Money Mammoth by Dr. Klontz (aff link) https://amzn.to/3qHcOyG
 Special Guest: Nicole Babel.
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  <itunes:keywords>money mindsets</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Once you change the way you think about money and your actions around money, you can start making real change to reach those big dreams.</p>

<p>In today&#39;s episode, Nicole Babel, financial coach, shares her journey with money and how to overcome the way you think about your needs and wants. </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
Free Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a><br>
Money Mammoth by Dr. Klontz (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3qHcOyG" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3qHcOyG</a></p><p>Special Guest: Nicole Babel.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Once you change the way you think about money and your actions around money, you can start making real change to reach those big dreams.</p>

<p>In today&#39;s episode, Nicole Babel, financial coach, shares her journey with money and how to overcome the way you think about your needs and wants. </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
Free Debt Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt</a><br>
Money Mammoth by Dr. Klontz (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3qHcOyG" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3qHcOyG</a></p><p>Special Guest: Nicole Babel.</p>]]>
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  <title>#54 You Deserve It!</title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/54</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 14 Mar 2022 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>54</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#54 You Deserve It!</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Have you ever told yourself you "deserve it" to justify spending money you don't have?</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>8:06</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Have you ever told yourself you "deserve it" to justify spending money you don't have?
I want you to realize you deserve more! 
You deserve to be debt-free and not stress about money MORE than you "deserve" that new purse. 
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    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever told yourself you &quot;deserve it&quot; to justify spending money you don&#39;t have?</p>

<p>I want you to realize you deserve more! </p>

<p>You deserve to be debt-free and not stress about money MORE than you &quot;deserve&quot; that new purse. </p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever told yourself you &quot;deserve it&quot; to justify spending money you don&#39;t have?</p>

<p>I want you to realize you deserve more! </p>

<p>You deserve to be debt-free and not stress about money MORE than you &quot;deserve&quot; that new purse. </p>]]>
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  <title>#52 How Kristin Paid Off $55,000 in 20 Months! </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/52</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/32a872f0-f67e-4aa4-8000-29897cb2c3ff.mp3" length="55814766" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>52</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#52 How Kristin Paid Off $55,000 in 20 Months! </itunes:title>
  <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>How Kristin Paid Off $55,000 in 20 Months by making a few small changes and staying focused! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>38:45</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/8/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/cover.jpg?v=2"/>
  <description>How Kristin Paid Off $55,000 in 20 Months! 
Kristin and her husband were able to work together to relieve their financial stress by getting super focused on their goals together! 
Resources mentioned in this episode:
FREE Budgeting Workshop: https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-workshop
FREE Budget Starter Kit: www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start
Richest Man in Babylon by George Clason (aff link) https://amzn.to/3t9lWw9 Special Guest: Kristin Stones.
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  <itunes:keywords>paying off debt, debt success stories</itunes:keywords>
  <content:encoded>
    <![CDATA[<p>How Kristin Paid Off $55,000 in 20 Months! </p>

<p>Kristin and her husband were able to work together to relieve their financial stress by getting super focused on their goals together! </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
FREE Budgeting Workshop: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-workshop" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-workshop</a><br>
FREE Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a><br>
Richest Man in Babylon by George Clason (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3t9lWw9" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3t9lWw9</a></p><p>Special Guest: Kristin Stones.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>How Kristin Paid Off $55,000 in 20 Months! </p>

<p>Kristin and her husband were able to work together to relieve their financial stress by getting super focused on their goals together! </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
FREE Budgeting Workshop: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-workshop" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-workshop</a><br>
FREE Budget Starter Kit: <a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/start</a><br>
Richest Man in Babylon by George Clason (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3t9lWw9" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3t9lWw9</a></p><p>Special Guest: Kristin Stones.</p>]]>
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  <title>#48 How Steve Lives Debt Free &amp; Without a Credit Score! </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/48</link>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 03 Jan 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/8d45b560-7fe1-4b74-893a-0fb9fd688b73/425d6ca2-9476-47c5-a373-09b6dfd043fd.mp3" length="31338796" type="audio/mpeg"/>
  <itunes:episode>48</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#48 How Steve Lives Debt Free &amp; Without a Credit Score! </itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Steve is completely debt free and is able to live without a credit score. Check out how he does it! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>21:45</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Steve is completely debt-free, including his mortgage, and is able to live without a credit score and credit card. 
Check out how he is still able to travel and live the life he wants without worrying about a credit card or credit score! 
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Free Debt Pay Off Starter Kit: https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-starter-kit
The Story Behind by Emily ProKup (aff link) https://amzn.to/3sQUTaD
Steve's Podcast: moneyplansos.com (moneyplansos.com)
Ecredible (www.ecredible.com) Special Guest: Steve Stewart.
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    <![CDATA[<p>Steve is completely debt-free, including his mortgage, and is able to live without a credit score and credit card. </p>

<p>Check out how he is still able to travel and live the life he wants without worrying about a credit card or credit score! </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
Free Debt Pay Off Starter Kit: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-starter-kit" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-starter-kit</a><br>
The Story Behind by Emily ProKup (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3sQUTaD" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3sQUTaD</a><br>
Steve&#39;s Podcast: [moneyplansos.com](moneyplansos.com)<br>
[Ecredible](<a href="http://www.ecredible.com" rel="nofollow">www.ecredible.com</a>)</p><p>Special Guest: Steve Stewart.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Steve is completely debt-free, including his mortgage, and is able to live without a credit score and credit card. </p>

<p>Check out how he is still able to travel and live the life he wants without worrying about a credit card or credit score! </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
Free Debt Pay Off Starter Kit: <a href="https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-starter-kit" rel="nofollow">https://leads.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-starter-kit</a><br>
The Story Behind by Emily ProKup (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3sQUTaD" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3sQUTaD</a><br>
Steve&#39;s Podcast: [moneyplansos.com](moneyplansos.com)<br>
[Ecredible](<a href="http://www.ecredible.com" rel="nofollow">www.ecredible.com</a>)</p><p>Special Guest: Steve Stewart.</p>]]>
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  <title>#25 How Bobbi Paid Off $50,000 in 2 Years </title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 24 Feb 2020 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>#25 How Bobbi Paid Off $50,000 in 2 Years </itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>How Bobbi and her husband changed the way they think and handled their money and were able to pay off $50,000 in 2 years. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>24:05</itunes:duration>
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  <description>How Bobbi and her husband changed the way they think and handled their money and were able to pay off $50,000 in 2 years.  She started using the debt snowball and realized it was easier than she thought it would be! 
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Free Debt Snowball Starter Pack (www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/)
You Need A Budget Book by Jesse Mecham (aff link) https://amzn.to/3T4PeIe
End Financial Stress Now (https://amzn.to/2v82S7E) by Emily Guy Burkin
Budgeting 101 (https://amzn.to/2TbwI2W) by Michele Cagan
Full Transcript: 
Welcome to the money mindset podcast where you will find the inspiration and motivation you need to manage your money better so you can stress less and live the life you want. Today we are talking with Bobby Olsen from the sensible chat podcast and we're going to talk to her about her favorite budgeting tips and how she paid off $50,000 in about two years. So she gives us some really great advice on how to budget your money better so that you can pay off your debt fast and work on that money mindset so that you can do it without being miserable. Uh, but before we jump into her interview, don't forget you can get your free debt snowballs starter pack. So debt, snowball worksheets, spreadsheet, checklists, everything you need to get a jumpstart on your debt snowball. It is free and you can grab it at budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle and I will link to it in the show notes as well. So welcome Bobby. Hey Bobby, thanks for being with us today.
Thanks so much for having me, Ashley.
Thanks for being here. And you know, we've been talking, chatting, so that my hug, I can't get my kids outside and have it be quiet for you guys. So I feel like I've already learned so much about you, but, um, you know, for our listeners that haven't heard you before, I know you have a podcast too, but can you tell us just a little bit about yourself and kind of, um, what you do to help people right now?
Sure. Well, my name is Bobby Olson and I'm the host of the sensible chat podcast and I'm also a budget coach. And so, um, I'm really focused on helping people with their money obviously, um, for the podcast that we definitely say that we're committed to helping people learn positive money mindsets, destroyed debt, reduce financial stress, and break the paycheck to paycheck cycle. So that's what we're focused on.
That's awesome. And tell us a little bit about like, how did you get started with, um, wanting to help people break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck?
Well, you know, I've lived paycheck to paycheck all my life. And as most of us, you know, think at least at a certain time in our lives, I, I always just thought it was normal. Yeah. But I spent, you know, my younger years, I'm working in radio and actually my first job was for a, um, financial radio station and I, but I was just so bored with it, uh, that I didn't want to listen to any of the information. And so I went about my life and kinda got [inaudible] kept getting stuck back into financial radio for some reason. I don't know why. I guess it was my calling, I don't know. But, um, eventually I was, uh, producing a financial radio show, which I actually still am at this point. And, um, you know, we were just, we had had our own audio production company prior to me and my husband, and, uh, it had failed.
And so we were in a lot of debt. And so now I'm working this job, which should be my dream job because radio was what I was always passionate about. [inaudible] I just hated it. Um, and I really wanted out, I wanted something more, but we were so far in debt that I couldn't afford to take the pay cut. And I was just so frustrated and it seemed like we were never getting ahead. We were paying everything on time, but you know, and even paying a little bit on top of everything, but it just felt like we weren't getting anywhere. And so one day I actually ended up opening up one of the books that was sitting around my office cause we were all, you know, interviewing authors left and right for hinder views on this financial radio show. And so I opened up the book one day and she was talking about the debt snowball method.
She didn't call it that, but I found out later that's what it was. And she, she explained how it worked and I thought, no way could it be that easy, no way. And so I actually did it on paper for our situation trying to prove her wrong and I couldn't, I mean it worked on paper. I thought, Oh my, this is like a lifesaver. How could it be this easy? And I was so excited. I told my husband, we got to do this. And he's like, all right, cool. You know, whatever. You just like, my husband is like, yeah, whatever you want to do. Yeah, that's good. So I did it. We, you know, we went on this path and Oh my gosh, it just changed our lives and it was so easy and it was so exciting to me that this could be done and just relieve by stress.
And, and I, I finally had hope that was the biggest thing. It gave me hope so I could see the light at the end of the tunnel at which kept me going through the whole process. And so it was just such a huge life changer for me that I just wanted to scream it from the rooftops and say, Hey, you know, anybody else that's feeling this way, I can help you stop. Look, it's this easy, you know? And so yeah, that's where my passion to help others with it came from. That's awesome. So how much did you end up paying off? Yeah. Uh, we paid off about it would probably be, you know, I, I was so excited when we got started and everything. I'd never really looked at the numbers, but, um, I would guess it was about $50,000. Wow. And how fast did you do that?
It took us about two years. Wow. We really got serious. Yeah. Yeah. And so now you said your husband was like, sure. Whatever, you know, was he, I'm like, how involved was he did or did you have to like kind of like drag him along? You know, I know I hear so many stories about like, you know, people not being on the same page and everything. We were, I mean, he was all for it, but it was like, okay, I'm all for whatever you're doing, but you take care of it. Yeah. That sounds like my husband. Yeah. Which in some ways is good because you're like, okay, I'm just going to create this budget. If you're telling me you don't want to be a part of it, I'm not even gonna ask your opinion. We don't have to fight about it. I'm just going to create it and you're going to follow it.
That's fine. You know? And he's like, okay, I'm good with that. You know, it works out in that way and it's great. There's some times when I wished he was a little bit more involved because, you know, then it'd be like, it'd be less stress. Like he's always asking me do we have money for this or that? And I'm always like, ah, gosh, I hate that question. You know? I mean, it's so much easier to answer now cause I can just go to the budget. But I, I, it really took me a long time to quote, train him, for lack of a better word, to just, you know, cause I kept having to say, just go and check the budget. Don't, don't ask me that. Go and check the budget, you know? And so, but yeah, he's been totally on board with it, very supportive and uh, we've really worked together to make it happen.
That's awesome. So what were some of the things that you did to pay off this debt? So you made, you know that you use the debt snowball, it sounds like, and you know, worked on a budget and everything, but what were kind of the, some of the practical steps that you did to make it go so fast?
Yeah. Well, one of the things that I did, the biggest thing was I budgeted high for every bill and every expense. So I just took like the last, I looked at my electric bill and I said, what's the highest amount it's been in the last 12 months. Okay. 130 bucks. So that's what I budget every month, even though, you know, during the summer it would be half that. And so every time that that money came in under budget, I could save the difference towards, yeah, I could put the difference towards my debt snowball. Awesome. Yeah. And so that really worked for me in all my bills, all my expenses, you know, our grocery budget, whatever it was. If there was money there that didn't get used, it went towards our debt.
That's awesome. And so did you, um, you don't track your spending like before whenever you got started and were you like shocked about any category that was higher than you expected? Yeah, we totally, well, we've always done that. We've always tracked our spending. Um, that was the one thing that we did even before we got on a formal budget because we were just always, you know, didn't want to be negative in our bank account. So we were always very good about that. But, and so it wasn't shocking, but it was just the biggest change that we had to make was like everybody else. It was the eating out. Yup. Same here. I'm still like struggle with it. Yeah. Yeah. It's the biggest struggle for sure. And so that's what we had to reign in the most. And you know, we knew it, we just didn't want to do it. But once we were able to get on a formal budget, the good news was, this was the other thing that we did to, um, really follow the budget and, you know, pay off things quickly.
Is that right? Instead of, because before we would just, we would pay the bills, everything needed to be paid and then the rest was our play money and that was it. And so we paint it. When we actually started budgeting, do now we give ourselves an allowance. So every week we got a certain amount, but that was it. If there was extra money quote laying around, no, it went to our debt snowball. It didn't go to our eating out or whatever. And so that was the other way that we curved it and still had so we could still, you know, go out once in a while here or there, but only if we stayed within our budgeted money for that purpose.
[inaudible] awesome. So did you, um, do anything like, um, cash envelopes or,
yeah, um, I actually started with that because, um, when I first made the budget I didn't know about that. And then when I got really excited about making a budget and paying everything off, I found out from my mom, she, she lived, um, you know, across the country at the time. And so, you know, I wasn't right there next door, so we weren't interacting every day. So I didn't know that somebody had given her financial peace university. Yeah. And I was like, mom, why didn't you share this with me? Yeah. And so one time when I was visiting her, she actually gave me the program and so I, I went through that program and yeah. Then found out about the cash envelope system and I thought, wow, that was, that really, really helped us a lot to stay on target and especially, and the ending. But what I found out through the process was it was really great.
The cash envelope system is a really great concept, but we kept like, we would go to the grocery store and they go, Oh, we forgot the Pash. Oh no, carry it with us. We had it like in our, in our, um, filing cabinet home. We had all these envelope filing because we didn't want to carry all this cash all the time. Oh yeah. We kept going places and we were like, we don't have the cash. What are we going to do? We drive home. Who used the car and it got really complicated for us and not positions. Oh, okay. We, I, I was perfect for, I'm like [inaudible] there's gotta be something where we can do this digitally, like a digital cash envelope system. And then I found why NAB, you need a budget. And that's what worked for me and just totally [inaudible] change things because now we still knew the quote, passion envelope system, but it's just digital and full of cash.
Oh, awesome. Yeah, I've run into, I still run into that for certain things, but I actually have like, um, cash envelope wallet and so I just carry like certain categories with me all the time, like food. Um, but yeah, th the, it'll be like, I'll leave one here because I didn't, I don't want to carry that much cash and I don't need it right now and then when I need it, I've
forgot it. Yeah. [inaudible] yeah, definitely.
Um, so how has your mindset changed since you started changing the way you budget and you've paid off your debt?
Oh my gosh. I mean, it's like night and day. Um, I mean the mindset changed for me as soon as I found the hope, then it was like the world is my oyster. I mean, I really bought into, you can afford anything, just not necessarily everything. And so how, you know, having the freedom to decide what I really wanted and going for that because I was raised with a poor mindset. I mean, I just, you're poor. You can't afford anything and not the way it's always going to be, period. End of story. And so when I finally figured out that that wasn't the case, it was just so freeing and so exciting and Mmm. You know, discovering all these different [inaudible] that's tricks on, on how to make it work just really freed my mind. And, um, yeah, so, so the mindset just went from, okay, you know, hopeless to hope. That's the biggest thing.
And that's really what I try to, um, help people with is get them to realize that there is hope and then everything else will follow. So that is, that's awesome. Um, what tips do you have for somebody that's wanting to pay off debt or manage their money better? Like what are some of your top tips?
Okay, well, the, the top one is, you know, the one that we talked about earlier, just budgeting high for everything so that you, you know, have that money all the time. It's kind of tricking yourself into saving, for lack of a better term. And then of course, the allowance that I mentioned, that's been a really good one for us. Um, um, also, you know, budgeting low for your income. So if you have, you know, if your income, Barry's always low. Um, and I, I've found that that works on two levels because not only does it, you know, it just, it stops you from not having enough money. You know, if you have a budget in place and your paycheck comes in lower than expected, then you're kind of freaking out, always at least that amount, then higher is always gravy. Um, beyond that, let's see, what else have we on?
Mmm. Yeah. I mean, you know, we went, we didn't really there. There's a lot of things that you always hear, like, you know, take your lunch to work and don't buy coffee out and everything. And we were already kind of doing that. Mmm. So those things didn't change for us, but really focusing on the goals because [inaudible] getting out of debt. I mean, when you're trying to get out of debt, obviously that's your first priority. Okay. Mmm. And so just throw everything chords that that you possibly can, but you also have to have a reason why. Like what do you want beyond that? Because if you don't, then you know, easy to fall off the track and just say, forget it. I want what I want and you know, so I'm just gonna no, not get out of debt. And then of course you, you add it later. Oh, absolutely.
What are some things that you did to kind of stay motivated the those two years?
Okay. Really focused again on, well, for me the biggest motivation was just knowing that when I finally got out of debt, I could decide whether I wanted to stay at this job or take another one. It was freedom for me, my biggest motivator was the freedom that was going to come out of it. And really that's been a motivator, know for everything. And I, I mean, I tell people that all the time. It's like, I mean, if you control your money, then you control your life. And I just felt so out of control over my whole life that that was the biggest thing I wanted to change. And so, yeah, really just Oh thing on how much freedom I could have if I just had or resources to decide how I was going to live my life.
[inaudible] I always say that it gives you options, so like if you want to quit your job, you know, your story is very similar to mine actually. And so, um, you know, I just always tell people that it just gives you options like, and it gives you, like you said, freedom, but it's like the freedom to make the choices that you want, whatever they are. Like, it gives you that opportunity, so. Absolutely. That's great. Um, do you have any last words of wisdom or advice for somebody? Like, just, uh, get them to do it. Just get them moving. Just really focus on what it is that you want out of life. You know, I've decided, I mean, I've, of course you read this everywhere. It's not me that decided it, but I've really bought into the mindset that money is just a tool that's the resource. You know, there's all this shame around things and you know, I wish that I could just take that away from people because no matter what, you know, the place you're in today, you can change it and it doesn't make you a bad person. Oh, made financial mistakes. I mean, it's just the same thing as using a hammer wrong. You know, I mean, it's that simple. So I don't feel shame when I use a hammer wrong. And I don't think anybody should feel shame when they, you know, use their money wrong. We all knew that stuff.
And you know, but wrong is relative. It's all about what you want out of life. And so if you can focus on what your goals and dreams are, then [inaudible] budget is just a plan to help you reach that goal. And that's the [inaudible] the biggest thing, reason that I tell people, you know, to budget and, and do spending plans and everything is because that's the best way that you're going to reach your goal and get what you want out of life. It's not about restricting what you do, it's about the freedom to choose in your life.
That's awesome. Um, and I did not warn you of this, so you've added thinking about it for a second, but I always ask people what is their favorite nonfiction books? You've probably heard that, you know, most millionaires read like one book a month or something like that. And so, you know, I always like to motivate people to, um, find a book to just improve their lives and stop wasting so much time watching TV and things. So do you have a favorite nonfiction book?
I actually do. And I was prepared for that because I've been listening to your podcast, so I know it's asked that question. And so I thought a lot about it and I was like, wow, I actually have free. So have you [inaudible] they all serve different purposes for me. Why NAB new need a budget? It was a book that changed my life because I had sound the app, what? I couldn't figure out how to use it. I didn't understand the mindset behind it. Different from really traditional budgeting. There a mindset is that you can only budget money that you already have today in your account. And so for me, there's a difference now between budgeting and and a spending plan because the budget is where your money is today. That's in your account. That spending plan is a plan of what you're going to do with the money that is coming from your neck.
PayTech Oh, that's interesting. That's good. I didn't even know there was a book app obviously, but I didn't know the right, the book totally changed my life and like I said, I could not figure out how to use the software or the app before I read the book. When I read it, Oh, it was like [inaudible] I get it. And it helped me really understand budgeting in a way bigger, ah, like longer term than just month to month because month to month budgeting cuffing me up, you know, the oil paint is come up every quarter and things like that. I just kept forgetting the budget from them and so why not really helped me focus on, you know, long term budgeting, how to break it down and just, you know, there were so many wonderful tools in there. 
It changed my life and I recommend that book to everybody regardless of whether you're going to use their budgeting app or not.
It just changes your mindset about money and my view. Oh awesome. Yeah. And then the second one is a book called N financial stress now by Emily Guy Birken. And I read this book a couple years ago before I started the podcast and when I started it I reached out to her and she actually responded and I was so honored because I got to interview her for the podcast and it's, her book is just for any income level because I was at the, you know, low income level and sell. That's who I kind of target with my podcast and her book is just so freeing for anybody at any level because it's not about know hips and tricks that you might only be able to do if you have this much money or that much money, whatever. No, it's about money mindsets and strategies. It just helped you think differently about your money and figure out how to, it empowers you instead of being feeling like a victim about your money, like there's nothing you can do about it. It changes your mindset to what can I do about it regardless of what money I have or do not have. And I thought that was a fabulous tool. That's great. Yeah, that's, that's exactly, you know what we're trying to do with this podcast and what you're doing with your podcast and everything, so I think that is awesome. I'll have to check that out. Oh, and what was the third one? Oh, and the third one is budgeting one Oh one by Michelle Kagan. 
She's written a ton of great books, but budgeting one Oh one is, it's, it's like your toolbox. It really gives you the specific, uh, strategies, different methods, um, and really great tips and tricks for creating your budget and following your budget, getting out of guts, smart spending, all of that stuff. Oh that's great. Cause you know, there are different methods to do it. And what I try and tell people is just find what works for you. It may be a little bit of what I say, maybe a little bit of what Dave Ramsey says or what you say. You know, it's really just finding a system that will work for you. Cause that's really all that matters is that it works for you and that it'll help you do it. Yeah, exactly. Achieve your goal. There's no right or wrong way. Yeah, I agree. Because Dave Ramsey, I love Dave Ramsey and, but there's so many people that are so willing to go gazelle like that.
And then there's other people that just, you know, can't, I mean I felt like, nah, I need a little bit of a Slack in there. Otherwise it's like a crash diet for me. I'm just not going to do it, you know? And so, but yeah, I mean, whatever works for you is just, that's fabulous. And look, go down that road, you're out what it is. Yeah, exactly. You know, and everybody processes information different. Like, um, you know, I always recommend to have people write their budget down, especially at first just because it ingrains it into your mind, but some people like spreadsheets, you know, some people like apps. So it's really just finding what works for you. So that's a great book as well. And just finding different, you know, researching different methods to see if there's something that if you can take a little bit from each one and kind of put it together, make your own thing.
Before we go, where can people find you and learn some more about you? Oh, they can go to my website@sensiblechat.com and that's sensible with a C. so it's like, since [inaudible] awesome. We'll chat back up and we will link to it in the show notes as well. Are you, um, do you have a favorite social media platform? Are you on anything? Yeah, I'm on Facebook. Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn so you can find me all those busy. Yeah, I love Instagram. I've just really, um, you know, I'm on Facebook all the time and so I never really got into Instagram until maybe the last couple months I think. But I really, I'm enjoying Instagram, so, wow. I just got on Instagram too at my husband's B house. He's like really got to get on it. I'm like, I'm still struggling with it because you know, it's just so different and I don't have a lot of pictures and videos so I know that is hard cause then I'll be like, Oh I want to post this but I don't have a picture so that I have to like try and figure out a picture to post to with it with what I want to say.
But yeah, I'm enjoying it though. And so, um, yes, go check him out on Instagram as well. So, um, and I will link to everything in the show notes so that you can go to her website and check it out as well. Awesome. Thank you so much. Thanks for being here. Thank you. Thank you so much to Bobby for being with us today, and don't forget to go grab your debt snowball starter packs so that you can get started on paying off debt as well. 
Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debtbundle and I will link to it into the show notes as well. I will talk to you next week. Bye.
 Special Guest: Bobbi Olsen.
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    <![CDATA[<p>How Bobbi and her husband changed the way they think and handled their money and were able to pay off $50,000 in 2 years.  She started using the debt snowball and realized it was easier than she thought it would be! </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
[Free Debt Snowball Starter Pack](<a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/</a>)<br>
You Need A Budget Book by Jesse Mecham (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3T4PeIe" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3T4PeIe</a><br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2v82S7E" rel="nofollow">End Financial Stress Now</a> by Emily Guy Burkin<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2TbwI2W" rel="nofollow">Budgeting 101</a> by Michele Cagan</p>

<p>Full Transcript: </p>

<p>Welcome to the money mindset podcast where you will find the inspiration and motivation you need to manage your money better so you can stress less and live the life you want. Today we are talking with Bobby Olsen from the sensible chat podcast and we&#39;re going to talk to her about her favorite budgeting tips and how she paid off $50,000 in about two years. So she gives us some really great advice on how to budget your money better so that you can pay off your debt fast and work on that money mindset so that you can do it without being miserable. Uh, but before we jump into her interview, don&#39;t forget you can get your free debt snowballs starter pack. So debt, snowball worksheets, spreadsheet, checklists, everything you need to get a jumpstart on your debt snowball. It is free and you can grab it at budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle and I will link to it in the show notes as well. So welcome Bobby. Hey Bobby, thanks for being with us today.</p>

<p>Thanks so much for having me, Ashley.</p>

<p>Thanks for being here. And you know, we&#39;ve been talking, chatting, so that my hug, I can&#39;t get my kids outside and have it be quiet for you guys. So I feel like I&#39;ve already learned so much about you, but, um, you know, for our listeners that haven&#39;t heard you before, I know you have a podcast too, but can you tell us just a little bit about yourself and kind of, um, what you do to help people right now?</p>

<p>Sure. Well, my name is Bobby Olson and I&#39;m the host of the sensible chat podcast and I&#39;m also a budget coach. And so, um, I&#39;m really focused on helping people with their money obviously, um, for the podcast that we definitely say that we&#39;re committed to helping people learn positive money mindsets, destroyed debt, reduce financial stress, and break the paycheck to paycheck cycle. So that&#39;s what we&#39;re focused on.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. And tell us a little bit about like, how did you get started with, um, wanting to help people break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck?</p>

<p>Well, you know, I&#39;ve lived paycheck to paycheck all my life. And as most of us, you know, think at least at a certain time in our lives, I, I always just thought it was normal. Yeah. But I spent, you know, my younger years, I&#39;m working in radio and actually my first job was for a, um, financial radio station and I, but I was just so bored with it, uh, that I didn&#39;t want to listen to any of the information. And so I went about my life and kinda got [inaudible] kept getting stuck back into financial radio for some reason. I don&#39;t know why. I guess it was my calling, I don&#39;t know. But, um, eventually I was, uh, producing a financial radio show, which I actually still am at this point. And, um, you know, we were just, we had had our own audio production company prior to me and my husband, and, uh, it had failed.</p>

<p>And so we were in a lot of debt. And so now I&#39;m working this job, which should be my dream job because radio was what I was always passionate about. [inaudible] I just hated it. Um, and I really wanted out, I wanted something more, but we were so far in debt that I couldn&#39;t afford to take the pay cut. And I was just so frustrated and it seemed like we were never getting ahead. We were paying everything on time, but you know, and even paying a little bit on top of everything, but it just felt like we weren&#39;t getting anywhere. And so one day I actually ended up opening up one of the books that was sitting around my office cause we were all, you know, interviewing authors left and right for hinder views on this financial radio show. And so I opened up the book one day and she was talking about the debt snowball method.</p>

<p>She didn&#39;t call it that, but I found out later that&#39;s what it was. And she, she explained how it worked and I thought, no way could it be that easy, no way. And so I actually did it on paper for our situation trying to prove her wrong and I couldn&#39;t, I mean it worked on paper. I thought, Oh my, this is like a lifesaver. How could it be this easy? And I was so excited. I told my husband, we got to do this. And he&#39;s like, all right, cool. You know, whatever. You just like, my husband is like, yeah, whatever you want to do. Yeah, that&#39;s good. So I did it. We, you know, we went on this path and Oh my gosh, it just changed our lives and it was so easy and it was so exciting to me that this could be done and just relieve by stress.</p>

<p>And, and I, I finally had hope that was the biggest thing. It gave me hope so I could see the light at the end of the tunnel at which kept me going through the whole process. And so it was just such a huge life changer for me that I just wanted to scream it from the rooftops and say, Hey, you know, anybody else that&#39;s feeling this way, I can help you stop. Look, it&#39;s this easy, you know? And so yeah, that&#39;s where my passion to help others with it came from. That&#39;s awesome. So how much did you end up paying off? Yeah. Uh, we paid off about it would probably be, you know, I, I was so excited when we got started and everything. I&#39;d never really looked at the numbers, but, um, I would guess it was about $50,000. Wow. And how fast did you do that?</p>

<p>It took us about two years. Wow. We really got serious. Yeah. Yeah. And so now you said your husband was like, sure. Whatever, you know, was he, I&#39;m like, how involved was he did or did you have to like kind of like drag him along? You know, I know I hear so many stories about like, you know, people not being on the same page and everything. We were, I mean, he was all for it, but it was like, okay, I&#39;m all for whatever you&#39;re doing, but you take care of it. Yeah. That sounds like my husband. Yeah. Which in some ways is good because you&#39;re like, okay, I&#39;m just going to create this budget. If you&#39;re telling me you don&#39;t want to be a part of it, I&#39;m not even gonna ask your opinion. We don&#39;t have to fight about it. I&#39;m just going to create it and you&#39;re going to follow it.</p>

<p>That&#39;s fine. You know? And he&#39;s like, okay, I&#39;m good with that. You know, it works out in that way and it&#39;s great. There&#39;s some times when I wished he was a little bit more involved because, you know, then it&#39;d be like, it&#39;d be less stress. Like he&#39;s always asking me do we have money for this or that? And I&#39;m always like, ah, gosh, I hate that question. You know? I mean, it&#39;s so much easier to answer now cause I can just go to the budget. But I, I, it really took me a long time to quote, train him, for lack of a better word, to just, you know, cause I kept having to say, just go and check the budget. Don&#39;t, don&#39;t ask me that. Go and check the budget, you know? And so, but yeah, he&#39;s been totally on board with it, very supportive and uh, we&#39;ve really worked together to make it happen.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. So what were some of the things that you did to pay off this debt? So you made, you know that you use the debt snowball, it sounds like, and you know, worked on a budget and everything, but what were kind of the, some of the practical steps that you did to make it go so fast?</p>

<p>Yeah. Well, one of the things that I did, the biggest thing was I budgeted high for every bill and every expense. So I just took like the last, I looked at my electric bill and I said, what&#39;s the highest amount it&#39;s been in the last 12 months. Okay. 130 bucks. So that&#39;s what I budget every month, even though, you know, during the summer it would be half that. And so every time that that money came in under budget, I could save the difference towards, yeah, I could put the difference towards my debt snowball. Awesome. Yeah. And so that really worked for me in all my bills, all my expenses, you know, our grocery budget, whatever it was. If there was money there that didn&#39;t get used, it went towards our debt.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. And so did you, um, you don&#39;t track your spending like before whenever you got started and were you like shocked about any category that was higher than you expected? Yeah, we totally, well, we&#39;ve always done that. We&#39;ve always tracked our spending. Um, that was the one thing that we did even before we got on a formal budget because we were just always, you know, didn&#39;t want to be negative in our bank account. So we were always very good about that. But, and so it wasn&#39;t shocking, but it was just the biggest change that we had to make was like everybody else. It was the eating out. Yup. Same here. I&#39;m still like struggle with it. Yeah. Yeah. It&#39;s the biggest struggle for sure. And so that&#39;s what we had to reign in the most. And you know, we knew it, we just didn&#39;t want to do it. But once we were able to get on a formal budget, the good news was, this was the other thing that we did to, um, really follow the budget and, you know, pay off things quickly.</p>

<p>Is that right? Instead of, because before we would just, we would pay the bills, everything needed to be paid and then the rest was our play money and that was it. And so we paint it. When we actually started budgeting, do now we give ourselves an allowance. So every week we got a certain amount, but that was it. If there was extra money quote laying around, no, it went to our debt snowball. It didn&#39;t go to our eating out or whatever. And so that was the other way that we curved it and still had so we could still, you know, go out once in a while here or there, but only if we stayed within our budgeted money for that purpose.</p>

<p>[inaudible] awesome. So did you, um, do anything like, um, cash envelopes or,<br>
yeah, um, I actually started with that because, um, when I first made the budget I didn&#39;t know about that. And then when I got really excited about making a budget and paying everything off, I found out from my mom, she, she lived, um, you know, across the country at the time. And so, you know, I wasn&#39;t right there next door, so we weren&#39;t interacting every day. So I didn&#39;t know that somebody had given her financial peace university. Yeah. And I was like, mom, why didn&#39;t you share this with me? Yeah. And so one time when I was visiting her, she actually gave me the program and so I, I went through that program and yeah. Then found out about the cash envelope system and I thought, wow, that was, that really, really helped us a lot to stay on target and especially, and the ending. But what I found out through the process was it was really great.<br>
The cash envelope system is a really great concept, but we kept like, we would go to the grocery store and they go, Oh, we forgot the Pash. Oh no, carry it with us. We had it like in our, in our, um, filing cabinet home. We had all these envelope filing because we didn&#39;t want to carry all this cash all the time. Oh yeah. We kept going places and we were like, we don&#39;t have the cash. What are we going to do? We drive home. Who used the car and it got really complicated for us and not positions. Oh, okay. We, I, I was perfect for, I&#39;m like [inaudible] there&#39;s gotta be something where we can do this digitally, like a digital cash envelope system. And then I found why NAB, you need a budget. And that&#39;s what worked for me and just totally [inaudible] change things because now we still knew the quote, passion envelope system, but it&#39;s just digital and full of cash.</p>

<p>Oh, awesome. Yeah, I&#39;ve run into, I still run into that for certain things, but I actually have like, um, cash envelope wallet and so I just carry like certain categories with me all the time, like food. Um, but yeah, th the, it&#39;ll be like, I&#39;ll leave one here because I didn&#39;t, I don&#39;t want to carry that much cash and I don&#39;t need it right now and then when I need it, I&#39;ve<br>
forgot it. Yeah. [inaudible] yeah, definitely.</p>

<p>Um, so how has your mindset changed since you started changing the way you budget and you&#39;ve paid off your debt?<br>
Oh my gosh. I mean, it&#39;s like night and day. Um, I mean the mindset changed for me as soon as I found the hope, then it was like the world is my oyster. I mean, I really bought into, you can afford anything, just not necessarily everything. And so how, you know, having the freedom to decide what I really wanted and going for that because I was raised with a poor mindset. I mean, I just, you&#39;re poor. You can&#39;t afford anything and not the way it&#39;s always going to be, period. End of story. And so when I finally figured out that that wasn&#39;t the case, it was just so freeing and so exciting and Mmm. You know, discovering all these different [inaudible] that&#39;s tricks on, on how to make it work just really freed my mind. And, um, yeah, so, so the mindset just went from, okay, you know, hopeless to hope. That&#39;s the biggest thing.</p>

<p>And that&#39;s really what I try to, um, help people with is get them to realize that there is hope and then everything else will follow. So that is, that&#39;s awesome. Um, what tips do you have for somebody that&#39;s wanting to pay off debt or manage their money better? Like what are some of your top tips?</p>

<p>Okay, well, the, the top one is, you know, the one that we talked about earlier, just budgeting high for everything so that you, you know, have that money all the time. It&#39;s kind of tricking yourself into saving, for lack of a better term. And then of course, the allowance that I mentioned, that&#39;s been a really good one for us. Um, um, also, you know, budgeting low for your income. So if you have, you know, if your income, Barry&#39;s always low. Um, and I, I&#39;ve found that that works on two levels because not only does it, you know, it just, it stops you from not having enough money. You know, if you have a budget in place and your paycheck comes in lower than expected, then you&#39;re kind of freaking out, always at least that amount, then higher is always gravy. Um, beyond that, let&#39;s see, what else have we on?</p>

<p>Mmm. Yeah. I mean, you know, we went, we didn&#39;t really there. There&#39;s a lot of things that you always hear, like, you know, take your lunch to work and don&#39;t buy coffee out and everything. And we were already kind of doing that. Mmm. So those things didn&#39;t change for us, but really focusing on the goals because [inaudible] getting out of debt. I mean, when you&#39;re trying to get out of debt, obviously that&#39;s your first priority. Okay. Mmm. And so just throw everything chords that that you possibly can, but you also have to have a reason why. Like what do you want beyond that? Because if you don&#39;t, then you know, easy to fall off the track and just say, forget it. I want what I want and you know, so I&#39;m just gonna no, not get out of debt. And then of course you, you add it later. Oh, absolutely.</p>

<p>What are some things that you did to kind of stay motivated the those two years?</p>

<p>Okay. Really focused again on, well, for me the biggest motivation was just knowing that when I finally got out of debt, I could decide whether I wanted to stay at this job or take another one. It was freedom for me, my biggest motivator was the freedom that was going to come out of it. And really that&#39;s been a motivator, know for everything. And I, I mean, I tell people that all the time. It&#39;s like, I mean, if you control your money, then you control your life. And I just felt so out of control over my whole life that that was the biggest thing I wanted to change. And so, yeah, really just Oh thing on how much freedom I could have if I just had or resources to decide how I was going to live my life.</p>

<p>[inaudible] I always say that it gives you options, so like if you want to quit your job, you know, your story is very similar to mine actually. And so, um, you know, I just always tell people that it just gives you options like, and it gives you, like you said, freedom, but it&#39;s like the freedom to make the choices that you want, whatever they are. Like, it gives you that opportunity, so. Absolutely. That&#39;s great. Um, do you have any last words of wisdom or advice for somebody? Like, just, uh, get them to do it. Just get them moving. Just really focus on what it is that you want out of life. You know, I&#39;ve decided, I mean, I&#39;ve, of course you read this everywhere. It&#39;s not me that decided it, but I&#39;ve really bought into the mindset that money is just a tool that&#39;s the resource. You know, there&#39;s all this shame around things and you know, I wish that I could just take that away from people because no matter what, you know, the place you&#39;re in today, you can change it and it doesn&#39;t make you a bad person. Oh, made financial mistakes. I mean, it&#39;s just the same thing as using a hammer wrong. You know, I mean, it&#39;s that simple. So I don&#39;t feel shame when I use a hammer wrong. And I don&#39;t think anybody should feel shame when they, you know, use their money wrong. We all knew that stuff.</p>

<p>And you know, but wrong is relative. It&#39;s all about what you want out of life. And so if you can focus on what your goals and dreams are, then [inaudible] budget is just a plan to help you reach that goal. And that&#39;s the [inaudible] the biggest thing, reason that I tell people, you know, to budget and, and do spending plans and everything is because that&#39;s the best way that you&#39;re going to reach your goal and get what you want out of life. It&#39;s not about restricting what you do, it&#39;s about the freedom to choose in your life.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. Um, and I did not warn you of this, so you&#39;ve added thinking about it for a second, but I always ask people what is their favorite nonfiction books? You&#39;ve probably heard that, you know, most millionaires read like one book a month or something like that. And so, you know, I always like to motivate people to, um, find a book to just improve their lives and stop wasting so much time watching TV and things. So do you have a favorite nonfiction book?</p>

<p>I actually do. And I was prepared for that because I&#39;ve been listening to your podcast, so I know it&#39;s asked that question. And so I thought a lot about it and I was like, wow, I actually have free. So have you [inaudible] they all serve different purposes for me. Why NAB new need a budget? It was a book that changed my life because I had sound the app, what? I couldn&#39;t figure out how to use it. I didn&#39;t understand the mindset behind it. Different from really traditional budgeting. There a mindset is that you can only budget money that you already have today in your account. And so for me, there&#39;s a difference now between budgeting and and a spending plan because the budget is where your money is today. That&#39;s in your account. That spending plan is a plan of what you&#39;re going to do with the money that is coming from your neck.<br>
PayTech Oh, that&#39;s interesting. That&#39;s good. I didn&#39;t even know there was a book app obviously, but I didn&#39;t know the right, the book totally changed my life and like I said, I could not figure out how to use the software or the app before I read the book. When I read it, Oh, it was like [inaudible] I get it. And it helped me really understand budgeting in a way bigger, ah, like longer term than just month to month because month to month budgeting cuffing me up, you know, the oil paint is come up every quarter and things like that. I just kept forgetting the budget from them and so why not really helped me focus on, you know, long term budgeting, how to break it down and just, you know, there were so many wonderful tools in there. </p>

<p>It changed my life and I recommend that book to everybody regardless of whether you&#39;re going to use their budgeting app or not.</p>

<p>It just changes your mindset about money and my view. Oh awesome. Yeah. And then the second one is a book called N financial stress now by Emily Guy Birken. And I read this book a couple years ago before I started the podcast and when I started it I reached out to her and she actually responded and I was so honored because I got to interview her for the podcast and it&#39;s, her book is just for any income level because I was at the, you know, low income level and sell. That&#39;s who I kind of target with my podcast and her book is just so freeing for anybody at any level because it&#39;s not about know hips and tricks that you might only be able to do if you have this much money or that much money, whatever. No, it&#39;s about money mindsets and strategies. It just helped you think differently about your money and figure out how to, it empowers you instead of being feeling like a victim about your money, like there&#39;s nothing you can do about it. It changes your mindset to what can I do about it regardless of what money I have or do not have. And I thought that was a fabulous tool. That&#39;s great. Yeah, that&#39;s, that&#39;s exactly, you know what we&#39;re trying to do with this podcast and what you&#39;re doing with your podcast and everything, so I think that is awesome. I&#39;ll have to check that out. Oh, and what was the third one? Oh, and the third one is budgeting one Oh one by Michelle Kagan. </p>

<p>She&#39;s written a ton of great books, but budgeting one Oh one is, it&#39;s, it&#39;s like your toolbox. It really gives you the specific, uh, strategies, different methods, um, and really great tips and tricks for creating your budget and following your budget, getting out of guts, smart spending, all of that stuff. Oh that&#39;s great. Cause you know, there are different methods to do it. And what I try and tell people is just find what works for you. It may be a little bit of what I say, maybe a little bit of what Dave Ramsey says or what you say. You know, it&#39;s really just finding a system that will work for you. Cause that&#39;s really all that matters is that it works for you and that it&#39;ll help you do it. Yeah, exactly. Achieve your goal. There&#39;s no right or wrong way. Yeah, I agree. Because Dave Ramsey, I love Dave Ramsey and, but there&#39;s so many people that are so willing to go gazelle like that.</p>

<p>And then there&#39;s other people that just, you know, can&#39;t, I mean I felt like, nah, I need a little bit of a Slack in there. Otherwise it&#39;s like a crash diet for me. I&#39;m just not going to do it, you know? And so, but yeah, I mean, whatever works for you is just, that&#39;s fabulous. And look, go down that road, you&#39;re out what it is. Yeah, exactly. You know, and everybody processes information different. Like, um, you know, I always recommend to have people write their budget down, especially at first just because it ingrains it into your mind, but some people like spreadsheets, you know, some people like apps. So it&#39;s really just finding what works for you. So that&#39;s a great book as well. And just finding different, you know, researching different methods to see if there&#39;s something that if you can take a little bit from each one and kind of put it together, make your own thing.</p>

<p>Before we go, where can people find you and learn some more about you? Oh, they can go to my <a href="mailto:website@sensiblechat.com" rel="nofollow">website@sensiblechat.com</a> and that&#39;s sensible with a C. so it&#39;s like, since [inaudible] awesome. We&#39;ll chat back up and we will link to it in the show notes as well. Are you, um, do you have a favorite social media platform? Are you on anything? Yeah, I&#39;m on Facebook. Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn so you can find me all those busy. Yeah, I love Instagram. I&#39;ve just really, um, you know, I&#39;m on Facebook all the time and so I never really got into Instagram until maybe the last couple months I think. But I really, I&#39;m enjoying Instagram, so, wow. I just got on Instagram too at my husband&#39;s B house. He&#39;s like really got to get on it. I&#39;m like, I&#39;m still struggling with it because you know, it&#39;s just so different and I don&#39;t have a lot of pictures and videos so I know that is hard cause then I&#39;ll be like, Oh I want to post this but I don&#39;t have a picture so that I have to like try and figure out a picture to post to with it with what I want to say.</p>

<p>But yeah, I&#39;m enjoying it though. And so, um, yes, go check him out on Instagram as well. So, um, and I will link to everything in the show notes so that you can go to her website and check it out as well. Awesome. Thank you so much. Thanks for being here. Thank you. Thank you so much to Bobby for being with us today, and don&#39;t forget to go grab your debt snowball starter packs so that you can get started on paying off debt as well. </p>

<p>Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debtbundle and I will link to it into the show notes as well. I will talk to you next week. Bye.</p><p>Special Guest: Bobbi Olsen.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>How Bobbi and her husband changed the way they think and handled their money and were able to pay off $50,000 in 2 years.  She started using the debt snowball and realized it was easier than she thought it would be! </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
[Free Debt Snowball Starter Pack](<a href="http://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/" rel="nofollow">www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/</a>)<br>
You Need A Budget Book by Jesse Mecham (aff link) <a href="https://amzn.to/3T4PeIe" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3T4PeIe</a><br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2v82S7E" rel="nofollow">End Financial Stress Now</a> by Emily Guy Burkin<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2TbwI2W" rel="nofollow">Budgeting 101</a> by Michele Cagan</p>

<p>Full Transcript: </p>

<p>Welcome to the money mindset podcast where you will find the inspiration and motivation you need to manage your money better so you can stress less and live the life you want. Today we are talking with Bobby Olsen from the sensible chat podcast and we&#39;re going to talk to her about her favorite budgeting tips and how she paid off $50,000 in about two years. So she gives us some really great advice on how to budget your money better so that you can pay off your debt fast and work on that money mindset so that you can do it without being miserable. Uh, but before we jump into her interview, don&#39;t forget you can get your free debt snowballs starter pack. So debt, snowball worksheets, spreadsheet, checklists, everything you need to get a jumpstart on your debt snowball. It is free and you can grab it at budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle and I will link to it in the show notes as well. So welcome Bobby. Hey Bobby, thanks for being with us today.</p>

<p>Thanks so much for having me, Ashley.</p>

<p>Thanks for being here. And you know, we&#39;ve been talking, chatting, so that my hug, I can&#39;t get my kids outside and have it be quiet for you guys. So I feel like I&#39;ve already learned so much about you, but, um, you know, for our listeners that haven&#39;t heard you before, I know you have a podcast too, but can you tell us just a little bit about yourself and kind of, um, what you do to help people right now?</p>

<p>Sure. Well, my name is Bobby Olson and I&#39;m the host of the sensible chat podcast and I&#39;m also a budget coach. And so, um, I&#39;m really focused on helping people with their money obviously, um, for the podcast that we definitely say that we&#39;re committed to helping people learn positive money mindsets, destroyed debt, reduce financial stress, and break the paycheck to paycheck cycle. So that&#39;s what we&#39;re focused on.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. And tell us a little bit about like, how did you get started with, um, wanting to help people break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck?</p>

<p>Well, you know, I&#39;ve lived paycheck to paycheck all my life. And as most of us, you know, think at least at a certain time in our lives, I, I always just thought it was normal. Yeah. But I spent, you know, my younger years, I&#39;m working in radio and actually my first job was for a, um, financial radio station and I, but I was just so bored with it, uh, that I didn&#39;t want to listen to any of the information. And so I went about my life and kinda got [inaudible] kept getting stuck back into financial radio for some reason. I don&#39;t know why. I guess it was my calling, I don&#39;t know. But, um, eventually I was, uh, producing a financial radio show, which I actually still am at this point. And, um, you know, we were just, we had had our own audio production company prior to me and my husband, and, uh, it had failed.</p>

<p>And so we were in a lot of debt. And so now I&#39;m working this job, which should be my dream job because radio was what I was always passionate about. [inaudible] I just hated it. Um, and I really wanted out, I wanted something more, but we were so far in debt that I couldn&#39;t afford to take the pay cut. And I was just so frustrated and it seemed like we were never getting ahead. We were paying everything on time, but you know, and even paying a little bit on top of everything, but it just felt like we weren&#39;t getting anywhere. And so one day I actually ended up opening up one of the books that was sitting around my office cause we were all, you know, interviewing authors left and right for hinder views on this financial radio show. And so I opened up the book one day and she was talking about the debt snowball method.</p>

<p>She didn&#39;t call it that, but I found out later that&#39;s what it was. And she, she explained how it worked and I thought, no way could it be that easy, no way. And so I actually did it on paper for our situation trying to prove her wrong and I couldn&#39;t, I mean it worked on paper. I thought, Oh my, this is like a lifesaver. How could it be this easy? And I was so excited. I told my husband, we got to do this. And he&#39;s like, all right, cool. You know, whatever. You just like, my husband is like, yeah, whatever you want to do. Yeah, that&#39;s good. So I did it. We, you know, we went on this path and Oh my gosh, it just changed our lives and it was so easy and it was so exciting to me that this could be done and just relieve by stress.</p>

<p>And, and I, I finally had hope that was the biggest thing. It gave me hope so I could see the light at the end of the tunnel at which kept me going through the whole process. And so it was just such a huge life changer for me that I just wanted to scream it from the rooftops and say, Hey, you know, anybody else that&#39;s feeling this way, I can help you stop. Look, it&#39;s this easy, you know? And so yeah, that&#39;s where my passion to help others with it came from. That&#39;s awesome. So how much did you end up paying off? Yeah. Uh, we paid off about it would probably be, you know, I, I was so excited when we got started and everything. I&#39;d never really looked at the numbers, but, um, I would guess it was about $50,000. Wow. And how fast did you do that?</p>

<p>It took us about two years. Wow. We really got serious. Yeah. Yeah. And so now you said your husband was like, sure. Whatever, you know, was he, I&#39;m like, how involved was he did or did you have to like kind of like drag him along? You know, I know I hear so many stories about like, you know, people not being on the same page and everything. We were, I mean, he was all for it, but it was like, okay, I&#39;m all for whatever you&#39;re doing, but you take care of it. Yeah. That sounds like my husband. Yeah. Which in some ways is good because you&#39;re like, okay, I&#39;m just going to create this budget. If you&#39;re telling me you don&#39;t want to be a part of it, I&#39;m not even gonna ask your opinion. We don&#39;t have to fight about it. I&#39;m just going to create it and you&#39;re going to follow it.</p>

<p>That&#39;s fine. You know? And he&#39;s like, okay, I&#39;m good with that. You know, it works out in that way and it&#39;s great. There&#39;s some times when I wished he was a little bit more involved because, you know, then it&#39;d be like, it&#39;d be less stress. Like he&#39;s always asking me do we have money for this or that? And I&#39;m always like, ah, gosh, I hate that question. You know? I mean, it&#39;s so much easier to answer now cause I can just go to the budget. But I, I, it really took me a long time to quote, train him, for lack of a better word, to just, you know, cause I kept having to say, just go and check the budget. Don&#39;t, don&#39;t ask me that. Go and check the budget, you know? And so, but yeah, he&#39;s been totally on board with it, very supportive and uh, we&#39;ve really worked together to make it happen.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. So what were some of the things that you did to pay off this debt? So you made, you know that you use the debt snowball, it sounds like, and you know, worked on a budget and everything, but what were kind of the, some of the practical steps that you did to make it go so fast?</p>

<p>Yeah. Well, one of the things that I did, the biggest thing was I budgeted high for every bill and every expense. So I just took like the last, I looked at my electric bill and I said, what&#39;s the highest amount it&#39;s been in the last 12 months. Okay. 130 bucks. So that&#39;s what I budget every month, even though, you know, during the summer it would be half that. And so every time that that money came in under budget, I could save the difference towards, yeah, I could put the difference towards my debt snowball. Awesome. Yeah. And so that really worked for me in all my bills, all my expenses, you know, our grocery budget, whatever it was. If there was money there that didn&#39;t get used, it went towards our debt.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. And so did you, um, you don&#39;t track your spending like before whenever you got started and were you like shocked about any category that was higher than you expected? Yeah, we totally, well, we&#39;ve always done that. We&#39;ve always tracked our spending. Um, that was the one thing that we did even before we got on a formal budget because we were just always, you know, didn&#39;t want to be negative in our bank account. So we were always very good about that. But, and so it wasn&#39;t shocking, but it was just the biggest change that we had to make was like everybody else. It was the eating out. Yup. Same here. I&#39;m still like struggle with it. Yeah. Yeah. It&#39;s the biggest struggle for sure. And so that&#39;s what we had to reign in the most. And you know, we knew it, we just didn&#39;t want to do it. But once we were able to get on a formal budget, the good news was, this was the other thing that we did to, um, really follow the budget and, you know, pay off things quickly.</p>

<p>Is that right? Instead of, because before we would just, we would pay the bills, everything needed to be paid and then the rest was our play money and that was it. And so we paint it. When we actually started budgeting, do now we give ourselves an allowance. So every week we got a certain amount, but that was it. If there was extra money quote laying around, no, it went to our debt snowball. It didn&#39;t go to our eating out or whatever. And so that was the other way that we curved it and still had so we could still, you know, go out once in a while here or there, but only if we stayed within our budgeted money for that purpose.</p>

<p>[inaudible] awesome. So did you, um, do anything like, um, cash envelopes or,<br>
yeah, um, I actually started with that because, um, when I first made the budget I didn&#39;t know about that. And then when I got really excited about making a budget and paying everything off, I found out from my mom, she, she lived, um, you know, across the country at the time. And so, you know, I wasn&#39;t right there next door, so we weren&#39;t interacting every day. So I didn&#39;t know that somebody had given her financial peace university. Yeah. And I was like, mom, why didn&#39;t you share this with me? Yeah. And so one time when I was visiting her, she actually gave me the program and so I, I went through that program and yeah. Then found out about the cash envelope system and I thought, wow, that was, that really, really helped us a lot to stay on target and especially, and the ending. But what I found out through the process was it was really great.<br>
The cash envelope system is a really great concept, but we kept like, we would go to the grocery store and they go, Oh, we forgot the Pash. Oh no, carry it with us. We had it like in our, in our, um, filing cabinet home. We had all these envelope filing because we didn&#39;t want to carry all this cash all the time. Oh yeah. We kept going places and we were like, we don&#39;t have the cash. What are we going to do? We drive home. Who used the car and it got really complicated for us and not positions. Oh, okay. We, I, I was perfect for, I&#39;m like [inaudible] there&#39;s gotta be something where we can do this digitally, like a digital cash envelope system. And then I found why NAB, you need a budget. And that&#39;s what worked for me and just totally [inaudible] change things because now we still knew the quote, passion envelope system, but it&#39;s just digital and full of cash.</p>

<p>Oh, awesome. Yeah, I&#39;ve run into, I still run into that for certain things, but I actually have like, um, cash envelope wallet and so I just carry like certain categories with me all the time, like food. Um, but yeah, th the, it&#39;ll be like, I&#39;ll leave one here because I didn&#39;t, I don&#39;t want to carry that much cash and I don&#39;t need it right now and then when I need it, I&#39;ve<br>
forgot it. Yeah. [inaudible] yeah, definitely.</p>

<p>Um, so how has your mindset changed since you started changing the way you budget and you&#39;ve paid off your debt?<br>
Oh my gosh. I mean, it&#39;s like night and day. Um, I mean the mindset changed for me as soon as I found the hope, then it was like the world is my oyster. I mean, I really bought into, you can afford anything, just not necessarily everything. And so how, you know, having the freedom to decide what I really wanted and going for that because I was raised with a poor mindset. I mean, I just, you&#39;re poor. You can&#39;t afford anything and not the way it&#39;s always going to be, period. End of story. And so when I finally figured out that that wasn&#39;t the case, it was just so freeing and so exciting and Mmm. You know, discovering all these different [inaudible] that&#39;s tricks on, on how to make it work just really freed my mind. And, um, yeah, so, so the mindset just went from, okay, you know, hopeless to hope. That&#39;s the biggest thing.</p>

<p>And that&#39;s really what I try to, um, help people with is get them to realize that there is hope and then everything else will follow. So that is, that&#39;s awesome. Um, what tips do you have for somebody that&#39;s wanting to pay off debt or manage their money better? Like what are some of your top tips?</p>

<p>Okay, well, the, the top one is, you know, the one that we talked about earlier, just budgeting high for everything so that you, you know, have that money all the time. It&#39;s kind of tricking yourself into saving, for lack of a better term. And then of course, the allowance that I mentioned, that&#39;s been a really good one for us. Um, um, also, you know, budgeting low for your income. So if you have, you know, if your income, Barry&#39;s always low. Um, and I, I&#39;ve found that that works on two levels because not only does it, you know, it just, it stops you from not having enough money. You know, if you have a budget in place and your paycheck comes in lower than expected, then you&#39;re kind of freaking out, always at least that amount, then higher is always gravy. Um, beyond that, let&#39;s see, what else have we on?</p>

<p>Mmm. Yeah. I mean, you know, we went, we didn&#39;t really there. There&#39;s a lot of things that you always hear, like, you know, take your lunch to work and don&#39;t buy coffee out and everything. And we were already kind of doing that. Mmm. So those things didn&#39;t change for us, but really focusing on the goals because [inaudible] getting out of debt. I mean, when you&#39;re trying to get out of debt, obviously that&#39;s your first priority. Okay. Mmm. And so just throw everything chords that that you possibly can, but you also have to have a reason why. Like what do you want beyond that? Because if you don&#39;t, then you know, easy to fall off the track and just say, forget it. I want what I want and you know, so I&#39;m just gonna no, not get out of debt. And then of course you, you add it later. Oh, absolutely.</p>

<p>What are some things that you did to kind of stay motivated the those two years?</p>

<p>Okay. Really focused again on, well, for me the biggest motivation was just knowing that when I finally got out of debt, I could decide whether I wanted to stay at this job or take another one. It was freedom for me, my biggest motivator was the freedom that was going to come out of it. And really that&#39;s been a motivator, know for everything. And I, I mean, I tell people that all the time. It&#39;s like, I mean, if you control your money, then you control your life. And I just felt so out of control over my whole life that that was the biggest thing I wanted to change. And so, yeah, really just Oh thing on how much freedom I could have if I just had or resources to decide how I was going to live my life.</p>

<p>[inaudible] I always say that it gives you options, so like if you want to quit your job, you know, your story is very similar to mine actually. And so, um, you know, I just always tell people that it just gives you options like, and it gives you, like you said, freedom, but it&#39;s like the freedom to make the choices that you want, whatever they are. Like, it gives you that opportunity, so. Absolutely. That&#39;s great. Um, do you have any last words of wisdom or advice for somebody? Like, just, uh, get them to do it. Just get them moving. Just really focus on what it is that you want out of life. You know, I&#39;ve decided, I mean, I&#39;ve, of course you read this everywhere. It&#39;s not me that decided it, but I&#39;ve really bought into the mindset that money is just a tool that&#39;s the resource. You know, there&#39;s all this shame around things and you know, I wish that I could just take that away from people because no matter what, you know, the place you&#39;re in today, you can change it and it doesn&#39;t make you a bad person. Oh, made financial mistakes. I mean, it&#39;s just the same thing as using a hammer wrong. You know, I mean, it&#39;s that simple. So I don&#39;t feel shame when I use a hammer wrong. And I don&#39;t think anybody should feel shame when they, you know, use their money wrong. We all knew that stuff.</p>

<p>And you know, but wrong is relative. It&#39;s all about what you want out of life. And so if you can focus on what your goals and dreams are, then [inaudible] budget is just a plan to help you reach that goal. And that&#39;s the [inaudible] the biggest thing, reason that I tell people, you know, to budget and, and do spending plans and everything is because that&#39;s the best way that you&#39;re going to reach your goal and get what you want out of life. It&#39;s not about restricting what you do, it&#39;s about the freedom to choose in your life.</p>

<p>That&#39;s awesome. Um, and I did not warn you of this, so you&#39;ve added thinking about it for a second, but I always ask people what is their favorite nonfiction books? You&#39;ve probably heard that, you know, most millionaires read like one book a month or something like that. And so, you know, I always like to motivate people to, um, find a book to just improve their lives and stop wasting so much time watching TV and things. So do you have a favorite nonfiction book?</p>

<p>I actually do. And I was prepared for that because I&#39;ve been listening to your podcast, so I know it&#39;s asked that question. And so I thought a lot about it and I was like, wow, I actually have free. So have you [inaudible] they all serve different purposes for me. Why NAB new need a budget? It was a book that changed my life because I had sound the app, what? I couldn&#39;t figure out how to use it. I didn&#39;t understand the mindset behind it. Different from really traditional budgeting. There a mindset is that you can only budget money that you already have today in your account. And so for me, there&#39;s a difference now between budgeting and and a spending plan because the budget is where your money is today. That&#39;s in your account. That spending plan is a plan of what you&#39;re going to do with the money that is coming from your neck.<br>
PayTech Oh, that&#39;s interesting. That&#39;s good. I didn&#39;t even know there was a book app obviously, but I didn&#39;t know the right, the book totally changed my life and like I said, I could not figure out how to use the software or the app before I read the book. When I read it, Oh, it was like [inaudible] I get it. And it helped me really understand budgeting in a way bigger, ah, like longer term than just month to month because month to month budgeting cuffing me up, you know, the oil paint is come up every quarter and things like that. I just kept forgetting the budget from them and so why not really helped me focus on, you know, long term budgeting, how to break it down and just, you know, there were so many wonderful tools in there. </p>

<p>It changed my life and I recommend that book to everybody regardless of whether you&#39;re going to use their budgeting app or not.</p>

<p>It just changes your mindset about money and my view. Oh awesome. Yeah. And then the second one is a book called N financial stress now by Emily Guy Birken. And I read this book a couple years ago before I started the podcast and when I started it I reached out to her and she actually responded and I was so honored because I got to interview her for the podcast and it&#39;s, her book is just for any income level because I was at the, you know, low income level and sell. That&#39;s who I kind of target with my podcast and her book is just so freeing for anybody at any level because it&#39;s not about know hips and tricks that you might only be able to do if you have this much money or that much money, whatever. No, it&#39;s about money mindsets and strategies. It just helped you think differently about your money and figure out how to, it empowers you instead of being feeling like a victim about your money, like there&#39;s nothing you can do about it. It changes your mindset to what can I do about it regardless of what money I have or do not have. And I thought that was a fabulous tool. That&#39;s great. Yeah, that&#39;s, that&#39;s exactly, you know what we&#39;re trying to do with this podcast and what you&#39;re doing with your podcast and everything, so I think that is awesome. I&#39;ll have to check that out. Oh, and what was the third one? Oh, and the third one is budgeting one Oh one by Michelle Kagan. </p>

<p>She&#39;s written a ton of great books, but budgeting one Oh one is, it&#39;s, it&#39;s like your toolbox. It really gives you the specific, uh, strategies, different methods, um, and really great tips and tricks for creating your budget and following your budget, getting out of guts, smart spending, all of that stuff. Oh that&#39;s great. Cause you know, there are different methods to do it. And what I try and tell people is just find what works for you. It may be a little bit of what I say, maybe a little bit of what Dave Ramsey says or what you say. You know, it&#39;s really just finding a system that will work for you. Cause that&#39;s really all that matters is that it works for you and that it&#39;ll help you do it. Yeah, exactly. Achieve your goal. There&#39;s no right or wrong way. Yeah, I agree. Because Dave Ramsey, I love Dave Ramsey and, but there&#39;s so many people that are so willing to go gazelle like that.</p>

<p>And then there&#39;s other people that just, you know, can&#39;t, I mean I felt like, nah, I need a little bit of a Slack in there. Otherwise it&#39;s like a crash diet for me. I&#39;m just not going to do it, you know? And so, but yeah, I mean, whatever works for you is just, that&#39;s fabulous. And look, go down that road, you&#39;re out what it is. Yeah, exactly. You know, and everybody processes information different. Like, um, you know, I always recommend to have people write their budget down, especially at first just because it ingrains it into your mind, but some people like spreadsheets, you know, some people like apps. So it&#39;s really just finding what works for you. So that&#39;s a great book as well. And just finding different, you know, researching different methods to see if there&#39;s something that if you can take a little bit from each one and kind of put it together, make your own thing.</p>

<p>Before we go, where can people find you and learn some more about you? Oh, they can go to my <a href="mailto:website@sensiblechat.com" rel="nofollow">website@sensiblechat.com</a> and that&#39;s sensible with a C. so it&#39;s like, since [inaudible] awesome. We&#39;ll chat back up and we will link to it in the show notes as well. Are you, um, do you have a favorite social media platform? Are you on anything? Yeah, I&#39;m on Facebook. Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn so you can find me all those busy. Yeah, I love Instagram. I&#39;ve just really, um, you know, I&#39;m on Facebook all the time and so I never really got into Instagram until maybe the last couple months I think. But I really, I&#39;m enjoying Instagram, so, wow. I just got on Instagram too at my husband&#39;s B house. He&#39;s like really got to get on it. I&#39;m like, I&#39;m still struggling with it because you know, it&#39;s just so different and I don&#39;t have a lot of pictures and videos so I know that is hard cause then I&#39;ll be like, Oh I want to post this but I don&#39;t have a picture so that I have to like try and figure out a picture to post to with it with what I want to say.</p>

<p>But yeah, I&#39;m enjoying it though. And so, um, yes, go check him out on Instagram as well. So, um, and I will link to everything in the show notes so that you can go to her website and check it out as well. Awesome. Thank you so much. Thanks for being here. Thank you. Thank you so much to Bobby for being with us today, and don&#39;t forget to go grab your debt snowball starter packs so that you can get started on paying off debt as well. </p>

<p>Go to budgetsmadeeasy.com/debtbundle and I will link to it into the show notes as well. I will talk to you next week. Bye.</p><p>Special Guest: Bobbi Olsen.</p>]]>
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  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#20 How to Pay Off Debt While Still Eating Healthy</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:subtitle>How John and Rosemary paid off $66,000 in 32 months while still eating healthy and not sacrificing nutrition to do it. </itunes:subtitle>
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  <description>How John and Rosemary paid off $66,000 in 32 months while still eating healthy and not sacrificing nutrition to do it. 
Rosemary and John, cofounders of Flourish Fundamentals are both Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioners. They are helping the FIRE community optimize their health as much as they optimize their finances. 
You can learn more about them on their website: flourishfundamentals.com
and sign up for their 30 day reset program here: https://www.flourishfundamentals.com/flourish-fundamentals-30-day-reset-calling-beta-testers/
Resources mentioned in this episode:
The Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin  (https://amzn.to/2ts9QDf)(affiliate link)
Free Meal Planning Sheet (www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/mealplan)
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Hey, today we are talking to Rosemary and John about how they paid off their debt and how they are optimizing health and nutrition for the fire community. So welcome Rosemary and John, thank you for having us. Thank you, Ashley. Thanks for being here. And just to, before we jump in, can you guys kind of tell me about yourselves and kind of what you guys do? Yeah, absolutely. So, uh, I guess that you could call us the token, uh, nutrition people in the [inaudible] space. Um, we both sort of got into this financial independence step free community after we were getting out of debt and we had this background in nutrition and saw that a lot of the recommendations around reducing expenses involved like just eat rice and beans. And that was a little bit, yeah, no, no. So, um, we realized that there was really a need for people to talk about the importance of your own health and be able to teach people to empower them to be able to take care of their own health so that, um, they come, you know, they're more in a position of power when it comes to their own health and not just fingers crossed. 
Hope you don't get sick. Yeah, yeah. Just not eating ramen noodles and all right. They definitely, there's a sweet spot where we wish we can talk about more later, where you can keep costs down pretty low without sacrificing health. So for example, before we started getting out of debt, when we examined our grocery budget, we were like anywhere from $1,000 a month to 1500 for two bucks. And then we cut that in half. And then we were able to do that and we thought, you know what, let's try to cut it in half again just to see if we can do it. And we did. Um, and I'd say now we sort of settled between 400 to $500, but it's still may sound like a lot to some people listening, but we can get into more about what that actually means. Yeah, that's really not bad. 
I mean, for most people that I talk to, and it's true for myself, um, you know, with that was our biggest category was, um, of course it wasn't as healthy as you guys were at, you know, as fast food, convenience foods, things like that. But, and so that is definitely an area where people can improve, um, with managing their money as well as their health. So I'm so glad that, um, you guys are doing that and, you know, giving people other options besides just rice and beans. Yes. Yeah. And it doesn't have to be, you know, crazy expensive. We're not talking whole foods every week. There's other strategies to do it, like buying a whole cow or that sort of thing. So anyway, we'll get there, we'll get pasta, there'll be delicious and that's, yeah, exactly. Yeah. I would not compromise if this was not delicious food. 
So before we jump into eating healthy and cutting costs on food, why don't we jump into like your debt pay off story? How much did you guys pay off and [inaudible] how fast did you do it? So we started with 66 in debt, um, a mix of credit cards and some family loans. By the way, there was a little bit for me, mass majority, I made much more or much less intelligent choices. Yeah. But we got that paid off in 32 months was that was the total and most of the time we were on just one salary. Right. Wow, that's pretty amazing. So were you guys, um, just tell me how this started. Were you guys on the same page or was it one of your guys's idea and then kinda had to drag the other one in? Yeah, I mean, I think we were, we, the way I was raised with sort of the Dave Ramsey, you know, never like credit cards were a bad word in our family. 
So I never got into debt and never had a credit card. And John had come from sort of a different position. I was raised to believe that credit cards are an emergency fund and so sure enough I used them as such. Yeah. Yeah. I believe your dad had once said that he was doing Dave Ramsey before Dave Ramsey was doing. Dave Ramsey describes that. Yeah. So my family's always been really frugal. But Dave Ramsey actually sort of part of our story, right? Yeah. That's sort of how it started is um, well we went to go see a financial planner actually before we got married. We knew we were going to get married and so we wanted to discuss just sort of like what should we be doing now financially. And that was I think where we had the first conversation about how much debt was on the table. Couples normally have that conversation like when they're alone. And in the first time that number was named was like the three of us in a room. And I was like, Oh wow, okay. Yeah. Cause I think you have like 40,000 at that point or something like that. 
Right before we got married. So anyway, but I, but I knew like, that's okay, we can, we can figure this out, we know what to do, we just won't spend any excess money, obviously we'll get this paid off first thing. And like, I knew we, we knew we wanted to get married. So at that point it was like package deal, husband plus debt hashtag that fluff. But yeah, soon after we got married, I picked up Dave Ramsey's book, total money makeover. I don't even remember where I found it. If it was like a little free library or the literal literal literal library, that's hard to say. Um, but I just sort of read through it and then I think John picked it up. I hadn't been on the coffee table one day and yeah, I had just been flipping through it, so I left it out. 
Yeah. And John was flipping through it and, uh, you know, started reading it in earnest and I remember we were both linked together in bed one evening and you sort of shut the book and you looked at me and said, okay, I'm ready, let's do this. And I was like, really? Wow. I didn't even have to, yeah, that's awesome. You guys were like together on the same page pretty much from the get go, so that I'm sure that makes it so much easier and faster to get it done. Definitely. Well, I think you'd always all always wanted to pay off debt. I tried many 
times, but it never stuck, um, for number of reasons which we can get into. But um, but yeah, the sort of, the way he had laid it out in the book, it was just very, very compelling to me. And once that light bulb went off, I was all in. And that's how I tend to be about things. If, if something is compelling and makes sense to me, I will, Oh, you know, I can turn on a dime on things. 
[inaudible] that sounds like me where I did two things. Yes. Yeah, that makes sense. If they make sense. Yeah. John's very persuaded by logic. If you're familiar with Gretchen Rubin, she has this framework of like four tendencies for different types of people. And John is the question or type, which means he'll do something if it makes sense to him, but not if it doesn't. So for him reading that logic of like, here's how the flow works, here's why it works and here's the steps. For him it was like, Oh, that's enough. I'm convinced. Okay, let's do it. So we sort of dove in and started making a plan, examining our expenses, expenses, looking at what are the things that we really need, what are the things that are actually just wants, right. 
And that goalpost changes. I think as you know, as you get more into this, what is, what was once considered a need. A lot of those things that moved over into the want column and that that one column keeps getting bigger or things that were in the need column that need copy gets smaller and smaller. So I think that's one of the main thing is it changed. And I mean really it was, it really was shocking to us, at least to me. Um, just how much a difference, making a budget changed our spending. Be more intentional about spending. I mean, at the time we were both full time making over a hundred K a year combined and there was nothing left at the end of the month. There was always more month than money left. Um, and we weren't spending like crazy either. I mean, 
yeah, we only had one car. It was 2006. 
Right. But it was just, you know, no mortgage, Nope, no kids. But it was just all the little stuff. 
Oh, I want this book. We'll go on Amazon and get it. Yeah, go get a manicure, whatever. Lots of fiddly little stuff that you, ah, where did all the money go? So what were some of the, some of the things that you, um, cut back on or changed in order to manage your money better and get the debt paid off? 
Sure. Um, well definitely having a budget was huge. Um, doing the, initially we did the Dave Ramsey thing where you actually had physical envelopes where you put cash into each spending category at the end of the month and then only spend from those cash envelopes. We eventually ended up switching to simple the online bank and stat and doing sort of online digital envelopes. We'd still earmark money at the end of the month because what we found is in practice, even though using cash does happen, a more emotional sort of visceral component, which sort of as Dave Ramsey would say, makes you probably spend less money in practice. It didn't really work cause we often forget the envelopes when we'd go out. You know, if you're buying something online, it was hard to then sort of square the budget that way. So w we're big believers in this idea that the imperfect method you stick to is far better than the perfect method. You don't actually do. 
Absolutely. So as long as you're doing something right direction that's more important. 
That definitely helped was having that the earmark money and then realizing, okay, our grocery money is spent so we know we're sticking to this Kansas sardines we have in the, 
yeah, in terms of like what were the actual things that we cut out of that as expenses. At the beginning, it was all those frivolous little things that we didn't, the obvious stuff, you know, the low hanging fruit. Like, okay, do we need to go out to the movie theater every once in a while or can we rent DVDs from the library and watch them at home and make our fancy popcorn. We do this fancy popcorn that we make at home with them. Butter and truffle oil and we like sort of relish that. It's like so fancy popcorn. Um, so we started doing movies at home. Um, anytime we wanted a book we request it from the library or if they had a library already, just get it. The library. Um, 
quick pro tip, if people don't use their libraries, this is mind blowing to me, but can go to library and if they don't have the book you can just request for them to get it. And I've never had them not get the book I requested. I've requested probably a dozen by this point, you know, my tax dollars at work I guess. But uh, yeah. And other quick tangent for those that maybe are used to buying books and then writing in their books. That's sort of one of my meditations is underlining sentences. So that took a little bit of an adjustment for me, but it's actually now it's a pro instead of a con because what I find is that by having to write out quotes that I like from books, I actually increased my connection with the material and my ability to remember it. Whereas before I just underline it and then forget it. So, 
so other things are, we were going to, we originally were thinking about, Oh, do we need a second car? But then we decided, Nope, we'll stick to this one, make different places. So we just made it work. You know, one person would drop off the other and go to walk or we'd walk. Um, what else did we do? We certainly examined our grocery budget and tried to look at some other ways to, um, reduce, we can come back to that. That's, that's a big HBO now. 
Um, Amazon prime, Netflix, Hulu. I mean we had like all four of 'em 
piddly little things, but all those little things added up to big results. Yes. 
Well, one thing we did eventually was, um, stopped going to get our haircut at a barber shop or a hairdresser. I started just buzzing my hair instead. I like having shorter hair anyway. And so we just bought ourselves a pair of Clippers at Costco and it pays [inaudible]. 
Yeah. And for a while I was watching YouTube videos on how to cut my own hair. Yes or no. Now I'm like, eh, I'll go get my haircut. I'll just do it less frequently. Um, so those were some of the small things in terms of the [inaudible], the big, big one being housing. Um, we did actually leave that place. We were living at the time because John left a job that wasn't really working out for him. Um, and we moved in with family who had a baby on the way and we said, Hey, can we come? You know, we'll help look after the baby if we can stay in the little, you know, they had a mother in law suite in the back of the house and they said, of course, come on down. So we actually live with them for a little over a year. I was in the bro pair, so, um, that was honestly such a, uh, that was very, very generous of them to let us stay with them. But then not having that rent payment for awhile meant that we could, you know, uh, pay down debt at a pretty Swift rate, um, with, with, even though we were down to one salary at that point. That's awesome. So that really, I'm sure that really helped speed up the process and get this knocked out even down to one income. That's pretty amazing. Now what were some of the things with meal prepping and food that you want to talk about to cut costs but yet not compromise your health? 
Sure. I think the number one thing to point out first is that the focus should always be on what's called nutrient density and not on calories. So a lot of people will say, Oh, this meal hasX  calories, so it's good or it's great, or it's this many dollars per calorie. And from our perspective as people trained in nutrition, that is just not the ideal way to go. 
Yeah, you really want to focus on nutrient density, um, which you know, is just what, what's going to get you. So, you know, you have macro nutrients like proteins, fats and carbohydrates, and then you have micronutrients, which are all the vitamins and minerals. So when we're talking about nutrient density, we're talking about those micronutrients there. So, um, so for us that looked like we were, uh, you can, for example, we talked about this a little bit earlier, but buying like a whole cow or a half a cow or even a quarter cow, you can go in with people and split up the meat. That really reduces the cost to, you know, four or five, three or four or $5 per pound depending on where you are. And you can still get really good quality, uh, grass fed, grass finished meat and support farmers who are raising their animals. In a way that is sustainable and not just sustainable sealant land, but is actually restoring the land so that it's better for everybody. Um, we started actually sprouting lentils and using that to stretch ground meat, which sounds weird, but in sprouting them, you are increasing the nutrient nutrition in the bioavailability, nerdy. You're increasing how your, how your body is able to absorb and use the nutrients 
gained. The, you know, you can sprout, you can soak and sprout, you know, all sorts of things. But basically you're doing is you're tricking that seed into thinking that it's already planted in the ground. And so then it will sort of turn off its natural defenses because normally the problem with legumes and nuts and seeds is that they have this protective shell that makes them really hard to digest. And so even people say, Oh, there's all these vitamins and minerals in these foods. You can't really get at it unless you do some, some sort of trickery. And so that's what the soaking the sprouting. 
So that's, yeah, so we did the sprouted lentils and we would make that one for one with ground beef. Um, I really like fermenting vegetables. So we would do our own sauerkraut and stuff, which is a natural and super cheap source of probiotics. Super simple, really intimidating. It's literally cabbage, salt and amaze and dark and time and time and not much time. Yeah. Yeah. Um, let's see, what else were we doing? We definitely changed where we were shopping, so I'd say before we, 
I mean it was, we just didn't really give it a second thought as to where we were shopping. So buying more in bulk, um, buying locally and in season makes things a lot cheaper. That was super helpful. Um, and then, you know, since then I've been doing a lot more sort of bartering and trading, which is new to me, but I know people have been doing that for centuries. Like for example, um, uh, this summer I have been helping out with, uh, actually where we get our meat, our farmers, they invited me to come help. Well, I offered to volunteer at their booth and they said, we'll pay you, you've all, and told them, I volunteered them that I was going to help them at their farmer's market and they said, we'll pay you. So I basically just get paid in meat now. And so that's also, it does help reduce our grocery budget. 
That was that. And then just a quick tangent on meat. So we've said that word a few times. I know that's kind of a controversial topic to a lot of people. We intentionally do consume it as nutritionist because it's one of the most nutrient dense foods on the planet, especially things like liver. Um, you know, people talk about quote unquote super foods and they'll mention things like Asai berries or KL. I was like, those things are great, but if you were to put a table of nutrients and put those side aside, they don't hold a candle. 
Yeah. Nutrient density. Like we can get into organ meats too as another cheap source of great nutrition. But, um, there's another, uh, another functional nutrition therapy practitioner of there. And she, she was said, um, I'm pretty sure that all the, the like answers to nutritional problems can be solved with liver. I wish it were ice cream, but I'm pretty sure it's liver. He's so much better if it was ice cream. So much better. Yeah. Actually that was another one. We did start cooking a little bit more with organ meats, which are, the benefit of those is that they're so rich in nutrients and they're really good for you, so likes, they're cheaper, they're cheaper. So, um, if you eat heart, it's good for your heart. If you eat liver, it's good for your liver, et cetera. Um, and I think, you know, especially in our culture, a lot of us are really squeamish about organ meats, but there's ways that you can prepare them that aren't too freaky, that don't taste weird and that you know, your, your kids and your husband will eat too and not know. 
For example, you can mix in a little bit of like meatballs for example. And you know, spices and herbs and things that can help cover up the flavor. Resurrection. She wrote a whole post on the blog about easy ways to eat liver and other organ meats. Yeah. Cause I hate liver so I'm always trying to find, I know, but I know it's so good for me so I'm always trying to find ways to get it in my diet. She actually makes her own liver pills. Yeah. I make desiccated liver capsules cause I'm a weirdo. But anyway, it was expensive. You can make them really cheap. Yeah. This is, this is me being like I'm not going to pay $50 for a bottle of 120 capsules of desiccated liver. I'm going to figure out how to do it myself. $5. And you've got some resources on your website that kind of gives people these ideas cause I'm like, Oh yeah, eat liver. 
I don't like it. Yes. Yeah. Actually so, well, one thing that is a really good kind of introduction is if you make like a chicken liver Patty, if you just Google parte, it's basically liver plus butter plus herbs and you can do that on, you know, carrot sticks or cucumber slices and it's sort of like a good little dip. Yeah, it's really good. Chicken liver in general is much more mild livers of quote unquote ruminant animals. Cows. Yeah. Yeah. I'd say if you're starting out do a chicken liver potty, that's a good way to dip your toes in the water. Yeah, you're really liked me and you really, really can't do any of the tastes. I think it is worth it to get like a in capsule form because it's just so good for you. Like livers rich in B vitamins, which give you energy, iron Coleen. 
It's good for the brain. It's good for your own liver and your own body's detox mechanisms. So yeah, huge fan of organ meat over here coming up. So Oregon meats buying a whole cow soaking and sprouting lentils. Oh, a quick thing about the lentils and the ground meat. So ground meat is another strategy on itself on its own because it tends to be much, much cheaper per pound. Yes. We switched from like steaks, you know, I'm doing more things with gardens. Yeah. I love me a good steak but more expensive per pound. So yeah, having ground meat most of the time doing meatballs, things like that. Yeah. Now what about, um, cause I kinda switched to like ground chicken and ground pork. Is that healthier than like ground beef? Insane, kind of the same idea or no 
fear? I'd say they're fine. Um, yeah, so there is this notion that red meat is unhealthy. That's a really, really common belief. It's just flat out not true. There's a lot of myths. That's why a whole other podcast, we don't have that here, but you can easily, you can easily look into, um, there's, there was a lot of shoddy science, a lot of vested interests, um, a lot of politics, so into that. So, um, as so I'm a certified in functional nutrition. I can tell you that's just not true. Um, but if you don't like it, that's, I think often that's where I come to is if you like other meats more or if you like fish like fine, go for it. Um, or if you are a vegetarian, like there are ways to at least optimize your nutrition within those restrictions. You know, having more eggs for example, or having full fat dairy. 
So other than those things, um, yeah, it really, I think it was mostly sort of the aggregation of small gains that really just added up over time and then continually going back and looking at our budget again. Every month we do a thing called open loops for each week we'll meet and have sort of a budget party and we'll look at, we'll get all our spending for the week. We'll review upcoming events or upcoming expenses and sort of make it fun. Um, which actually that's another sort of tangent. One of the things we did while we were paying off debt to help make that fine as every time we'd make a debt payment, we'd literally do a dance, 
happy dance, happy dance. We'd like hold hands and jump up and down and it sounds so ridiculous, but we look forward to that so much like every time that we, you know, every time that our paychecks would come over, like yes, we get a pay off debt and do her happy dance. And so, um, I like anytime you're trying to establish a habit like that, I would highly recommend the happy dance because it just, it gives you a little burst of excitement and it, it's, once you, it makes you want to do that behavior more. Yeah. She helps create a new habit loop. Yes. Highly recommend the happy dance. I think there's a video of it on our Instagram now. Do you guys have any tips or advice for couples that maybe aren't quite on the same page of maybe just like working together compromising so that you can reach your bigger goal? 
Yeah, this is a really, I think, important and interesting topic to me. Um, I really think it's important not to push, not to nag, you know, each person has to come to this on their own and they have to have buy-in intrinsically. In fact, we could talk more about the Gretchen Rubin four tenancies again here I think because especially if your partner is what's called a rebel, the more you push and the more you talk about this, the more they're going to resist and push back. 
So just stepping back a bit. So, um, I mentioned Gretchen Rubin earlier, but she's, um, an author and also a podcast or who has developed, she had wrote a book called the four tendencies. So it's this framework of four different tendencies of people and they differ based on how they respond to expectation. So she says like internal expectation might be like a new year's resolution, whereas external expectation could be like a work deadline or something your partner wants you to do. Um, so there are these four types which are upholder, obliger, questioner and rebel. And so they'll uphold both internal and external expectations. So you give them something to do, no problem, checkbox, they'll do it. Don't even have to ask them again. Um, anything they want to do, like adopting a new habit, done, no problem. Obligers or aspire to be. How do you just, you just make up your mind and you just do it. 
How is that possible? Um, and then you've got the obligers. So for them it's, it's hard for them to accomplish something, uh, less. They know they have accountability, so they'll do the things that are external expectations, but it's hard for them to stick to internal expectation. Then there's the question or type, which like, John, uh, they will do something if essentially what they're doing is turning it into internal expectation if they go, yep, that makes sense. With my logic and the way I see the world. And if it doesn't make sense, then they're like, well that's silly. You know, that that doesn't make sense. So that is external. If it's a rule or if somebody in authority says you have to do this thing, if it doesn't make sense, I'm not going to do it. Yeah. And then the last one is the rebel type. 
So rebels, which is what I am, I'm resist internal and external expectations. So you can tell rebels if you say, I, you know, you can't do that or I bet you couldn't do X. The rebel will say, watch me. So I have, um, you know, one thing I always say is that it's best to just assume that everybody is a rebel and then you'll always do, it's a safe assumption. So I think that in doing that, you, you always have to make the rebel think that it's their idea. They have to come to that conclusion on their own. So one exercise that I think is really useful that I heard about, um, uh, the, have you heard the, you've seen the plane with fire documentary? Um, I haven't watched it now. Okay. So, well anyway, in that when the husband in that documentary is bringing up to the wife, uh, what, what he had to do was make a list of the 10 things that make you happiest. 
And so it was like, you know, spending time with my baby, like spending time with my husband, hearing my baby laugh, you know, a glass of wine, chocolate, whatever. And then the approach became, okay, how can we get more of these things that make us the happiest in our life? And so viewing it that way, how can we get more of what we already want instead of where should we we or should we cut money? Right? You know, where should we cut expenses? It's about, okay, let's figure out how to strategize to get more of the things that we want. So like for us, that was freedom, fulfillment, being close to family, being able to work from home. And so we've made a lot of sacrifices and a lot of decisions for us to get more of those things that we want. So I'd say if you approach your partner, have proposed that exercise, say like, look, let's both take a piece of paper, we'll go away, we'll write down the 10 things that bring us the most joy and then we'll come together and compare our lists and that. 
Yeah, that that's what they did in playing with fire. That's what they talked about in the book that they wrote. And I really liked that because, because when you approach things from what do you want, how do you get more of the things that you want? It's something that you're running towards, not something that you're running away from. Right. And it just seems more like a world of possibility and there's room for creativity and figuring out how do we do this rather than, okay we have to cut more money. I guess we're really, you know, we really need to cut out spending here. Like that's not motivating or not sustainable. Exactly. Cause inevitably is it both 
partners are not fully [inaudible]. You know, in it, one partner who doesn't really want to do it, we'll do it for a while, to a certain extent to make the other partner happy, but the whole time it'll be a sacrifice and it'll be something they're doing for the other person, which has resentment and resistance and it's just not a recipe for a happy marriage or getting out of debt or 
building financial independence. So, so I'd say, yeah, the first thing is that list of the 10, you know, the 10 things that make you the most happy. The second thing I would say is, is um, figuring out if those four tendencies, which are partners, you might already have a good idea of what they are, but Gretchen Rubin does have a quiz on her website, um, which is free. You can find out which one you are, but if you know what type they are, then you can, um, you can persuade them in a way that fits their type. And you can also help build systems that will work for both of you with, but with what your types are. So for John, he was persuaded by the logic of the Dave Ramsey baby steps for another questioner. Like John maybe looking at the math of, okay, look, if we push hard, we could get all of this paid off in this amount of time and then we'd have more freedom to do X, Y, and Z. You know, if it's a rebel, it's the, what do you want more of? Like how can we be creative to get more freedom and letting you be yourself. 
And I think the rebel to adding in that, you know, an element of credit card companies or the man, you know, they want you to be in debt. 
Yeah. They want you to be controlled. That's how you get a rebel to control you and you, you're not gonna, you're not the type of person to be controlled are you? Then it's really hard. You probably can't do it. Yeah. And then so with the obliger, it's a matter of accountability. So, Mmm. You know, building in those systems of maybe it's art, like our open loops meetings where once a week you're coming together and discussing these things, the upholders, they'll just do it. You don't have to worry about that. So that is really good advice. Um, so do I even need to ask you what your favorite nonfiction book is? I think we have a good idea that I have probably gifted that book to people more than any other book. It really, my life, it changed my, my, uh, how I viewed myself. It changed our marriage. It changed how we relate to our family members, to our coworkers 
already. I think a good solid marriage and we have good relationships with family, but it just made it even that much better and that much easier to understand why people do what they do. Which pride for me as a questioner is really important. 
Yeah. Yeah. And we love that stuff. We love, like why do people behave the way they do? Right. 
Um, that's definitely one of them. Another book that's been very transformative for us. It's called the power of when [inaudible] and this is all about what are called chronotypes, which are your natural circadian rhythm. So your body clock clock KC. Exactly. Um, you know, we had this earlier, I'd mentioned that Rosemary is a morning person. I'm a night person. There's actually four types that the author lays out, which are, they're named after animals. So there's a lion, which is the morning person, early riser. Go get him first thing in the morning. They start, you know, they start at 11 and then they quickly taper off afternoon and just crash. It was just Rosemary. There's the bear and they're sort of the nine to five. They follow the sun. So most of about 50% of population are bears. And this is actually how most of society is organized, is around the natural biorhythms of bears. 
So you know, we have worked nine to five, that's the bare schedule. Third is the Wolf. That's what I am. So we are really slowly at going in the morning. We tend to be up later and wake up later. Um, it's been really empowering to find out that's what I am because my whole life I always felt frustrated that the entire world seemed to be sort of designed against this natural rhythm. And I always felt like I was lazy or there was something wrong with me cause I just couldn't get up earlier and I would never be able to fall asleep early enough to get up early. So 
same here. I worked night shift. So you're probably the Wolf type. Yeah. 
Um, and then the fourth one is dolphin and these are sort of the classic insomniac where they have a really hard time falling and staying asleep. Um, but what he lays out in the book is not only normalizing that these, these four tendencies are all normal and natural, but then also he gives you schedules that are sort of optimized for each type, which is really, I mean everything from, you know, when to eat, when to work, when to do creative work, when to do more admin and minutiae type stuff. Um, even work out what to do when to exercise based on your, your natural rhythms would have sex based on your natural rhythms for, you know, APOE enjoyment. And then most important I think in terms of the relationship is if you are a different type from your partner, figuring out sort of the, the, the best compromise time for things based on both of you. So obviously with Rosemary and I, we're kind of opposite ends of the, the spectrum here in terms of time, but we figured out a rhythm that, that works for both of us where we can still, you know, 
have a happy, 
healthy marriage and still see each other sometimes not want to bite each other's heads off. Yeah. That's awesome. I'll have to check that one out. So do you have any last words of wisdom you've given us lots to think about today? I think one thing that, uh, that, that I always say, um, that about, you know, why it's worth spending money on getting food that's of a higher quality. It's, you can choose to pay the farmer now or you can pay the doctor later. And that's really up to you. And for us, we just found that it's worth it to spend a little bit more money, um, on higher quality food and know that we're taking care of ourselves so that when we do get to a point where we can retire, where, uh, you can enjoy it, we can enjoy it fully. So yeah, we do kind of see food and nutrition and health in general is an investment in your most important asset, which is, you know, there's a lot of people that will optimize for finances there, their financial assets and they'll have a great portfolio, but they don't have the health to fully enjoy it. 
Uh, I remember when I was living and working in Taiwan years ago, uh, one of the guys that I was teaching, very wealthy guy, and he had this great quote, which is, he said, health is a one and wealth are zeros. And if you have all these zeros but you don't have the one in front, it's meaningless. Wow. And that's always stuck with me. That's, yeah. Yeah. I think just, I'm going to add one other word of wisdom that I really, really like and that is that I'm sort of going along with what we were saying about the sleep chronotypes and the four tendencies is that we can't ascribe morality to biology. So if you are that night owl type, you know, that's the way your body is designed to run for you. You're not broken, you're not a lazy or bad person. Similarly, um, you know, with the, with whatever tendency you are, if it's rebel or, or a bunch of whatever, like, you know, I'm not a, I used to just have this belief that like I'm a difficult person. 
I seem to be like dissatisfied in a cubicle job. Like, what's wrong with me? Other people seem to be okay with this. And he goes, Oh, I'm just a rebel. So, um, I think helping to understand yourself. Yeah. Yeah. Knowing yourself, knowing these concepts that helps you remove that morality from your own biology and understand, Oh, this is just the way I'm wired, so now I can make allowances and make changes in my life too. Um, you know, allow that part of me to flourish. Definitely. That's great. Now where can people find you? Yeah, so we're on Instagram at flourish fundamentals. Our website is flourish fundamentals.com. Um, and we have a weekly newsletter, so we're on flourish Friday. So, um, if you sign up for a newsletter on our website, we send out recipes and, um, teach you about the stuff that you need to do to take care of yourself for optimal wellness. 
And then actually, I'm currently writing my third book right now. Um, I'm writing a book that's all about kind of seasonal mood changes. I've always had a really hard time in the fall and winter, and now that that's rolling around again, um, I decided to kind of take all this knowledge and research that I've done over the past year and some things that I've implemented to help myself with that sort of putting that into a book to help other people that struggle with the same thing. Oh, awesome. Yeah, that's gonna be called happy in winter. Oh, awesome. I can't wait to read it. Yeah, I will if then you copy [inaudible]. Sounds good. Thanks you guys so much for being here today. Thank you, Ashley. Thank you.
 Special Guest: John &amp;amp; Rosemary Fotheringham.
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    <![CDATA[<p>How John and Rosemary paid off $66,000 in 32 months while still eating healthy and not sacrificing nutrition to do it. </p>

<p>Rosemary and John, cofounders of Flourish Fundamentals are both Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioners. They are helping the FIRE community optimize their health as much as they optimize their finances. </p>

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Hey, today we are talking to Rosemary and John about how they paid off their debt and how they are optimizing health and nutrition for the fire community. So welcome Rosemary and John, thank you for having us. Thank you, Ashley. Thanks for being here. And just to, before we jump in, can you guys kind of tell me about yourselves and kind of what you guys do? Yeah, absolutely. So, uh, I guess that you could call us the token, uh, nutrition people in the [inaudible] space. Um, we both sort of got into this financial independence step free community after we were getting out of debt and we had this background in nutrition and saw that a lot of the recommendations around reducing expenses involved like just eat rice and beans. And that was a little bit, yeah, no, no. So, um, we realized that there was really a need for people to talk about the importance of your own health and be able to teach people to empower them to be able to take care of their own health so that, um, they come, you know, they&#39;re more in a position of power when it comes to their own health and not just fingers crossed. <br>
Hope you don&#39;t get sick. Yeah, yeah. Just not eating ramen noodles and all right. They definitely, there&#39;s a sweet spot where we wish we can talk about more later, where you can keep costs down pretty low without sacrificing health. So for example, before we started getting out of debt, when we examined our grocery budget, we were like anywhere from $1,000 a month to 1500 for two bucks. And then we cut that in half. And then we were able to do that and we thought, you know what, let&#39;s try to cut it in half again just to see if we can do it. And we did. Um, and I&#39;d say now we sort of settled between 400 to $500, but it&#39;s still may sound like a lot to some people listening, but we can get into more about what that actually means. Yeah, that&#39;s really not bad. <br>
I mean, for most people that I talk to, and it&#39;s true for myself, um, you know, with that was our biggest category was, um, of course it wasn&#39;t as healthy as you guys were at, you know, as fast food, convenience foods, things like that. But, and so that is definitely an area where people can improve, um, with managing their money as well as their health. So I&#39;m so glad that, um, you guys are doing that and, you know, giving people other options besides just rice and beans. Yes. Yeah. And it doesn&#39;t have to be, you know, crazy expensive. We&#39;re not talking whole foods every week. There&#39;s other strategies to do it, like buying a whole cow or that sort of thing. So anyway, we&#39;ll get there, we&#39;ll get pasta, there&#39;ll be delicious and that&#39;s, yeah, exactly. Yeah. I would not compromise if this was not delicious food. <br>
So before we jump into eating healthy and cutting costs on food, why don&#39;t we jump into like your debt pay off story? How much did you guys pay off and [inaudible] how fast did you do it? So we started with 66 in debt, um, a mix of credit cards and some family loans. By the way, there was a little bit for me, mass majority, I made much more or much less intelligent choices. Yeah. But we got that paid off in 32 months was that was the total and most of the time we were on just one salary. Right. Wow, that&#39;s pretty amazing. So were you guys, um, just tell me how this started. Were you guys on the same page or was it one of your guys&#39;s idea and then kinda had to drag the other one in? Yeah, I mean, I think we were, we, the way I was raised with sort of the Dave Ramsey, you know, never like credit cards were a bad word in our family. <br>
So I never got into debt and never had a credit card. And John had come from sort of a different position. I was raised to believe that credit cards are an emergency fund and so sure enough I used them as such. Yeah. Yeah. I believe your dad had once said that he was doing Dave Ramsey before Dave Ramsey was doing. Dave Ramsey describes that. Yeah. So my family&#39;s always been really frugal. But Dave Ramsey actually sort of part of our story, right? Yeah. That&#39;s sort of how it started is um, well we went to go see a financial planner actually before we got married. We knew we were going to get married and so we wanted to discuss just sort of like what should we be doing now financially. And that was I think where we had the first conversation about how much debt was on the table. Couples normally have that conversation like when they&#39;re alone. And in the first time that number was named was like the three of us in a room. And I was like, Oh wow, okay. Yeah. Cause I think you have like 40,000 at that point or something like that. <br>
Right before we got married. So anyway, but I, but I knew like, that&#39;s okay, we can, we can figure this out, we know what to do, we just won&#39;t spend any excess money, obviously we&#39;ll get this paid off first thing. And like, I knew we, we knew we wanted to get married. So at that point it was like package deal, husband plus debt hashtag that fluff. But yeah, soon after we got married, I picked up Dave Ramsey&#39;s book, total money makeover. I don&#39;t even remember where I found it. If it was like a little free library or the literal literal literal library, that&#39;s hard to say. Um, but I just sort of read through it and then I think John picked it up. I hadn&#39;t been on the coffee table one day and yeah, I had just been flipping through it, so I left it out. <br>
Yeah. And John was flipping through it and, uh, you know, started reading it in earnest and I remember we were both linked together in bed one evening and you sort of shut the book and you looked at me and said, okay, I&#39;m ready, let&#39;s do this. And I was like, really? Wow. I didn&#39;t even have to, yeah, that&#39;s awesome. You guys were like together on the same page pretty much from the get go, so that I&#39;m sure that makes it so much easier and faster to get it done. Definitely. Well, I think you&#39;d always all always wanted to pay off debt. I tried many <br>
times, but it never stuck, um, for number of reasons which we can get into. But um, but yeah, the sort of, the way he had laid it out in the book, it was just very, very compelling to me. And once that light bulb went off, I was all in. And that&#39;s how I tend to be about things. If, if something is compelling and makes sense to me, I will, Oh, you know, I can turn on a dime on things. <br>
[inaudible] that sounds like me where I did two things. Yes. Yeah, that makes sense. If they make sense. Yeah. John&#39;s very persuaded by logic. If you&#39;re familiar with Gretchen Rubin, she has this framework of like four tendencies for different types of people. And John is the question or type, which means he&#39;ll do something if it makes sense to him, but not if it doesn&#39;t. So for him reading that logic of like, here&#39;s how the flow works, here&#39;s why it works and here&#39;s the steps. For him it was like, Oh, that&#39;s enough. I&#39;m convinced. Okay, let&#39;s do it. So we sort of dove in and started making a plan, examining our expenses, expenses, looking at what are the things that we really need, what are the things that are actually just wants, right. <br>
And that goalpost changes. I think as you know, as you get more into this, what is, what was once considered a need. A lot of those things that moved over into the want column and that that one column keeps getting bigger or things that were in the need column that need copy gets smaller and smaller. So I think that&#39;s one of the main thing is it changed. And I mean really it was, it really was shocking to us, at least to me. Um, just how much a difference, making a budget changed our spending. Be more intentional about spending. I mean, at the time we were both full time making over a hundred K a year combined and there was nothing left at the end of the month. There was always more month than money left. Um, and we weren&#39;t spending like crazy either. I mean, <br>
yeah, we only had one car. It was 2006. <br>
Right. But it was just, you know, no mortgage, Nope, no kids. But it was just all the little stuff. <br>
Oh, I want this book. We&#39;ll go on Amazon and get it. Yeah, go get a manicure, whatever. Lots of fiddly little stuff that you, ah, where did all the money go? So what were some of the, some of the things that you, um, cut back on or changed in order to manage your money better and get the debt paid off? <br>
Sure. Um, well definitely having a budget was huge. Um, doing the, initially we did the Dave Ramsey thing where you actually had physical envelopes where you put cash into each spending category at the end of the month and then only spend from those cash envelopes. We eventually ended up switching to simple the online bank and stat and doing sort of online digital envelopes. We&#39;d still earmark money at the end of the month because what we found is in practice, even though using cash does happen, a more emotional sort of visceral component, which sort of as Dave Ramsey would say, makes you probably spend less money in practice. It didn&#39;t really work cause we often forget the envelopes when we&#39;d go out. You know, if you&#39;re buying something online, it was hard to then sort of square the budget that way. So w we&#39;re big believers in this idea that the imperfect method you stick to is far better than the perfect method. You don&#39;t actually do. <br>
Absolutely. So as long as you&#39;re doing something right direction that&#39;s more important. <br>
That definitely helped was having that the earmark money and then realizing, okay, our grocery money is spent so we know we&#39;re sticking to this Kansas sardines we have in the, <br>
yeah, in terms of like what were the actual things that we cut out of that as expenses. At the beginning, it was all those frivolous little things that we didn&#39;t, the obvious stuff, you know, the low hanging fruit. Like, okay, do we need to go out to the movie theater every once in a while or can we rent DVDs from the library and watch them at home and make our fancy popcorn. We do this fancy popcorn that we make at home with them. Butter and truffle oil and we like sort of relish that. It&#39;s like so fancy popcorn. Um, so we started doing movies at home. Um, anytime we wanted a book we request it from the library or if they had a library already, just get it. The library. Um, <br>
quick pro tip, if people don&#39;t use their libraries, this is mind blowing to me, but can go to library and if they don&#39;t have the book you can just request for them to get it. And I&#39;ve never had them not get the book I requested. I&#39;ve requested probably a dozen by this point, you know, my tax dollars at work I guess. But uh, yeah. And other quick tangent for those that maybe are used to buying books and then writing in their books. That&#39;s sort of one of my meditations is underlining sentences. So that took a little bit of an adjustment for me, but it&#39;s actually now it&#39;s a pro instead of a con because what I find is that by having to write out quotes that I like from books, I actually increased my connection with the material and my ability to remember it. Whereas before I just underline it and then forget it. So, <br>
so other things are, we were going to, we originally were thinking about, Oh, do we need a second car? But then we decided, Nope, we&#39;ll stick to this one, make different places. So we just made it work. You know, one person would drop off the other and go to walk or we&#39;d walk. Um, what else did we do? We certainly examined our grocery budget and tried to look at some other ways to, um, reduce, we can come back to that. That&#39;s, that&#39;s a big HBO now. <br>
Um, Amazon prime, Netflix, Hulu. I mean we had like all four of &#39;em <br>
piddly little things, but all those little things added up to big results. Yes. <br>
Well, one thing we did eventually was, um, stopped going to get our haircut at a barber shop or a hairdresser. I started just buzzing my hair instead. I like having shorter hair anyway. And so we just bought ourselves a pair of Clippers at Costco and it pays [inaudible]. <br>
Yeah. And for a while I was watching YouTube videos on how to cut my own hair. Yes or no. Now I&#39;m like, eh, I&#39;ll go get my haircut. I&#39;ll just do it less frequently. Um, so those were some of the small things in terms of the [inaudible], the big, big one being housing. Um, we did actually leave that place. We were living at the time because John left a job that wasn&#39;t really working out for him. Um, and we moved in with family who had a baby on the way and we said, Hey, can we come? You know, we&#39;ll help look after the baby if we can stay in the little, you know, they had a mother in law suite in the back of the house and they said, of course, come on down. So we actually live with them for a little over a year. I was in the bro pair, so, um, that was honestly such a, uh, that was very, very generous of them to let us stay with them. But then not having that rent payment for awhile meant that we could, you know, uh, pay down debt at a pretty Swift rate, um, with, with, even though we were down to one salary at that point. That&#39;s awesome. So that really, I&#39;m sure that really helped speed up the process and get this knocked out even down to one income. That&#39;s pretty amazing. Now what were some of the things with meal prepping and food that you want to talk about to cut costs but yet not compromise your health? <br>
Sure. I think the number one thing to point out first is that the focus should always be on what&#39;s called nutrient density and not on calories. So a lot of people will say, Oh, this meal hasX  calories, so it&#39;s good or it&#39;s great, or it&#39;s this many dollars per calorie. And from our perspective as people trained in nutrition, that is just not the ideal way to go. <br>
Yeah, you really want to focus on nutrient density, um, which you know, is just what, what&#39;s going to get you. So, you know, you have macro nutrients like proteins, fats and carbohydrates, and then you have micronutrients, which are all the vitamins and minerals. So when we&#39;re talking about nutrient density, we&#39;re talking about those micronutrients there. So, um, so for us that looked like we were, uh, you can, for example, we talked about this a little bit earlier, but buying like a whole cow or a half a cow or even a quarter cow, you can go in with people and split up the meat. That really reduces the cost to, you know, four or five, three or four or $5 per pound depending on where you are. And you can still get really good quality, uh, grass fed, grass finished meat and support farmers who are raising their animals. In a way that is sustainable and not just sustainable sealant land, but is actually restoring the land so that it&#39;s better for everybody. Um, we started actually sprouting lentils and using that to stretch ground meat, which sounds weird, but in sprouting them, you are increasing the nutrient nutrition in the bioavailability, nerdy. You&#39;re increasing how your, how your body is able to absorb and use the nutrients <br>
gained. The, you know, you can sprout, you can soak and sprout, you know, all sorts of things. But basically you&#39;re doing is you&#39;re tricking that seed into thinking that it&#39;s already planted in the ground. And so then it will sort of turn off its natural defenses because normally the problem with legumes and nuts and seeds is that they have this protective shell that makes them really hard to digest. And so even people say, Oh, there&#39;s all these vitamins and minerals in these foods. You can&#39;t really get at it unless you do some, some sort of trickery. And so that&#39;s what the soaking the sprouting. <br>
So that&#39;s, yeah, so we did the sprouted lentils and we would make that one for one with ground beef. Um, I really like fermenting vegetables. So we would do our own sauerkraut and stuff, which is a natural and super cheap source of probiotics. Super simple, really intimidating. It&#39;s literally cabbage, salt and amaze and dark and time and time and not much time. Yeah. Yeah. Um, let&#39;s see, what else were we doing? We definitely changed where we were shopping, so I&#39;d say before we, <br>
I mean it was, we just didn&#39;t really give it a second thought as to where we were shopping. So buying more in bulk, um, buying locally and in season makes things a lot cheaper. That was super helpful. Um, and then, you know, since then I&#39;ve been doing a lot more sort of bartering and trading, which is new to me, but I know people have been doing that for centuries. Like for example, um, uh, this summer I have been helping out with, uh, actually where we get our meat, our farmers, they invited me to come help. Well, I offered to volunteer at their booth and they said, we&#39;ll pay you, you&#39;ve all, and told them, I volunteered them that I was going to help them at their farmer&#39;s market and they said, we&#39;ll pay you. So I basically just get paid in meat now. And so that&#39;s also, it does help reduce our grocery budget. <br>
That was that. And then just a quick tangent on meat. So we&#39;ve said that word a few times. I know that&#39;s kind of a controversial topic to a lot of people. We intentionally do consume it as nutritionist because it&#39;s one of the most nutrient dense foods on the planet, especially things like liver. Um, you know, people talk about quote unquote super foods and they&#39;ll mention things like Asai berries or KL. I was like, those things are great, but if you were to put a table of nutrients and put those side aside, they don&#39;t hold a candle. <br>
Yeah. Nutrient density. Like we can get into organ meats too as another cheap source of great nutrition. But, um, there&#39;s another, uh, another functional nutrition therapy practitioner of there. And she, she was said, um, I&#39;m pretty sure that all the, the like answers to nutritional problems can be solved with liver. I wish it were ice cream, but I&#39;m pretty sure it&#39;s liver. He&#39;s so much better if it was ice cream. So much better. Yeah. Actually that was another one. We did start cooking a little bit more with organ meats, which are, the benefit of those is that they&#39;re so rich in nutrients and they&#39;re really good for you, so likes, they&#39;re cheaper, they&#39;re cheaper. So, um, if you eat heart, it&#39;s good for your heart. If you eat liver, it&#39;s good for your liver, et cetera. Um, and I think, you know, especially in our culture, a lot of us are really squeamish about organ meats, but there&#39;s ways that you can prepare them that aren&#39;t too freaky, that don&#39;t taste weird and that you know, your, your kids and your husband will eat too and not know. <br>
For example, you can mix in a little bit of like meatballs for example. And you know, spices and herbs and things that can help cover up the flavor. Resurrection. She wrote a whole post on the blog about easy ways to eat liver and other organ meats. Yeah. Cause I hate liver so I&#39;m always trying to find, I know, but I know it&#39;s so good for me so I&#39;m always trying to find ways to get it in my diet. She actually makes her own liver pills. Yeah. I make desiccated liver capsules cause I&#39;m a weirdo. But anyway, it was expensive. You can make them really cheap. Yeah. This is, this is me being like I&#39;m not going to pay $50 for a bottle of 120 capsules of desiccated liver. I&#39;m going to figure out how to do it myself. $5. And you&#39;ve got some resources on your website that kind of gives people these ideas cause I&#39;m like, Oh yeah, eat liver. <br>
I don&#39;t like it. Yes. Yeah. Actually so, well, one thing that is a really good kind of introduction is if you make like a chicken liver Patty, if you just Google parte, it&#39;s basically liver plus butter plus herbs and you can do that on, you know, carrot sticks or cucumber slices and it&#39;s sort of like a good little dip. Yeah, it&#39;s really good. Chicken liver in general is much more mild livers of quote unquote ruminant animals. Cows. Yeah. Yeah. I&#39;d say if you&#39;re starting out do a chicken liver potty, that&#39;s a good way to dip your toes in the water. Yeah, you&#39;re really liked me and you really, really can&#39;t do any of the tastes. I think it is worth it to get like a in capsule form because it&#39;s just so good for you. Like livers rich in B vitamins, which give you energy, iron Coleen. <br>
It&#39;s good for the brain. It&#39;s good for your own liver and your own body&#39;s detox mechanisms. So yeah, huge fan of organ meat over here coming up. So Oregon meats buying a whole cow soaking and sprouting lentils. Oh, a quick thing about the lentils and the ground meat. So ground meat is another strategy on itself on its own because it tends to be much, much cheaper per pound. Yes. We switched from like steaks, you know, I&#39;m doing more things with gardens. Yeah. I love me a good steak but more expensive per pound. So yeah, having ground meat most of the time doing meatballs, things like that. Yeah. Now what about, um, cause I kinda switched to like ground chicken and ground pork. Is that healthier than like ground beef? Insane, kind of the same idea or no <br>
fear? I&#39;d say they&#39;re fine. Um, yeah, so there is this notion that red meat is unhealthy. That&#39;s a really, really common belief. It&#39;s just flat out not true. There&#39;s a lot of myths. That&#39;s why a whole other podcast, we don&#39;t have that here, but you can easily, you can easily look into, um, there&#39;s, there was a lot of shoddy science, a lot of vested interests, um, a lot of politics, so into that. So, um, as so I&#39;m a certified in functional nutrition. I can tell you that&#39;s just not true. Um, but if you don&#39;t like it, that&#39;s, I think often that&#39;s where I come to is if you like other meats more or if you like fish like fine, go for it. Um, or if you are a vegetarian, like there are ways to at least optimize your nutrition within those restrictions. You know, having more eggs for example, or having full fat dairy. <br>
So other than those things, um, yeah, it really, I think it was mostly sort of the aggregation of small gains that really just added up over time and then continually going back and looking at our budget again. Every month we do a thing called open loops for each week we&#39;ll meet and have sort of a budget party and we&#39;ll look at, we&#39;ll get all our spending for the week. We&#39;ll review upcoming events or upcoming expenses and sort of make it fun. Um, which actually that&#39;s another sort of tangent. One of the things we did while we were paying off debt to help make that fine as every time we&#39;d make a debt payment, we&#39;d literally do a dance, <br>
happy dance, happy dance. We&#39;d like hold hands and jump up and down and it sounds so ridiculous, but we look forward to that so much like every time that we, you know, every time that our paychecks would come over, like yes, we get a pay off debt and do her happy dance. And so, um, I like anytime you&#39;re trying to establish a habit like that, I would highly recommend the happy dance because it just, it gives you a little burst of excitement and it, it&#39;s, once you, it makes you want to do that behavior more. Yeah. She helps create a new habit loop. Yes. Highly recommend the happy dance. I think there&#39;s a video of it on our Instagram now. Do you guys have any tips or advice for couples that maybe aren&#39;t quite on the same page of maybe just like working together compromising so that you can reach your bigger goal? <br>
Yeah, this is a really, I think, important and interesting topic to me. Um, I really think it&#39;s important not to push, not to nag, you know, each person has to come to this on their own and they have to have buy-in intrinsically. In fact, we could talk more about the Gretchen Rubin four tenancies again here I think because especially if your partner is what&#39;s called a rebel, the more you push and the more you talk about this, the more they&#39;re going to resist and push back. <br>
So just stepping back a bit. So, um, I mentioned Gretchen Rubin earlier, but she&#39;s, um, an author and also a podcast or who has developed, she had wrote a book called the four tendencies. So it&#39;s this framework of four different tendencies of people and they differ based on how they respond to expectation. So she says like internal expectation might be like a new year&#39;s resolution, whereas external expectation could be like a work deadline or something your partner wants you to do. Um, so there are these four types which are upholder, obliger, questioner and rebel. And so they&#39;ll uphold both internal and external expectations. So you give them something to do, no problem, checkbox, they&#39;ll do it. Don&#39;t even have to ask them again. Um, anything they want to do, like adopting a new habit, done, no problem. Obligers or aspire to be. How do you just, you just make up your mind and you just do it. <br>
How is that possible? Um, and then you&#39;ve got the obligers. So for them it&#39;s, it&#39;s hard for them to accomplish something, uh, less. They know they have accountability, so they&#39;ll do the things that are external expectations, but it&#39;s hard for them to stick to internal expectation. Then there&#39;s the question or type, which like, John, uh, they will do something if essentially what they&#39;re doing is turning it into internal expectation if they go, yep, that makes sense. With my logic and the way I see the world. And if it doesn&#39;t make sense, then they&#39;re like, well that&#39;s silly. You know, that that doesn&#39;t make sense. So that is external. If it&#39;s a rule or if somebody in authority says you have to do this thing, if it doesn&#39;t make sense, I&#39;m not going to do it. Yeah. And then the last one is the rebel type. <br>
So rebels, which is what I am, I&#39;m resist internal and external expectations. So you can tell rebels if you say, I, you know, you can&#39;t do that or I bet you couldn&#39;t do X. The rebel will say, watch me. So I have, um, you know, one thing I always say is that it&#39;s best to just assume that everybody is a rebel and then you&#39;ll always do, it&#39;s a safe assumption. So I think that in doing that, you, you always have to make the rebel think that it&#39;s their idea. They have to come to that conclusion on their own. So one exercise that I think is really useful that I heard about, um, uh, the, have you heard the, you&#39;ve seen the plane with fire documentary? Um, I haven&#39;t watched it now. Okay. So, well anyway, in that when the husband in that documentary is bringing up to the wife, uh, what, what he had to do was make a list of the 10 things that make you happiest. <br>
And so it was like, you know, spending time with my baby, like spending time with my husband, hearing my baby laugh, you know, a glass of wine, chocolate, whatever. And then the approach became, okay, how can we get more of these things that make us the happiest in our life? And so viewing it that way, how can we get more of what we already want instead of where should we we or should we cut money? Right? You know, where should we cut expenses? It&#39;s about, okay, let&#39;s figure out how to strategize to get more of the things that we want. So like for us, that was freedom, fulfillment, being close to family, being able to work from home. And so we&#39;ve made a lot of sacrifices and a lot of decisions for us to get more of those things that we want. So I&#39;d say if you approach your partner, have proposed that exercise, say like, look, let&#39;s both take a piece of paper, we&#39;ll go away, we&#39;ll write down the 10 things that bring us the most joy and then we&#39;ll come together and compare our lists and that. <br>
Yeah, that that&#39;s what they did in playing with fire. That&#39;s what they talked about in the book that they wrote. And I really liked that because, because when you approach things from what do you want, how do you get more of the things that you want? It&#39;s something that you&#39;re running towards, not something that you&#39;re running away from. Right. And it just seems more like a world of possibility and there&#39;s room for creativity and figuring out how do we do this rather than, okay we have to cut more money. I guess we&#39;re really, you know, we really need to cut out spending here. Like that&#39;s not motivating or not sustainable. Exactly. Cause inevitably is it both <br>
partners are not fully [inaudible]. You know, in it, one partner who doesn&#39;t really want to do it, we&#39;ll do it for a while, to a certain extent to make the other partner happy, but the whole time it&#39;ll be a sacrifice and it&#39;ll be something they&#39;re doing for the other person, which has resentment and resistance and it&#39;s just not a recipe for a happy marriage or getting out of debt or <br>
building financial independence. So, so I&#39;d say, yeah, the first thing is that list of the 10, you know, the 10 things that make you the most happy. The second thing I would say is, is um, figuring out if those four tendencies, which are partners, you might already have a good idea of what they are, but Gretchen Rubin does have a quiz on her website, um, which is free. You can find out which one you are, but if you know what type they are, then you can, um, you can persuade them in a way that fits their type. And you can also help build systems that will work for both of you with, but with what your types are. So for John, he was persuaded by the logic of the Dave Ramsey baby steps for another questioner. Like John maybe looking at the math of, okay, look, if we push hard, we could get all of this paid off in this amount of time and then we&#39;d have more freedom to do X, Y, and Z. You know, if it&#39;s a rebel, it&#39;s the, what do you want more of? Like how can we be creative to get more freedom and letting you be yourself. <br>
And I think the rebel to adding in that, you know, an element of credit card companies or the man, you know, they want you to be in debt. <br>
Yeah. They want you to be controlled. That&#39;s how you get a rebel to control you and you, you&#39;re not gonna, you&#39;re not the type of person to be controlled are you? Then it&#39;s really hard. You probably can&#39;t do it. Yeah. And then so with the obliger, it&#39;s a matter of accountability. So, Mmm. You know, building in those systems of maybe it&#39;s art, like our open loops meetings where once a week you&#39;re coming together and discussing these things, the upholders, they&#39;ll just do it. You don&#39;t have to worry about that. So that is really good advice. Um, so do I even need to ask you what your favorite nonfiction book is? I think we have a good idea that I have probably gifted that book to people more than any other book. It really, my life, it changed my, my, uh, how I viewed myself. It changed our marriage. It changed how we relate to our family members, to our coworkers <br>
already. I think a good solid marriage and we have good relationships with family, but it just made it even that much better and that much easier to understand why people do what they do. Which pride for me as a questioner is really important. <br>
Yeah. Yeah. And we love that stuff. We love, like why do people behave the way they do? Right. <br>
Um, that&#39;s definitely one of them. Another book that&#39;s been very transformative for us. It&#39;s called the power of when [inaudible] and this is all about what are called chronotypes, which are your natural circadian rhythm. So your body clock clock KC. Exactly. Um, you know, we had this earlier, I&#39;d mentioned that Rosemary is a morning person. I&#39;m a night person. There&#39;s actually four types that the author lays out, which are, they&#39;re named after animals. So there&#39;s a lion, which is the morning person, early riser. Go get him first thing in the morning. They start, you know, they start at 11 and then they quickly taper off afternoon and just crash. It was just Rosemary. There&#39;s the bear and they&#39;re sort of the nine to five. They follow the sun. So most of about 50% of population are bears. And this is actually how most of society is organized, is around the natural biorhythms of bears. <br>
So you know, we have worked nine to five, that&#39;s the bare schedule. Third is the Wolf. That&#39;s what I am. So we are really slowly at going in the morning. We tend to be up later and wake up later. Um, it&#39;s been really empowering to find out that&#39;s what I am because my whole life I always felt frustrated that the entire world seemed to be sort of designed against this natural rhythm. And I always felt like I was lazy or there was something wrong with me cause I just couldn&#39;t get up earlier and I would never be able to fall asleep early enough to get up early. So <br>
same here. I worked night shift. So you&#39;re probably the Wolf type. Yeah. <br>
Um, and then the fourth one is dolphin and these are sort of the classic insomniac where they have a really hard time falling and staying asleep. Um, but what he lays out in the book is not only normalizing that these, these four tendencies are all normal and natural, but then also he gives you schedules that are sort of optimized for each type, which is really, I mean everything from, you know, when to eat, when to work, when to do creative work, when to do more admin and minutiae type stuff. Um, even work out what to do when to exercise based on your, your natural rhythms would have sex based on your natural rhythms for, you know, APOE enjoyment. And then most important I think in terms of the relationship is if you are a different type from your partner, figuring out sort of the, the, the best compromise time for things based on both of you. So obviously with Rosemary and I, we&#39;re kind of opposite ends of the, the spectrum here in terms of time, but we figured out a rhythm that, that works for both of us where we can still, you know, <br>
have a happy, <br>
healthy marriage and still see each other sometimes not want to bite each other&#39;s heads off. Yeah. That&#39;s awesome. I&#39;ll have to check that one out. So do you have any last words of wisdom you&#39;ve given us lots to think about today? I think one thing that, uh, that, that I always say, um, that about, you know, why it&#39;s worth spending money on getting food that&#39;s of a higher quality. It&#39;s, you can choose to pay the farmer now or you can pay the doctor later. And that&#39;s really up to you. And for us, we just found that it&#39;s worth it to spend a little bit more money, um, on higher quality food and know that we&#39;re taking care of ourselves so that when we do get to a point where we can retire, where, uh, you can enjoy it, we can enjoy it fully. So yeah, we do kind of see food and nutrition and health in general is an investment in your most important asset, which is, you know, there&#39;s a lot of people that will optimize for finances there, their financial assets and they&#39;ll have a great portfolio, but they don&#39;t have the health to fully enjoy it. <br>
Uh, I remember when I was living and working in Taiwan years ago, uh, one of the guys that I was teaching, very wealthy guy, and he had this great quote, which is, he said, health is a one and wealth are zeros. And if you have all these zeros but you don&#39;t have the one in front, it&#39;s meaningless. Wow. And that&#39;s always stuck with me. That&#39;s, yeah. Yeah. I think just, I&#39;m going to add one other word of wisdom that I really, really like and that is that I&#39;m sort of going along with what we were saying about the sleep chronotypes and the four tendencies is that we can&#39;t ascribe morality to biology. So if you are that night owl type, you know, that&#39;s the way your body is designed to run for you. You&#39;re not broken, you&#39;re not a lazy or bad person. Similarly, um, you know, with the, with whatever tendency you are, if it&#39;s rebel or, or a bunch of whatever, like, you know, I&#39;m not a, I used to just have this belief that like I&#39;m a difficult person. <br>
I seem to be like dissatisfied in a cubicle job. Like, what&#39;s wrong with me? Other people seem to be okay with this. And he goes, Oh, I&#39;m just a rebel. So, um, I think helping to understand yourself. Yeah. Yeah. Knowing yourself, knowing these concepts that helps you remove that morality from your own biology and understand, Oh, this is just the way I&#39;m wired, so now I can make allowances and make changes in my life too. Um, you know, allow that part of me to flourish. Definitely. That&#39;s great. Now where can people find you? Yeah, so we&#39;re on Instagram at flourish fundamentals. Our website is flourish fundamentals.com. Um, and we have a weekly newsletter, so we&#39;re on flourish Friday. So, um, if you sign up for a newsletter on our website, we send out recipes and, um, teach you about the stuff that you need to do to take care of yourself for optimal wellness. <br>
And then actually, I&#39;m currently writing my third book right now. Um, I&#39;m writing a book that&#39;s all about kind of seasonal mood changes. I&#39;ve always had a really hard time in the fall and winter, and now that that&#39;s rolling around again, um, I decided to kind of take all this knowledge and research that I&#39;ve done over the past year and some things that I&#39;ve implemented to help myself with that sort of putting that into a book to help other people that struggle with the same thing. Oh, awesome. Yeah, that&#39;s gonna be called happy in winter. Oh, awesome. I can&#39;t wait to read it. Yeah, I will if then you copy [inaudible]. Sounds good. Thanks you guys so much for being here today. Thank you, Ashley. Thank you.</p><p>Special Guest: John &amp; Rosemary Fotheringham.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>How John and Rosemary paid off $66,000 in 32 months while still eating healthy and not sacrificing nutrition to do it. </p>

<p>Rosemary and John, cofounders of Flourish Fundamentals are both Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioners. They are helping the FIRE community optimize their health as much as they optimize their finances. </p>

<p>You can learn more about them on their website: flourishfundamentals.com<br>
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Hey, today we are talking to Rosemary and John about how they paid off their debt and how they are optimizing health and nutrition for the fire community. So welcome Rosemary and John, thank you for having us. Thank you, Ashley. Thanks for being here. And just to, before we jump in, can you guys kind of tell me about yourselves and kind of what you guys do? Yeah, absolutely. So, uh, I guess that you could call us the token, uh, nutrition people in the [inaudible] space. Um, we both sort of got into this financial independence step free community after we were getting out of debt and we had this background in nutrition and saw that a lot of the recommendations around reducing expenses involved like just eat rice and beans. And that was a little bit, yeah, no, no. So, um, we realized that there was really a need for people to talk about the importance of your own health and be able to teach people to empower them to be able to take care of their own health so that, um, they come, you know, they&#39;re more in a position of power when it comes to their own health and not just fingers crossed. <br>
Hope you don&#39;t get sick. Yeah, yeah. Just not eating ramen noodles and all right. They definitely, there&#39;s a sweet spot where we wish we can talk about more later, where you can keep costs down pretty low without sacrificing health. So for example, before we started getting out of debt, when we examined our grocery budget, we were like anywhere from $1,000 a month to 1500 for two bucks. And then we cut that in half. And then we were able to do that and we thought, you know what, let&#39;s try to cut it in half again just to see if we can do it. And we did. Um, and I&#39;d say now we sort of settled between 400 to $500, but it&#39;s still may sound like a lot to some people listening, but we can get into more about what that actually means. Yeah, that&#39;s really not bad. <br>
I mean, for most people that I talk to, and it&#39;s true for myself, um, you know, with that was our biggest category was, um, of course it wasn&#39;t as healthy as you guys were at, you know, as fast food, convenience foods, things like that. But, and so that is definitely an area where people can improve, um, with managing their money as well as their health. So I&#39;m so glad that, um, you guys are doing that and, you know, giving people other options besides just rice and beans. Yes. Yeah. And it doesn&#39;t have to be, you know, crazy expensive. We&#39;re not talking whole foods every week. There&#39;s other strategies to do it, like buying a whole cow or that sort of thing. So anyway, we&#39;ll get there, we&#39;ll get pasta, there&#39;ll be delicious and that&#39;s, yeah, exactly. Yeah. I would not compromise if this was not delicious food. <br>
So before we jump into eating healthy and cutting costs on food, why don&#39;t we jump into like your debt pay off story? How much did you guys pay off and [inaudible] how fast did you do it? So we started with 66 in debt, um, a mix of credit cards and some family loans. By the way, there was a little bit for me, mass majority, I made much more or much less intelligent choices. Yeah. But we got that paid off in 32 months was that was the total and most of the time we were on just one salary. Right. Wow, that&#39;s pretty amazing. So were you guys, um, just tell me how this started. Were you guys on the same page or was it one of your guys&#39;s idea and then kinda had to drag the other one in? Yeah, I mean, I think we were, we, the way I was raised with sort of the Dave Ramsey, you know, never like credit cards were a bad word in our family. <br>
So I never got into debt and never had a credit card. And John had come from sort of a different position. I was raised to believe that credit cards are an emergency fund and so sure enough I used them as such. Yeah. Yeah. I believe your dad had once said that he was doing Dave Ramsey before Dave Ramsey was doing. Dave Ramsey describes that. Yeah. So my family&#39;s always been really frugal. But Dave Ramsey actually sort of part of our story, right? Yeah. That&#39;s sort of how it started is um, well we went to go see a financial planner actually before we got married. We knew we were going to get married and so we wanted to discuss just sort of like what should we be doing now financially. And that was I think where we had the first conversation about how much debt was on the table. Couples normally have that conversation like when they&#39;re alone. And in the first time that number was named was like the three of us in a room. And I was like, Oh wow, okay. Yeah. Cause I think you have like 40,000 at that point or something like that. <br>
Right before we got married. So anyway, but I, but I knew like, that&#39;s okay, we can, we can figure this out, we know what to do, we just won&#39;t spend any excess money, obviously we&#39;ll get this paid off first thing. And like, I knew we, we knew we wanted to get married. So at that point it was like package deal, husband plus debt hashtag that fluff. But yeah, soon after we got married, I picked up Dave Ramsey&#39;s book, total money makeover. I don&#39;t even remember where I found it. If it was like a little free library or the literal literal literal library, that&#39;s hard to say. Um, but I just sort of read through it and then I think John picked it up. I hadn&#39;t been on the coffee table one day and yeah, I had just been flipping through it, so I left it out. <br>
Yeah. And John was flipping through it and, uh, you know, started reading it in earnest and I remember we were both linked together in bed one evening and you sort of shut the book and you looked at me and said, okay, I&#39;m ready, let&#39;s do this. And I was like, really? Wow. I didn&#39;t even have to, yeah, that&#39;s awesome. You guys were like together on the same page pretty much from the get go, so that I&#39;m sure that makes it so much easier and faster to get it done. Definitely. Well, I think you&#39;d always all always wanted to pay off debt. I tried many <br>
times, but it never stuck, um, for number of reasons which we can get into. But um, but yeah, the sort of, the way he had laid it out in the book, it was just very, very compelling to me. And once that light bulb went off, I was all in. And that&#39;s how I tend to be about things. If, if something is compelling and makes sense to me, I will, Oh, you know, I can turn on a dime on things. <br>
[inaudible] that sounds like me where I did two things. Yes. Yeah, that makes sense. If they make sense. Yeah. John&#39;s very persuaded by logic. If you&#39;re familiar with Gretchen Rubin, she has this framework of like four tendencies for different types of people. And John is the question or type, which means he&#39;ll do something if it makes sense to him, but not if it doesn&#39;t. So for him reading that logic of like, here&#39;s how the flow works, here&#39;s why it works and here&#39;s the steps. For him it was like, Oh, that&#39;s enough. I&#39;m convinced. Okay, let&#39;s do it. So we sort of dove in and started making a plan, examining our expenses, expenses, looking at what are the things that we really need, what are the things that are actually just wants, right. <br>
And that goalpost changes. I think as you know, as you get more into this, what is, what was once considered a need. A lot of those things that moved over into the want column and that that one column keeps getting bigger or things that were in the need column that need copy gets smaller and smaller. So I think that&#39;s one of the main thing is it changed. And I mean really it was, it really was shocking to us, at least to me. Um, just how much a difference, making a budget changed our spending. Be more intentional about spending. I mean, at the time we were both full time making over a hundred K a year combined and there was nothing left at the end of the month. There was always more month than money left. Um, and we weren&#39;t spending like crazy either. I mean, <br>
yeah, we only had one car. It was 2006. <br>
Right. But it was just, you know, no mortgage, Nope, no kids. But it was just all the little stuff. <br>
Oh, I want this book. We&#39;ll go on Amazon and get it. Yeah, go get a manicure, whatever. Lots of fiddly little stuff that you, ah, where did all the money go? So what were some of the, some of the things that you, um, cut back on or changed in order to manage your money better and get the debt paid off? <br>
Sure. Um, well definitely having a budget was huge. Um, doing the, initially we did the Dave Ramsey thing where you actually had physical envelopes where you put cash into each spending category at the end of the month and then only spend from those cash envelopes. We eventually ended up switching to simple the online bank and stat and doing sort of online digital envelopes. We&#39;d still earmark money at the end of the month because what we found is in practice, even though using cash does happen, a more emotional sort of visceral component, which sort of as Dave Ramsey would say, makes you probably spend less money in practice. It didn&#39;t really work cause we often forget the envelopes when we&#39;d go out. You know, if you&#39;re buying something online, it was hard to then sort of square the budget that way. So w we&#39;re big believers in this idea that the imperfect method you stick to is far better than the perfect method. You don&#39;t actually do. <br>
Absolutely. So as long as you&#39;re doing something right direction that&#39;s more important. <br>
That definitely helped was having that the earmark money and then realizing, okay, our grocery money is spent so we know we&#39;re sticking to this Kansas sardines we have in the, <br>
yeah, in terms of like what were the actual things that we cut out of that as expenses. At the beginning, it was all those frivolous little things that we didn&#39;t, the obvious stuff, you know, the low hanging fruit. Like, okay, do we need to go out to the movie theater every once in a while or can we rent DVDs from the library and watch them at home and make our fancy popcorn. We do this fancy popcorn that we make at home with them. Butter and truffle oil and we like sort of relish that. It&#39;s like so fancy popcorn. Um, so we started doing movies at home. Um, anytime we wanted a book we request it from the library or if they had a library already, just get it. The library. Um, <br>
quick pro tip, if people don&#39;t use their libraries, this is mind blowing to me, but can go to library and if they don&#39;t have the book you can just request for them to get it. And I&#39;ve never had them not get the book I requested. I&#39;ve requested probably a dozen by this point, you know, my tax dollars at work I guess. But uh, yeah. And other quick tangent for those that maybe are used to buying books and then writing in their books. That&#39;s sort of one of my meditations is underlining sentences. So that took a little bit of an adjustment for me, but it&#39;s actually now it&#39;s a pro instead of a con because what I find is that by having to write out quotes that I like from books, I actually increased my connection with the material and my ability to remember it. Whereas before I just underline it and then forget it. So, <br>
so other things are, we were going to, we originally were thinking about, Oh, do we need a second car? But then we decided, Nope, we&#39;ll stick to this one, make different places. So we just made it work. You know, one person would drop off the other and go to walk or we&#39;d walk. Um, what else did we do? We certainly examined our grocery budget and tried to look at some other ways to, um, reduce, we can come back to that. That&#39;s, that&#39;s a big HBO now. <br>
Um, Amazon prime, Netflix, Hulu. I mean we had like all four of &#39;em <br>
piddly little things, but all those little things added up to big results. Yes. <br>
Well, one thing we did eventually was, um, stopped going to get our haircut at a barber shop or a hairdresser. I started just buzzing my hair instead. I like having shorter hair anyway. And so we just bought ourselves a pair of Clippers at Costco and it pays [inaudible]. <br>
Yeah. And for a while I was watching YouTube videos on how to cut my own hair. Yes or no. Now I&#39;m like, eh, I&#39;ll go get my haircut. I&#39;ll just do it less frequently. Um, so those were some of the small things in terms of the [inaudible], the big, big one being housing. Um, we did actually leave that place. We were living at the time because John left a job that wasn&#39;t really working out for him. Um, and we moved in with family who had a baby on the way and we said, Hey, can we come? You know, we&#39;ll help look after the baby if we can stay in the little, you know, they had a mother in law suite in the back of the house and they said, of course, come on down. So we actually live with them for a little over a year. I was in the bro pair, so, um, that was honestly such a, uh, that was very, very generous of them to let us stay with them. But then not having that rent payment for awhile meant that we could, you know, uh, pay down debt at a pretty Swift rate, um, with, with, even though we were down to one salary at that point. That&#39;s awesome. So that really, I&#39;m sure that really helped speed up the process and get this knocked out even down to one income. That&#39;s pretty amazing. Now what were some of the things with meal prepping and food that you want to talk about to cut costs but yet not compromise your health? <br>
Sure. I think the number one thing to point out first is that the focus should always be on what&#39;s called nutrient density and not on calories. So a lot of people will say, Oh, this meal hasX  calories, so it&#39;s good or it&#39;s great, or it&#39;s this many dollars per calorie. And from our perspective as people trained in nutrition, that is just not the ideal way to go. <br>
Yeah, you really want to focus on nutrient density, um, which you know, is just what, what&#39;s going to get you. So, you know, you have macro nutrients like proteins, fats and carbohydrates, and then you have micronutrients, which are all the vitamins and minerals. So when we&#39;re talking about nutrient density, we&#39;re talking about those micronutrients there. So, um, so for us that looked like we were, uh, you can, for example, we talked about this a little bit earlier, but buying like a whole cow or a half a cow or even a quarter cow, you can go in with people and split up the meat. That really reduces the cost to, you know, four or five, three or four or $5 per pound depending on where you are. And you can still get really good quality, uh, grass fed, grass finished meat and support farmers who are raising their animals. In a way that is sustainable and not just sustainable sealant land, but is actually restoring the land so that it&#39;s better for everybody. Um, we started actually sprouting lentils and using that to stretch ground meat, which sounds weird, but in sprouting them, you are increasing the nutrient nutrition in the bioavailability, nerdy. You&#39;re increasing how your, how your body is able to absorb and use the nutrients <br>
gained. The, you know, you can sprout, you can soak and sprout, you know, all sorts of things. But basically you&#39;re doing is you&#39;re tricking that seed into thinking that it&#39;s already planted in the ground. And so then it will sort of turn off its natural defenses because normally the problem with legumes and nuts and seeds is that they have this protective shell that makes them really hard to digest. And so even people say, Oh, there&#39;s all these vitamins and minerals in these foods. You can&#39;t really get at it unless you do some, some sort of trickery. And so that&#39;s what the soaking the sprouting. <br>
So that&#39;s, yeah, so we did the sprouted lentils and we would make that one for one with ground beef. Um, I really like fermenting vegetables. So we would do our own sauerkraut and stuff, which is a natural and super cheap source of probiotics. Super simple, really intimidating. It&#39;s literally cabbage, salt and amaze and dark and time and time and not much time. Yeah. Yeah. Um, let&#39;s see, what else were we doing? We definitely changed where we were shopping, so I&#39;d say before we, <br>
I mean it was, we just didn&#39;t really give it a second thought as to where we were shopping. So buying more in bulk, um, buying locally and in season makes things a lot cheaper. That was super helpful. Um, and then, you know, since then I&#39;ve been doing a lot more sort of bartering and trading, which is new to me, but I know people have been doing that for centuries. Like for example, um, uh, this summer I have been helping out with, uh, actually where we get our meat, our farmers, they invited me to come help. Well, I offered to volunteer at their booth and they said, we&#39;ll pay you, you&#39;ve all, and told them, I volunteered them that I was going to help them at their farmer&#39;s market and they said, we&#39;ll pay you. So I basically just get paid in meat now. And so that&#39;s also, it does help reduce our grocery budget. <br>
That was that. And then just a quick tangent on meat. So we&#39;ve said that word a few times. I know that&#39;s kind of a controversial topic to a lot of people. We intentionally do consume it as nutritionist because it&#39;s one of the most nutrient dense foods on the planet, especially things like liver. Um, you know, people talk about quote unquote super foods and they&#39;ll mention things like Asai berries or KL. I was like, those things are great, but if you were to put a table of nutrients and put those side aside, they don&#39;t hold a candle. <br>
Yeah. Nutrient density. Like we can get into organ meats too as another cheap source of great nutrition. But, um, there&#39;s another, uh, another functional nutrition therapy practitioner of there. And she, she was said, um, I&#39;m pretty sure that all the, the like answers to nutritional problems can be solved with liver. I wish it were ice cream, but I&#39;m pretty sure it&#39;s liver. He&#39;s so much better if it was ice cream. So much better. Yeah. Actually that was another one. We did start cooking a little bit more with organ meats, which are, the benefit of those is that they&#39;re so rich in nutrients and they&#39;re really good for you, so likes, they&#39;re cheaper, they&#39;re cheaper. So, um, if you eat heart, it&#39;s good for your heart. If you eat liver, it&#39;s good for your liver, et cetera. Um, and I think, you know, especially in our culture, a lot of us are really squeamish about organ meats, but there&#39;s ways that you can prepare them that aren&#39;t too freaky, that don&#39;t taste weird and that you know, your, your kids and your husband will eat too and not know. <br>
For example, you can mix in a little bit of like meatballs for example. And you know, spices and herbs and things that can help cover up the flavor. Resurrection. She wrote a whole post on the blog about easy ways to eat liver and other organ meats. Yeah. Cause I hate liver so I&#39;m always trying to find, I know, but I know it&#39;s so good for me so I&#39;m always trying to find ways to get it in my diet. She actually makes her own liver pills. Yeah. I make desiccated liver capsules cause I&#39;m a weirdo. But anyway, it was expensive. You can make them really cheap. Yeah. This is, this is me being like I&#39;m not going to pay $50 for a bottle of 120 capsules of desiccated liver. I&#39;m going to figure out how to do it myself. $5. And you&#39;ve got some resources on your website that kind of gives people these ideas cause I&#39;m like, Oh yeah, eat liver. <br>
I don&#39;t like it. Yes. Yeah. Actually so, well, one thing that is a really good kind of introduction is if you make like a chicken liver Patty, if you just Google parte, it&#39;s basically liver plus butter plus herbs and you can do that on, you know, carrot sticks or cucumber slices and it&#39;s sort of like a good little dip. Yeah, it&#39;s really good. Chicken liver in general is much more mild livers of quote unquote ruminant animals. Cows. Yeah. Yeah. I&#39;d say if you&#39;re starting out do a chicken liver potty, that&#39;s a good way to dip your toes in the water. Yeah, you&#39;re really liked me and you really, really can&#39;t do any of the tastes. I think it is worth it to get like a in capsule form because it&#39;s just so good for you. Like livers rich in B vitamins, which give you energy, iron Coleen. <br>
It&#39;s good for the brain. It&#39;s good for your own liver and your own body&#39;s detox mechanisms. So yeah, huge fan of organ meat over here coming up. So Oregon meats buying a whole cow soaking and sprouting lentils. Oh, a quick thing about the lentils and the ground meat. So ground meat is another strategy on itself on its own because it tends to be much, much cheaper per pound. Yes. We switched from like steaks, you know, I&#39;m doing more things with gardens. Yeah. I love me a good steak but more expensive per pound. So yeah, having ground meat most of the time doing meatballs, things like that. Yeah. Now what about, um, cause I kinda switched to like ground chicken and ground pork. Is that healthier than like ground beef? Insane, kind of the same idea or no <br>
fear? I&#39;d say they&#39;re fine. Um, yeah, so there is this notion that red meat is unhealthy. That&#39;s a really, really common belief. It&#39;s just flat out not true. There&#39;s a lot of myths. That&#39;s why a whole other podcast, we don&#39;t have that here, but you can easily, you can easily look into, um, there&#39;s, there was a lot of shoddy science, a lot of vested interests, um, a lot of politics, so into that. So, um, as so I&#39;m a certified in functional nutrition. I can tell you that&#39;s just not true. Um, but if you don&#39;t like it, that&#39;s, I think often that&#39;s where I come to is if you like other meats more or if you like fish like fine, go for it. Um, or if you are a vegetarian, like there are ways to at least optimize your nutrition within those restrictions. You know, having more eggs for example, or having full fat dairy. <br>
So other than those things, um, yeah, it really, I think it was mostly sort of the aggregation of small gains that really just added up over time and then continually going back and looking at our budget again. Every month we do a thing called open loops for each week we&#39;ll meet and have sort of a budget party and we&#39;ll look at, we&#39;ll get all our spending for the week. We&#39;ll review upcoming events or upcoming expenses and sort of make it fun. Um, which actually that&#39;s another sort of tangent. One of the things we did while we were paying off debt to help make that fine as every time we&#39;d make a debt payment, we&#39;d literally do a dance, <br>
happy dance, happy dance. We&#39;d like hold hands and jump up and down and it sounds so ridiculous, but we look forward to that so much like every time that we, you know, every time that our paychecks would come over, like yes, we get a pay off debt and do her happy dance. And so, um, I like anytime you&#39;re trying to establish a habit like that, I would highly recommend the happy dance because it just, it gives you a little burst of excitement and it, it&#39;s, once you, it makes you want to do that behavior more. Yeah. She helps create a new habit loop. Yes. Highly recommend the happy dance. I think there&#39;s a video of it on our Instagram now. Do you guys have any tips or advice for couples that maybe aren&#39;t quite on the same page of maybe just like working together compromising so that you can reach your bigger goal? <br>
Yeah, this is a really, I think, important and interesting topic to me. Um, I really think it&#39;s important not to push, not to nag, you know, each person has to come to this on their own and they have to have buy-in intrinsically. In fact, we could talk more about the Gretchen Rubin four tenancies again here I think because especially if your partner is what&#39;s called a rebel, the more you push and the more you talk about this, the more they&#39;re going to resist and push back. <br>
So just stepping back a bit. So, um, I mentioned Gretchen Rubin earlier, but she&#39;s, um, an author and also a podcast or who has developed, she had wrote a book called the four tendencies. So it&#39;s this framework of four different tendencies of people and they differ based on how they respond to expectation. So she says like internal expectation might be like a new year&#39;s resolution, whereas external expectation could be like a work deadline or something your partner wants you to do. Um, so there are these four types which are upholder, obliger, questioner and rebel. And so they&#39;ll uphold both internal and external expectations. So you give them something to do, no problem, checkbox, they&#39;ll do it. Don&#39;t even have to ask them again. Um, anything they want to do, like adopting a new habit, done, no problem. Obligers or aspire to be. How do you just, you just make up your mind and you just do it. <br>
How is that possible? Um, and then you&#39;ve got the obligers. So for them it&#39;s, it&#39;s hard for them to accomplish something, uh, less. They know they have accountability, so they&#39;ll do the things that are external expectations, but it&#39;s hard for them to stick to internal expectation. Then there&#39;s the question or type, which like, John, uh, they will do something if essentially what they&#39;re doing is turning it into internal expectation if they go, yep, that makes sense. With my logic and the way I see the world. And if it doesn&#39;t make sense, then they&#39;re like, well that&#39;s silly. You know, that that doesn&#39;t make sense. So that is external. If it&#39;s a rule or if somebody in authority says you have to do this thing, if it doesn&#39;t make sense, I&#39;m not going to do it. Yeah. And then the last one is the rebel type. <br>
So rebels, which is what I am, I&#39;m resist internal and external expectations. So you can tell rebels if you say, I, you know, you can&#39;t do that or I bet you couldn&#39;t do X. The rebel will say, watch me. So I have, um, you know, one thing I always say is that it&#39;s best to just assume that everybody is a rebel and then you&#39;ll always do, it&#39;s a safe assumption. So I think that in doing that, you, you always have to make the rebel think that it&#39;s their idea. They have to come to that conclusion on their own. So one exercise that I think is really useful that I heard about, um, uh, the, have you heard the, you&#39;ve seen the plane with fire documentary? Um, I haven&#39;t watched it now. Okay. So, well anyway, in that when the husband in that documentary is bringing up to the wife, uh, what, what he had to do was make a list of the 10 things that make you happiest. <br>
And so it was like, you know, spending time with my baby, like spending time with my husband, hearing my baby laugh, you know, a glass of wine, chocolate, whatever. And then the approach became, okay, how can we get more of these things that make us the happiest in our life? And so viewing it that way, how can we get more of what we already want instead of where should we we or should we cut money? Right? You know, where should we cut expenses? It&#39;s about, okay, let&#39;s figure out how to strategize to get more of the things that we want. So like for us, that was freedom, fulfillment, being close to family, being able to work from home. And so we&#39;ve made a lot of sacrifices and a lot of decisions for us to get more of those things that we want. So I&#39;d say if you approach your partner, have proposed that exercise, say like, look, let&#39;s both take a piece of paper, we&#39;ll go away, we&#39;ll write down the 10 things that bring us the most joy and then we&#39;ll come together and compare our lists and that. <br>
Yeah, that that&#39;s what they did in playing with fire. That&#39;s what they talked about in the book that they wrote. And I really liked that because, because when you approach things from what do you want, how do you get more of the things that you want? It&#39;s something that you&#39;re running towards, not something that you&#39;re running away from. Right. And it just seems more like a world of possibility and there&#39;s room for creativity and figuring out how do we do this rather than, okay we have to cut more money. I guess we&#39;re really, you know, we really need to cut out spending here. Like that&#39;s not motivating or not sustainable. Exactly. Cause inevitably is it both <br>
partners are not fully [inaudible]. You know, in it, one partner who doesn&#39;t really want to do it, we&#39;ll do it for a while, to a certain extent to make the other partner happy, but the whole time it&#39;ll be a sacrifice and it&#39;ll be something they&#39;re doing for the other person, which has resentment and resistance and it&#39;s just not a recipe for a happy marriage or getting out of debt or <br>
building financial independence. So, so I&#39;d say, yeah, the first thing is that list of the 10, you know, the 10 things that make you the most happy. The second thing I would say is, is um, figuring out if those four tendencies, which are partners, you might already have a good idea of what they are, but Gretchen Rubin does have a quiz on her website, um, which is free. You can find out which one you are, but if you know what type they are, then you can, um, you can persuade them in a way that fits their type. And you can also help build systems that will work for both of you with, but with what your types are. So for John, he was persuaded by the logic of the Dave Ramsey baby steps for another questioner. Like John maybe looking at the math of, okay, look, if we push hard, we could get all of this paid off in this amount of time and then we&#39;d have more freedom to do X, Y, and Z. You know, if it&#39;s a rebel, it&#39;s the, what do you want more of? Like how can we be creative to get more freedom and letting you be yourself. <br>
And I think the rebel to adding in that, you know, an element of credit card companies or the man, you know, they want you to be in debt. <br>
Yeah. They want you to be controlled. That&#39;s how you get a rebel to control you and you, you&#39;re not gonna, you&#39;re not the type of person to be controlled are you? Then it&#39;s really hard. You probably can&#39;t do it. Yeah. And then so with the obliger, it&#39;s a matter of accountability. So, Mmm. You know, building in those systems of maybe it&#39;s art, like our open loops meetings where once a week you&#39;re coming together and discussing these things, the upholders, they&#39;ll just do it. You don&#39;t have to worry about that. So that is really good advice. Um, so do I even need to ask you what your favorite nonfiction book is? I think we have a good idea that I have probably gifted that book to people more than any other book. It really, my life, it changed my, my, uh, how I viewed myself. It changed our marriage. It changed how we relate to our family members, to our coworkers <br>
already. I think a good solid marriage and we have good relationships with family, but it just made it even that much better and that much easier to understand why people do what they do. Which pride for me as a questioner is really important. <br>
Yeah. Yeah. And we love that stuff. We love, like why do people behave the way they do? Right. <br>
Um, that&#39;s definitely one of them. Another book that&#39;s been very transformative for us. It&#39;s called the power of when [inaudible] and this is all about what are called chronotypes, which are your natural circadian rhythm. So your body clock clock KC. Exactly. Um, you know, we had this earlier, I&#39;d mentioned that Rosemary is a morning person. I&#39;m a night person. There&#39;s actually four types that the author lays out, which are, they&#39;re named after animals. So there&#39;s a lion, which is the morning person, early riser. Go get him first thing in the morning. They start, you know, they start at 11 and then they quickly taper off afternoon and just crash. It was just Rosemary. There&#39;s the bear and they&#39;re sort of the nine to five. They follow the sun. So most of about 50% of population are bears. And this is actually how most of society is organized, is around the natural biorhythms of bears. <br>
So you know, we have worked nine to five, that&#39;s the bare schedule. Third is the Wolf. That&#39;s what I am. So we are really slowly at going in the morning. We tend to be up later and wake up later. Um, it&#39;s been really empowering to find out that&#39;s what I am because my whole life I always felt frustrated that the entire world seemed to be sort of designed against this natural rhythm. And I always felt like I was lazy or there was something wrong with me cause I just couldn&#39;t get up earlier and I would never be able to fall asleep early enough to get up early. So <br>
same here. I worked night shift. So you&#39;re probably the Wolf type. Yeah. <br>
Um, and then the fourth one is dolphin and these are sort of the classic insomniac where they have a really hard time falling and staying asleep. Um, but what he lays out in the book is not only normalizing that these, these four tendencies are all normal and natural, but then also he gives you schedules that are sort of optimized for each type, which is really, I mean everything from, you know, when to eat, when to work, when to do creative work, when to do more admin and minutiae type stuff. Um, even work out what to do when to exercise based on your, your natural rhythms would have sex based on your natural rhythms for, you know, APOE enjoyment. And then most important I think in terms of the relationship is if you are a different type from your partner, figuring out sort of the, the, the best compromise time for things based on both of you. So obviously with Rosemary and I, we&#39;re kind of opposite ends of the, the spectrum here in terms of time, but we figured out a rhythm that, that works for both of us where we can still, you know, <br>
have a happy, <br>
healthy marriage and still see each other sometimes not want to bite each other&#39;s heads off. Yeah. That&#39;s awesome. I&#39;ll have to check that one out. So do you have any last words of wisdom you&#39;ve given us lots to think about today? I think one thing that, uh, that, that I always say, um, that about, you know, why it&#39;s worth spending money on getting food that&#39;s of a higher quality. It&#39;s, you can choose to pay the farmer now or you can pay the doctor later. And that&#39;s really up to you. And for us, we just found that it&#39;s worth it to spend a little bit more money, um, on higher quality food and know that we&#39;re taking care of ourselves so that when we do get to a point where we can retire, where, uh, you can enjoy it, we can enjoy it fully. So yeah, we do kind of see food and nutrition and health in general is an investment in your most important asset, which is, you know, there&#39;s a lot of people that will optimize for finances there, their financial assets and they&#39;ll have a great portfolio, but they don&#39;t have the health to fully enjoy it. <br>
Uh, I remember when I was living and working in Taiwan years ago, uh, one of the guys that I was teaching, very wealthy guy, and he had this great quote, which is, he said, health is a one and wealth are zeros. And if you have all these zeros but you don&#39;t have the one in front, it&#39;s meaningless. Wow. And that&#39;s always stuck with me. That&#39;s, yeah. Yeah. I think just, I&#39;m going to add one other word of wisdom that I really, really like and that is that I&#39;m sort of going along with what we were saying about the sleep chronotypes and the four tendencies is that we can&#39;t ascribe morality to biology. So if you are that night owl type, you know, that&#39;s the way your body is designed to run for you. You&#39;re not broken, you&#39;re not a lazy or bad person. Similarly, um, you know, with the, with whatever tendency you are, if it&#39;s rebel or, or a bunch of whatever, like, you know, I&#39;m not a, I used to just have this belief that like I&#39;m a difficult person. <br>
I seem to be like dissatisfied in a cubicle job. Like, what&#39;s wrong with me? Other people seem to be okay with this. And he goes, Oh, I&#39;m just a rebel. So, um, I think helping to understand yourself. Yeah. Yeah. Knowing yourself, knowing these concepts that helps you remove that morality from your own biology and understand, Oh, this is just the way I&#39;m wired, so now I can make allowances and make changes in my life too. Um, you know, allow that part of me to flourish. Definitely. That&#39;s great. Now where can people find you? Yeah, so we&#39;re on Instagram at flourish fundamentals. Our website is flourish fundamentals.com. Um, and we have a weekly newsletter, so we&#39;re on flourish Friday. So, um, if you sign up for a newsletter on our website, we send out recipes and, um, teach you about the stuff that you need to do to take care of yourself for optimal wellness. <br>
And then actually, I&#39;m currently writing my third book right now. Um, I&#39;m writing a book that&#39;s all about kind of seasonal mood changes. I&#39;ve always had a really hard time in the fall and winter, and now that that&#39;s rolling around again, um, I decided to kind of take all this knowledge and research that I&#39;ve done over the past year and some things that I&#39;ve implemented to help myself with that sort of putting that into a book to help other people that struggle with the same thing. Oh, awesome. Yeah, that&#39;s gonna be called happy in winter. Oh, awesome. I can&#39;t wait to read it. Yeah, I will if then you copy [inaudible]. Sounds good. Thanks you guys so much for being here today. Thank you, Ashley. Thank you.</p><p>Special Guest: John &amp; Rosemary Fotheringham.</p>]]>
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  <title>#18 How Chris Paid Off $52,000 in Just 7 Months! </title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 16 Dec 2019 05:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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  <itunes:title>#18 How Chris Paid Off $52,000 in Just 7 Months! </itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Chris and his wife were able to pay off $52,000 in 7 months by getting on the same page and working together. It certainly wasn't easy in the beginning but they both made changes and reached their big goal! </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>35:24</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Chris and his wife were able to pay off $52,000 in 7 months by getting on the same page and working together. It certainly wasn't easy in the beginning but they both made changes and reached their big goal! 
Paid off $52k of debt in 2011. Started Money Peach in 2015. I’ve done over 120 episodes on the Money Peach Podcast. My focus is on creating budgets, saving money, and debt payoff. 
Website: https://www.moneypeach.com 
Email: chris@moneypeach.com 
Social Handles: Facebook @themoneypeach, Twitter: @TheMoneyPeach, IG: @thechrispeach 
Resources mentioned:
The Debt Bundle (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/)
The One Thing by Gary Keller (https://amzn.to/34rGRMy) (affiliate link)
 Special Guest: Chris Peach.
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<p>Paid off $52k of debt in 2011. Started Money Peach in 2015. I’ve done over 120 episodes on the Money Peach Podcast. My focus is on creating budgets, saving money, and debt payoff. </p>

<p>Website: <a href="https://www.moneypeach.com" rel="nofollow">https://www.moneypeach.com</a> </p>

<p>Email: <a href="mailto:chris@moneypeach.com" rel="nofollow">chris@moneypeach.com</a> </p>

<p>Social Handles: Facebook @themoneypeach, Twitter: @TheMoneyPeach, IG: @thechrispeach </p>

<p>Resources mentioned:<br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/" rel="nofollow">The Debt Bundle</a><br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/34rGRMy" rel="nofollow">The One Thing by Gary Keller</a> (affiliate link)</p><p>Special Guest: Chris Peach.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Chris and his wife were able to pay off $52,000 in 7 months by getting on the same page and working together. It certainly wasn&#39;t easy in the beginning but they both made changes and reached their big goal! </p>

<p>Paid off $52k of debt in 2011. Started Money Peach in 2015. I’ve done over 120 episodes on the Money Peach Podcast. My focus is on creating budgets, saving money, and debt payoff. </p>

<p>Website: <a href="https://www.moneypeach.com" rel="nofollow">https://www.moneypeach.com</a> </p>

<p>Email: <a href="mailto:chris@moneypeach.com" rel="nofollow">chris@moneypeach.com</a> </p>

<p>Social Handles: Facebook @themoneypeach, Twitter: @TheMoneyPeach, IG: @thechrispeach </p>

<p>Resources mentioned:<br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/" rel="nofollow">The Debt Bundle</a><br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/34rGRMy" rel="nofollow">The One Thing by Gary Keller</a> (affiliate link)</p><p>Special Guest: Chris Peach.</p>]]>
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  <title>#5 How To Pay Off Debt Fast Tips</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 16 Sep 2019 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:title>#5 How To Pay Off Debt Fast Tips</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>These simple tips will help you start paying off debt fast! It all starts and ends with finding your motivation and then getting to work with these effective tips. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>33:36</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>These simple tips will help you get started on paying off your debt today. 
Learn the ways that I stayed motivated to pay off debt fast while I was paying off $45,000 in just 17 months. 
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Debt Pay Off Tips (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/how-to-get-rid-of-debt-fast/)
Debt Success Stories (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/category/paying-off-debt/debt-success-stories/)
Budgeting for Beginners: A Step-by-Step Guide (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-beginners-guide/)
No-Spend Challenge tips and printable (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-spend-challenge/)
No Eating Out Challenge Printable (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-eating-out-challenge)
Debt Snowball Bundle!  (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/)Get your free worksheets and spreadsheet! 
The Debt Snowball Method Explained (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-snowball/)
Billcutterz  (https://billcutterz.com/?p=budgetsmadeeasy)(affiliate link) 
Wallet Card (https://financialfreedomcrew.com/walletcard/)
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  <itunes:keywords>pay off debt tips, debt snowball, debt success stories</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>These simple tips will help you get started on paying off your debt today. </p>

<p>Learn the ways that I stayed motivated to pay off debt fast while I was paying off $45,000 in just 17 months. </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/how-to-get-rid-of-debt-fast/" rel="nofollow">Debt Pay Off Tips</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/category/paying-off-debt/debt-success-stories/" rel="nofollow">Debt Success Stories</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-beginners-guide/" rel="nofollow">Budgeting for Beginners: A Step-by-Step Guide</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-spend-challenge/" rel="nofollow">No-Spend Challenge tips and printable</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-eating-out-challenge" rel="nofollow">No Eating Out Challenge Printable</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/" rel="nofollow">Debt Snowball Bundle! </a>Get your free worksheets and spreadsheet! <br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-snowball/" rel="nofollow">The Debt Snowball Method Explained</a><br>
<a href="https://billcutterz.com/?p=budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">Billcutterz </a>(affiliate link) <br>
<a href="https://financialfreedomcrew.com/walletcard/" rel="nofollow">Wallet Card</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>These simple tips will help you get started on paying off your debt today. </p>

<p>Learn the ways that I stayed motivated to pay off debt fast while I was paying off $45,000 in just 17 months. </p>

<p>Resources mentioned in this episode:<br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/how-to-get-rid-of-debt-fast/" rel="nofollow">Debt Pay Off Tips</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/category/paying-off-debt/debt-success-stories/" rel="nofollow">Debt Success Stories</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/budgeting-beginners-guide/" rel="nofollow">Budgeting for Beginners: A Step-by-Step Guide</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-spend-challenge/" rel="nofollow">No-Spend Challenge tips and printable</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-eating-out-challenge" rel="nofollow">No Eating Out Challenge Printable</a><br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-bundle/" rel="nofollow">Debt Snowball Bundle! </a>Get your free worksheets and spreadsheet! <br>
<a href="https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/debt-snowball/" rel="nofollow">The Debt Snowball Method Explained</a><br>
<a href="https://billcutterz.com/?p=budgetsmadeeasy" rel="nofollow">Billcutterz </a>(affiliate link) <br>
<a href="https://financialfreedomcrew.com/walletcard/" rel="nofollow">Wallet Card</a></p>]]>
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  <title>#3 Getting On The Same Page With Your Spouse About Money with Adam H. Kol, J.D. </title>
  <link>https://www.themoneymindsetpodcast.com/3</link>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2019 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Ashley Patrick</author>
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  <itunes:author>Ashley Patrick</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Adam H. Kol, J.D. is a Couples Financial Counselor. He helps couples who love each other make sure that the money conversation doesn't get in the way, allowing them to experience greater peace and love. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>30:11</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Get the advice and tips you need to get on the same page as your spouse about money. It's so important to examine your individual money mindsets then come together for a common goal. This can lead to a greater understand of each other's points of view which can lead to better communication and money management. 
Adam H. Kol, J.D. is a Couples Financial Counselor. He helps couples who love each other make sure that the money conversation doesn't get in the way, allowing them to experience greater peace and love. Adam draws on over a decade of experience as a Certified Mediator, Communication Coach, and a former Tax Attorney and Financial Advisor. Adam received his law degree from Duke and a Master's in Tax Law from NYU. Through working with Adam, couples have gone from the verge of divorce to being best friends, all while making huge financial progress. Adam’s work is informed by perspectives of equity and social justice. He is an experienced community organizer, as well as a lifelong musician.
You can find Adam's amazing resources at www.ahkcoaching.com and follow him on social media at @ahkcoaching or on Linked in at Adam H. Kol, J.D.
Resouces mentioned in this episode:
The Essential Money Conversation Checklist: http://eepurl.com/gbTPc1
To schedule a complimentary Financial Harmony Consultation with Adam: http://bit.ly/financialharmonyconsultation
Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/moneymarriage/
Favorite nonfiction books:
The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts (https://amzn.to/2LC613Z)
Structure of Scientific Revolutions by Thomas Juhn (https://amzn.to/2MT9wGd) 
Full transcript:
It's exciting and I'm grateful to be able to share what I do. Uh, which is, I specialize in working with couples who as you said, I mean they're in a relationship, things are going pretty well. Um, just money is a difficult topic for them. I mean I've also worked with couples who are having more avoidance or fights around money. Um, I've even had couples come to me on the verge of divorce, as intense as that and I've been able to help them get back to being best friends again while also paying off a ton of debt and getting businesses restarted and all kinds of wonderful outcomes. Uh, my goal is to help people and couples come together, get closer, more intimacy, more connection, more love and more partnership. And I actually do that through working on their money stuff, helping them talk about money, helping them understand their own relationship to money. And I like to use art as well to help people kind of draw out their own interrelationship to money so that they can use that to further their partnership with their significant other.
Yep. That's great. Because, you know, we each have to work on our own money mindsets, but then when you're with a couple of, you know, you, you have to work, you both have to work on the individual mindset and then work together. So that's a pretty, um, pretty big task to try and work on your own mindset and then drain other on it. So, so what is the number one thing that couples can do to work together on their finances?
Yeah, I mean, the number one thing is, is talk and listen, right? Like, um, the money is an area of life and relationships. Just like so many others in our minds, it's, we kind of separate it and make it as if it's somehow really distinct. Maybe because we're afraid of the numbers and maybe because we didn't grow up talking about money. It's a taboo topic. We're afraid of it. There's some shame around it. All of which is very common. Um, but the biggest thing is to talk, so your partner, share your thoughts, share your fears, share your hopes and dreams and ask them about theirs and listen to theirs. Right. And, um, a lot of times what I see is that couples will get caught up in, uh, some something on the surface level. Like, oh, we shouldn't have spent $45 on this item. And what's really missing is that they are not align, they're not on the same page. And the way to get there is through that talking and through that listening.
And so I always tell people to, you know, dream together. So just like you said, you know, make sure or work on your goals and have the same like big goal. Um, and you know, a lot of times, and um, correct me if I'm wrong on your aspect and how you see things with working with couples is, um, I totally where I was going with that. Oh, compromise. You know, sometimes you just have to compromise a little bit because you know, especially if both people think that they need to be right or their way is the right way. Um, and it is just kinda like compromising a little bit, giving a little bit both of them so that they can come together and work on the [inaudible] bigger picture. And so like you said, you know, worrying about like the smaller amounts but focus on the big things.
Yeah, absolutely. And of course each situation is different. And for some couples, the, you know, the smaller things may be important if you're living paycheck to paycheck or really struggling. Um, and that happens a lot to families in the u s uh, but it's like about having that, like you said, those shared dreams. And um, I once said like, there's not right or wrong in relationships. There's just intimacy and you know, there's this point where you're like, well, what is right? What is wrong? Like, who, not to be all philosophical, but it's like, is that really what matters? Right? We get caught up in it because we're human and we have an ego and it's our blessing and our curse. And yet like to be able to step back and say, okay, is how I'm showing up right now in service of the kind of partner I want to be in, the kind of relationship I want to have.
Right? And it's okay if the answer's no because again, you're human and we all have times where we show up, not the self we really want to be. However, to be able to be in that inquiry, that self reflection, notice it and then step back and be able to be like, whoa, take a breath. Go to your partner and be like, I'm sorry I was kind of being a butthead. Right? And, um, can we revisit this? Because you love your partner, you have shared, you want to live your best lives individually and as a couple and as a family if you have one. Right? So the point is to get over there, right? Not to necessarily be right or wrong. Um, and that just the best way to get there, like I said, is just to take a breath, step back, take a look at your behavior. As I once saw someone say like, am I in like a space of love right now? Am I coming from love or am I coming from like fear? Right? And if you, the more you can come from love, the better your is going to be. And then by the time you get down to the budgeting, then it'll be seamless to implement the expertise of whatever you're doing in your budget or someone like your programs. Because if you're on the same page and there's no resistance, now it's just a matter of doing the work.
Absolutely. So where, where should couples start when they can't agree on how to manage their money or their budget? Like when they're just butting heads. Like what is some advice that you would give a couple that comes to you and they just cannot seem to agree on how to handle their money?
Yeah, it's a great question and it's very right. And this is something that cuts across the income and like class categories, no matter how much people are making or not, they will often still have this struggle. Um, and the first place that I like to go with couples is to have them each do a little bit of digging into their own money mindset and then share that with each other because it's a safe entryway to the money conversation. See, a lot of people are used to either not having money conversations or when they do, they're like super awkward, super uncomfortable. They may lead to a lot of arguing or tension. And so I like to get it started by getting a healthy conversation under your belt. And when you're just talking about your own history with money in your own past, there's not really anything to argue about.
It's just kind of like, here's how it was for me growing up. This is some of the messages I internalized about money based on Xyz, based on my family, based on my gender or my race or whatever, and the societal norms and stuff like that. You know, I find that to be a pretty safe conversation for people to get started with. Um, and the other thing is to just have the courage to ask for a conversation with your significant other. And to frame it in a constructive way. Like it's not like, hey, we need to talk about our budget. Right? It's actually like, you know what, I love you. I want to have the best possible life together. We can. And money I know is an important part of that. And I'm a little bit anxious because we haven't been talking about it or are actively managing it.
So like when can we have a conversation about that? Right. Something like that that actually frames it. So they see that your teammates, right. Cause a lot of times, like you said, they're having trouble managing their money together. It starts to feel like they're in opposition to each other. Like they're kinda not rowing in the same direction and just reasserting like, hey, we're talking about this because we're teammates because we're looking to both have great lives. Like, I want a great life for myself and I want a great life for you as my partner who I love. Um, so really just creating that context is powerful.
Yes. I love that. That's really great advice. So what tips, um, just to kind of flow into the next topic, this is kind of related then, is what tips would you have for couples to kind of goal plan together? So once they get like on the same mindset or they, you know, maybe understand each other's mindset a little bit better and then moving forward to the next step, you know, goal planning so that they are working together toward the same goal.
Yeah, just like be inside of like love and curiosity within four and about each other. Like, because it's very common for people to not even, we don't even know what we want, knowing what our partners want. Um, and that's an inquiry that is ongoing and changes over time. Um, so just really creating the space to have that conversation. If you've never had it before, you know, it doesn't have to be painful or exacting. It's just like whatever intimacy looks like for you and your partner, you know, do that. Some people, it's light a candle or open a glass of wine or have a nice meal or just cuddle on the couch, you know, whatever it is, create that space where your care for each other as present for both of you. And then just talk about it. Um, and one thing I've been playing with and just kind of an idea that I've had that I tossed out to my girlfriend recently came out of one of my coaching calls, um, is to play with different scenarios.
Like be like, what if we did this? Because sometimes I feel like we have this pressure that we have to just somehow magically know what our top choices, like what we want. And it almost like we have to call Alessa out of thin air versus being like, okay, what if we like worked 50 hours a week now and then retired when we were 55 versus like, you know, working 40 hours a week now and like retiring when we're 65. Like how do you think about those two? Right? And it's not that life is necessarily gonna go exactly that way, but it's always powerful to have a plan and you can always adjust. But like, you know, actually kind of sketch out some different ideas or scenarios and then talk through what are your thoughts on something like that. How does that make you feel? What would be not so good about that?
What would be really awesome about that? Right. And ask these like, I like to call them, well they're called open ended questions where it's not like a yes or no question because it's like you want to retire at 55 is like a yes or no answer and that's fine sometimes, but it's like, what are your thoughts on retirement? Or like, tell me about how you think about when you want to retire or like what are the important considerations for you around retirement, right. You give the other person this like expansive space where they can really think for themselves and, uh, get a richer response.
Yeah. And just kinda dream together. You know, my husband and I, um, you know, with building my business and really wanting to make this like a fulltime thing possibly even for both of us and you know, we sit and we dream about what if we got an RV and just traveled out west and just traveled the country and you know, just having the freedom to be able to do whatever we wanted to because you know, with, with my job in podcast and a blog and all that, I can, you know, as long as I have a computer and Internet I can go anywhere. So, you know, just being able to like dream with your partner about different ideas of what you might want to do or do want to do in the future and Kinda like how to make that happen. I think that is great.
Absolutely. I love what you're visioning as well with your husband and you know, I encourage listeners, I give yourself and your your significant other like complete latitude, like even ideas that might seem ludicrous or like, oh I don't know, we can't do that. Just dream. Just let them just let the words flow, let the ideas flow. Even if all you get is a temporary feeling of excitement and like that excitement and nervousness and the liveliness, right you've been, that is a beautiful thing to experience. But um, just let the ideas flow. You never know. I mean, I was, I have a couple I'm working with. They came to me like their relationships great, but money is uncomfortable for them. They've been slacking on tracking it. Um, and so they wanted some support in that area. And where the conversation actually flowed was too, that each of them is underpaid in their current jobs.
And in having them examine that and uh, get coached to the point where they can go have a conversation with their boss. It's just like transpired. All these different things have transpired and now the wife is like, I actually don't know if I want to stay at this job. I might even want to change careers. There's some interest in starting my own business or even going back and taking some classes and then, yeah, that's true. We're not tied to the bay area anymore. If I'm not gonna work at that job, we could go wherever we want, like our husband's job. There's opportunities for him everywhere. And now they're just like thinking, right. They're like, maybe we're gonna get like a beach house in Monterey and go live there and like, awesome. And I don't know where it's going to go. It's up to them. Right. But they have now seen so much of what's possible doing this work.
Yeah. And they're excited about it now where when they came to you, they were, you know, stressed out and fighting and now they are dreaming together and seeing what's possible for their future. And that's, you know, that's what I want for people. That's so exciting.
Yeah. In fact, like, you know, there's folks like, you actually were like the budgeting experts and while I budget with my clients, my expertise is really on that emotional communication mindset, coaching piece of it. And like what tends to happen with my clients is like, I'll send them a budget template to fill in, but then they just do it themselves. And like with this couple that I was referencing though, I was like, yeah, now like when I do the budget, I'm, I'm super excited. It's not like stressful anymore. I just do it cause it's like I know that it's helping us achieve our goals. I'm like, okay, awesome. Great.
Yeah. Cause the, you know, it's really just the foundation or the stepping stone to getting, you know, what their big picture, their dream, you know, and that's, that's awesome that it's not stressful and overwhelming now because they have something to look forward to and something that they're working for. That's awesome.
Yeah. Yeah. I love it. They're awesome.
So what, um, so I get this a lot. Like even when, um, you know, somebody, they come to me, we're working on managing their money. Um, they get the budget done. They, they are excited about it, but then their spouse just is so reluctant they won't get on board with the budget. They sabotage it. Like they still take the debit card and they go to the gas station. Like they're still spending, even though you know, they need to work together. What is your advice for somebody that's like working really hard to do what they've done? The ground work, you know, they've laid it all out, the PR, you know, the spouse may be like, okay, I'm good with that. But then they turn around and they sabotage the budget anyway. Like what is your advice for a couple that is, that is dealing with that they're just one, one partner is just completely sabotaging it or not. I'm not, they're not on the same page, but they're just recklessly spending still. While one is trying really hard to manage the money better.
Yeah. Yeah. Great question. And I mean there's almost like a couple of questions in there. Um, but if the, you know, I guess I'll, I'll answer kind of like two questions that I heard. The first one is if one partner is struggling to have like the other person's not on board in general, then that's really where some of the things I've been talking about through this call and some of the other things I talk about, like on my youtube videos there are just really helpful for getting the conversation started. Because my recommendation is always, especially if you share funds with your partner, if you two live together, if you're planning a future together, then have like get them on board, right? These are conversations you should be having with both of you as far as creating your goals and your visions and your budget to implement that.
So that, you know, that's really the first place and that's just where getting in their world, understanding what's going on for them. And even if you have to, like I said, that framing of, look, I want to have a great life with you and I know this is an important part of it. Um, so when's a good time to have the conversation? Not like, do you want to talk about it? Like we need to talk about it. And you know, there's, I was at a, on a panel earlier this week and, or I guess it was technically last week now I got asked a very similar question to this and I said, you know, we need to expect our partners to be on board for these conversations just because it's been a taboo topic and past generations that doesn't work because we're missing out on our opportunity to thrive.
And it's creating anxiety and resentment and fear and worry and tension and fighting. It's number one cause of fights and relationships. It's the number one or number two cause of divorce in every study I've ever seen. Uh, at least for like us marriages. And this is a country with a huge divorce rate. So this is not some small beans, small potatoes, whatever you want to call it, kind of issue. This is something that needs to be tackled. And so you like, you got to come at it with that, right? The same way you come at it with like talking about where to live or where to have children or if there were challenges in your like intimate life. Like if those things, the same degree of seriousness with which you take those because of how much they matter to the integrity of your relationship, I think money's the same way.
And you know, there's no one way to do it, but holding your partner to account, like, look, we gotta be talking about this. This is an essential issue that touches every aspect of our lives. You want to buy a home? How are we going to do that without being on the same page financially? You want to have kids, how are we going to do that without being on the same page financially? You want to retire? How are we going to do that without being on the same page, financially start a business, et Cetera, right? It is that important. Um, and of course every day we're spending money. Every day we have bills to pay. Every day we buy lunch or groceries or whatever. So my, it's like we need to be holding our partners to account like, we need to talk about this. Right? Um, and you know, if they're hesitant, of course you want to bring compassion and love, you know, like why, you know, what comes up for you around this?
Why, you know, where do you think your hesitancy comes from? Or like, why don't you like it? Um, you know, and there's, that's where having them do some mindset work and understanding their money story can be really powerful because there's a reason they don't want to talk about it. You know, like for example, men, we're socialized that our value is in providing for our family. And so if we feel like a conversation is implying that we're not doing that job well, um, not at a conscious level even, but like unconsciously, it just triggers like a sense of shame. Like, we're not good enough. We're not doing what we're supposed to do as a man. And that becomes like an existential crisis. Even though the man may be completely unaware that this is what's happening for him, it's nevertheless often what's happening. And so, you know, to be able to traverse that bridge and get to the other side is not always easy, but it takes some listening, some questions, some empathy, some understanding and some patients, um, and uh, of course women have their own ways that they're socialized about money.
And that's like I said before, it's not just about gender, it's about race and sexual orientation. All of this stuff plays into how we see ourselves and how other people see us money. And so, uh, it takes a nuanced approach to really break through those barriers. Um, but the number one thing is to keep bringing your love, your empathy, your curiosity to that person. And it's honestly the same answer as if they're sabotaging the budget even if they agreed to it. Right. Cause if you just got them like you agreed to this budget and now you're sabotaging it, I mean you can, you know how that's going to go. It's not saying you shouldn't hold them accountable right in that spot. It's more like, hey, you know, I feel really like you want to kind of own your feelings. Like, I feel really anxious when I'm ICU using the debit card because we had agreed not to and this plan is really important for our future.
So I get scared. We're not going to be able to have the life we want. I'm like, can you tell me what's going on there for you? Right. Like, ask an open ended question again. Like, can you tell me what's happening there for you? Like, or you know, like in a non accusatory way, just as much as, as neutrally as possible. Right. Because there's a reason they use that debit card. They may not know it, but there's some sort of reason that they did. Right. Um, maybe they just don't like being told what to do. Right. And again, that's an unconscious thing. And so they're acting out kind of like a teenager, but that's cause it's like, you know, childhood crap that, Ooh, excuse my language, but childhood that hasn't been, uh, hasn't been dealt with. Right. Um, and so there's a lot of important work to do around mindset, which is a lot of the work you're doing, which is why it's so great. It's really important to examine that stuff.
That's great. I hadn't even thought about some of the subconscious things like that, so I'm really glad that you mentioned that. Um, so do you have any resources that you would recommend for couples? Um, either your stuff or you know, stuff that you highly recommend to kind of maybe help them work together to get on the same page? Books or workbooks or anything like that?
Yeah, absolutely. So, uh, one place that you can find me is I have a Facebook community. It's totally free and there's, we're having all kinds of conversations like this all the time. It's called money and marriage, but instead of the word and it's not written out, it's the like symbol, the ampersand, some money and marriage a and for sure if you go and join there, let, let me know that you heard about me through this podcast and uh, that'll be exciting to see. And I partnered there with another financial coaches and expert with couples and she's more the tactical and practical expert and I'm the more emotional and communication experts. So we provide a real full spectrum of content there. Um, and I have, uh, another thing, uh, that I put together and perhaps we can link to it in the show notes or something like that is a, I call it the essential money conversation checklist.
And so it's just eight steps that you want to take in each money conversation and you know, they're not what you'd think up front. You might kind of have a feel for what they are after listening to me speak here. But it's about like getting connected to your partner, making sure you're hearing and validating their feelings and then sharing your own and making sure that they understand where you're coming from. And then from there, once you two are actually on the same page emotionally and you're actually in partnership, that you really from there start to look for what compromise might be like, um, rather than trying to jump to it. You know, that's the number one thing I see couples want to go straight to the action items. And a lot of times there's some work beforehand that could really make it more powerful and more long lasting.
So I'll definitely put that link out there for you all. You got the money and marriage Facebook group and if there's anybody listening who's like, you know what, I'd really love to work with Adam directly. I work with couples in a wide range of situations. Like I said, even people come to me where it's a really serious challenging topic that's leading to a lot of fights, intention, happy to work with you. Also couples who are like our relationships, great. Money's just a kind of difficult topic. We don't know a lot about it. Um, also work with those couples and uh, have specific content for engaged couples to plan the wedding, make sure that they are sticking to their budget, talk to the family about the spendings and families usually chip in and uh, also to help them merge their finances with their fiance. And then I have also a specific content for a first time home buyers to be able to get on the same page with their partner for what's gonna be the biggest and longest purchase of your life. You know, you want to make sure that front end. So I help people get on the same page with that and get on top of their finances.
Oh, that's great. I will link to all those in the show notes as well. And just one last question. I like to always ask people what their favorite nonfiction book is. So whether it's, you know, related to couples of money or just something, um, you know, some kind of self-help improvement life improvement book. Uh, I probably should've warned you before so you could think about it. 
In college I took a course, I minored in philosophy and I took a course on the philosophy of science and I read a book called the structure of scientific revolutions. I think it's Thomas Kune and it was such like an incredible study of how scientific theories, uh, evolve and become the accepted theory. And then when the data starts to not, uh, fit, then how there's like this kind of interesting process that seems to repeat itself. And uh, then they eventually get replaced by a new theory that fits the data better. And I don't know, something about the way the world works and the way humans operate and like how there's like the zealots of the old theory and they try and cling to it even though the data's no longer fitting it and they try and change it to fit the data. And it's like, it just is a fascinating study of human psychology for sure. Um, but also right now I'm like reading, let's see how far into it I am. I just picked it up off of my table like maybe a quarter of the way through this book called the wisdom of insecurity by Alan Watts. And it's a remarkable piece. Like I can only read a couple pages at a time. It's just such a, so much depth of [inaudible].
I don't even know the book. It's really, it's really just about the nature of how life is fundamentally insecure and like, and uncertain and how we grasp for certainty and how that actually causes so much of our pain and suffering and about that we can actually live in love live in the moment live now if we relinquish that desire. And for me, someone who has dealt with a lot of anxiety and desire for security, that's a big, a kind of growth edge as they call it these days, like a place for me to expand. So I'm really getting a ton every time I pick up that book.
That sounds really interesting and we're going to have to check that out. Yeah. Well thanks for coming on today. 
Do you have any last words of wisdom?
You know, um, my pleasure. Again, thank you for having me. Um, what I really want to impart to the world is that having these dialogues can bring you closer in your relationships and people kind of stay away from the money conversation because they think it's going to go poorly and, um, they're going to just end up uncomfortable or fighting. And the truth is right. Like if you don't talk about it, that's what's going to eat away at your intimacy in your relationship, let alone your finances could very well be worse off. But it's by having these conversations and having them in a constructive, productive way, which is what, of course I am to support people in doing that, you can actually have a better life, stronger relationships, more freedom financially, and actually live in a line, a way that's more aligned with your values and your goals.
That's awesome. Well, thank you so much for coming. It was such a pleasure to talk with you. My pleasure as well. Thanks, Ashley. Thanks.
 Special Guest: Adam H. Kol, J.D. .
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<p>Adam H. Kol, J.D. is a Couples Financial Counselor. He helps couples who love each other make sure that the money conversation doesn&#39;t get in the way, allowing them to experience greater peace and love. Adam draws on over a decade of experience as a Certified Mediator, Communication Coach, and a former Tax Attorney and Financial Advisor. Adam received his law degree from Duke and a Master&#39;s in Tax Law from NYU. Through working with Adam, couples have gone from the verge of divorce to being best friends, all while making huge financial progress. Adam’s work is informed by perspectives of equity and social justice. He is an experienced community organizer, as well as a lifelong musician.</p>

<p>You can find Adam&#39;s amazing resources at <a href="http://www.ahkcoaching.com" rel="nofollow">www.ahkcoaching.com</a> and follow him on social media at @ahkcoaching or on Linked in at Adam H. Kol, J.D.</p>

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<p>Favorite nonfiction books:<br>
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<p>Full transcript:<br>
It&#39;s exciting and I&#39;m grateful to be able to share what I do. Uh, which is, I specialize in working with couples who as you said, I mean they&#39;re in a relationship, things are going pretty well. Um, just money is a difficult topic for them. I mean I&#39;ve also worked with couples who are having more avoidance or fights around money. Um, I&#39;ve even had couples come to me on the verge of divorce, as intense as that and I&#39;ve been able to help them get back to being best friends again while also paying off a ton of debt and getting businesses restarted and all kinds of wonderful outcomes. Uh, my goal is to help people and couples come together, get closer, more intimacy, more connection, more love and more partnership. And I actually do that through working on their money stuff, helping them talk about money, helping them understand their own relationship to money. And I like to use art as well to help people kind of draw out their own interrelationship to money so that they can use that to further their partnership with their significant other.<br>
Yep. That&#39;s great. Because, you know, we each have to work on our own money mindsets, but then when you&#39;re with a couple of, you know, you, you have to work, you both have to work on the individual mindset and then work together. So that&#39;s a pretty, um, pretty big task to try and work on your own mindset and then drain other on it. So, so what is the number one thing that couples can do to work together on their finances?<br>
Yeah, I mean, the number one thing is, is talk and listen, right? Like, um, the money is an area of life and relationships. Just like so many others in our minds, it&#39;s, we kind of separate it and make it as if it&#39;s somehow really distinct. Maybe because we&#39;re afraid of the numbers and maybe because we didn&#39;t grow up talking about money. It&#39;s a taboo topic. We&#39;re afraid of it. There&#39;s some shame around it. All of which is very common. Um, but the biggest thing is to talk, so your partner, share your thoughts, share your fears, share your hopes and dreams and ask them about theirs and listen to theirs. Right. And, um, a lot of times what I see is that couples will get caught up in, uh, some something on the surface level. Like, oh, we shouldn&#39;t have spent $45 on this item. And what&#39;s really missing is that they are not align, they&#39;re not on the same page. And the way to get there is through that talking and through that listening.<br>
And so I always tell people to, you know, dream together. So just like you said, you know, make sure or work on your goals and have the same like big goal. Um, and you know, a lot of times, and um, correct me if I&#39;m wrong on your aspect and how you see things with working with couples is, um, I totally where I was going with that. Oh, compromise. You know, sometimes you just have to compromise a little bit because you know, especially if both people think that they need to be right or their way is the right way. Um, and it is just kinda like compromising a little bit, giving a little bit both of them so that they can come together and work on the [inaudible] bigger picture. And so like you said, you know, worrying about like the smaller amounts but focus on the big things.<br>
Yeah, absolutely. And of course each situation is different. And for some couples, the, you know, the smaller things may be important if you&#39;re living paycheck to paycheck or really struggling. Um, and that happens a lot to families in the u s uh, but it&#39;s like about having that, like you said, those shared dreams. And um, I once said like, there&#39;s not right or wrong in relationships. There&#39;s just intimacy and you know, there&#39;s this point where you&#39;re like, well, what is right? What is wrong? Like, who, not to be all philosophical, but it&#39;s like, is that really what matters? Right? We get caught up in it because we&#39;re human and we have an ego and it&#39;s our blessing and our curse. And yet like to be able to step back and say, okay, is how I&#39;m showing up right now in service of the kind of partner I want to be in, the kind of relationship I want to have.<br>
Right? And it&#39;s okay if the answer&#39;s no because again, you&#39;re human and we all have times where we show up, not the self we really want to be. However, to be able to be in that inquiry, that self reflection, notice it and then step back and be able to be like, whoa, take a breath. Go to your partner and be like, I&#39;m sorry I was kind of being a butthead. Right? And, um, can we revisit this? Because you love your partner, you have shared, you want to live your best lives individually and as a couple and as a family if you have one. Right? So the point is to get over there, right? Not to necessarily be right or wrong. Um, and that just the best way to get there, like I said, is just to take a breath, step back, take a look at your behavior. As I once saw someone say like, am I in like a space of love right now? Am I coming from love or am I coming from like fear? Right? And if you, the more you can come from love, the better your is going to be. And then by the time you get down to the budgeting, then it&#39;ll be seamless to implement the expertise of whatever you&#39;re doing in your budget or someone like your programs. Because if you&#39;re on the same page and there&#39;s no resistance, now it&#39;s just a matter of doing the work.<br>
Absolutely. So where, where should couples start when they can&#39;t agree on how to manage their money or their budget? Like when they&#39;re just butting heads. Like what is some advice that you would give a couple that comes to you and they just cannot seem to agree on how to handle their money?<br>
Yeah, it&#39;s a great question and it&#39;s very right. And this is something that cuts across the income and like class categories, no matter how much people are making or not, they will often still have this struggle. Um, and the first place that I like to go with couples is to have them each do a little bit of digging into their own money mindset and then share that with each other because it&#39;s a safe entryway to the money conversation. See, a lot of people are used to either not having money conversations or when they do, they&#39;re like super awkward, super uncomfortable. They may lead to a lot of arguing or tension. And so I like to get it started by getting a healthy conversation under your belt. And when you&#39;re just talking about your own history with money in your own past, there&#39;s not really anything to argue about.<br>
It&#39;s just kind of like, here&#39;s how it was for me growing up. This is some of the messages I internalized about money based on Xyz, based on my family, based on my gender or my race or whatever, and the societal norms and stuff like that. You know, I find that to be a pretty safe conversation for people to get started with. Um, and the other thing is to just have the courage to ask for a conversation with your significant other. And to frame it in a constructive way. Like it&#39;s not like, hey, we need to talk about our budget. Right? It&#39;s actually like, you know what, I love you. I want to have the best possible life together. We can. And money I know is an important part of that. And I&#39;m a little bit anxious because we haven&#39;t been talking about it or are actively managing it.<br>
So like when can we have a conversation about that? Right. Something like that that actually frames it. So they see that your teammates, right. Cause a lot of times, like you said, they&#39;re having trouble managing their money together. It starts to feel like they&#39;re in opposition to each other. Like they&#39;re kinda not rowing in the same direction and just reasserting like, hey, we&#39;re talking about this because we&#39;re teammates because we&#39;re looking to both have great lives. Like, I want a great life for myself and I want a great life for you as my partner who I love. Um, so really just creating that context is powerful.<br>
Yes. I love that. That&#39;s really great advice. So what tips, um, just to kind of flow into the next topic, this is kind of related then, is what tips would you have for couples to kind of goal plan together? So once they get like on the same mindset or they, you know, maybe understand each other&#39;s mindset a little bit better and then moving forward to the next step, you know, goal planning so that they are working together toward the same goal.<br>
Yeah, just like be inside of like love and curiosity within four and about each other. Like, because it&#39;s very common for people to not even, we don&#39;t even know what we want, knowing what our partners want. Um, and that&#39;s an inquiry that is ongoing and changes over time. Um, so just really creating the space to have that conversation. If you&#39;ve never had it before, you know, it doesn&#39;t have to be painful or exacting. It&#39;s just like whatever intimacy looks like for you and your partner, you know, do that. Some people, it&#39;s light a candle or open a glass of wine or have a nice meal or just cuddle on the couch, you know, whatever it is, create that space where your care for each other as present for both of you. And then just talk about it. Um, and one thing I&#39;ve been playing with and just kind of an idea that I&#39;ve had that I tossed out to my girlfriend recently came out of one of my coaching calls, um, is to play with different scenarios.<br>
Like be like, what if we did this? Because sometimes I feel like we have this pressure that we have to just somehow magically know what our top choices, like what we want. And it almost like we have to call Alessa out of thin air versus being like, okay, what if we like worked 50 hours a week now and then retired when we were 55 versus like, you know, working 40 hours a week now and like retiring when we&#39;re 65. Like how do you think about those two? Right? And it&#39;s not that life is necessarily gonna go exactly that way, but it&#39;s always powerful to have a plan and you can always adjust. But like, you know, actually kind of sketch out some different ideas or scenarios and then talk through what are your thoughts on something like that. How does that make you feel? What would be not so good about that?<br>
What would be really awesome about that? Right. And ask these like, I like to call them, well they&#39;re called open ended questions where it&#39;s not like a yes or no question because it&#39;s like you want to retire at 55 is like a yes or no answer and that&#39;s fine sometimes, but it&#39;s like, what are your thoughts on retirement? Or like, tell me about how you think about when you want to retire or like what are the important considerations for you around retirement, right. You give the other person this like expansive space where they can really think for themselves and, uh, get a richer response.<br>
Yeah. And just kinda dream together. You know, my husband and I, um, you know, with building my business and really wanting to make this like a fulltime thing possibly even for both of us and you know, we sit and we dream about what if we got an RV and just traveled out west and just traveled the country and you know, just having the freedom to be able to do whatever we wanted to because you know, with, with my job in podcast and a blog and all that, I can, you know, as long as I have a computer and Internet I can go anywhere. So, you know, just being able to like dream with your partner about different ideas of what you might want to do or do want to do in the future and Kinda like how to make that happen. I think that is great.<br>
Absolutely. I love what you&#39;re visioning as well with your husband and you know, I encourage listeners, I give yourself and your your significant other like complete latitude, like even ideas that might seem ludicrous or like, oh I don&#39;t know, we can&#39;t do that. Just dream. Just let them just let the words flow, let the ideas flow. Even if all you get is a temporary feeling of excitement and like that excitement and nervousness and the liveliness, right you&#39;ve been, that is a beautiful thing to experience. But um, just let the ideas flow. You never know. I mean, I was, I have a couple I&#39;m working with. They came to me like their relationships great, but money is uncomfortable for them. They&#39;ve been slacking on tracking it. Um, and so they wanted some support in that area. And where the conversation actually flowed was too, that each of them is underpaid in their current jobs.<br>
And in having them examine that and uh, get coached to the point where they can go have a conversation with their boss. It&#39;s just like transpired. All these different things have transpired and now the wife is like, I actually don&#39;t know if I want to stay at this job. I might even want to change careers. There&#39;s some interest in starting my own business or even going back and taking some classes and then, yeah, that&#39;s true. We&#39;re not tied to the bay area anymore. If I&#39;m not gonna work at that job, we could go wherever we want, like our husband&#39;s job. There&#39;s opportunities for him everywhere. And now they&#39;re just like thinking, right. They&#39;re like, maybe we&#39;re gonna get like a beach house in Monterey and go live there and like, awesome. And I don&#39;t know where it&#39;s going to go. It&#39;s up to them. Right. But they have now seen so much of what&#39;s possible doing this work.<br>
Yeah. And they&#39;re excited about it now where when they came to you, they were, you know, stressed out and fighting and now they are dreaming together and seeing what&#39;s possible for their future. And that&#39;s, you know, that&#39;s what I want for people. That&#39;s so exciting.<br>
Yeah. In fact, like, you know, there&#39;s folks like, you actually were like the budgeting experts and while I budget with my clients, my expertise is really on that emotional communication mindset, coaching piece of it. And like what tends to happen with my clients is like, I&#39;ll send them a budget template to fill in, but then they just do it themselves. And like with this couple that I was referencing though, I was like, yeah, now like when I do the budget, I&#39;m, I&#39;m super excited. It&#39;s not like stressful anymore. I just do it cause it&#39;s like I know that it&#39;s helping us achieve our goals. I&#39;m like, okay, awesome. Great.<br>
Yeah. Cause the, you know, it&#39;s really just the foundation or the stepping stone to getting, you know, what their big picture, their dream, you know, and that&#39;s, that&#39;s awesome that it&#39;s not stressful and overwhelming now because they have something to look forward to and something that they&#39;re working for. That&#39;s awesome.<br>
Yeah. Yeah. I love it. They&#39;re awesome.<br>
So what, um, so I get this a lot. Like even when, um, you know, somebody, they come to me, we&#39;re working on managing their money. Um, they get the budget done. They, they are excited about it, but then their spouse just is so reluctant they won&#39;t get on board with the budget. They sabotage it. Like they still take the debit card and they go to the gas station. Like they&#39;re still spending, even though you know, they need to work together. What is your advice for somebody that&#39;s like working really hard to do what they&#39;ve done? The ground work, you know, they&#39;ve laid it all out, the PR, you know, the spouse may be like, okay, I&#39;m good with that. But then they turn around and they sabotage the budget anyway. Like what is your advice for a couple that is, that is dealing with that they&#39;re just one, one partner is just completely sabotaging it or not. I&#39;m not, they&#39;re not on the same page, but they&#39;re just recklessly spending still. While one is trying really hard to manage the money better.<br>
Yeah. Yeah. Great question. And I mean there&#39;s almost like a couple of questions in there. Um, but if the, you know, I guess I&#39;ll, I&#39;ll answer kind of like two questions that I heard. The first one is if one partner is struggling to have like the other person&#39;s not on board in general, then that&#39;s really where some of the things I&#39;ve been talking about through this call and some of the other things I talk about, like on my youtube videos there are just really helpful for getting the conversation started. Because my recommendation is always, especially if you share funds with your partner, if you two live together, if you&#39;re planning a future together, then have like get them on board, right? These are conversations you should be having with both of you as far as creating your goals and your visions and your budget to implement that.<br>
So that, you know, that&#39;s really the first place and that&#39;s just where getting in their world, understanding what&#39;s going on for them. And even if you have to, like I said, that framing of, look, I want to have a great life with you and I know this is an important part of it. Um, so when&#39;s a good time to have the conversation? Not like, do you want to talk about it? Like we need to talk about it. And you know, there&#39;s, I was at a, on a panel earlier this week and, or I guess it was technically last week now I got asked a very similar question to this and I said, you know, we need to expect our partners to be on board for these conversations just because it&#39;s been a taboo topic and past generations that doesn&#39;t work because we&#39;re missing out on our opportunity to thrive.<br>
And it&#39;s creating anxiety and resentment and fear and worry and tension and fighting. It&#39;s number one cause of fights and relationships. It&#39;s the number one or number two cause of divorce in every study I&#39;ve ever seen. Uh, at least for like us marriages. And this is a country with a huge divorce rate. So this is not some small beans, small potatoes, whatever you want to call it, kind of issue. This is something that needs to be tackled. And so you like, you got to come at it with that, right? The same way you come at it with like talking about where to live or where to have children or if there were challenges in your like intimate life. Like if those things, the same degree of seriousness with which you take those because of how much they matter to the integrity of your relationship, I think money&#39;s the same way.<br>
And you know, there&#39;s no one way to do it, but holding your partner to account, like, look, we gotta be talking about this. This is an essential issue that touches every aspect of our lives. You want to buy a home? How are we going to do that without being on the same page financially? You want to have kids, how are we going to do that without being on the same page financially? You want to retire? How are we going to do that without being on the same page, financially start a business, et Cetera, right? It is that important. Um, and of course every day we&#39;re spending money. Every day we have bills to pay. Every day we buy lunch or groceries or whatever. So my, it&#39;s like we need to be holding our partners to account like, we need to talk about this. Right? Um, and you know, if they&#39;re hesitant, of course you want to bring compassion and love, you know, like why, you know, what comes up for you around this?<br>
Why, you know, where do you think your hesitancy comes from? Or like, why don&#39;t you like it? Um, you know, and there&#39;s, that&#39;s where having them do some mindset work and understanding their money story can be really powerful because there&#39;s a reason they don&#39;t want to talk about it. You know, like for example, men, we&#39;re socialized that our value is in providing for our family. And so if we feel like a conversation is implying that we&#39;re not doing that job well, um, not at a conscious level even, but like unconsciously, it just triggers like a sense of shame. Like, we&#39;re not good enough. We&#39;re not doing what we&#39;re supposed to do as a man. And that becomes like an existential crisis. Even though the man may be completely unaware that this is what&#39;s happening for him, it&#39;s nevertheless often what&#39;s happening. And so, you know, to be able to traverse that bridge and get to the other side is not always easy, but it takes some listening, some questions, some empathy, some understanding and some patients, um, and uh, of course women have their own ways that they&#39;re socialized about money.<br>
And that&#39;s like I said before, it&#39;s not just about gender, it&#39;s about race and sexual orientation. All of this stuff plays into how we see ourselves and how other people see us money. And so, uh, it takes a nuanced approach to really break through those barriers. Um, but the number one thing is to keep bringing your love, your empathy, your curiosity to that person. And it&#39;s honestly the same answer as if they&#39;re sabotaging the budget even if they agreed to it. Right. Cause if you just got them like you agreed to this budget and now you&#39;re sabotaging it, I mean you can, you know how that&#39;s going to go. It&#39;s not saying you shouldn&#39;t hold them accountable right in that spot. It&#39;s more like, hey, you know, I feel really like you want to kind of own your feelings. Like, I feel really anxious when I&#39;m ICU using the debit card because we had agreed not to and this plan is really important for our future.<br>
So I get scared. We&#39;re not going to be able to have the life we want. I&#39;m like, can you tell me what&#39;s going on there for you? Right. Like, ask an open ended question again. Like, can you tell me what&#39;s happening there for you? Like, or you know, like in a non accusatory way, just as much as, as neutrally as possible. Right. Because there&#39;s a reason they use that debit card. They may not know it, but there&#39;s some sort of reason that they did. Right. Um, maybe they just don&#39;t like being told what to do. Right. And again, that&#39;s an unconscious thing. And so they&#39;re acting out kind of like a teenager, but that&#39;s cause it&#39;s like, you know, childhood crap that, Ooh, excuse my language, but childhood that hasn&#39;t been, uh, hasn&#39;t been dealt with. Right. Um, and so there&#39;s a lot of important work to do around mindset, which is a lot of the work you&#39;re doing, which is why it&#39;s so great. It&#39;s really important to examine that stuff.<br>
That&#39;s great. I hadn&#39;t even thought about some of the subconscious things like that, so I&#39;m really glad that you mentioned that. Um, so do you have any resources that you would recommend for couples? Um, either your stuff or you know, stuff that you highly recommend to kind of maybe help them work together to get on the same page? Books or workbooks or anything like that?<br>
Yeah, absolutely. So, uh, one place that you can find me is I have a Facebook community. It&#39;s totally free and there&#39;s, we&#39;re having all kinds of conversations like this all the time. It&#39;s called money and marriage, but instead of the word and it&#39;s not written out, it&#39;s the like symbol, the ampersand, some money and marriage a and for sure if you go and join there, let, let me know that you heard about me through this podcast and uh, that&#39;ll be exciting to see. And I partnered there with another financial coaches and expert with couples and she&#39;s more the tactical and practical expert and I&#39;m the more emotional and communication experts. So we provide a real full spectrum of content there. Um, and I have, uh, another thing, uh, that I put together and perhaps we can link to it in the show notes or something like that is a, I call it the essential money conversation checklist.<br>
And so it&#39;s just eight steps that you want to take in each money conversation and you know, they&#39;re not what you&#39;d think up front. You might kind of have a feel for what they are after listening to me speak here. But it&#39;s about like getting connected to your partner, making sure you&#39;re hearing and validating their feelings and then sharing your own and making sure that they understand where you&#39;re coming from. And then from there, once you two are actually on the same page emotionally and you&#39;re actually in partnership, that you really from there start to look for what compromise might be like, um, rather than trying to jump to it. You know, that&#39;s the number one thing I see couples want to go straight to the action items. And a lot of times there&#39;s some work beforehand that could really make it more powerful and more long lasting.<br>
So I&#39;ll definitely put that link out there for you all. You got the money and marriage Facebook group and if there&#39;s anybody listening who&#39;s like, you know what, I&#39;d really love to work with Adam directly. I work with couples in a wide range of situations. Like I said, even people come to me where it&#39;s a really serious challenging topic that&#39;s leading to a lot of fights, intention, happy to work with you. Also couples who are like our relationships, great. Money&#39;s just a kind of difficult topic. We don&#39;t know a lot about it. Um, also work with those couples and uh, have specific content for engaged couples to plan the wedding, make sure that they are sticking to their budget, talk to the family about the spendings and families usually chip in and uh, also to help them merge their finances with their fiance. And then I have also a specific content for a first time home buyers to be able to get on the same page with their partner for what&#39;s gonna be the biggest and longest purchase of your life. You know, you want to make sure that front end. So I help people get on the same page with that and get on top of their finances.<br>
Oh, that&#39;s great. I will link to all those in the show notes as well. And just one last question. I like to always ask people what their favorite nonfiction book is. So whether it&#39;s, you know, related to couples of money or just something, um, you know, some kind of self-help improvement life improvement book. Uh, I probably should&#39;ve warned you before so you could think about it. <br>
In college I took a course, I minored in philosophy and I took a course on the philosophy of science and I read a book called the structure of scientific revolutions. I think it&#39;s Thomas Kune and it was such like an incredible study of how scientific theories, uh, evolve and become the accepted theory. And then when the data starts to not, uh, fit, then how there&#39;s like this kind of interesting process that seems to repeat itself. And uh, then they eventually get replaced by a new theory that fits the data better. And I don&#39;t know, something about the way the world works and the way humans operate and like how there&#39;s like the zealots of the old theory and they try and cling to it even though the data&#39;s no longer fitting it and they try and change it to fit the data. And it&#39;s like, it just is a fascinating study of human psychology for sure. Um, but also right now I&#39;m like reading, let&#39;s see how far into it I am. I just picked it up off of my table like maybe a quarter of the way through this book called the wisdom of insecurity by Alan Watts. And it&#39;s a remarkable piece. Like I can only read a couple pages at a time. It&#39;s just such a, so much depth of [inaudible].<br>
I don&#39;t even know the book. It&#39;s really, it&#39;s really just about the nature of how life is fundamentally insecure and like, and uncertain and how we grasp for certainty and how that actually causes so much of our pain and suffering and about that we can actually live in love live in the moment live now if we relinquish that desire. And for me, someone who has dealt with a lot of anxiety and desire for security, that&#39;s a big, a kind of growth edge as they call it these days, like a place for me to expand. So I&#39;m really getting a ton every time I pick up that book.<br>
That sounds really interesting and we&#39;re going to have to check that out. Yeah. Well thanks for coming on today. </p>

<p>Do you have any last words of wisdom?<br>
You know, um, my pleasure. Again, thank you for having me. Um, what I really want to impart to the world is that having these dialogues can bring you closer in your relationships and people kind of stay away from the money conversation because they think it&#39;s going to go poorly and, um, they&#39;re going to just end up uncomfortable or fighting. And the truth is right. Like if you don&#39;t talk about it, that&#39;s what&#39;s going to eat away at your intimacy in your relationship, let alone your finances could very well be worse off. But it&#39;s by having these conversations and having them in a constructive, productive way, which is what, of course I am to support people in doing that, you can actually have a better life, stronger relationships, more freedom financially, and actually live in a line, a way that&#39;s more aligned with your values and your goals.<br>
That&#39;s awesome. Well, thank you so much for coming. It was such a pleasure to talk with you. My pleasure as well. Thanks, Ashley. Thanks.</p><p>Special Guest: Adam H. Kol, J.D. .</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Get the advice and tips you need to get on the same page as your spouse about money. It&#39;s so important to examine your individual money mindsets then come together for a common goal. This can lead to a greater understand of each other&#39;s points of view which can lead to better communication and money management. </p>

<p>Adam H. Kol, J.D. is a Couples Financial Counselor. He helps couples who love each other make sure that the money conversation doesn&#39;t get in the way, allowing them to experience greater peace and love. Adam draws on over a decade of experience as a Certified Mediator, Communication Coach, and a former Tax Attorney and Financial Advisor. Adam received his law degree from Duke and a Master&#39;s in Tax Law from NYU. Through working with Adam, couples have gone from the verge of divorce to being best friends, all while making huge financial progress. Adam’s work is informed by perspectives of equity and social justice. He is an experienced community organizer, as well as a lifelong musician.</p>

<p>You can find Adam&#39;s amazing resources at <a href="http://www.ahkcoaching.com" rel="nofollow">www.ahkcoaching.com</a> and follow him on social media at @ahkcoaching or on Linked in at Adam H. Kol, J.D.</p>

<p>Resouces mentioned in this episode:</p>

<p>The Essential Money Conversation Checklist: <a href="http://eepurl.com/gbTPc1" rel="nofollow">http://eepurl.com/gbTPc1</a><br>
To schedule a complimentary Financial Harmony Consultation with Adam: <a href="http://bit.ly/financialharmonyconsultation" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/financialharmonyconsultation</a><br>
Facebook group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/moneymarriage/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/moneymarriage/</a></p>

<p>Favorite nonfiction books:<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2LC613Z" rel="nofollow">The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts</a><br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2MT9wGd" rel="nofollow">Structure of Scientific Revolutions by Thomas Juhn</a> </p>

<p>Full transcript:<br>
It&#39;s exciting and I&#39;m grateful to be able to share what I do. Uh, which is, I specialize in working with couples who as you said, I mean they&#39;re in a relationship, things are going pretty well. Um, just money is a difficult topic for them. I mean I&#39;ve also worked with couples who are having more avoidance or fights around money. Um, I&#39;ve even had couples come to me on the verge of divorce, as intense as that and I&#39;ve been able to help them get back to being best friends again while also paying off a ton of debt and getting businesses restarted and all kinds of wonderful outcomes. Uh, my goal is to help people and couples come together, get closer, more intimacy, more connection, more love and more partnership. And I actually do that through working on their money stuff, helping them talk about money, helping them understand their own relationship to money. And I like to use art as well to help people kind of draw out their own interrelationship to money so that they can use that to further their partnership with their significant other.<br>
Yep. That&#39;s great. Because, you know, we each have to work on our own money mindsets, but then when you&#39;re with a couple of, you know, you, you have to work, you both have to work on the individual mindset and then work together. So that&#39;s a pretty, um, pretty big task to try and work on your own mindset and then drain other on it. So, so what is the number one thing that couples can do to work together on their finances?<br>
Yeah, I mean, the number one thing is, is talk and listen, right? Like, um, the money is an area of life and relationships. Just like so many others in our minds, it&#39;s, we kind of separate it and make it as if it&#39;s somehow really distinct. Maybe because we&#39;re afraid of the numbers and maybe because we didn&#39;t grow up talking about money. It&#39;s a taboo topic. We&#39;re afraid of it. There&#39;s some shame around it. All of which is very common. Um, but the biggest thing is to talk, so your partner, share your thoughts, share your fears, share your hopes and dreams and ask them about theirs and listen to theirs. Right. And, um, a lot of times what I see is that couples will get caught up in, uh, some something on the surface level. Like, oh, we shouldn&#39;t have spent $45 on this item. And what&#39;s really missing is that they are not align, they&#39;re not on the same page. And the way to get there is through that talking and through that listening.<br>
And so I always tell people to, you know, dream together. So just like you said, you know, make sure or work on your goals and have the same like big goal. Um, and you know, a lot of times, and um, correct me if I&#39;m wrong on your aspect and how you see things with working with couples is, um, I totally where I was going with that. Oh, compromise. You know, sometimes you just have to compromise a little bit because you know, especially if both people think that they need to be right or their way is the right way. Um, and it is just kinda like compromising a little bit, giving a little bit both of them so that they can come together and work on the [inaudible] bigger picture. And so like you said, you know, worrying about like the smaller amounts but focus on the big things.<br>
Yeah, absolutely. And of course each situation is different. And for some couples, the, you know, the smaller things may be important if you&#39;re living paycheck to paycheck or really struggling. Um, and that happens a lot to families in the u s uh, but it&#39;s like about having that, like you said, those shared dreams. And um, I once said like, there&#39;s not right or wrong in relationships. There&#39;s just intimacy and you know, there&#39;s this point where you&#39;re like, well, what is right? What is wrong? Like, who, not to be all philosophical, but it&#39;s like, is that really what matters? Right? We get caught up in it because we&#39;re human and we have an ego and it&#39;s our blessing and our curse. And yet like to be able to step back and say, okay, is how I&#39;m showing up right now in service of the kind of partner I want to be in, the kind of relationship I want to have.<br>
Right? And it&#39;s okay if the answer&#39;s no because again, you&#39;re human and we all have times where we show up, not the self we really want to be. However, to be able to be in that inquiry, that self reflection, notice it and then step back and be able to be like, whoa, take a breath. Go to your partner and be like, I&#39;m sorry I was kind of being a butthead. Right? And, um, can we revisit this? Because you love your partner, you have shared, you want to live your best lives individually and as a couple and as a family if you have one. Right? So the point is to get over there, right? Not to necessarily be right or wrong. Um, and that just the best way to get there, like I said, is just to take a breath, step back, take a look at your behavior. As I once saw someone say like, am I in like a space of love right now? Am I coming from love or am I coming from like fear? Right? And if you, the more you can come from love, the better your is going to be. And then by the time you get down to the budgeting, then it&#39;ll be seamless to implement the expertise of whatever you&#39;re doing in your budget or someone like your programs. Because if you&#39;re on the same page and there&#39;s no resistance, now it&#39;s just a matter of doing the work.<br>
Absolutely. So where, where should couples start when they can&#39;t agree on how to manage their money or their budget? Like when they&#39;re just butting heads. Like what is some advice that you would give a couple that comes to you and they just cannot seem to agree on how to handle their money?<br>
Yeah, it&#39;s a great question and it&#39;s very right. And this is something that cuts across the income and like class categories, no matter how much people are making or not, they will often still have this struggle. Um, and the first place that I like to go with couples is to have them each do a little bit of digging into their own money mindset and then share that with each other because it&#39;s a safe entryway to the money conversation. See, a lot of people are used to either not having money conversations or when they do, they&#39;re like super awkward, super uncomfortable. They may lead to a lot of arguing or tension. And so I like to get it started by getting a healthy conversation under your belt. And when you&#39;re just talking about your own history with money in your own past, there&#39;s not really anything to argue about.<br>
It&#39;s just kind of like, here&#39;s how it was for me growing up. This is some of the messages I internalized about money based on Xyz, based on my family, based on my gender or my race or whatever, and the societal norms and stuff like that. You know, I find that to be a pretty safe conversation for people to get started with. Um, and the other thing is to just have the courage to ask for a conversation with your significant other. And to frame it in a constructive way. Like it&#39;s not like, hey, we need to talk about our budget. Right? It&#39;s actually like, you know what, I love you. I want to have the best possible life together. We can. And money I know is an important part of that. And I&#39;m a little bit anxious because we haven&#39;t been talking about it or are actively managing it.<br>
So like when can we have a conversation about that? Right. Something like that that actually frames it. So they see that your teammates, right. Cause a lot of times, like you said, they&#39;re having trouble managing their money together. It starts to feel like they&#39;re in opposition to each other. Like they&#39;re kinda not rowing in the same direction and just reasserting like, hey, we&#39;re talking about this because we&#39;re teammates because we&#39;re looking to both have great lives. Like, I want a great life for myself and I want a great life for you as my partner who I love. Um, so really just creating that context is powerful.<br>
Yes. I love that. That&#39;s really great advice. So what tips, um, just to kind of flow into the next topic, this is kind of related then, is what tips would you have for couples to kind of goal plan together? So once they get like on the same mindset or they, you know, maybe understand each other&#39;s mindset a little bit better and then moving forward to the next step, you know, goal planning so that they are working together toward the same goal.<br>
Yeah, just like be inside of like love and curiosity within four and about each other. Like, because it&#39;s very common for people to not even, we don&#39;t even know what we want, knowing what our partners want. Um, and that&#39;s an inquiry that is ongoing and changes over time. Um, so just really creating the space to have that conversation. If you&#39;ve never had it before, you know, it doesn&#39;t have to be painful or exacting. It&#39;s just like whatever intimacy looks like for you and your partner, you know, do that. Some people, it&#39;s light a candle or open a glass of wine or have a nice meal or just cuddle on the couch, you know, whatever it is, create that space where your care for each other as present for both of you. And then just talk about it. Um, and one thing I&#39;ve been playing with and just kind of an idea that I&#39;ve had that I tossed out to my girlfriend recently came out of one of my coaching calls, um, is to play with different scenarios.<br>
Like be like, what if we did this? Because sometimes I feel like we have this pressure that we have to just somehow magically know what our top choices, like what we want. And it almost like we have to call Alessa out of thin air versus being like, okay, what if we like worked 50 hours a week now and then retired when we were 55 versus like, you know, working 40 hours a week now and like retiring when we&#39;re 65. Like how do you think about those two? Right? And it&#39;s not that life is necessarily gonna go exactly that way, but it&#39;s always powerful to have a plan and you can always adjust. But like, you know, actually kind of sketch out some different ideas or scenarios and then talk through what are your thoughts on something like that. How does that make you feel? What would be not so good about that?<br>
What would be really awesome about that? Right. And ask these like, I like to call them, well they&#39;re called open ended questions where it&#39;s not like a yes or no question because it&#39;s like you want to retire at 55 is like a yes or no answer and that&#39;s fine sometimes, but it&#39;s like, what are your thoughts on retirement? Or like, tell me about how you think about when you want to retire or like what are the important considerations for you around retirement, right. You give the other person this like expansive space where they can really think for themselves and, uh, get a richer response.<br>
Yeah. And just kinda dream together. You know, my husband and I, um, you know, with building my business and really wanting to make this like a fulltime thing possibly even for both of us and you know, we sit and we dream about what if we got an RV and just traveled out west and just traveled the country and you know, just having the freedom to be able to do whatever we wanted to because you know, with, with my job in podcast and a blog and all that, I can, you know, as long as I have a computer and Internet I can go anywhere. So, you know, just being able to like dream with your partner about different ideas of what you might want to do or do want to do in the future and Kinda like how to make that happen. I think that is great.<br>
Absolutely. I love what you&#39;re visioning as well with your husband and you know, I encourage listeners, I give yourself and your your significant other like complete latitude, like even ideas that might seem ludicrous or like, oh I don&#39;t know, we can&#39;t do that. Just dream. Just let them just let the words flow, let the ideas flow. Even if all you get is a temporary feeling of excitement and like that excitement and nervousness and the liveliness, right you&#39;ve been, that is a beautiful thing to experience. But um, just let the ideas flow. You never know. I mean, I was, I have a couple I&#39;m working with. They came to me like their relationships great, but money is uncomfortable for them. They&#39;ve been slacking on tracking it. Um, and so they wanted some support in that area. And where the conversation actually flowed was too, that each of them is underpaid in their current jobs.<br>
And in having them examine that and uh, get coached to the point where they can go have a conversation with their boss. It&#39;s just like transpired. All these different things have transpired and now the wife is like, I actually don&#39;t know if I want to stay at this job. I might even want to change careers. There&#39;s some interest in starting my own business or even going back and taking some classes and then, yeah, that&#39;s true. We&#39;re not tied to the bay area anymore. If I&#39;m not gonna work at that job, we could go wherever we want, like our husband&#39;s job. There&#39;s opportunities for him everywhere. And now they&#39;re just like thinking, right. They&#39;re like, maybe we&#39;re gonna get like a beach house in Monterey and go live there and like, awesome. And I don&#39;t know where it&#39;s going to go. It&#39;s up to them. Right. But they have now seen so much of what&#39;s possible doing this work.<br>
Yeah. And they&#39;re excited about it now where when they came to you, they were, you know, stressed out and fighting and now they are dreaming together and seeing what&#39;s possible for their future. And that&#39;s, you know, that&#39;s what I want for people. That&#39;s so exciting.<br>
Yeah. In fact, like, you know, there&#39;s folks like, you actually were like the budgeting experts and while I budget with my clients, my expertise is really on that emotional communication mindset, coaching piece of it. And like what tends to happen with my clients is like, I&#39;ll send them a budget template to fill in, but then they just do it themselves. And like with this couple that I was referencing though, I was like, yeah, now like when I do the budget, I&#39;m, I&#39;m super excited. It&#39;s not like stressful anymore. I just do it cause it&#39;s like I know that it&#39;s helping us achieve our goals. I&#39;m like, okay, awesome. Great.<br>
Yeah. Cause the, you know, it&#39;s really just the foundation or the stepping stone to getting, you know, what their big picture, their dream, you know, and that&#39;s, that&#39;s awesome that it&#39;s not stressful and overwhelming now because they have something to look forward to and something that they&#39;re working for. That&#39;s awesome.<br>
Yeah. Yeah. I love it. They&#39;re awesome.<br>
So what, um, so I get this a lot. Like even when, um, you know, somebody, they come to me, we&#39;re working on managing their money. Um, they get the budget done. They, they are excited about it, but then their spouse just is so reluctant they won&#39;t get on board with the budget. They sabotage it. Like they still take the debit card and they go to the gas station. Like they&#39;re still spending, even though you know, they need to work together. What is your advice for somebody that&#39;s like working really hard to do what they&#39;ve done? The ground work, you know, they&#39;ve laid it all out, the PR, you know, the spouse may be like, okay, I&#39;m good with that. But then they turn around and they sabotage the budget anyway. Like what is your advice for a couple that is, that is dealing with that they&#39;re just one, one partner is just completely sabotaging it or not. I&#39;m not, they&#39;re not on the same page, but they&#39;re just recklessly spending still. While one is trying really hard to manage the money better.<br>
Yeah. Yeah. Great question. And I mean there&#39;s almost like a couple of questions in there. Um, but if the, you know, I guess I&#39;ll, I&#39;ll answer kind of like two questions that I heard. The first one is if one partner is struggling to have like the other person&#39;s not on board in general, then that&#39;s really where some of the things I&#39;ve been talking about through this call and some of the other things I talk about, like on my youtube videos there are just really helpful for getting the conversation started. Because my recommendation is always, especially if you share funds with your partner, if you two live together, if you&#39;re planning a future together, then have like get them on board, right? These are conversations you should be having with both of you as far as creating your goals and your visions and your budget to implement that.<br>
So that, you know, that&#39;s really the first place and that&#39;s just where getting in their world, understanding what&#39;s going on for them. And even if you have to, like I said, that framing of, look, I want to have a great life with you and I know this is an important part of it. Um, so when&#39;s a good time to have the conversation? Not like, do you want to talk about it? Like we need to talk about it. And you know, there&#39;s, I was at a, on a panel earlier this week and, or I guess it was technically last week now I got asked a very similar question to this and I said, you know, we need to expect our partners to be on board for these conversations just because it&#39;s been a taboo topic and past generations that doesn&#39;t work because we&#39;re missing out on our opportunity to thrive.<br>
And it&#39;s creating anxiety and resentment and fear and worry and tension and fighting. It&#39;s number one cause of fights and relationships. It&#39;s the number one or number two cause of divorce in every study I&#39;ve ever seen. Uh, at least for like us marriages. And this is a country with a huge divorce rate. So this is not some small beans, small potatoes, whatever you want to call it, kind of issue. This is something that needs to be tackled. And so you like, you got to come at it with that, right? The same way you come at it with like talking about where to live or where to have children or if there were challenges in your like intimate life. Like if those things, the same degree of seriousness with which you take those because of how much they matter to the integrity of your relationship, I think money&#39;s the same way.<br>
And you know, there&#39;s no one way to do it, but holding your partner to account, like, look, we gotta be talking about this. This is an essential issue that touches every aspect of our lives. You want to buy a home? How are we going to do that without being on the same page financially? You want to have kids, how are we going to do that without being on the same page financially? You want to retire? How are we going to do that without being on the same page, financially start a business, et Cetera, right? It is that important. Um, and of course every day we&#39;re spending money. Every day we have bills to pay. Every day we buy lunch or groceries or whatever. So my, it&#39;s like we need to be holding our partners to account like, we need to talk about this. Right? Um, and you know, if they&#39;re hesitant, of course you want to bring compassion and love, you know, like why, you know, what comes up for you around this?<br>
Why, you know, where do you think your hesitancy comes from? Or like, why don&#39;t you like it? Um, you know, and there&#39;s, that&#39;s where having them do some mindset work and understanding their money story can be really powerful because there&#39;s a reason they don&#39;t want to talk about it. You know, like for example, men, we&#39;re socialized that our value is in providing for our family. And so if we feel like a conversation is implying that we&#39;re not doing that job well, um, not at a conscious level even, but like unconsciously, it just triggers like a sense of shame. Like, we&#39;re not good enough. We&#39;re not doing what we&#39;re supposed to do as a man. And that becomes like an existential crisis. Even though the man may be completely unaware that this is what&#39;s happening for him, it&#39;s nevertheless often what&#39;s happening. And so, you know, to be able to traverse that bridge and get to the other side is not always easy, but it takes some listening, some questions, some empathy, some understanding and some patients, um, and uh, of course women have their own ways that they&#39;re socialized about money.<br>
And that&#39;s like I said before, it&#39;s not just about gender, it&#39;s about race and sexual orientation. All of this stuff plays into how we see ourselves and how other people see us money. And so, uh, it takes a nuanced approach to really break through those barriers. Um, but the number one thing is to keep bringing your love, your empathy, your curiosity to that person. And it&#39;s honestly the same answer as if they&#39;re sabotaging the budget even if they agreed to it. Right. Cause if you just got them like you agreed to this budget and now you&#39;re sabotaging it, I mean you can, you know how that&#39;s going to go. It&#39;s not saying you shouldn&#39;t hold them accountable right in that spot. It&#39;s more like, hey, you know, I feel really like you want to kind of own your feelings. Like, I feel really anxious when I&#39;m ICU using the debit card because we had agreed not to and this plan is really important for our future.<br>
So I get scared. We&#39;re not going to be able to have the life we want. I&#39;m like, can you tell me what&#39;s going on there for you? Right. Like, ask an open ended question again. Like, can you tell me what&#39;s happening there for you? Like, or you know, like in a non accusatory way, just as much as, as neutrally as possible. Right. Because there&#39;s a reason they use that debit card. They may not know it, but there&#39;s some sort of reason that they did. Right. Um, maybe they just don&#39;t like being told what to do. Right. And again, that&#39;s an unconscious thing. And so they&#39;re acting out kind of like a teenager, but that&#39;s cause it&#39;s like, you know, childhood crap that, Ooh, excuse my language, but childhood that hasn&#39;t been, uh, hasn&#39;t been dealt with. Right. Um, and so there&#39;s a lot of important work to do around mindset, which is a lot of the work you&#39;re doing, which is why it&#39;s so great. It&#39;s really important to examine that stuff.<br>
That&#39;s great. I hadn&#39;t even thought about some of the subconscious things like that, so I&#39;m really glad that you mentioned that. Um, so do you have any resources that you would recommend for couples? Um, either your stuff or you know, stuff that you highly recommend to kind of maybe help them work together to get on the same page? Books or workbooks or anything like that?<br>
Yeah, absolutely. So, uh, one place that you can find me is I have a Facebook community. It&#39;s totally free and there&#39;s, we&#39;re having all kinds of conversations like this all the time. It&#39;s called money and marriage, but instead of the word and it&#39;s not written out, it&#39;s the like symbol, the ampersand, some money and marriage a and for sure if you go and join there, let, let me know that you heard about me through this podcast and uh, that&#39;ll be exciting to see. And I partnered there with another financial coaches and expert with couples and she&#39;s more the tactical and practical expert and I&#39;m the more emotional and communication experts. So we provide a real full spectrum of content there. Um, and I have, uh, another thing, uh, that I put together and perhaps we can link to it in the show notes or something like that is a, I call it the essential money conversation checklist.<br>
And so it&#39;s just eight steps that you want to take in each money conversation and you know, they&#39;re not what you&#39;d think up front. You might kind of have a feel for what they are after listening to me speak here. But it&#39;s about like getting connected to your partner, making sure you&#39;re hearing and validating their feelings and then sharing your own and making sure that they understand where you&#39;re coming from. And then from there, once you two are actually on the same page emotionally and you&#39;re actually in partnership, that you really from there start to look for what compromise might be like, um, rather than trying to jump to it. You know, that&#39;s the number one thing I see couples want to go straight to the action items. And a lot of times there&#39;s some work beforehand that could really make it more powerful and more long lasting.<br>
So I&#39;ll definitely put that link out there for you all. You got the money and marriage Facebook group and if there&#39;s anybody listening who&#39;s like, you know what, I&#39;d really love to work with Adam directly. I work with couples in a wide range of situations. Like I said, even people come to me where it&#39;s a really serious challenging topic that&#39;s leading to a lot of fights, intention, happy to work with you. Also couples who are like our relationships, great. Money&#39;s just a kind of difficult topic. We don&#39;t know a lot about it. Um, also work with those couples and uh, have specific content for engaged couples to plan the wedding, make sure that they are sticking to their budget, talk to the family about the spendings and families usually chip in and uh, also to help them merge their finances with their fiance. And then I have also a specific content for a first time home buyers to be able to get on the same page with their partner for what&#39;s gonna be the biggest and longest purchase of your life. You know, you want to make sure that front end. So I help people get on the same page with that and get on top of their finances.<br>
Oh, that&#39;s great. I will link to all those in the show notes as well. And just one last question. I like to always ask people what their favorite nonfiction book is. So whether it&#39;s, you know, related to couples of money or just something, um, you know, some kind of self-help improvement life improvement book. Uh, I probably should&#39;ve warned you before so you could think about it. <br>
In college I took a course, I minored in philosophy and I took a course on the philosophy of science and I read a book called the structure of scientific revolutions. I think it&#39;s Thomas Kune and it was such like an incredible study of how scientific theories, uh, evolve and become the accepted theory. And then when the data starts to not, uh, fit, then how there&#39;s like this kind of interesting process that seems to repeat itself. And uh, then they eventually get replaced by a new theory that fits the data better. And I don&#39;t know, something about the way the world works and the way humans operate and like how there&#39;s like the zealots of the old theory and they try and cling to it even though the data&#39;s no longer fitting it and they try and change it to fit the data. And it&#39;s like, it just is a fascinating study of human psychology for sure. Um, but also right now I&#39;m like reading, let&#39;s see how far into it I am. I just picked it up off of my table like maybe a quarter of the way through this book called the wisdom of insecurity by Alan Watts. And it&#39;s a remarkable piece. Like I can only read a couple pages at a time. It&#39;s just such a, so much depth of [inaudible].<br>
I don&#39;t even know the book. It&#39;s really, it&#39;s really just about the nature of how life is fundamentally insecure and like, and uncertain and how we grasp for certainty and how that actually causes so much of our pain and suffering and about that we can actually live in love live in the moment live now if we relinquish that desire. And for me, someone who has dealt with a lot of anxiety and desire for security, that&#39;s a big, a kind of growth edge as they call it these days, like a place for me to expand. So I&#39;m really getting a ton every time I pick up that book.<br>
That sounds really interesting and we&#39;re going to have to check that out. Yeah. Well thanks for coming on today. </p>

<p>Do you have any last words of wisdom?<br>
You know, um, my pleasure. Again, thank you for having me. Um, what I really want to impart to the world is that having these dialogues can bring you closer in your relationships and people kind of stay away from the money conversation because they think it&#39;s going to go poorly and, um, they&#39;re going to just end up uncomfortable or fighting. And the truth is right. Like if you don&#39;t talk about it, that&#39;s what&#39;s going to eat away at your intimacy in your relationship, let alone your finances could very well be worse off. But it&#39;s by having these conversations and having them in a constructive, productive way, which is what, of course I am to support people in doing that, you can actually have a better life, stronger relationships, more freedom financially, and actually live in a line, a way that&#39;s more aligned with your values and your goals.<br>
That&#39;s awesome. Well, thank you so much for coming. It was such a pleasure to talk with you. My pleasure as well. Thanks, Ashley. Thanks.</p><p>Special Guest: Adam H. Kol, J.D. .</p>]]>
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